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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #20 on: August 24, 2009, 08:13:44 PM »
Many foreigner guys are ugly who come here looking for love and some are on fixed income due to being clinically diagnosed as manic depressed. They receive what we call an SSI if they found unable to work do to non curable chemical imbalances in the head.

Some of these ugly old foreigner look for love but others look for a slave or a maid. this is my feeling after I spoke some of them in Philippines.

And as well some behaved so arrogant in philippines. I was really ashamed even if I am not from their country but because the people would think I am like them just cause I am not pinoy :)

Best regards :)

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #21 on: August 24, 2009, 08:53:49 PM »
Also women here need not fall for a man who is a reject amongst his own race back in his own country.

Some of these ugly old foreigner look for love but others look for a slave or a maid. this is my feeling after I spoke some of them in Philippines.

And as well some behaved so arrogant in philippines. I was really ashamed even if I am not from their country but because the people would think I am like them just cause I am not pinoy :)

Best regards :)

Sorry I can't help chiming in. Yes, sad to say, most of these old ugly foreigners are losers in their home country. And many of them are sick (not ill, but really sick, as in sicko). 




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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #22 on: August 24, 2009, 09:28:24 PM »
Any men who hold a decent job,had good financial stability no matter what race is a good candidate to be a good husband. Foreigner had good standing chance being chosen by filipina over most Filipino whom  just set around,live with parents, don't wanna work and acting immature.
Old men whom in disabilities check or SSI,bum men, men with no real job have no business in marrying someone unless he can provide for his family.
I agree with Pricilla that lot's of foreigners (old,fat,bald and ugly, on disabilities) marry a young hot chick Filipina. Can't blame them. The filipina want money and maybe love while the foreigner want a trophy wife or he wanna relive his youth by having hot chick with him all the time. Beside it's a cheaper way to live in Philippines so better get a filipina wife so be easy to move there and live like a king on fixed income.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #23 on: August 24, 2009, 10:21:06 PM »
ang uban, money o convenience una, then love na.

ang uban, love una, then money na sunod.

palehola   ;D

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #24 on: August 24, 2009, 11:15:38 PM »
The truth is that there are friends and foes in both sides and is the people who has to check who is the real person they are with :) . If they do not do it then later they shouldn´t say "All filipinas marry for money" or "all foreigners etc etc :P"

The problem is old men the most part of the times go to easy women or cheap women as my gf says :D
And if they do not get along in europe or usa with that kind of girls why they do that there or worse with "professionals" and marry them.

Later they will blame all the women there cause they were acting brainless, and we have the topic "all filipinas marry foreigners for money" :D :P

If they act stupid they should blame themselfs, not others :)

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #25 on: August 25, 2009, 04:57:18 AM »
Well in my opinion I think I know now how to detect a "bad" filipina or a good one. I think is too obvious when a filipina is just there for money but some foreigners (overall the ones that marry bar girls ¬¬) seem blind.

I think with an easy check they could know if she is clean or not but I do not know why they do not do them. They just say "no she is not like the others"

I am 25 yo. My gf is 23 yo, she is filipina and lives in Cebu. We never were interested in each other, all that happened between us was unnespected for both of us.
She earns the minimum filipino wage right now.

I do not send her money and she never asked me for a peso even beeing there.

I told her I won´t marry soon that I need years before that and she didn´t go for other one.

She expends money from her little wage to call me to my spanish mobile and never told me to payback.

She is not interested in come to europe by the moment. She seems happy with her life and she says me "I am poor but I am happy here"

She refused from me a work I found to her in call center with more money by far than her current wage. Her reason was that in that work she would earn more money but she won´t have a good shift to chat to me cause of the difference of time.

She doesn´t know how much I earn and never asked about it.

Even earning only the minimum wage she has spent quite amount in things for me (unexpected presents overall)

Even borrowing her my old laptop that is not brand new by far (5 years old) she seemed the happiest person in the world and never requested me to buy a brand new one as others do.

She knows I am not looking a future house wife to maintain and that she will have to work as well as me.

When we started to break ice between us she told me what she likes to do when she is on spare time and I found was exactly what I like but I never told her I liked those things.

I think these all signs are good so I think I am safe with her.

Obviously maybe for me is different cause I am young and not and old man. But if people there would think with the brain instead of the ..... hehehe (sorry I did not know other way to explain it) then in some time nobody will hear again "filipinas marry foreigners for money" cause those girls wouldn´t have a chance.

A scammer or a filipina that is looking for money or leaving the country will hurry in all (soon request money for any reason, when is the visa ready, when will you marry me? etc etc) all this things happen in a short time the most and in a medium time in the rest but they show their real face soon :)

This is my opinion of this :P

About why a filipina gf. I wasn´t looking for it. It all happened by surprise.
But I like how she is. How she treat me. And I like her cause she likes the same things I like so we enjoy together always.

Take care all :P

Regards from Spain

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Hope your stay el Las Filipinas was great!
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Regards, amigo!

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #26 on: August 25, 2009, 08:10:33 AM »
Though the title is a stereo-type, tunnel vision  
   in categorizing  all Filipinas that  are married to
   foreigners, remind you that for every rule
   there's always an exception.

Everybody have their own reasons; in my case
  puro dimalas akong  mga pinoys nga nauyab sa
  una ug  ang pinakadimalas  kay kining particular
  nga pinoy grabe ko nga pagka in love niya gani
  ni attempt ko ug hikog pagbuwag namo
  kay nakakita siyag laing mahal. Pulos mga
  palikero, pasikat kinsay pinakadaghan ug uyab,
  walay mga batikun...aw kasingkasing diay.

Then I realized, alkanse ko, siya malipayon sa
   bag-ong mahal unya ako kaonon lang sa wati....

I closed my ears and changed my heart, basin kon
  sa foreigner  makakita kog tinood magmahal nako
   and I was succesful: I have a good career, a
   man that loves me and most of all I'm here in
   a greener pasture as they say, so pinays...you go
   girls.....
My husband says that, he could never ask for
   another pinay; since I'm a Registered nurse,
   Accounting degree from the Philippines,
    a cook, a gardener and a dressmaker.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #27 on: August 25, 2009, 08:20:20 AM »
Though the title is a stereo-type, tunnel vision 
   in categorizing  all Filipinas that  are married to
   foreigners, remind you that for every rule
   there's always an exception.

Everybody have their own reasons; in my case
  puro dimalas akong  mga pinoys nga nauyab sa
  una ug  ang pinakadimalas  kay kining particular
  nga pinoy grabe ko nga pagka in love niya but
  ni attempt ko ug hikog pagbuwag namo
  kay nakakita siyag laing mahal.

Then I realized, alkanse ko, siya malipayon sa
   bag-ong mahal unya ako kaonon lang sa wati....

I closed my ears and changed my heart, basin kon
  sa foreigner  makakita kog tinood magmahal nako
   and I was succesful: I have a good career, a
   man that loves me and most of all I'm here in
   a greener pasture as they say, so pinays...you go
   girls.....
My husband says that, he could never ask for
   another pinay; since I'm a Registered nurse,
   Accounting degree from the Philippines,
    a cook, a gardener and a dressmaker.

asa ra sila ana? Pinays are great lovers. Faithful lovers.


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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #28 on: August 25, 2009, 08:20:33 AM »
Para sa mga Pinay, money first, the love. If love is not developed, then divorce.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #29 on: August 25, 2009, 10:22:14 AM »
Para sa mga Pinay, money first, the love. If love is not developed, then divorce.

He he, mora diayg photographic film. Kon ma-expose unja dili mo-develop, diskasi... :)

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #30 on: August 25, 2009, 10:27:13 AM »
why is it always associated with 'money' when we choose to be with a foreigner. we all deserve to be with someone regardless of race and nationality, someone who will love us, understand and care.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #31 on: August 25, 2009, 10:41:27 AM »
Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #32 on: August 25, 2009, 12:11:43 PM »
Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

hoy mga minjo, ug minjoon, paminaw mo ni Brod. Bene. basaha ni.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #33 on: August 25, 2009, 12:20:34 PM »
Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.


nice kaayu sir... tama gyud ka...salamat kay naa nako guide kung sure na ba ko or dili hehehehehe

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #34 on: August 25, 2009, 03:09:31 PM »
why is it always associated with 'money' when we choose to be with a foreigner. we all deserve to be with someone regardless of race and nationality, someone who will love us, understand and care.

The same reason as lot of people in pinas thing we have a tree in our house that grows lot of money every day and we are all rich when the reality is far from that. ;)

Just topics as always. :)

I met lot of filipinas married to husbands that were living on the edge all the months so I think they were not chasing money :)

I hate that just cause I am with a filipina gf all the people have to think she is looking for money. She doesn´t like that neither she is always worried of "what the people could think of her" but well she showed me she is good like the most part of the filipinas.

But as always a little bad people do more noise than a huge amount of good ones, just be careful and select with who you are  :)

Regards

Como Estas?!

Hope your stay el Las Filipinas was great!
:)

Regards, amigo!

Yeah I had fun. Was better than I expected by far. I will go back again in November another 21 days :P

I was in your town in the springs :P

See you  ;D

Regards



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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #35 on: August 25, 2009, 03:40:23 PM »
Keko am happy you visited my beloved Valencia!

:)

Hopefully I can meet you in Spain.

I wish to visit Mother Spain someday.

Viva! :)

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #36 on: August 25, 2009, 04:19:01 PM »
Keko am happy you visited my beloved Valencia!

:)

Hopefully I can meet you in Spain.

I wish to visit Mother Spain someday.

Viva! :)

hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops" :)

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasn´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards


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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #37 on: August 25, 2009, 04:21:51 PM »
mao jod sir bene,mag inono ngay jod.moingon man ako bana nga binsa unsa ang mga pag suway ninjo mag asawa,og nagmahalan daw,tanan malusu




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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #38 on: August 25, 2009, 04:44:07 PM »
hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops" :)

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasn´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards


Glad to know you had fun. Did you take pictures?

I hope you visited the Church in Valencia. Its so beautiful...

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #39 on: August 25, 2009, 04:49:50 PM »
Really I do not have a lot of pictures. some in Sagbayan peak. Some in Panglao. Some in Chocolate hills, some in Loboc and some random. I am not good with pics :P I do not like them a lot. I am not the kind of tourist that goes with a cam in the hand all the time :P-

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