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Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« on: February 13, 2010, 06:05:48 PM »
You are married to a man who cannot reciprocate your profound love. A man who doesn’t even know what love is and worst of all, you found out that he has an extra marital affair. You showered him with all the material things more than he can ever imagine compensating the lack of physical intimacies brought about by your physical absence being thousands of miles away. But after all it is said and done still he didn’t mend his ways. Suddenly, you found a new love in the arms of someone else’s man. In short, an affection from a married man. He makes you feel ‘being wanted’ and you feel important as if you are always at the center of his attention. Something you never felt before and now you’re asking--is it all worth to give yourself a chance to make yourself happy? This is the scenario painted in one of the threads posted by a married woman which I have read and replied from a social networking site.

LOVE'S YARDSTICK

Love is not and cannot be measured by the number of "I love you" or number of SUV’s or neither by the number of tears you shed in the name of love. Material things cannot and will never provide an assurance that love invested in that kind of relationship will last a lifetime. Worse, the more he/she (person on the receiving end of such frivolous attention) will feel that whatever is consummated between the two of you is nothing but superficial. The connection that binds between couple cannot be established by material things or calls of endearment but on how either partners or both makes the relationship evolves into the next level until it reaches certain level of maturity. This maturity depends on many factors like upbringings or experiences we may have seen or witnessed from our parents. The kind of relationship that we have seen from our parents greatly influenced our emotional maturity and outlook with regards to our marriage relationship. The number of years that a couple has been married can never be the sole yardstick in measuring relationship maturity but by the ability of one or both to make their marriage work come hell or high water.

LOVE IS NOT ONLY A FEELING BUT A DECISION

As I always said in most articles that I have written, love is not only a feeling but a decision. We should consider redefining love more than just on the premise of feelings but that of an action. As love translated from a “noun” to “verb” will spell the difference between making and breaking it. An action that will lead one or both to a certain decision whether to fall out or to remain in love to the same person over and over again is a decision that only and for yours to make.

MISTAKE CAN NEVER BE CORRECTED BY ANOTHER MISTAKE

whilst it is given that your partner has wronged you and hurt you that much to the point that you want him to feel how is it like to be hurt. Whether this newly found love appears as your saving grace, it is something like a double-edge blade ready to slice your heart anytime. And the sad part of it, by being the other woman yourself, you become exactly the person you dreaded once in your life resulting to two family lives shattered into bits and pieces, yours and the family of that married man.

Right love at the wrong time is still wrong and no amount of justification can correct a love that is wrong from the beginning lest you really wanted to be home wrecker. The truth is, true love means, albeit of its imperfections is never meant to hurt others for it never finds joy in someone else’s failure.



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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2010, 06:17:24 PM »
"Don't  frown even if  you're  sad  because  you  don't  know  who  is  falling  in  love  with  your  SMILE."

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2010, 07:37:45 PM »
Correct jud. Wala ning " Right love at the wrong time" Excuse na lang ni sa uban and they're making it a big...big...excuse pra makapamiga na sad! ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2010, 01:15:27 AM »
Tinuod  na!!  Sige  ta'g  hatag  chance  mosamot  hinuon ka bigaon!!

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2010, 12:43:10 PM »

MISTAKE CAN NEVER BE CORRECTED BY ANOTHER MISTAKE





kani lang title way labut ang unod:

mao ni giingon nga ug laki ang imong problema, laki ra sad ang tambal ana...mao ba nah? aw ehe! hehehe!

asa na gud to si Carmen oi kay maajo to sha aning mga butangan!

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2010, 12:45:28 PM »
(-)(-)=(-)
(+)(-)=(-)
(-)(+)=(-)

asa kaha ang lisud ana???

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2010, 01:03:08 PM »
(-)(-)=(-)
(+)(-)=(-)
(-)(+)=(-)

asa kaha ang lisud ana???


ahahha! gigamitan man ug trigonometry!!! pastilan wrong japun! hahahha!

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #7 on: February 15, 2010, 01:04:10 PM »
Sa kasakit ug kalipay, anaa ang gugma.

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #8 on: February 15, 2010, 01:42:50 PM »
(-)(-)=(-)
(+)(-)=(-)
(-)(+)=(-)

asa kaha ang lisud ana???
correction,
(-)(-) = (+)

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #9 on: February 15, 2010, 01:47:32 PM »
correction,
(-)(-) = (+)

i know...  
it's to check whether people can accept the truth when there are things around them seem right...

most of the time man gud when people say they are "in love", sakto na tanan nilang buhaton bisan sayop.


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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #10 on: February 15, 2010, 03:10:19 PM »
    Mau na ang gitawag jas....LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES!

       maski wrong          : mahimong right 8) 8) 8)
       makakita man unta : mahimong buta.  :D :D :D
       walang wala         : magpakanaa :-\ :-\ :-\
       

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #11 on: February 15, 2010, 03:11:41 PM »
    Mau na ang gitawag jas....LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES!

       maski wrong          : mahimong right 8) 8) 8)
       makakita man unta : mahimong buta.  :D :D :D
       walang wala         : magpakanaa :-\ :-\ :-\
       

which shouldn't be...

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« Reply #12 on: February 15, 2010, 04:21:32 PM »
which shouldn't be...

    KOREK KA DYAN!

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« Reply #13 on: February 16, 2010, 01:49:35 PM »
She was in dire need of affection from her husband, but
     her husband was giving it to another woman.
Then she fall into the trap of a married man, well,
    love is not the same as lust.

Trouble is coming with a capital T!
 

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« Reply #14 on: February 16, 2010, 02:03:06 PM »
This is not love. This is lust.



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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #15 on: February 16, 2010, 04:18:55 PM »
This scenario reminds me of a romantic-comedy film I've seen couple of days ago titled 'Serious Moonlight' co-stars Meg Ryan as Louise, a successful career woman who is about to be divorced by his husband Timmy (played by??). Timmy is about to leave to Paris together with a young and pretty receptionist he met in his office whom he plans to propose marriage after his planned divorce with Louise. Louise came home unexpectedly and caught Tim by surprised where the latter admitted about his plan to divorce the former. Louise after knowing Tim's plan restrained him in a toilet sit with a duct tape. In an effort to convince Tim to let go of his plan of divorce, Louise reminisced their marriage's good-old days, playing their marriage videos and photos on the projector, playing their wedding song and all that stuff to win her husband back. But to no avail, Tim slowly unravels reason of his leaving her—insecurities. Louise has a better and high paying job than him; she can outdo him in all of their arguments; she can do almost every handy-job in the house that Tim can't. Worse, she can even do more bench press than Tim. When Tim asked Louise to let go of him for he's no use to her Louise replied, "I WON'T."

When Louise knew that Tim is decided not to change his mind about his plan, she left him in the house, still taped in a toilet sit to ask for help from his friends who played robbers and at some point sex predator. Louise, pretending to be unaware of the planned robbery was hog-tied and was put inside the bathroom aimlessly together with Tim who was still duct-taped in the toilet sit. There, Tim started to feel concern about the safety of Louise that at one point, he got the ire of the sex predator when he prevented him from sexually molesting the lifeless-like state of Louise. When they were left alone, Tim started to loosen up and feel sorry about dragging Louise's life to mess. He talks to the pretending-to-be lifeless Louise laying on the floor and unraveling his hang-ups about their marriage life. He talks about how he was ignored by Louise and the lack of connection and communication between the two of them. Tim wanted to talk to him about her day in the office, what she thinks about his plan to shift a career or about his plan to resign from the job and start his own company.  But to no avail for she was busy in her career.

Case in Point

Apart from love and trust, communication is always the key to every relationship. Regardless of the number of times we say “I Love you" to our spouse; how many chocolates and flowers we gave to our spouse, nothing beats the power of a healthy communication. Sometimes, we under estimate the importance of communication and replaced it with other ways we thought could compensate for the lack of communication that often resulting to a disaster, similar to the story in this film. However, there are those who communicate but are only after what he or she wants to say but is not ready to hear or listen to what the other party wanted to say. Worse, sarcasm and hurting words replaces what could have been a simple and casual chats. When we criticize without understanding we express only our own personal feelings and that is selfish thinking. We must remember that listening is the most effective way of communication and it goes without saying that when you listen, you are making the other person feel important. When we listen, we should do it not with one but two ears and that is love expressed by means of communication through active listening because when you joined both ears together it will form a heart shape like image. Isn’t it?


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« Reply #16 on: February 16, 2010, 05:38:08 PM »
"Don't  frown even if  you're  sad  because  you  don't  know  who  is  falling  in  love  with  your  SMILE."

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2010, 01:34:29 AM »
I second the motion. Tinuod jud na. (Gotta rent that movie, na bitin ko dah!) hahaha

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Re: Right Love at the Wrong Time is still Wrong
« Reply #18 on: February 17, 2010, 02:24:31 AM »
It's  my  kind  of movie  cuz  I  like  Chick Flicks...yeah! RedBox  here  I  come..

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« Reply #19 on: February 17, 2010, 08:24:58 AM »
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« Reply #20 on: February 17, 2010, 12:40:14 PM »
sorry, medyo bitin yung story plot ko :)but anyway, since some of you will watch the whole movie anyway, i will not reveal the story's ending so as not to spoil the story plot (though my synopsis contains some spoilers already, anyways, happy viewing :)

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« Reply #21 on: February 17, 2010, 02:20:49 PM »
Yes, pls keep  it  for  us  to discover.. ;D

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