Author Topic: Are Men Exempt for All Household Works? (Read 37585 times)

Datu Dagohoy · « **on:** February 23, 2009, 03:54:18 PM »

Would men have rights to refuse to clean in their respective domestic vicinity because they are keeping the male images?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #1 on:** February 23, 2009, 09:33:39 PM »

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #2 on:** February 23, 2009, 10:23:58 PM »

Not anymore. Panahon panang datu kulambo

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #3 on:** February 24, 2009, 12:34:02 AM »

Datu, pila imong edad palihug tug-ani ko, unya akong tubagon imong posting. Salamat jamo.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

grazie7y · « **Reply #4 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:13:39 AM »

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

Totally wrong, at least educated and decent men do not think that household works only belong to women.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #5 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:28:54 AM »

How could you assume such postings Ondoy? I don´t subscribe to this and I think you must think twice about posting this controversial issue.
We are born equal and it is not stamped on males head that they are exempted from all household work. This assumption is a mediocre.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #6 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:30:05 AM »

This kind of thinking are for ignorants.. no pun

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #7 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:40:54 AM »

sipa-on ko cya!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #8 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:47:12 AM »

Of course not, why exemption? Wala kay lain nga mas nindot nga posting Doy?
Morag matahap ko nga menos ang imong pagtahod sa mga kababaihan. Hinaut pa nga ikaw wala masakit?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #9 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:49:52 AM »

binukid paman ni nga thinking uy.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #10 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:55:29 AM »

How do men define a "50/50" relationship?
We cook-they eat; we clean-they dirty; we iron-they wrinkle.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #11 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:57:23 AM »

Why do only 10% of men make it to heaven?
Because if they all went, it would be Hell.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #12 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:58:29 AM »

Why do men whistle when they're sitting on the toilet?
Because it helps them remember which end they need to wipe.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

hofelina · « **Reply #13 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:00:00 AM »

Why do men need instant replay on TV sports?
Because after 30 seconds they forget what happened.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #14 on:** February 24, 2009, 07:31:32 AM »

Would men have rights to refuse to clean in their respective domestic vicinity because they are keeping the male images?

Absolutely NO!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

bol-anon_ko · « **Reply #15 on:** February 24, 2009, 07:56:56 AM »

Why do men whistle when they're sitting on the toilet?
Because it helps them remember which end they need to wipe.

manay, grabeha pod ani... magbaylo diay ang lobot ug simod ani kalakiha.. lolzzz

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Gener · « **Reply #16 on:** February 24, 2009, 05:59:40 PM »

The Magic Words that husbands can tell their wives: "What can I do to help?"

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #17 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:11:16 PM »

kudos to kuya Gener

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

lindy · « **Reply #18 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:15:56 PM »

hahaha. katawa sa ko Tess ha!

Why do only 10% of men make it to heaven?
Because if they all went, it would be Hell.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Gener · « **Reply #19 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:19:13 PM »

this thread reminds of a movie "CHOPSUEY", starring Piolo Pascual though I forgot the name of that young actress who played the role of a martyr wife of a Fil-Chi mama's boy.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

lindy · « **Reply #20 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:21:07 PM »

You don't have to ask. just do it.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Bambi · « **Reply #21 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:23:15 PM »

The Magic Words that husbands can tell their wives: "What can I do to help?"

Gener, I hope this will not remain as just a remarkable husband question. $:-\$

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Bambi · « **Reply #22 on:** February 24, 2009, 06:29:30 PM »

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

Doy Datu Dagohoy,

Well, if you are too rich as your TB alias...you can make a "HAREM" as what the Arabian Scheich do.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Gener · « **Reply #23 on:** February 25, 2009, 04:58:21 PM »

You don't have to ask. just do it.

diba mas ok na while the husband is asking his wife how could he be of help eh nakayapos sa babae habang naghuhugas ng pingan, sabay bulong ng ganito, "pagkatapos niyan dear, ikaw naman ang huhugasan ko" hehehe

kidding aside, husbands helping wives doing house chores by asking first could serve many purpose; to help in house chores and make use of that moment as an intimate bonding moments. while husband is helping in the house chores, why not turn it as perfect bonding moment? maganda yung may pasakalye muna siempre para di naman masyadong mechanical. do you want your husband to immediately jump with you on the bed without any foreplay? i simply doubt it.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #24 on:** February 25, 2009, 05:20:36 PM »

binukid paman ni nga thinking uy.

that's right/tinuod na, sa Bukid mi kanuny, sa chocolate Hills ug Sagbayan Peak ang among weekend destination for swimming, disco, and bars.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #25 on:** February 25, 2009, 05:28:45 PM »

Absolutely NO!

I thought father of the family provide almost everything for the family needs then after that he should also contribute the household jobs, i think that is an abuse from the wife to her husband.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

lalyoo · « **Reply #26 on:** February 25, 2009, 05:39:12 PM »

datu dile na tali na karun pwede? kay mga isug naman ni mga baje karun??

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

A Layman · « **Reply #27 on:** February 25, 2009, 05:45:24 PM »

Kinahanglan magtambayayong sa kaginhawaan ug kalisdanan. Aron mobolig ang inyong pagminahalay hantod sa kahangturan, ikaw bana ipadayon ang pagbuhat sa mga butang nga sukwahi sa kagustohan sa imong asawa.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #28 on:** February 25, 2009, 06:04:01 PM »

Not anymore. Panahon panang datu kulambo

subra na yata ang mga asawa, we provides almost everything then we should also contribute household works when at home. for me never!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Bambi · « **Reply #29 on:** February 25, 2009, 06:16:03 PM »

subra na yata ang mga asawa, we provides almost everything the we should also contribute household works when at home. for me never!

You might be living in a backward century. Sorry! Never heard about woman liberation? Could be that some are still dependent to their husbands but not the women in TB. We are all professionals and earning our own money, Datu Dagohoy.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #30 on:** February 25, 2009, 06:48:31 PM »

that's right/tinuod na, sa Bukid mi kanuny, sa chocolate Hills ug Sagbayan Peak ang among weekend destination for swimming, disco, and bars.

bukid jud diay..

try the city bars.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #31 on:** February 25, 2009, 06:56:38 PM »

datu, ever heard of feminism?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Gener · « **Reply #32 on:** February 25, 2009, 07:50:45 PM »

In my opinion, I dont see providing the means for the family that a husband can be excempted from doing house hold chores. In fact a husband, having a fulltime housewife should help more in household chores esp. if the family couldn't afford a helper because housewife is a 24/7 profession, unlike us husbands who have a fixed working hours. If husbands have a day or 2 of dayoffs, perhaps, relieving our wives or helping them will not be much of a problem even for a working husbands.
Again, as I have said make use of this time as perfect bonding times with our wives, trust me on this. Been there, done that, that's why my wife loves me so much. Imagine, my wife telling me na mas handsome pa daw ako kaysa kay Piolo Pascual?

It really works, promise

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #33 on:** February 25, 2009, 08:12:27 PM »

datu, ever heard of feminism?

Di uso ang under de Saya sa amo-ang territoyo bueno / if jobless ok lang.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #34 on:** February 25, 2009, 08:21:10 PM »

Preposterous. Man and Woman are equal. In the workplace and in the home.
The two are always equal, from the beginning, to the end.

The woman contributes more, in the biological sense, since she bears the child and delivers the child. (us men will never understand or comprehend the excrusiating pain in child delivery--that our wives, spouses had/have/will endure)

It is up to the man to pamper the woman and respect her.

After all, she will bear and guarantee us, the man, our sacred progeny and Line.
Our genetic re-constituents.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

bulak · « **Reply #35 on:** February 25, 2009, 08:53:14 PM »

Di uso ang under de Saya sa amo-ang territoyo bueno / if jobless ok lang.

Oi Datu,FYI it does'nt mean that if men will participate the household works" nga under de Saya siya nga pagkabana" Its only during middle of the twentieth century that there was a clear division of labor between men and women. The manâ€™s role was to go out to work and provide for the family, the womanâ€™s role was to be a housewife and mother, looking after home and family. But in today's generation,housework is not only for woman,wala na mauso ang senyurito nga bana karong panahuna datu,if u did it to your wife well your exploiting her, if wife is fulltime at home still it doesnt mean that its because you are the breadwinner then after u come home u will just sit there and wait until dinner is serve?sineswerti nga pagkabana!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

A Layman · « **Reply #36 on:** February 25, 2009, 08:56:36 PM »

Panahon pato ni Mampur o di ba ni Magellan. Pa senyorito senyorita...lami man sab mag de quatro na lang sa sofa.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #37 on:** February 25, 2009, 09:11:04 PM »

Panahon pato ni Mampur o di ba ni Magellan. Pa senyorito senyorita...lami man sab mag de quatro na lang sa sofa.

Boss di ba ok di ta mandar madaran sa asawa kong naa may asawa?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

A Layman · « **Reply #38 on:** February 25, 2009, 09:15:42 PM »

Mao bitaw! Ang ayaw ni Mrs maoy buhata. Diha magkasinabot jod mong duha.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #39 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:04:00 PM »

I thought father of the family provide almost everything for the family needs then after that he should also contribute the household jobs, i think that is an abuse from the wife to her husband.

OMG! mag kwentahanay diay? how about if it's the other way around where the wife works and the husband stays home. sugot ka ikaw trabaho tanan? i bet, you wont.

now, who's abusing here?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #40 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:08:42 PM »

Di uso ang under de Saya sa amo-ang territoyo bueno / if jobless ok lang.

luoya sa inyu lugar uy..murag mga unutil ang mga lalaki.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #41 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:15:17 PM »

OMG! mag kwentahanay diay? how about if it's the other way around where the wife works and the husband stays home. sugot ka ikaw trabaho tanan? i bet, you wont.

now, who's abusing here?

Since i was young, we recognized king is the superior.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #42 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:16:13 PM »

lahi ra ang king ug ang bana

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #43 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:16:45 PM »

Boss di ba ok di ta mandar madaran sa asawa kong naa may asawa?

helping your wife in household chores is one expresion of how you love and support her.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #44 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:18:04 PM »

Since i was young, we recognized king is the superior.

It's not about recognizing who's superior. It's about respect.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Gener · « **Reply #45 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:22:11 PM »

i beg to disagree that men or husbands who help their wives to do house chores are "under de saya." trueness and manliness is measured neither by pwoer nor the authority a man has over his wife but it's how responsible he is and how he respect his wife as a human being. it's worthy for responsible gay to be called a true man than a a full blooded but irresponsible man.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #46 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:23:24 PM »

my lolo even jokes with his friends nga MACHO sila.. MACHOnurin sa asawa..lol
klaru kaayu nga dili insecure.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #47 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:24:16 PM »

i beg to disagree that men or husbands who help their wives to do house chores are "under de saya." trueness and manliness is measured neither by pwoer nor the authority a man has over his wife but it's how responsible he is and how he respect his wife as a human being. it's worthy for responsible gay to be called a true man than a a full blooded but irresponsible man.

Agree, Gener.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #48 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:25:34 PM »

my lolo even jokes with his friends nga MACHO sila.. MACHOnurin sa asawa..lol
klaru kaayu nga dili insecure.

Exactly, but he is not under the saya. He just pampers our Lola so much. lol

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

bulak · « **Reply #49 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:38:56 PM »

lahi ra ang king ug ang bana

Mao jud Bem,kung akong bana magpaka-hari! sa balay,hantakan ko man kaha.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #50 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:44:22 PM »

mao jud te..as ive said patiran.. ang ka tapolan pwede bana grounds for divorce?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

bulak · « **Reply #51 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:50:52 PM »

mao jud te..as ive said patiran.. ang ka tapolan pwede bana grounds for divorce?

Dile ko xure kung pwede ba ang tapulan Bem,iresearch sa na nako pero ang pagpamatid for sure ma devorce ta ana

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #52 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:54:38 PM »

Exactly, but he is not under the saya. He just pampers our Lola so much. lol

what do you mean the husband would works 50% of the house holds jobs, hindi naman siguro mao bitaw'ng nag asawa parang dili na si nanay ang mag laba, manghugas, manglimpyo sa balay ang asawa na, unya karon ang bana na ang manglimpyo para sa asawa, nabali na ang situasyon.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #53 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:55:25 PM »

Datu, wala naman tawon na karung panahona..
Maid nyu kailangan dili asawa.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #54 on:** February 25, 2009, 10:58:13 PM »

what do you mean the husband would works 50% of the house holds jobs, hindi naman siguro mao bitaw'ng nag asawa parang dili na si nanay ang mag laba, manghugas, manglimpyo sa balay ang asawa na, unya karon ang bana na ang manglimpyo para sa asawa, nabali na ang situasyon.

dili ta mag kwenta kung pila ka percent ang trabuon or gi trabaho kay dili na kompaniya. huh?!

ang asawa mahalon, abagan sa panimalay. dili bugbugon sa trabaho.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #55 on:** February 25, 2009, 11:00:04 PM »

Datu, wala naman tawon na karung panahona..
Maid nyu kailangan dili asawa.

Kiams, is that the way you treat to your hhusband? huwag naman masira ang pagkalalaki nya.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #56 on:** February 25, 2009, 11:01:25 PM »

if ever, ako husband dili ignorante nor b***t nor insecure sa iya pagkalalaki

And ill see to it nga well-educated siya.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #57 on:** February 25, 2009, 11:08:02 PM »

if ever, ako husband dili ignorante nor b***t nor insecure sa iya pagkalalaki

And ill see to it nga well-educated siya.

makakita ka nianang tipo sa paglaki pero deep inside ang apan nya, mark my word ki amoy.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ms da binsi · « **Reply #58 on:** February 25, 2009, 11:10:42 PM »

binukid paman ni nga thinking uy.

Tinuod! binukid! hahahhaha

that only shows some men's IGNORANCE!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #59 on:** February 25, 2009, 11:14:10 PM »

makakita ka nianang tipo sa paglaki pero deep inside ang apan nya, mark my word ki amoy.

hehe taga bukid na..

or ang tipo nga inutil

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #60 on:** February 26, 2009, 02:24:48 AM »

lisud ang ing ana nga thinking.. murag ->

(sa new york magazine na ha.) from time.com

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #61 on:** February 26, 2009, 02:52:12 AM »

Datu,

My uncle, who is a Medical Doctor (Internal Medicine) and is in UK with my Aunt--is very humble in regard to this situation. He not only cooks, but takes care of his daughter (my cousin). When they came to the 'states in spring 07 to visit my sister and I in college--I was surprised to see his mannerism.

That a graduate of a fine medical school in the Philippines, a Medical Doctor who is now in the UK can yet be so helpful to his wife and child. It is inspiring.

In humility, there is great reward. In helping, there is treasure.

Cheers.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #62 on:** February 26, 2009, 02:56:59 AM »

Note,

let us not attack Machisimo. There is nothing wrong with Machisimo. I myself would subscribe to this concept (lol). However, being macho-macho does not mean one can forgoe his duties to his wife, spouse, partner, family.

You can be macho-macho at the same time be humble and work--cook food, clean the house, hilut your wife, (and make babies, lol)

The point is, it is all about courtesy and common respect.

Machismo is fine and okay. So long as you also have self respect as well as outward respect. Mao na ang differensya.

It's not only about "Pre, Pre, Pre, inum ta Pre"

But it is also about, "Mahal, gusto ba ka ug help? Mahal, unsa man gusto nimo i-kanun? Mo luto sad ko ha?"

That is more macho-macho than chugging down a San Miguel Beer or two. IMHO

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #63 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:02:15 AM »

That is more macho-macho than chugging down a San Miguel Beer or two. IMHO

murag submitting mana sa agka inutil.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #64 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:05:21 AM »

To tell you the truth, Kiams, that is a personal life stand. I prefer to be with a woman--just to talk--or to be around my family than going out to drink or go to the bars with the guys.

Depende ra na sa laki, i guess.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #65 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:05:56 AM »

hehehehehehe.
hahay, may gani wa pa koy asawa o bana.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #66 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:08:45 AM »

Hahaha!

Ako wa pa koy asawa. Ug naa koy asawa mo subscribe jud ko sa #1 rule.
Baby making. LoL.

If my wife gives me 4 children (preferably 4 little tambokikoy little Lorenzos), then ma happy jud ko. I'll have 4 hiluters. hahahaha

Preferably 2-4 years apart. That way one can hilut me, and by the time the eldest goes to college, another will take his/her place. And if they all grow up. Then, I'll borrow one of my Apos. puahahahahaha

LOL

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #67 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:10:43 AM »

Don Lorenzo ang dating!!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #68 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:15:56 AM »

Aahahahaha!

I know from first-hand experience. For 10 years I hiluted my dad.When I went off to college, my younger brother Don Rico took my place. hahaha. Now, Dad has trained Andre to hilut him also. LOL!

Pero you know, I notice that we boys have growed and bonded with our Dad because of the Hilut.

Afterall, we should care for our ginikanans, diba? I mean, he is the man that sucked our clogged sip-onon when we were still young--and could not breath. He did that to me, my sister, and my younger brothers.

Mao na i tell my brothers--better we hilut our Dad and show him Love b/c he sucked our siponon when we were but babies. Luuy pood among Amahan kai na siponon pood siya sa process. lol.

Mao na ang meaning of "MACHO MACHO"
Somethings some men will not do. Only the Macho man will do

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #69 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:18:52 AM »

It takes guts to do it Lorz.. I cannot imagine

Kudos

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #70 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:20:33 AM »

If daddy read this right now, mo smile jud na siya. To the Max jud.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #71 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:24:09 AM »

Kiams,

When our mother told us about the things our Daddy would do for us when we were babies, we laughed and thought she was kidding around. Pero tinuud man diay.

Ning ask mi ni Dad, 'Dad why did you do that? Wasn't it disgusting?'

Ingoon pood siya, "Ah, ug dili imung anak, dili gud. Pero kamo man ahong anak. You come from me. Kinsa man di mo sipsip ang siponon sa anak?"

Na kuratan jud ko to hear that. That defines a man. And most of all, A Father.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #72 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:32:28 AM »

You really have a good dad Lorz. Affectionate pud?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #73 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:47:22 AM »

Bem, all dads are good dads. They just express their love differently. Diba?

Daddy is very emotional, dili lang siya open to show it. Sa una, dili na siya mo say, 'I love you' but as we got older, he says it more often. Or mo show siya--very obvious.

I think ing ana man jud na ang Filipino Dads. B/c when i grew up, Kiams, i would go to my friends houses (white, black, latin) etc and notice that American dads are very vocal about their concern to their kids. They hug their kids openly, say things like, "I love you" very frequently. And the kids say it back. And for a Fil-AM growing up in the 'states, it was hard because one I had to adapt and grow into the society in the 'states and yet at the same time when i went back home, lived in a very traditional Filipino (BISAYAN) household. Were english was spoken outside--but inside the house--we spoke only bisaya.

I asked my mom about this before--why does daddy not say 'I love you' openly?

Ingoon ahong inahan, "Ayaw ka think that your Daddy doesn't love you because he doesn't say it openly as sa amahan sa imung amigong puti. Ginigugma mo tanan iyang anak. So proud is your dad of all of you--his kids. Dili na siya mo show nimo, pero sa work place, he cannot stop talking about you kids. Your Dad loves you, even if you think he does not show it--he loves you so much"

Mao na--when I heard this--i came to terms with the cultural divide. Yes I am American and live in the American way of life--but also I realized that indeed i cannot separate myself form my Filipino culture--which my parents still live in. And in the end, when we come to terms with this reality--we can better appreciate our parents, our fathers for who they are. And what they are.

Bem, Am very sure your dad loves you very much. Of course. You are his baby girl.
Sure ko ana.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #74 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:00:43 PM »

Tinuod! binukid! hahahhaha

that only shows some men's IGNORANCE!

Womanâ€™s Role
By Great Confucius

A womanâ€™s business is simply, the house preparation, supplying foods and wine. She may take no step for own motion, and may come to no conclusion in her own mind.

Reseached by Datu,

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #75 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:04:46 PM »

Datu,

My uncle, who is a Medical Doctor (Internal Medicine) and is in UK with my Aunt--is very humble in regard to this situation. He not only cooks, but takes care of his daughter (my cousin). When they came to the 'states in spring 07 to visit my sister and I in college--I was surprised to see his mannerism.

That a graduate of a fine medical school in the Philippines, a Medical Doctor who is now in the UK can yet be so helpful to his wife and child. It is inspiring.

In humility, there is great reward. In helping, there is treasure.

Cheers.

Womanâ€™s Role
By Great Confucius

A womanâ€™s business is simply, the house preparation, supplying foods and wine. She may take no step for own motion, and may come to no conclusion in her own mind.

Regards,

Datu

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #76 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:07:38 PM »

hehe taga bukid na..

or ang tipo nga inutil

Womanâ€™s Role
By Great Confucius

A womanâ€™s business is simply, the house preparation, supplying foods and wine. She may take no step for own motion, and may come to no conclusion in her own mind.

Regards,

Datu

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #77 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:10:49 PM »

How could you assume such postings Ondoy? I donÂ´t subscribe to this and I think you must think twice about posting this controversial issue.
We are born equal and it is not stamped on males head that they are exempted from all household work. This assumption is a mediocre.

Womanâ€™s Role
By Great Confucius

A womanâ€™s business is simply, the house preparation, supplying foods and wine. She may take no step for own motion, and may come to no conclusion in her own mind.

Regards,

Datu

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ayessa · « **Reply #78 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:20:53 PM »

pagbantay kay lisod ang agimat ni dagohoy, makalupad siya. .

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ayessa · « **Reply #79 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:26:44 PM »

ang akong duda, ig agaw si dagohoy ug si confucius,... si confucius nag hatag ug flying power ni daghoy..

maoy akong dungog.. mao powerful..

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #80 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:28:20 PM »

hmmm wa kaha ma confuse si dagohoy?

OT: hi ayessa, nice to see you back!

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ayessa · « **Reply #81 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:32:05 PM »

im always there ginger. sigeg basa-basa kay lingaw man gihapun mga posts.. lesser nalang ang participation..

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Ginger · « **Reply #82 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:35:30 PM »

nice to know that, ayesaa. apil pud usahay kay gimingaw nami sa imong brilliant posts.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #83 on:** February 26, 2009, 03:48:01 PM »

im always there ginger. sigeg basa-basa kay lingaw man gihapun mga posts.. lesser nalang ang participation..

Maglingaw lingaw sab mo oy! puro nalang mo trabaho diha.

Try this place,

Sa Amanpolo Island sa Phil where The Beach movie some parts of that was taken there, but i need to tell you that this is very exclusive beach.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #84 on:** February 26, 2009, 07:07:35 PM »

Mao nang ang mga uban chinese nga gasunod sa tradition murag helper ra ang mga babae.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #85 on:** February 26, 2009, 08:27:19 PM »

si datu dagohoy
karon nagpanaghoy
iyang mga posts daghang gaagoroy
kay makabibo pod oroy

unsaon na man ka ondoy?

mga lalaki di jud pwede sa kusina
kay pang babaye ra lagi kana
matud pa kini sa iyang bana-bana
mao mga babaye sa TB wa mahiluna

kay kinaraan na lagi kana!

nakit-an niya ang post ni confucius
iyang asawa di ba kaha magselos
tabi, menyo ba si confucius?
basi'g dili, kay di kamao manghipus.

si confucius, wa jud diay kamabdos?

LOL.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Bambi · « **Reply #86 on:** February 26, 2009, 08:41:40 PM »

si confucius, wa jud diay kamabdos?

LOL.
[/quote]

Thanks for the poetic inclinations, it fits to the thread poster gjod!

Unsaon ug di gjod kamabdos kay wa man moatraka si Datu bisan gihukaran na.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

kiamoy · « **Reply #87 on:** February 26, 2009, 08:50:48 PM »

love your post glace:D

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #88 on:** February 26, 2009, 08:59:07 PM »

love your post glace:D

maglingaw-lingaw na lang ta ani, kiams.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #89 on:** February 26, 2009, 11:18:06 PM »

Woman’s Role
By Great Confucius

A woman’s business is simply, the house preparation, supplying foods and wine. She may take no step for own motion, and may come to no conclusion in her own mind.

Regards,

Datu

You have your right to stake your opinion.
Understand that women have made leaps and bounds in the 20th century and in this century.

Cheers,

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #90 on:** February 26, 2009, 11:20:08 PM »

si datu dagohoy
karon nagpanaghoy
iyang mga posts daghang gaagoroy
kay makabibo pod oroy

unsaon na man ka ondoy?

mga lalaki di jud pwede sa kusina
kay pang babaye ra lagi kana
matud pa kini sa iyang bana-bana
mao mga babaye sa TB wa mahiluna

kay kinaraan na lagi kana!

nakit-an niya ang post ni confucius
iyang asawa di ba kaha magselos
tabi, menyo ba si confucius?
basi'g dili, kay di kamao manghipus.

si confucius, wa jud diay kamabdos?

LOL.

wow, talk about talent.
These words fly so smoothly, Glacier.

Love it.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #91 on:** February 27, 2009, 03:19:29 AM »

wow, talk about talent.
These words fly so smoothly, Glacier.

Love it.

it's just my little contribution, enz, owing to many inspiring words of people like you.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Lorenzo · « **Reply #92 on:** February 27, 2009, 03:28:06 AM »

Ngek! dont make me blush, bud. hahaha

Seriously, ive read your other balaks. Dang man; you've got talent. Seriously.

Does it just come out when you type or do you have to think first and then type it out?

Tubag Bohol is blessed with creative writers like yourself.

Very educational jud ning forum.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #93 on:** February 27, 2009, 03:40:44 AM »

some are on the spot. some are not, enzo.

i sense the forum, as any other fora, offers multiple avenues to express. very enlightening.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

bulak · « **Reply #94 on:** February 27, 2009, 03:17:30 PM »

si datu dagohoy
karon nagpanaghoy
iyang mga posts daghang gaagoroy
kay makabibo pod oroy

unsaon na man ka ondoy?

mga lalaki di jud pwede sa kusina
kay pang babaye ra lagi kana
matud pa kini sa iyang bana-bana
mao mga babaye sa TB wa mahiluna

kay kinaraan na lagi kana!

nakit-an niya ang post ni confucius
iyang asawa di ba kaha magselos
tabi, menyo ba si confucius?
basi'g dili, kay di kamao manghipus.

si confucius, wa jud diay kamabdos?

LOL.

Ha ha ha kamuot pud ani imo balak Glacier,hain naman to si Dagohoy kay ato pud tong pabalokon

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ms da binsi · « **Reply #95 on:** February 28, 2009, 06:45:45 AM »

si datu dagohoy
karon nagpanaghoy
iyang mga posts daghang gaagoroy
kay makabibo pod oroy

unsaon na man ka ondoy?

mga lalaki di jud pwede sa kusina
kay pang babaye ra lagi kana
matud pa kini sa iyang bana-bana
mao mga babaye sa TB wa mahiluna

kay kinaraan na lagi kana!

nakit-an niya ang post ni confucius
iyang asawa di ba kaha magselos
tabi, menyo ba si confucius?
basi'g dili, kay di kamao manghipus.

si confucius, wa jud diay kamabdos?

LOL.

AYLABEEET Glace!

naa sad diay kay tinaguang talent dear?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

glacier_71 · « **Reply #96 on:** February 28, 2009, 08:29:08 AM »

AYLABEEET Glace!

naa sad diay kay tinaguang talent dear?

KINING manglawgaw ra gyud ate da bins. lol.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #97 on:** February 28, 2009, 03:13:25 PM »

KINING manglawgaw ra gyud ate da bins. lol.

Glace, i'm so greatful for your Balak, ayos ka ha? parang is Presidente Carlos Garcia maayo mo compose ug balak. giboto sya sa mga tao niadto tungod sa maayo syang mubalak (poem).

Kung siguro gustuhin mong mag politiko baka marami ang mabighani sa mga poem mo at iboboto ka.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

Datu Dagohoy · « **Reply #98 on:** February 28, 2009, 03:20:25 PM »

Ha ha ha kamuot pud ani imo balak Glacier,hain naman to si Dagohoy kay ato pud tong pabalokon

Si presidente Carlos Garcia Bol-anon man to, maayo kaayo to mo compose ug poem mao syang nagustuhan sa mga tao ug maayo, nadala nya sa mga balak ang mga tao para iboto sya.

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0

ayessa · « **Reply #99 on:** February 28, 2009, 08:55:07 PM »

kahibaw na ko kinsa akong botaran sa pagka president..

DAtu Dagohoy for president!! pero sa 2080 pa..

maningkamut ka nga makakuha sa gahum ni confucius ani pre para mahimu kang presidente. di va?

Linkback: https://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=18199.0