I went to visit a funeral wake today at around 11 am my time. My friend, Sernan, was grieving with his family -- his mother had passed away from ovarian cancer. Sernan is a physical therapist and is one of the college instructors at the university that I teach at.
He had asked me last night to help him write a eulogy for his mother. Quite a daunting task. To be honest, i wasn't able to sleep last night because I kept on thinking about his mom and the pain that Sernan is feeling right now.
Dealing with this awakens me to the mortality we all share. Despite our stations in life-- despite our own religious and spiritual upbringing. Death is real and death is sure.
I arrived at Simkin's Funeral Home, which is located in Morton Grove, Illinois, at around 11:50 am. I was greeted by some of my colleagues at work who had came to show their respects to Sernan and his family. It was interesting to find out that Sernan's mother was actually originally from Cebu -- but her family migrated to Dipolog. His father is from Davao. His mother, Carmen, was a dentist from Dipolog. She practiced dentistry here also in the United States for quite some time.
Na luoy ko ni Sernan today. Na luoy pod ko sa iyahang Amahan because I could see the pain in his eyes. I was able to introduce myself to his father and to his brother and sister in law and the rest of their family. Hapit ko ning hilak because i thought of my own Uncle Roy, who had passed in 2009.
Tears filled my eyes when I saw Sernan's father walk in front of the casket and said to his wife, "Carmi, ngano gi iiwan mo ako? Ako ra diri ug wa ka dinhi. Dili na diay ta maka bisita sa Davao? Asa man ko ug wa ka dinhi ?"
I pray for him. His name is Alfredo. I pray that God's infinite mercy will come down to him and support him during this most difficult time. May the Lord God have mercy...
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