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« on: January 11, 2011, 09:13:01 AM »
who do you think ang sad an? ang girl ? o ang priest? i have a friend who is in that kind of relationship.

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« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2011, 02:35:52 PM »

I think silang duha ang happy an.

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« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2011, 02:51:17 PM »

Both parties are adults, both parties know the effects, and if they are still inclined to continue the relationship, then the priest should leave the priesthood proper and cease living a double life. If he cannot honor the calling of the priesthood, one pillar of which is priestly celibacy, then leave the priesthood.

Simple.

There is nothing wrong with living a life of the laity, one can still live a holy life and not be a priest. If they both love each other, then so be it. For me lang, the male should leave the priestly vocation so as he can devote all of himself to his lover.

God Bless them both.

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« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2011, 02:53:43 PM »
I have many times thought of entering the seminary during my college years. Many times i thought of a priestly vocation. Truly.

However, I know that I cannot comply with the priestly celibate lifestyle. I have my own sins. And i know my own limitations.

That was my deciding factor.



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« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2011, 03:00:49 PM »
dili na sa'  og silang duha nalipay, ang ang na lang pod og ang pari mag sigi na lang  og ugay2x hangtod sa tibook niyang  kinabuhi. motilaw gud pod siyag niluto sa ginoo og lamian ba.
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« Reply #5 on: January 11, 2011, 03:13:02 PM »

Kay mag ugay2x ba diay, Bay Dave?  ???

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« Reply #6 on: January 11, 2011, 03:18:42 PM »
bitaw, there is nothing wrong with falling in love. in fact, i have a tito who was a priest, but left the priesthood in order to court a woman whom he fell in love with. both are now married.

the priesthood is not for everyone.

perhaps, the priest that the OP mentioned is doubting his decision. If he feels that he truly loves the woman, he should considering leaving the vocation and live a private life, and God-willing, even marry this woman if it is in his plans, of course.

whatever his decision is, i hope he discerns and prays. may the Holy Spirit help him discern to make the right choice. he has to pick one from the other.


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« Reply #7 on: January 11, 2011, 03:22:11 PM »
i would even compare this to a man having an affair.

a man who is married , and has children with his wife ; and at the same time is having an affair with another woman. is this right? morally, is it right?

the answer is : no , it is morally wrong. it is an affront to the wife, and the children. tho it be pleasing to the man and his mistress, sexually.

in the end, it is wrong.

a priest , when ordained, is married to Christ and the Church.

a food for thought.

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« Reply #8 on: January 11, 2011, 03:41:15 PM »
the bottomline....... let the priests marry, legalize it or just leave the priesthood. at least we know the reason that they fall in love with the opposite sex and not of the same sex... ;) God will understand, I think. However, if the Roman Catholic Church would implement stiffer penalty because of this mere violation or breaking the vows of celibacy/ chastity... one of these days, we'll  run out of priests... ;).. priests have the feelings to.... whether we like or not, they are subject to..

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« Reply #9 on: January 11, 2011, 04:07:25 PM »

hehehe, that would solve the problem wouldn't it, bai aquarius? in fact, the eastern catholic rite permits their priests to marry. orthodox priests are also allowed to marry, if my memory serves me right.

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« Reply #10 on: January 11, 2011, 04:12:49 PM »


Bai Bran/ Lorenz..

Bitaw, nganong magtago-tago pa man sa sotana.. hehehehe... if we focus on "service", married priests or former priests can still of great service to his fellow, status ra may nausab from "single" to "married" hehehe...

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« Reply #11 on: January 11, 2011, 04:13:03 PM »

i admire your friend, bai. at least he did not live a life of duplicity. he not only left the priesthood to marry a woman (which is honorable, actually, am sure he took some time to discern that life-changing decision). he chose one or the other. but then again, there are some priests that do choose to live a double life style.

as much as many people would look down on some priests for leaving the priesthood to pursue marriage / private life, i actually have alot of respect for them.

because i can imagine how hard it was for them to leave a calling that they had in their youth.

however, it only reinforces the notion that not all men are cut out to be priests. lengthy discernment is necessary , imho, before one truly realizes if a priestly life is for them.


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« Reply #12 on: January 11, 2011, 04:19:05 PM »

hehehe. true true. good point. in fact, my tito, who left the priesthood to marry is a lay minister now. he is a really good man, from the way he talks, to his mannerisms.

seminarians , generally, have a distinct characteristic feature about them. their reservation and their professionalism is something that makes them stand out.

tho my tito no longer is a priest, he still retains some of those priestly traits. he is a very good man.

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« Reply #13 on: January 11, 2011, 09:40:09 PM »
og di mo tilaw sa putahi, ugay-ugayon na lang jud, unsa pa may lain :o :o :o

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« Reply #14 on: January 11, 2011, 10:33:03 PM »
Ang Pari gani nga magminyo unsa man ang itawag sa kanila?...Padre de Familia hehehe...

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« Reply #15 on: January 12, 2011, 12:07:49 AM »
priests are trained to handle their emotions.  should some stray, it is not for the rest of the world to condemn them.  the important thing for anyone is not to live a lie.
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« Reply #16 on: January 12, 2011, 03:08:28 AM »
Mao nay giingon... kung nakasala, pasayloon... kung wala makasala, atong daygon. Hmmmm... tug-an sa tinuod!!!  ;)

In any case, I salute those who survived and those who did not... the celibate life.

On the other hand, the Eastern Catholic Church (Roman or Western Catholic Church does not) allow their priests to marry... so wala diay sila kasala kay pwede man sa ilang balaod? "Tsk tsk tsk," matud pa ni San Pedro. Kalooy ba sa mga Roman Catholics, hehehe.  ;D

Tagnaa unsang tuiga o century nagsugod ang law on "priestly celibacy?" Does that mean, didto na nagsugod pagpakasala sa mga pari nga masupilon? Hehehehe  :P

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« Reply #17 on: January 12, 2011, 03:15:21 AM »
Padz angay kusion ang bugan sa pari nga masupilon ug bigaon

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« Reply #18 on: January 12, 2011, 07:26:30 AM »
Usa ra ang pilia, "Huwag kang  mamangka sa dalawang ilog"... :D
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« Reply #19 on: January 12, 2011, 08:20:28 AM »

He he, Bay Aqs, opposite sex jud kay dili pwede magminyo kon same sex?  ;D



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