Thanks i am always upbeat.
But when i see biases going on in here I am not intimidated to speak out about it.
As a judge here for several events I have noticed it and have been told being biased is a part of the culture.
Just not a part of mine.
My door is open to anyone who wants to air a constructive and a legitimate feeling.
But when people have to take things personally and start ganging up on people personally then some one has the right to fight for what should be right.
In here many persons get side tracked and onto some egotistical outburst as if what things said in here are about them personally.
If you feel your a great positive contributor then no need to be offensive as I have seen in this web site over and over again.
Even I am up beat the PAK PAK is gamay like some judges do to great talents here competing they give small acknowledgement and low scores if they do not know you and the performer is great, as someone popular the judges will judge for popularity.
It is normal here.
I know I am intelligent I am told that often in a day time.
I am sort of like Atty. Victor Delaserna carass and do not beat around the bush.
If your mean time after time it is only normal for that person to show back the same attitude as they are getting.
I have plenty of patience, but as you all know you can push some one so far or your going to get it.
When I get to the point most do not like it.
We call it a bait some one wants to keep on baiting you along until the point it is time to bite the worm.
Some like it when the worm bites as they feel it is a way of getting attention and not in a nice way.
Baiting for negatives. Something we learn in 8th grade socail sciences classes.
I have seen Philippine persons commenting in here and saying whats on their mind do the particulars group of same people harassing me harass them as well?
No! I wonder why that is?
Does it have something to do that I am not a brown skinned Boholana?
I have allot of friends and I know who they are, and in fact they say to me that they wished more persons were like me to the point and straight forward about what is the real life's story going on.
Thank you for the proper compliment it takes a real person now a days to even know how to give a compliment.
I give a compliment now a days to someone they act ashamed and do not know how to react, maybe they are not use to someone being nice to them?
Here someone would rather knock you down so you always regress instead of progress the Philippine persons call it "Crab Mentality" here.
I myself have reacted "vehemently" to one of the comments you have posted in another thread, which I felt characterized the Boholanos wholesale in a negative light.
I guess it's a real challenge to see things from an objective point of view. Sometimes we react to what we perceive as another's bias with another bias.
The best thing we can do is to be aware that we always have a perspective when we look at things. That perspective is influenced by our upbringing, education, environment, cultural values, etc.
So when we exchange views, let us be open to the perspectives of others and try to be sensitive to where he or she is coming from. Let's remind ourselves that we are not diminished by people who take views contrary to ours. I believe that every point of view can either reinforce ours--when it's agreeable--or refine it--when it is contrary. In this sense, every opinion, negative or positive, is always worth something.
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