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Title: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on February 04, 2009, 01:08:30 PM
Filipinas marry foreigners for money not love
CHERYL ARCIBAL, GMANews.TV
02/03/2009 |

MANILA, Philippines- The inability of the Philippine economy to produce high-paying jobs especially for women has pushed Filipinos to marry foreigners as a way to provide for their families, the study Country Gender Assessment by regional lender Asian Development Bank said.

The number of Filipinos marrying foreigners have also tripled in just a span of eight years from 7,819 in 1998 to 24,954 in 2006.

It is also estimated that currently, 300,000 Filipinos, 92 percent of whom are women, are married to foreigners mainly from the United States, Japan, Canada, the United Kingdom and South Korea.

"(I)n the Philippines (as elsewhere), the phenomenon of 'mail order brides' is not uncommon. In the absence of employment prospects and with families to care for, many women view marrying a foreigner as an easy ticket to an overseas life with steady remittances. With the advent of the Internet, chat rooms, and text messaging the marriage migration numbers are on the rise," the ADB said.

Data from The Commission on Filipinos Overseas showed that Filipino women marrying men from East Asian countries tend to be younger and less educated. These foreign men also usually are at least 40 years older than their Filipino brides.

"Reports indicate that more women apply for 'marriage visas' to Japan as a result of Japan reducing its official demand for entertainers," ADB said.

In 2005 Japan has imposed a stricter immigration policy following Tokyo's inclusion in a US watchlist of high incidence of human smuggling.

ADB said Manila should undertake measures to protect Filipino women as those who marry foreigners that they do not know face enormous risks.

"Many of the men live in remote areas and are unsuccessful with women from their own culture, who they feel are spoiled and have too many freedoms. Instead, they want women with 'traditional' family values who, once in the country, have nowhere to turn and are completely at their mercy," ADB said.

Among the recommendations of the ADB was to tap remittances from overseas Filipinos for productive investment and sustainable livelihood opportunities for women so that migration becomes a choice rather than a necessity.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on February 04, 2009, 01:23:37 PM
Where I am, in Japan, most anecdotal evidences seem to support this claim. Even now, my hands are tied up to the drafting and translation of postnuptial agreement on division of Philippine properties between a 66-year old Japanese and his 28-year old Filipina wife who first came to me practically jumping at each other's throat as they hurled accusations against each other.

Since 1995, Filipinas marrying Japanese have topped 7000 every year but close to half of these marriages end up in divorce. Tsk, tsk...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on February 04, 2009, 01:40:11 PM
dili man tingali tanan...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on February 04, 2009, 02:27:09 PM
Noting against this at all. This is another manifest of Globalization, and the humanistic intrinsic need to search for greener pastures.

Europeans immigrated abroad in the 19th century and early 20th century to the United States as well as to Canada--for exactly the same reasons: Greener Pastures.

If anything, the fact that foreign men are preferring to marry Filipina women speaks wonders for the Filipina. And it honors the generalization of her being:
a) Hardworking
b) Loyal
c) Family-oriented
d) Religious
e) Patient
 f) Intelligent

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: A Layman on February 04, 2009, 03:30:03 PM
My niece went to Japan the first time in 1986 as a cultural dancer, a time when our country experienced economic set backs under Cory. The obvious reason was to look for a greener pasture. A year after, she was on vacation with her 50 yo Japanese suitor. The Jap built her a house in the province and entrusted her money to convince her about his marriage proposal. She was not inclined to marry that Jap because of age gap. She was still 18 yo that time. When she went back their relationship broke up and she found another Jap slightly older that she was. They got married here in our country and bore two children. The younger Jap was an ordinary employee whose income was much lesser than what my niece had. So this negates the presumption that she married the younger Jap for greener pasture. Lately, the marriage broke up when my niece was in vacation, because the Jap couldn't return anymore the money he borrowed from my niece. He left their home without even notifying her wife why and where? Only then when the authorities traced this person that he returned to their home and opened a divorce proposal to his wife because of the irresponsibilities he had. Now they are already separated and still my niece with her two grown up kids are staying in Japan, still enjoying their lives there. But, he lived unhappily ever after.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: fdaray on February 04, 2009, 03:45:53 PM
Some Pinays marry foreigners just for money. Loves develop when there is money.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bad Godesberg on February 04, 2009, 07:41:46 PM
If money talks  ??? ??? ???  everybody listen, di ba !

but not all because of money! not everything on earth is money.
dili baya mapalit tanan sa kuwarta ang atong kalipay.

depende sa situasyon ang kaminyoon ay sagrado ug dili kini tiaw tiawan ug kung tao nahuna huna sa iyang future ay mahimo pod nga magminyo siya ug naahan
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+JLY
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Scarb on August 23, 2009, 06:54:08 AM
 mao gyud dili tanan..depende

naay cases nga tungod daw kay pang papel (staying permit) ???
apan di ikalimod nga naa pod uban tungod kay nagkasinabot
ug nagkahigugmaay aye ;)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 23, 2009, 07:32:08 AM
STEREOTYPING i could say.

dili tanan oi! Pero ug ang uban nga mao ilang purpose to marry foreigner, i dont care. I still salute them kay di baya tingali lalim maminyo ka or mo dulog ka ug tawo nga wa ka ganahi.

I overstayed in the US for more than a decade pero i never think of marrying para maka papel kay wa jud ko kakita ug lalaki nga akong giganahan. ( I even thought i was a lesbian  ;D  ;D  ;D ) Mao nga kadtong nangamenyo para maka datung ug maka papel, I RESPECTED YOUR DECISIONS peeps SALUDO JUD KO NINYO and more power! (ayaw lang usba inyung kinaija ha? labi na tong nakabana ug MADATUNG?)

peez!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: janjan on August 23, 2009, 08:56:10 AM
ay di gud tanan ako nailad na ko pinoy
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on August 23, 2009, 09:35:54 AM
depende god pod na.moingon nga money ra ngano adto pamas foreigner nga naa may pinoy nga mapera pod.namenyo sila kay sa mga foreigner kay maoy ilang naswerte
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 23, 2009, 09:38:58 AM
Could be true pero dili tanan. Ug moingon man gud ta tanan filipina nagmenyo ug foreigner kwarta ray gihigugma nag generalize na ta ani. Ang assumption man gud sa uban ingkalit ra ka ug menyo sa lalaki nga wa nimo nakita pero this is not true. Mostly namenyo ug foriegner bisan unsa pa na nga means sila nagkaila penpal,personal introduction by family member or sa chat ing undergo na sila ug getting to know each other wala man na sila mohamag rag menyo. Plus ang paper works lang gani sa pag obtain ug visa dili lalim i scrutinize ka ug maayo unsa jud ka true imong purpose ug intention  ug tinuod ba mong naghinigugmaay. Ug nagmenyo man gani ang filipina nga walay gugma sa gimenyuan nga banyaga 100 percent sure ko kining bayhana way kalipay.

In my case yes tinuod namenyo ko ug foreigner pero dili gyud money akong number one intention.Ipokrita ko ug moingon ko nga wa na maapil, kinsa bay gusto nato magmenyo ug magkalisod lisod wala di ba. Ug smart ka nga babae usa na ang financial stability inig mamenyo ka sa imong wish.

Gamay pa jud ko gusto na ko mamenyo ug caucasian. Unya sa nadaga na kong hingkod kay wa may nanguyab nako mao nakaingon jud ko sa ahong kaugalingon Patay candidate jud ko ani sa dagang bakot.Mao ingbalik to ahong hilig ug foreigner. Ug gusto pa jud ko magmenyo ug kwarta gipili siguro nako ang doctor ug attorney. First jud nakong gibati aning akong nabana karon kalooy kay sa iyang profile iyang giingon kay Farm Laborer ra daw siya.Akong hunahuna nga pareha sa laborer sa atua. Good Catholic sad siya maoy akong gipangita sa laki unya kalooy ang nga dili ning akong bana makakita ug pangasaw on kay lagi laborer ra mao akong gisuwatan. Napuno baya ko ug biay biay sa akong mga kauban sa trabaho sa una kay bu**** kono ko nganong ang farm laborer gipili nga naay daghan daw kwartahan.Gisungog pa ko nila nga nakita na daw nila akong future naglukdo ug mais unja naay daghan bata nagsunod. Ingtuo gyud ko pag ayo sa akong nabana nga farm laborer ra siya mao shocking kaayo pag abot nako diri ultimo iyang chicken shade mas nindot pa sa among balay hahahah. As in low kaayo akong expectation sa akong nabana. Murag nailad lagi ko kay gipili nako siya kay abi naho pareha ming way nahot naunsa tag ija man diay ug farm. Kining akong case mo prove jud ko ani nga dili money ug greener pasture akong motive kundi true love kay very low kaayo akong expectation.Bahala na ug pobre akong bana basta relihiyoso mao na akong permi sulti.

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Brownman on August 23, 2009, 09:43:35 AM
as for now it's very practical coz di ka kalihuk ug wa tay kwarta
ma o lagi gui ingun nga no money no honey!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 23, 2009, 10:44:12 AM

Nakatan-aw ko one time og ducumentary about Filipina wives of Korean farmers. Luoy kaajo kay kasagaran nila nakalitan sa treatment nga ilang nadawat. Nihit man kunog mga babaye didto, unja ang mga farmers nangitag mapangasawa for sex, companionship and free labor. Dihay gi-interview (several of them Bisaya ang pinulongan) nga nagmahay intawon kay kuwang in terms of companionship pero bugbog sarado in terms of sex and free labor. 
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 23, 2009, 11:13:12 AM
Kasagaran namenyo ug Korean kay mao man siguro ni result sa matching matching ni Moon bitaw kanang gitawag nila ug Moon mass wedding bale naa ni siya unification church. Na schock bitaw ko katong nagpastamp ko sa una sa DFA before ta mo out sa country mosiminar man anang CFO perti kadaghan pinay namenyo ug Korean ug mao lagi daw ni matching matching ra daw sila nagkaila uban gani wa nila ma meet ilang bana ba to.Mao ni hadlok ug klaro kaayo motive.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Koddi Prudente on August 23, 2009, 11:49:29 AM
Money and/or love. Both reasons. Pero wala tay figures kon pila ang naminyo mainly for money or mainly for love. Ang mas importante kon unsay nahitabo sa pagpanglabay sa panahon. Kon giunsa nila pagmatuto ang kinabuhing minyo ug giunsa nila pagpadaku ang ilang mga anak.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 23, 2009, 12:26:32 PM
Moderno na man ni nga notion, marrying for love. For centuries love was never part of the equation. Nahimuot bitaw ko sa ahong nabalitaan about Germany several years ago, nga dihay question about arranged marriages between aging Indian women and young German men. Investigations revealed that the consideration for marriage was the acquisition of German citizenship. The Indians paid a lot of money. The couples would divorce right after the objective was achieved. (I've been told that an enterprising young man married this way three times before he turned 30, and made a lot of money.) The courts ruled that there is nothing in the law that required love as a prerequisite for marriage. As long as the bride and groom have all the qualifications and none of the disqualifications, they can marry under German law. Ambot lang kaha kon nagsigi pa ba ni nga practice didto.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 23, 2009, 12:59:39 PM
Sakto ka Koddi. Pero mostly jud sa nagmenyo ug money ang reason way kahapsay ang pamuyo ug kinabuhing menyo mao ni moresulta magbulag. Naa koy sister inlaw(ex na karon) Ang adopted brother sa akong bana namenyo ug filipina mas una pa sila namo ug kamenyo.Karon nag ingon ni nako ang filipina before mi naabot diri nga mao kono nagmenyo siya sa igsoon sa akong bana kay aron maabot diri sa america aron makapangita ug trabaho aron makatabang sa pamilya. Tinuod gyud iyang sulti kay pag abot diri namugos jud siya mangita ug trabaho bisan dili gusto ang bana kay kaigo baya ila income nila. Pila ka tuig gi divorce gyud niya ang igsoon sa akong bana. Very unhappy iyang marriage the whole time daghan siya complain.Kung kami pasultion wala baya silay problema unta pero siya ang nagbuhat problema bunga ni sa bad intention niya nagmenyo in the first place sa tawong wala siyay gugma. Sa una favorite siya sa akong mother inlaw na feel gyud to nako hehehe then iya giaway among inlaws gipasanginlan nga gi spoil kono nila ang iya bana. Na branded nuon to siya sa akong inlaws ug materialistic kay bisan unsay gusto dapat matuman gyud. Permi siya naa sa disco ug daghan barkada. Kas a nagvisit mi nila sa kansas inay mang disco mi kay inglugsong lagi kono ko didto taga bukid mao iya unta ko dalhon disco naunsa ba didto man nuon mi sa hospital nag overnight kay nag comvulsion akong anak.Wa jud to itugot sa kahitas an siguro. Akoy nasayang sa kamenyuon nilang giusikan. Namenyo na akong ex sisterinlaw ug balik one month human siya na divorce.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 24, 2009, 06:43:58 PM
Well in my opinion I think I know now how to detect a "bad" filipina or a good one. I think is too obvious when a filipina is just there for money but some foreigners (overall the ones that marry bar girls ¬¬) seem blind.

I think with an easy check they could know if she is clean or not but I do not know why they do not do them. They just say "no she is not like the others"

I am 25 yo. My gf is 23 yo, she is filipina and lives in Cebu. We never were interested in each other, all that happened between us was unnespected for both of us.
She earns the minimum filipino wage right now.

I do not send her money and she never asked me for a peso even beeing there.

I told her I won´t marry soon that I need years before that and she didn´t go for other one.

She expends money from her little wage to call me to my spanish mobile and never told me to payback.

She is not interested in come to europe by the moment. She seems happy with her life and she says me "I am poor but I am happy here"

She refused from me a work I found to her in call center with more money by far than her current wage. Her reason was that in that work she would earn more money but she won´t have a good shift to chat to me cause of the difference of time.

She doesn´t know how much I earn and never asked about it.

Even earning only the minimum wage she has spent quite amount in things for me (unexpected presents overall)

Even borrowing her my old laptop that is not brand new by far (5 years old) she seemed the happiest person in the world and never requested me to buy a brand new one as others do.

She knows I am not looking a future house wife to maintain and that she will have to work as well as me.

When we started to break ice between us she told me what she likes to do when she is on spare time and I found was exactly what I like but I never told her I liked those things.

I think these all signs are good so I think I am safe with her.

Obviously maybe for me is different cause I am young and not and old man. But if people there would think with the brain instead of the ..... hehehe (sorry I did not know other way to explain it) then in some time nobody will hear again "filipinas marry foreigners for money" cause those girls wouldn´t have a chance.

A scammer or a filipina that is looking for money or leaving the country will hurry in all (soon request money for any reason, when is the visa ready, when will you marry me? etc etc) all this things happen in a short time the most and in a medium time in the rest but they show their real face soon :)

This is my opinion of this :P

About why a filipina gf. I wasn´t looking for it. It all happened by surprise.
But I like how she is. How she treat me. And I like her cause she likes the same things I like so we enjoy together always.

Take care all :P

Regards from Spain
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: thegirlnextdoor on August 24, 2009, 07:44:07 PM
It seems we have some change of mind in here from something sort of simliar that I had posted in Expats thread in Tubag.

I do recall many Filipina women in here got really irked off when I had brought this topic up in the past.

As for older men marrying younger aged girls as they say one foot on the bannana peel and one foot on the grave!

As for the part about Good Filipina versus versus gold digger bad girl types yea men should really do they're homework first and not be so blind about chosing the right descent woman here.

Also women here need not fall for a man who is a reject amongst his own race back in his own country.

Many foreigner guys are ugly who come here looking for love and some are on fixed income due to being clinically diagnosed as manic depressed. They receive what we call an SSI if they found unable to work do to non curable chemical imbalances in the head.

These are normally the type of guys who come here. I know plenty foreigner men and most want to play around and not be serious.

There are also really good foreigner men who come here also.

Lorenzo I do not totally agree with you that all Filipina woman or any other women are all those positive characteristics that you have mentioned above.

No one is perfect.

I respect the rights of everyone's feelings and opinions on this topic and look at it from all angles especially as the islands spokesperson on Bohol Expats.

Most the men are not shy to talk about how they treat women and how women treat them.
Its hard being the only foreign female in the group of a bunch of horny and finatic foreigner men who are ga ga ga over Pinay!


LOL! :D  



Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 24, 2009, 08:13:44 PM

Some of these ugly old foreigner look for love but others look for a slave or a maid. this is my feeling after I spoke some of them in Philippines.

And as well some behaved so arrogant in philippines. I was really ashamed even if I am not from their country but because the people would think I am like them just cause I am not pinoy :)

Best regards :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 24, 2009, 08:53:49 PM


Sorry I can't help chiming in. Yes, sad to say, most of these old ugly foreigners are losers in their home country. And many of them are sick (not ill, but really sick, as in sicko). 


Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 24, 2009, 09:28:24 PM
Any men who hold a decent job,had good financial stability no matter what race is a good candidate to be a good husband. Foreigner had good standing chance being chosen by filipina over most Filipino whom  just set around,live with parents, don't wanna work and acting immature.
Old men whom in disabilities check or SSI,bum men, men with no real job have no business in marrying someone unless he can provide for his family.
I agree with Pricilla that lot's of foreigners (old,fat,bald and ugly, on disabilities) marry a young hot chick Filipina. Can't blame them. The filipina want money and maybe love while the foreigner want a trophy wife or he wanna relive his youth by having hot chick with him all the time. Beside it's a cheaper way to live in Philippines so better get a filipina wife so be easy to move there and live like a king on fixed income.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on August 24, 2009, 10:21:06 PM
ang uban, money o convenience una, then love na.

ang uban, love una, then money na sunod.

palehola   ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 24, 2009, 11:15:38 PM
The truth is that there are friends and foes in both sides and is the people who has to check who is the real person they are with :) . If they do not do it then later they shouldn´t say "All filipinas marry for money" or "all foreigners etc etc :P"

The problem is old men the most part of the times go to easy women or cheap women as my gf says :D
And if they do not get along in europe or usa with that kind of girls why they do that there or worse with "professionals" and marry them.

Later they will blame all the women there cause they were acting brainless, and we have the topic "all filipinas marry foreigners for money" :D :P

If they act stupid they should blame themselfs, not others :)

Regards :P

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on August 25, 2009, 04:57:18 AM

Como Estas?!

Hope your stay el Las Filipinas was great!
:)

Regards, amigo!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: statesville on August 25, 2009, 08:10:33 AM
Though the title is a stereo-type, tunnel vision  
   in categorizing  all Filipinas that  are married to
   foreigners, remind you that for every rule
   there's always an exception.

Everybody have their own reasons; in my case
  puro dimalas akong  mga pinoys nga nauyab sa
  una ug  ang pinakadimalas  kay kining particular
  nga pinoy grabe ko nga pagka in love niya gani
  ni attempt ko ug hikog pagbuwag namo
  kay nakakita siyag laing mahal. Pulos mga
  palikero, pasikat kinsay pinakadaghan ug uyab,
  walay mga batikun...aw kasingkasing diay.

Then I realized, alkanse ko, siya malipayon sa
   bag-ong mahal unya ako kaonon lang sa wati....

I closed my ears and changed my heart, basin kon
  sa foreigner  makakita kog tinood magmahal nako
   and I was succesful: I have a good career, a
   man that loves me and most of all I'm here in
   a greener pasture as they say, so pinays...you go
   girls.....
My husband says that, he could never ask for
   another pinay; since I'm a Registered nurse,
   Accounting degree from the Philippines,
    a cook, a gardener and a dressmaker.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on August 25, 2009, 08:20:20 AM

asa ra sila ana? Pinays are great lovers. Faithful lovers.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: fdaray on August 25, 2009, 08:20:33 AM
Para sa mga Pinay, money first, the love. If love is not developed, then divorce.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 25, 2009, 10:22:14 AM

He he, mora diayg photographic film. Kon ma-expose unja dili mo-develop, diskasi... :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 25, 2009, 10:27:13 AM
why is it always associated with 'money' when we choose to be with a foreigner. we all deserve to be with someone regardless of race and nationality, someone who will love us, understand and care.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on August 25, 2009, 10:41:27 AM
Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on August 25, 2009, 12:11:43 PM

hoy mga minjo, ug minjoon, paminaw mo ni Brod. Bene. basaha ni.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lollapalooza on August 25, 2009, 12:20:34 PM


nice kaayu sir... tama gyud ka...salamat kay naa nako guide kung sure na ba ko or dili hehehehehe
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 25, 2009, 03:09:31 PM

The same reason as lot of people in pinas thing we have a tree in our house that grows lot of money every day and we are all rich when the reality is far from that. ;)

Just topics as always. :)

I met lot of filipinas married to husbands that were living on the edge all the months so I think they were not chasing money :)

I hate that just cause I am with a filipina gf all the people have to think she is looking for money. She doesn´t like that neither she is always worried of "what the people could think of her" but well she showed me she is good like the most part of the filipinas.

But as always a little bad people do more noise than a huge amount of good ones, just be careful and select with who you are  :)

Regards


Yeah I had fun. Was better than I expected by far. I will go back again in November another 21 days :P

I was in your town in the springs :P

See you  ;D

Regards

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on August 25, 2009, 03:40:23 PM
Keko am happy you visited my beloved Valencia!

:)

Hopefully I can meet you in Spain.

I wish to visit Mother Spain someday.

Viva! :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 25, 2009, 04:19:01 PM

hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops" :)

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasn´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on August 25, 2009, 04:21:51 PM
mao jod sir bene,mag inono ngay jod.moingon man ako bana nga binsa unsa ang mga pag suway ninjo mag asawa,og nagmahalan daw,tanan malusu


Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on August 25, 2009, 04:44:07 PM

Glad to know you had fun. Did you take pictures?

I hope you visited the Church in Valencia. Its so beautiful...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on August 25, 2009, 04:49:50 PM
Really I do not have a lot of pictures. some in Sagbayan peak. Some in Panglao. Some in Chocolate hills, some in Loboc and some random. I am not good with pics :P I do not like them a lot. I am not the kind of tourist that goes with a cam in the hand all the time :P-

Regards
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on August 25, 2009, 04:51:03 PM
I would have loved to have seen the pictures. :)
Thanks anyways. :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hofelina on August 25, 2009, 04:59:53 PM
Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.


This is a wise posting!  I love your wisdom. ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on August 25, 2009, 05:38:05 PM
Manay Tess,

I've read perhaps a library of books, and attended hundreds of lecture hours up to grad school. But Experience is still the best teacher.

Hangtud ron, estudyante pa gihapon ko sa kaminyuon. All I can say is that even marriages made in heaven have to pass the test of hell.

Kung subayon nato ang metaphor sa pagsakay sa bus, didto sa kinalibaongan nga dalan angay magkuptanay ug ayo, as in holding hands gyud aron di mahagbong. Ug mupili lang ka'g hanoy nga dalan, pangturista lang ang pag-ipon nga gusto nimo. The patchy, rough roads are the real test of your union.

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.[/i]

This is a wise posting!  I love your wisdom. ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 25, 2009, 07:36:17 PM
Looy jud ning Filipina kay ug magmenyo ug foreigner ingnon kwarta ray gimenyuan,unya ug mamili pud tag abroad sa atua ug kwatahan ug kagikan mao gihapon ingnon kwarta ray giapas. Pastilan asa naman ta ani molugar.
Ang importante para nako nga bahala ug walay motuo nako unsa akong gugma sa akong bana nag uros uros permi heheheh basta importante ako ray nasayod ug akong bana sa among paghinigugmaay diin nagbunga ug daghan bata ug hilabihang kalipay sa pagpamuyo.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 25, 2009, 09:53:27 PM
It's a nice thing for a marriage to last. A golden wedding anniversary is no doubt an amazing feat. If a man and a woman truly love each other and wish to live together forever, each one growing stronger in close physical and emotional proximity to the other, well and good. But the focus should be the welfare of the persons involved, not the definition of the tie that binds them. Indeed, it's more desirable to have the human beings brought together by marriage to survive as persons, as individuals, whole and wholesome, with their faculties intact, with the smile of insouciance neatly framed by the wrinkles of experience. There's no greater hypocrisy than presenting a marriage as apparently intact, happy and strong for all and sundry to admire, and yet with the principals involved therein wallowing in self-loathing and despair, cursing each other and God and God knows who else, only because church and society would remind them time and again that they don't have option to be honest in their fallibility.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 25, 2009, 09:58:02 PM



Korek Kel, we dont have to live in accordance with other people's opinion or what people think! kay ug sila atong pa but-on na unsa na kaha sad ta ron.

Naa sad unta question nga Nganong ang mga Tawo sa Ato Are More worried about what other people think?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on August 25, 2009, 10:27:05 PM
Again this is just other people's trivial exercise of opinion. who cared when one made that decision and trudged the rather slippery road of a relationship with somebody they barely knew--or at least they just met in the Net or whatever?

now that they've thrived and flourished with all the struggles and risks, for love and being loved, do you think it still matters what others think?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 25, 2009, 10:32:28 PM
What really matter to me now is your nice beard! hahahahha! huy ka gwapo ba nimo abata ka! hahahhah!

Ikaw na Glace??? Ug kana jud noon nawonga makig penpal nako sa suwat o internet,  mo sugot jud ko! hahahahahhah
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: jamo2x on August 25, 2009, 10:40:09 PM
nahimo na man gud ning komedja sa ato ron labi na sa mga babae nga hilig mag chat para mangitag 3Ms...Matandang Mayaman madaling Mamatay, aw 4Ms na man diay.

og tigulang na ang ma asawa og masakiton pa jud, lisod na jud tuohan nga nahigugma ang baje sa tigulang nga laki...di na pud nato ma 'deny' ni kay makita man nato sa mga malls, mga young girls kauban ilang mga senior nga foreigner BF o hubby.

mao na gani na cge ingon sa ahong mga amigang chix, 'pangitae kog 3Ms dha sa merika beh'  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 25, 2009, 10:41:52 PM


Like Nicole Smith? unsa man ang ika 4M Jams? naa ba gud na?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: jamo2x on August 25, 2009, 10:53:26 PM

hehehe kato gud, Matandang Mayaman Madaling Mamatay, pero 3Ms (Mayaman Madaling Mamatay) man ang na uso sa ato gud.

hehehe naa baya ko auntie biyuda nah, last yr lng nag pakasal sa iyang BF sa chat taga London, masakiton na sab (hapit na guro ma dedz)

asus niangay baya ang laki sa Dvo, tua ron didto na nag puyo...lipay cguro ang tigulang ky daghn mag bantay sa iya...  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on August 25, 2009, 10:56:04 PM

bawi-bawion na lang kay ABAT na man diay imong panaaw diha. hahahaha
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bambi on August 25, 2009, 11:47:30 PM

Bayat. arang nahong pagka- crush ni Glacier sa iyang avatar ganinang buntag....asa ra ba to?  Pagkagwapo niya...dili ba kaha ni siya apo ni Eddie Garcia?  Kadtong sexbomb actor sa ato.


Hoy Glacier aron mi malipay diri, hala ibalik tong imong black and white avatar. okey?  PLEASE!   Mao ni among TB inspiration diri. 
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 12:29:17 AM

nawa na sad! shalan gud ni oi!

hard to get jud si Glacier Bayat!!!

hahahhah!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Scarb on August 26, 2009, 03:59:09 AM
ada oroy sigeg atiman ana mga yawit sa uban
mano ba siin unsa naa sa ila huna huna
sila bay gikatipon?

whatever reason,situation,tumong ug tinguha ug unsa pana diha
sa mga kababaihan natong Pinay nga nakapakner ug engkanto
mao gyud na ang gitawag nga swerte?
fate, destiny   blah blah   bow  !
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 04:03:08 AM

ENGKANTO!

wahahhaahha!

(lagsik na sad akong laway ani taman sa Sacra!)

hahahhahahha!

bitaw oi! tig buot gud nila uroy! maayo na isumpay tong thread ni Bambi nga "Kung Sija Pa Ang Akong Nadayun"
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bambi on August 26, 2009, 04:23:37 AM

A wise man has given his words. Exact marriage analysis.

             
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 05:44:50 AM
Bayat ug pwede pa lang eskwelahan ug mag PhD ko para makakita ug maayong kaminyoon, mo eskwela jud ko ana!

Tinuod man jud nang giingon ni Bene san.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Happy on August 26, 2009, 05:54:39 AM
Ngano permi manjud himoon nga issue ning  mga filipina nga nangaminyo ug foreigner nga kwarta ang hinungdan?

Helloooo people, look other nationalities too, dili ra pilipina ang nangaminyo ug dili taga-ila. paet rapud ning isyoha, way kahumanan.

No one has the right to judge anyone.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 07:07:56 AM
 


Murag Pinoy raman nag ingon ani tingali?

Kay ako FOREIGNER  man diri sa Merika, daghan man sad nag tralala nako unsa man ni? daw beh unsa man ni??

makalivug!

SAkto jud ka Inday Icel!

No one has the right to judge anyone.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: janjan on August 26, 2009, 09:02:45 AM



na S lang na sila lol basta kay love gud naho aho banana nga puti
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Post by: benelynne on August 26, 2009, 09:14:42 AM
Ang tinuod ani, Glace, "Women really go for the looks, and mistake it for love, but end up with someone else for money."  ;)

Pero ug ikaw gyud na Glace, swerte ang baje, kay she can have the looks, the love, and the money in one package.

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: janjan on August 26, 2009, 09:22:39 AM
No one has the right to judge anyone.[/b]



hahaha tinuod gud na da bins ha daghan guihapon mo tralala mamoot lang ko kay mga batan-on pa gud naay nakig-ila-ila naho ngeee maski nag pushed ko stroller sa ahong bugoy kailad pa man hehehe
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: lindy on August 26, 2009, 10:55:13 AM
diha koy nakaila nga puti ang iya asawa taga bohol. ako pangutana ngano nangasawa man ka niya. ingon sya kay kamao man sya mo drive. lol.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 11:00:17 AM


drive us SUV? klaroha Pards! o drive lang jud!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bambi on August 26, 2009, 04:15:47 PM

Morag ing-ani "Bus" tong ahong nasakyan permiro..... Ningkanaog ko kay mahal kaajo pangayo ang plete unsa gihimo pa kong sagoy-sagoy (kargador). Karon...sa kalouy sa Diyos hanoy pa ring ahong gisakyan....abot pa kada tuig sa Bohol.
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Post by: Scarb on August 26, 2009, 05:34:07 PM

 ayee abot na sa drive oh
unya mosamtong sa dinarohay
dayon kan anay ug imbaw

 bahakhak nako diwe yeyeye
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 26, 2009, 07:28:45 PM

kon way imbaw, tuway
tuway nga naglaway

;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: lindy on August 26, 2009, 08:05:16 PM
over drive
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: statesville on August 26, 2009, 09:54:58 PM

Exactly.
An American white nurse I work with likes to chat with  foreigners
  in Europe. This week and for the next 3 weeks
  she is on vacation kay ang iya male friend from
  Scotland is coming over to see her.
  She is 35 years old, very pretty blond, blue eyes
  and petit.
  The Scottish is about her age, and not a rich
   man either.
  Both of them are looking for a future mate, after
   their previous failed marriages.
  It's not about money.

Sa Pinas kay daghang himantayon, hilabtanon
  mga balhiboon ug  mga dila.
Kon ila anak college student makauyab
  ug walay grado, pwerteng daghanag saway, apil
  tanang relatives, gubot pas lukot.

Hypocrisy of the highest kind
  looking only from the economic point
  of view, kon pobre ug way grado, they look
  at you like manure.
 
 Kon mamenpal ka or magnetpal, libakon kay nangitag dollar.
 Aw, come'n now, nobody's gonna pay their bills, but
   the person herself.
Mga libakera, himantayon, mga dila nag lit-ad lit-ad
  morag bitin tumotundok.

Ignore them. Flap your wings while young and
 able to fly to look for a greener pasture to graze
 mentras wala pa mangapangag ug mangataltag
 ang mga ngipon.

I'm glad I did, my Spaniard-American hubby is just
 wonderful.
If I have to do it again, I will still do the same.
       
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: janjan on August 26, 2009, 10:33:13 PM


mao tinuod gud libakera daghan sa pinas ma S lang lagi na sila
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on August 26, 2009, 10:59:58 PM


AYLAYKEEEEET! hahha!

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:07:46 PM
here in cebu, particularly in lapu-lapu city where hotel and resorts are abundant. you can see foreigners walking around the city's malls and shopping centers accompanied by young filipinas whose age are ranging from 13-19 years old. i think that's pretty obvious, that these teenagers are exploited by their own parents to be with these people to earn money. i asked some of those people who has some knowledge about this kind of relationships and most of them have the same answers, poverty is the reason.
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Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:11:53 PM

if it can feed their family, i cant blame them. kanya kanyang diskarte sa buhay yan. those who are criticizing so much about this kind of relationships are not the one feeding them so anong paki nila. after all both parties benefit in whatever their intentions in the relationship are.
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Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:16:42 PM
i agree with you. it's better than stealing or resorting to violence. but the saddest part here is that these people are not doing anything to augment their lives. instead they used their kids to feed them through this way. and it's a clear child exploitation which is punishable by law. pahayahay lang gud sila dawat limpiyo. and in the end kung biyaan na ilang mga anak sa mga foreigners, it will end up as sex workers in the sex dens.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on August 26, 2009, 11:17:19 PM
13-year old girls with foreigners? Maybe the foreigner is a foster or a step-father.

Pedophilia is a crime. Why would these foreigners parade their perversion, and why do authorities look the other way?

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:17:46 PM
i dunno why some make this an issue, with this global crisis, i cant blame these young filipinas resorting to this afterall the government hasnt done so much to minimize if not take away poverty. i would say this is the easiest way out of hunger especially to those young filipinas who have a hard time getting jobs. anyway, most of them turn out to have better lives and married and are happy.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: jamo2x on August 26, 2009, 11:18:31 PM
mas grabe gani to ahong nakit-an jud sa Olongapo...nag lagot ko nga way mahimo...
sa gawas sa bar, naay mag kauban mga americans ang isa ka itom nga dakong tawo ijang gi tuyok2x ang isa ka gamayng baji, morag bata ra gud nga gi tuyok2x sa hangin...

pag duol naho, perti japon katawa sa baji morag nag enjoy pud sya. asus pagkita naho, buta (blind) man diay ang baji. grabe jud ning uban nga sundalo kay bisag buta, piang, panget kaajo, birahan man japon ahehehehe. hinoon ka kwarta man sab ang baji...pero looy lng lagi tan-awon  :'(
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:19:26 PM
well i guess foreigners are not stupid to risk being with a 13 year old, they know the consequences otherwise they must be pedophiles
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:23:00 PM
many filipinas married foreigners and become successful in their lives and they live happily with their husbands and those filipinas are all in legal age. i have friends and acquaintances who can attest this. but how about these young girls who are as young as 13? do these foreigners will marry them? after their vacation is over here, they don't give a damn. they will just left and go back home leaving these kids in disarray.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:23:47 PM

lahi nasad ng estoryaha ng child exploitation, we are talking about marrying a foreigner. i condemn parents also who dont care. They should make sure  that the foreigner their daughter is with is a good man.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on August 26, 2009, 11:26:53 PM
Relationship between two consenting adults is not within the purview of the law. But we have laws against exploitation of minors!

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Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:27:13 PM
i know they don't take risk but with the blessing of the parents, i think that's plus for these foreigners. most of the cases that involves pedophilias here in RP, the complainants are not the parents but NGO's and some concerned citizens.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:28:15 PM

well these young girls know who is serious and who is just a banger. kanang imong mga young girls nga gihisgutan are obviously hookers, kung dili sila magwinise nah paingon jud sila ana. but if these girls are descent and would just love to marry a foreigner, have a happy life, they have a long way ahead. kay mostly kadtong gipangbiyaan, are those girls nga wala sad mga klaro.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on August 26, 2009, 11:31:22 PM
With Ace Durano at the tourism helm, nganong mawad-an man ug sensible ideas ang Cebu for tourist attraction and offer up these hapless children?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:32:09 PM
this is not a question of wanting to marry a foreigner now, its about taking money for a bang with a foreigner.
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Post by: jamo2x on August 26, 2009, 11:33:33 PM
on a happy note, i also noticed plenty of young japayukis now married with older japs...maka sabay naho sa plane og airports...og makita sab sa malls...i think some of them have better loving family relations kay giuban pa jud sa hapon ang iyang mga japanese relatives mo vacation sa ato.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:34:55 PM
sir benne, ang focus sa DOT tourist destination lang man gud. maong wala kaayo hatagi ug pagtagad ang mga lumulopyo. kadto lang hitabo didto sa bantayan island karong bag-o lang. ang mga taga didto na ang nireport sa police nga naay foreigner ni checkin sa usa ka resort nga kuyog ang usa ka batang babaye nga edad ug 14. unsay rason sa foreigner, gipakuyog ang bata sa mga ginikanan kay friend kuno sila.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:36:13 PM
yeah it's a feel good story, hearing filipinas having a happy life with a foreigner and seeing their family back home happy too.
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Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:38:36 PM

kanang parents nga in ana makarma ra. mao ng maamong lang uban filipina dili respetuhon tungod kay parents mismo salbahe, walay mga paki sa ilang anak
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Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:40:20 PM
i think mao ni ang usa sa mga rason ngano naay higayon nga insultohon atong kaliwat sa mga taga gawas.
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Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:42:58 PM
mas grabe pa gani sa Thailand, kay nig madalaga na ilang mga anak, ibilin dayun sa mga bar patrabahuon pero gikuha na sa ilang parents ang sweldo daan so they have no way out na
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:44:52 PM
i met a very young girl there she's 15 now but she has been working in that bar since she was 10 and she never receive any money, poor girl, free lang tawn kaon iya kay gikuha naman sa iya mama ang bayad sa iyaha. murag gi-loan na daan
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Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 26, 2009, 11:49:32 PM
pareha ra siguro ning philippines ug thailand. i think sa whole southeast asia, murag singapore, brunie ug malaysia lang ang medyo wala ma involve ug ing ani.
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Post by: jamo2x on August 26, 2009, 11:49:40 PM

kuyaw pud diay dha noh, maong sikat ang Bangkok, morag primary asian tourist destination sa mga foreigner manyakiz og mga pedos...daghn gogo bars dha...mroag mga pinay ra bag itchura...kyut sab  ;D
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Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:52:59 PM

ive heard naa lang gihapon pero discreet lang kay very strict ang law
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Post by: Mari on August 26, 2009, 11:55:24 PM

lahi ra ang Pinay (mas gwapa and passionate hehehehhe), bitaw thais are very skinny and fair skinned, mahilig mangretoke sa face and body. as in ladlad ila prostitution both men, women and gays...on the face jud ba
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: jamo2x on August 27, 2009, 12:01:14 AM

di ba bag-o lng na legalize ang prostitution dha sa thailand? hearing pud naho bisan mga pinoy gays dha moanha dw dha para mag pa sex change....diha ba to sa thailnd o sa hongkong kay barato ra dw. di ba kaha si Gandanghari nag pa sex change na diha hehehehe
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Post by: Koddi Prudente on August 27, 2009, 12:03:38 AM

Now I remember my Patpong nights in Bangkok! "Pusisyu, pusisyu"  . . . pastilan, "pussy show" man diay ang gitanyag sa barker sa gawas sa bar. Tuod man, diha juy basketball, dart, cigarette-smoking, etc. sa sulod. "Idjara," matod pa sa akong kaubang babaye.
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Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on August 27, 2009, 12:12:00 AM
walay banana cutting ug beer drinking sir koddi?
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Post by: Koddi Prudente on August 27, 2009, 12:32:31 AM

Sayon ra na. Imagine dart! Inig supot padung sa taas, maigo ang balloon ug mobuto! Mas grabe ang muscle control ani. Nawa gud ang uwag, he he. Kay mipatigbabaw na man ang entertainment.
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 27, 2009, 02:39:50 AM


Bene san, naa gi show diri nga ang mga girls as young as 5 years old, ginabaligya na sa Thailand!

5 years old peeps!!!! mas malipay pa ko mag tan aw sa mga bata didto sa orphanage nga ang edad tag 10 or 12 kay mas safe pa sila didto. Pero kaning mga bataa? nga naa sa ilang mga parents gipangdala didto sa murag brothel para sa mga PEDO??

Sus maayo ra gi TSUNAMI sila para mapapas na tong mga dautan oi! pwera lang tawon sa mga maayo. (i should have not say that) :-[
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Post by: Mari on August 27, 2009, 03:06:06 AM

barato sa Thailand ang sex change operation and they have good doctors
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Post by: Mari on August 27, 2009, 03:07:08 AM

mingtan aw jud ko ana kuya for curiosity sake...muot!
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Post by: Mari on August 27, 2009, 03:09:03 AM

naay tagay sa coke, eating chain of blades, egg cracking and autograph signing, cant imagine the many uses...aguy! akoy gisakitan nagtan-aw :o
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Post by: benelynne on August 27, 2009, 06:58:49 AM
What people do for money!

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Post by: fdaray on August 27, 2009, 07:50:42 AM
Some, for money lang..
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Post by: jamo2x on August 27, 2009, 10:53:27 PM

owsssss, morag dahn diay sila acrobatic efeks  :o
sa atoa kay lap dance og beer lng man lingkoran...daghn pa jud diay cla kalingawan  ;D

na intriga na noon ko dah....mo suroy na lng ko dha para kita sab ko ahehehehehe...  :P ;D

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Post by: thegirlnextdoor on August 28, 2009, 02:24:48 AM
The woman here may be more faithful then men here. The men here are wham bam thank you mams and some woen here are whiz whir thank you sir!

Guys here are no different then other nationalities they lie cheat and are not faithful a few are good these days not just here but anywhere.

You all talk about child laws but yet you have small grade school aged children as vendors running up and down the port all night selling foods such as baluit, peanuts, and what have you not.

Men need to be perceptive and live here for a while and not be so fast to marry the girl her culture and her family before he does not know them long enough to be able to put up with this culture and may realize later after getting married in a hurry he may not like what he is getten into.

There is much talk here about the culture but i think it is becoming more like "The way it was before." as in memory ala ala....

The saying is here about the culture but the actions of the culture are not here same as they were maybe even five years ago.

Themore techno savy we become the more unsensitive we have become to being hard workers and caring about how things were before. The future moves onward the past is the past.

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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 03:26:14 AM
Girl, it is so sad that some parents are using their small children to earn. There are some parents considered those vending anywhere as  training ground for their children. Most children who learned to earn while in thir younger years are the ones who will value money when they grow up. We, my sisters and me and my friends in the neighborhood were trained that way but on our free times. We were never told to skip school to earn money on the streets because in our times education was very necessary. For me there is nothing wrong with that for as long as they were not selling their young "pusisyu" (Koddi's term  ;D ) to  old and foreign strangers.
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Post by: david on August 28, 2009, 03:40:08 AM
I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner
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Post by: Bambi on August 28, 2009, 03:43:33 AM

Nakakita pod ko ani sa Pattaya (kaburikatan area) sa pagbakasyon namo sa Thailand 2006.  Koddi, perting tabon naho sa ahong mahal nga eyeglasses sa kahadlok nga maigo.  Haskang mouta labina tong paghuyop sa kandila sa cake...sus grabe kusoga sa hangin nga ning-gawas sa atubangan adtong bayhana.   ;D
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 04:05:02 AM

akong dugangan Dave ha?

I admit that some pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner.

And I admit some Pinays are attracted to light colored eyes foreigners! Thats the truth, with or without money.


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Post by: Bambi on August 28, 2009, 04:12:22 AM

as an older  Pobre nga Pinay and still  my younger foriegner  husband married me.  Duha na ming pobre ron  ;D
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Post by: hubag bohol on August 28, 2009, 09:31:53 AM
Quote from: david on Today at 02:40:08 AM
I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner

some [/i] pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner.

And I admit some Pinays are attracted to light colored eyes foreigners! Thats the truth, with or without money.


Dugangan pa jud nato para mosamot kalami.

Some human beings marry for money, and whether love develops or not depends on many factors, not just the age of the partner.

 ;)
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 09:37:31 AM


Bayat ang mata jud akong ganahan nila bisan unsaon! sayang kay di na mi manganak! Mao jud na akong ma attract sa mga puti, sa mga itom sad ilang buhol! ganahan jud ko ug itom agi sa ilang mga buhok.

PS Bayat ikaw man ang foreigner sa Germany, remember?
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Post by: lindy on August 28, 2009, 09:43:41 AM
ngano man diay gud ug makigminyo gumikan sa cuarta. magbuot diay cla. ako naay

kuarta mangasawa kog bata nga guapa magbuot diay cila.
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 09:46:41 AM

hahahha! Go Lindy! Go Lindy!
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Post by: lindy on August 28, 2009, 09:49:07 AM
mao gyud mards. life is to short nya mag kill joy ka pa diha.
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 09:54:50 AM

mao bow jud ko nimo Pards! kay matinud-anon ka sa imong kaugalingon. I always believe the saying "never lie or cheat to yourself".

basta imbitaha lang jud ming mga taga US kay tabokon jud namo nang Canada!
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Post by: lindy on August 28, 2009, 10:03:44 AM
sure mards kay usa ka sa ninang hahaha.
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 10:04:58 AM
i will! magpatahi na ko ug BALINTAWAK  sa pinas! hahahahha!
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Post by: lindy on August 28, 2009, 10:06:25 AM
hahaha pasayawon ka nako kuradang
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Post by: AsPo on August 28, 2009, 10:17:45 AM
ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.
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Post by: lindy on August 28, 2009, 10:25:26 AM
right cat lambada
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 28, 2009, 10:26:12 AM



hahahahhaha!
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Post by: Bambi on August 29, 2009, 01:49:40 AM

Long live lindy!...imbiratara ko aron maka-anha kos Canada.
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Post by: Scarb on August 29, 2009, 02:10:12 AM

 oh yah LAMBADA jud nindot kaajo na kimbot sa lubot dalang grinding hahahaha
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Post by: Happy on August 29, 2009, 04:44:55 AM
No one has the right to judge anyone.[/b]

Sige raman gud balik balik ni nga issue Belle, mura wala kahumanan.

Wala man hinoon mga tawo nga magtralala diri about ani, kay dili ra gud mga pilipina ang nangaminyo sa taga diri. kung tan-awon pa pud, ang nagdugay nga mga magtiayon ang kani hinoon nagpares nga dili pareha nila ug lahi.


hahaha ate Bambs, ako giingnan si Palle nga wa ka mahadlok nga imo ra unya kwarta hinungdan hinungdan nga makigminyo ko nimo, gitubag man hinoon ko nga wa siyay angay kahadlokan kay waman siyay kwarta haha, duha napud mi, upat nata ani ;D
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Post by: benelynne on August 29, 2009, 10:54:25 PM
Ang gadugay gyud nga relationship kanang dili pinaka-importante nga factor ang kwarta, although let's admit it, kinahanglan man gyud ma-cover ang basic needs sa pamilya.

I just went out for beach picnic today with some church members and one of the happiest in the group is a lady of very humble means. Minyo s'ya sa Hapon unya gamay ra kaayo ilang puy-anan, di pa gyud nila kaugalingon. Pareho silang dili regular sa iyang bana sa trabaho. In fact, lately lang nakapangitag trabaho iyang bana after being laid off. And yet she is a very cheerful lady and has even the time to teach praise song choreography. Her children are well-behaved and respectful.

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Post by: Bambi on August 30, 2009, 12:14:14 AM

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after  :D

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Post by: benelynne on August 30, 2009, 12:47:04 AM
God bless your generous heart, Bambs. After what you've been through, you deserve a second chance, and I believe you have it already.

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Post by: ms da binsi on August 30, 2009, 01:45:17 AM


Bayat, i really admired your generousity! Preha ta Bayat, i left with nothing and started again. Then after several years naka uyab sad ko sa LA na and when i left, i left everything to him. Material ra na, makita ra basta piskay lang ang lawas. It hold me at first kay lagi sayang (ang material nga biyaan) but i thought the relationship would ruin me. Di na unya ko ka kiat kiat kay na lusyang na sa maajo!

Karon noon when i had none, nagkita mi ni banana and he gave me everything that i lost. Uwaw kaayo pamation sa bag-o pa mi, pero i realized nga ingon man jud diay ana ang panag ipon, ug unsay ija mao sad aho! (dili ija ija- aho aho).

One and only thing that i cant afford to loose is a car. Bahala ug wa ko jamo bisan balay basta naa kuy car, mabuhi ra jud ka.

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Post by: Lorenzo on August 30, 2009, 01:49:40 AM

Bambi, your story is so touching. And I pray the Good Lord bless you and your husband for all your days.

God Bless! God Bless!

Very heart felt personal anecdote.
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Post by: Bambi on August 30, 2009, 02:12:51 AM

Thank you very much.  At least,  I have the best man despite of our age gap and he likes  our country and love the Filipinos traits as well.   He visited Phils. 5x in the period of 9 yrs. am proud having him.


Bayat,  " A new start is something like a new chance" And you did also the best you could and that means....feeling of existence while living. 
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Post by: Bambi on August 30, 2009, 02:26:22 AM

Thanks.....  this is not a self- defense.  The truth to tell how life sometimes  goes in wrong directions even though struggles and emotions played most a role. 
Everyone of us has his/her own sad story and sometimes to express it, uncaged you from hatred, and guilty conscience.
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Post by: janjan on August 30, 2009, 10:18:18 AM



hurot ako bilib ni madam bambi ug  Da bins so kana mga tawo nag-ingon nga pinay na minyo puti kay wawarts lang ge apas usapa na ninjo injo ge pang-jaw-jaw
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Post by: grazie7y on August 30, 2009, 10:31:04 AM

korek ka dyan, jan!  money-wise, i had more money when i was in the phils than here but my poor husband loves and takes care of me - things that money can not buy.  just like BOC Bambi, my husband is a foreigner with Filipino heart.  mas labaw pa ug taga manga maka abi-abi kon naay bisita.  ako masungot gani ko sahay kon way abiso mo abot dire pero sya gani, mag karag-karag andam pa inom, pakaon, etc. 
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 30, 2009, 10:41:52 AM
kantahan pag buwad ug sekwati! hahahahhhah!
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Post by: janjan on August 30, 2009, 10:42:52 AM


mao gud,mga tawo gud pataka lang jaw-jaw
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Post by: grazie7y on August 30, 2009, 11:03:59 AM

buwad, suka sili! hahaha

mao ni. sowi OT kaayo:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xojp9ieiIS8 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xojp9ieiIS8)
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 30, 2009, 11:14:55 AM
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hala ganahan lagi ko sa beating! murag REGGAE noh? kataw anan man diay ni kaajo! hahahhahha!
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Post by: grazie7y on August 30, 2009, 01:41:36 PM

reggae jud.  busa bitaw wa pa kadungog jud si murage unsaon ni pagkanta, nakanta ra gihapon nya.  as in, maka da jud sya'g gubot kon naay party kay kini man ipakanta.  naay uban oflok na mga pinoy mag ingon na lami kuno kay kabawo mag binisaya si murage.  na unting wa man ga jama-jama ra jud sya tawon!
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Post by: benelynne on August 30, 2009, 09:55:43 PM
Imong bana ang na-assimilate sa Filipino culture, Ging, when in fact diha mo gapuyo sa US? This just shows how strong your marriage is. I am sure that exceptions like you and many of our TB ladies will take offense at the findings of the above study that most Filipinas marry foreigners for money. Maayo gyud ma-share ang inyong experiences aron mahibaw-an sa tanan that happiness is not only all about money, but most importantly sharing of intangible things that money can't buy.

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Post by: glacier_71 on August 30, 2009, 11:46:16 PM

bahin aning assimilation, kadumdum kos usa nako ka kaila nga pinoy diri, nakapangasawa og puti. ilang mga anak, mas maka-pinoy pa kay sa pagka-canadian. iyang asawa pod, kusog na mokaon og pinoy foods. mga anak nila, mauwaw ang ubang mga pinoy kay mas makamao pa mokanta og mga kanta nga pininoy. ang asawa, bisag nagka-nguyit, kusog mokanta og lupang hinirang hahaha. grabe ang assimilation.
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Post by: grazie7y on August 31, 2009, 02:20:49 AM
bene san, kaluoy sa Ginoo strong among marriage kay di lang man gibasihan sa kwarta.  Kon kwarta ang basihan, in most cases kon maka experience ug financial crisis, ang kasangputan mag buwag dayon.  At times when we experience this, especially these times when recession is getting bad what with 3 days of furlough in a month, we always remind ourselves that the good thing  is that we have each other.  With God's blessings, I can proudly say that our marriage is strong because there's no other motivation but to love each other.  Not because of money or financial gain.

Glace, kining akong bana, gaka jungit ra bitaw ni mo kanta ug butsikik kay fan man na sya ni Yoyoy. Naa gani na sya DVD ni Yoyoy!  Mokanta na anang Phil Geography, gisubay ang kalindaryo na naay mapa sa Phils kon asa na daw sya sa iyang kanta! hahaha  Unya, very natural na kaayo na niya makakita ug tiguwang mag ingon, there's Manong or Manang.  Ang akong maguwang, tawagay nila Manong ug Manang.  Kabalo sya unsay panuhot pero old wives tale lagi daw!   Humot kaayo na sya sa mga Pinoy especially kabalo sila na naay kamunggay, tangad, kamote, kalabasa, batong, ug uban pang rekados para law-oy sa iyang garden!   ;D 

Every time naay gathering, he proudly wears his BOHOL t-shirt with the picture of the tarsier or his Taloto t-shirt!   ;D
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Post by: glacier_71 on August 31, 2009, 02:24:57 AM

atong pahinungdan tong mga foreigners nga nidawat o ni-assimilate sa kulturang bol-anon (ato sa lang) diri sa TB...maayo ning paagi nga pag-recognize sa ilang pagdawat sa ilang mga asawa, kaila o ka-pamilya nga bol-anon. usa na ana, imong bana, graze.

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Post by: grazie7y on August 31, 2009, 02:26:27 AM

salamat kaayo, glace!  ay dugay na sya ga declare sa iyang kaugalingon na honorary bol-anon.  hahahaha
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Post by: Raquelproud boholana on August 31, 2009, 02:44:09 AM
Akong bana proud bol-anon sad tiaw bay balik balikon ang t-shirt ug suot kanang naay marka Bohol.The other day nag attend mi ug tractor show karon iyang gihubot nga t-shirt ang Bohol akong gibadlong nga moadto mi sa tractor show dapat katong naay tractor nga t-shirt iya isuot dako kaayo siya ug tingog ing ingon I am proud to wear BOHOL t-shirt. Filipino sad kaayo ug kinaiya akong bana ug mokaon sad siya ug kan-on permi,pancit iya favorite ug adobong manok.Sa iyang ka proud among sakyanan ang plate number BOHOL. Ganahan siya mo attend ug party sa mga filipino. Shy baya ni kaayo akong bana sa una halos di motingog sukad naminyo mi natabian. Iyang favorite kantahon ang Pangako sayo.
Ilado mi diri sa among lugar kay nakita jud aning mga puti nga ang inter racial marriage diay nga rare ra kaayo diri sa ilang area magwork diay. Happy sila nag tan aw namo usahay mo personal gyud sila ug dayeg namo in public. Never gyud gi question sa mga tawo diri nganong  ingtravel ko ug layo aron menyuan ning akong bana kay nakita man nila unsa ka genuine among paghinigugmaay.
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Post by: Koddi Prudente on August 31, 2009, 02:45:54 AM
Pangitaa ninyo sa youtube si Isiak Holiday Jr., black American who loves OPM. I love his verion of "Ikaw na Nga" and "Paano na Kaya". Naa poy Amerkana diha nga mokanta og "Hawak-Kamay". These are Americans nga maka-Pilipino.
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Post by: Koddi Prudente on August 31, 2009, 02:47:43 AM

Bow jud ko nimo ana, Raqz.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 10:25:55 AM
i agree w/ u keko!
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Post by: Lorenzo on August 31, 2009, 10:33:21 AM
Who cares who the Filipina marries. So long as the man is a decent human being, compassionate and able to support the family. Buutan ang laki, good for her.

I sure would not want anyone telling me who I can and cannot marry. If she happens to be Filipina or a foreigner, I leave that to my own discretion.

To his or her own. Please.
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Post by: Lorenzo on August 31, 2009, 10:38:37 AM

My friend, I will be honest.

Ive dated many girls in my life, but the ones that I have found to match my interests have always been Spanish or Italian girls. In college I dated sicilian girls (hehe) and for a time had a long relationship with an argentinian-american girl. one thing that I admire about Spanish women is their: easy and homely personality, sexy nature ( of course), religious, easy to be at home with. Culturally, i am attracted to that.

Tho i do want to date a woman from Spain. hehe.
i hear the ladies of Seville are exceptionally beautiful and sweet.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 11:38:41 AM
Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?

hapit ni mahitabo naho sa una, 26yo ko. na meet naho (environmental engineer) 43yo nga netherlander sa trabaho (waitress ko sa japanese restaurant, sheraton park hotel)
jang i meet ijang penpal nga taga leyte. sa laktud nga pagkasulti na in lavabo sija naho mao nga wala na molahos sa leyte. ilaktud pa jud nato ang pagkasulti, gitawagan na ko sa embassy kay i stamp na ang visa sa ahong pp ug abot na ang air ticket.palit na sya ug dako nga balay sa barn city aron among puy-an.

when i received the call from the embassy and the airline, i changed my mind. maorag nakamata ko sa pagkatulog. ug na realize ko nga dili ko kaya nga mo dulog ug higda sa wala ko mahigugma.

aho jang giingnan dili diay ko ka luib sa ahong kaugalingon.

i felt his pain, pero nagpasalamat sya sa ahong pagka honest.

kalooy sa Ginoo, ahong nabana klariks jud nga dili for money kay
pareho lang mi nga nanarbaho and i'm 9yrs senior, but very understanding & responsible. we respect each others culture. kahibaw na mo tagalog sagol bisaya pa. mouli pa sa pinas bisag sija ra usa.in love sya kaajo sa bohol. enjoy nga magsuroy-suroy sa tagbilaran kay gamay daw nga city,he don't like manila.(yearly mi mouli)

Above all i thank God for my husband and for my in-laws.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 11:48:11 AM
amen & amen ka dyan benelynne
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 31, 2009, 12:41:56 PM


I like you Maw! you are very honest to yourself. I post ni imong kaagi adto sa thread ni Bambi nga: "Kon Sija Akong nadayun" kay nindot ni nga story.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 01:42:50 PM
bitaw ang kawad-on ang unang hinongdan nga mamana ug puti bisag tiguwang pa sa amahan.

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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 01:50:21 PM
mahal kaayo sa hongkong. sa thailand kay barato ra. atong ubang paisano diri sa bangkok magpa medical kay barato kuno, dala na ang pasyal ug shopping, labi na sunday market, arang kabarato.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 01:56:29 PM
katan-aw ko banana cutting, egg breaking etc. ako'y naulaw sa akong kaugalingon.at least diha sa manila sayaw sayaw lang.
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Post by: nilamaw on August 31, 2009, 02:02:19 PM
hi, nakita ko imong latest pics sa friendster, u lost a lot of weight. pls share ur secret.
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Post by: ms da binsi on August 31, 2009, 09:03:30 PM


Low carbs ra jud Maw ug exercise way lain. (intensive akong work out) Ikaw mag sugod lang ka ug walking 30 mins a day. It will really work kay mao sad na akong gisugdan. Bisan mag sugod ka ug low carbs dayun mag walking lang ka. Ayaw i abrupt kay lisud kaajo.

Ug wa gud kay sugar or gamay ra imong sugar, your body will tend to use your fats for energy. Kataw anan ingon ni banana naho, ato daw lawas di na daw mo adto sa gasolinahan para mo kuha ug energy ari ra daw sa atong storage. (sakto sad iyang analogy hahahha)
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Post by: glacier_71 on September 02, 2009, 11:20:22 PM

hahahahaha. sayop imo bana, mdb. kay siya, moadto man gihapon sa "gasolinahan" kay anha siya nimo mokuha og energy baya. pessss
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Post by: ms da binsi on September 02, 2009, 11:48:41 PM


bwahahahahha!

bright jud ka Glace!
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Post by: jamo2x on September 03, 2009, 04:14:05 AM

awww karon lng nako na realize unsa nih hehehe...kujaw pud diay ang muscle control ana noh  ;D
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Post by: jamo2x on September 03, 2009, 04:15:59 AM

mao ba, Maw...asa diay ka karon? hongkong ka?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: kiamoy on September 08, 2009, 04:20:18 AM
this generalization makes me sad..
what if i meet a fun-loving handsome foreigner and would want to tour him here in cebu? then that would mean i'll be "stared at" too?? ugh!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bambi on September 08, 2009, 04:25:12 AM

kiamoy, mokuyog gani ka ug foriegner ah-ann  kana nga "burikat".  that was what happened after my engagement with my 1st husband (God is my witness..was still virgin on that time), we were in Pagsanjan for a tour (with my sisters who slept with us in our room) we were engaged for almost 2 years before getting married.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: kiamoy on September 08, 2009, 04:38:09 AM
i know te..

sometimes, we can't blame other people if they become judgemental and tend to generalize.. cause like here in ayala, young girls would purposely wear provacative clothes and display themselves. mag tambay sa lamisa sa usa ka mahalon nga restau nga daghan ug foreigners then ang orderon usa ra ka beer. makalagot sab uy.

lisud ang situation. cause im sure love man jud na mostly sab ba.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on September 08, 2009, 06:58:54 AM
steteos man jud nang mga taga atoa. paita bitaw oi! go for it Kiams. As i said i really dont care unsa huna huna sa mga tawo and i know you dont care either.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: lindy on September 08, 2009, 08:01:53 AM
ayaw ninyo tagai ug pagtagad nang ubang tawo nga mga himantayon kay wala bitaw mo mangayo ug bugas didtos ilaha. ang kinabuhi sa tawo kanya kanyang diskarti man. naa bitaw uban diha  labihang moampo kuno diosnon kaayo inig human ug ampo ang istoryahan puro kinabuhi sa ubang tawo (chismiss) ay ambot. magpakasala na lang ko una pagkahuman mangayo ug pasaylo sa gino-o nga tinud anay.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Happy on September 09, 2009, 02:15:10 AM

Bem, matud pa sa ako host family diri sa Denmark; Love knows no boundaries, knows no distance and knows no race.. So ang love dili pud magtagad kung unsa huna-hunaon sa uban.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: beyotch on September 09, 2009, 10:20:29 AM
dili tanan ui.....because as what i've experienced..as far as i know i fall in love with him but sad to say...he doesn't want to believe me...she once ones a victim of a goldigger..he was the one who sends me money for the internet..i didn't asked him for anything...only time to spent with me...and now he's having hardtime believing my real intention of having him as my lover...so whats the use of continuing our connection...but god knows how i care and adore this man.....but now i quit......willing to continue life without him....ngita nalang kog lain kanang mutuo na sincere ko...

beyotch-----
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ben on September 09, 2009, 01:02:29 PM
Bayats, what an interesting thread!

There is an R&B song by Kanye West, currently a hit with the young people, about this very topic.  The chorus goes like this:

(She steal me money)
Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
But she ain't messin' wit no broke Niggaz (She steal me money)

While the sentiment so eloquently put by Mr West is irrefutable, one can also state that money is not a sure route to happiness.  This well-meaning foreigner has lavished his entire estate upon his wife and she's still sapot.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: statesville on September 09, 2009, 01:20:26 PM
Love is built on trust,
 without it, there' no harmony and joy
  :-*
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on September 09, 2009, 05:28:25 PM

If he was already a victim then maybe he will never beleive any more to any filipina.

Then I do not know why he tried again. And even more if not trust to you why he sent money.

Did you meet him already in Pinas? Only knowing you in person he can realize who you are really.
If you are a good person he will see it quickly. He shouldn´t doubt of you any more.

At least for me you match the rule number 1 for foreigner-filipinas relationship "If she never ask for money is a good signal" :P

And seems with the gold digger he broke rule number 2 "Never send money to a girl you do not know (if it´s a girl hahahaha)"

I think some foreigners are just blind. They send money to people they do not know and then they think all are the same when it´s their mistake.

First they flash their money and act like buying her with money then they are scammed and blame the filipinas for that.

I am very careful witth my gf, yeah she is poor but she is happy with her life and I am not anybody to try to change that, if I keep giving her huge amount of money I would feel as I am buying her love and I cannot have that idea in my mind :)

My opinion is that not only foreigners have to be aware of scammers. Filipinas has to be aware as well of foreigners flashing their "richness" to buy a girl. Lot of time the flashy type is just a looser in their respectives countries and the girl will end in some case beeing not a wife, more as a slave.

So there are "scammers" in both sides :)

Regards
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bulak on September 09, 2009, 07:28:38 PM

Beyotch if that is the case then let him go, we cant justify anymore among  foreign people who got bad expectations among Pinyas, they truly believe that Pinays are goldiggers because this was the issue long before that Pinay will only marry to a  white man just to escape poverty. Its a shame on my part also as i got a foreign husband. After we become lovers i was so surprised and embarrased when he told me a story about some Pinays that he talked thru the net, he said they never behave well and ask money for no reason :( and he  dont like to talk to  Filipina's before not until he meet me. Its hard on my part to justify him that not all Filipinas are like that,  but in the process i let him know that love doesnt matter even if you are rich or not, until he realized that not all Pinays got the same aim. I exposed him to all my pinay friends, and after then he realized  that  he was wrong  coz now he knows that Pinyas are very kindhearted and hospitable people..
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bulak on September 09, 2009, 07:36:49 PM

High Five Keko for this nice story that you tell us , thanks a lot that you are not one  of those who got bad empression's among Filipinas. I wish  you all the luck , just maintain the strong trust and respect in order to gain a strong love  so that you and your GF may have a happy ending..

Ciao amigo :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on September 09, 2009, 07:39:45 PM
"one bad ending will make more noise than 1000 good" :)

You will hear lot of bad stories but nobody will hear the good ones cause people try to remark the bad things and not good ones.

What sells more bad news or good news? With this is the same :P
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bulak on September 09, 2009, 08:41:54 PM
Its just the same  Keko that if somebody is correct then nobody will listens but if somebody is wrong no one forgets :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on September 09, 2009, 11:01:01 PM

korek ka dyaan, state.


these are indeed very admirable words from you, keko.



Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on September 10, 2009, 02:16:00 AM

Trust is EVERYTHING.

I can be the most darling of friends to my friends, I am extremely loyal, and supportive.
But when a person who I hold dear ever violates my trust, it is hard to re-establish trust.

Its a one time thing.

A person is either trustworthy or untrustworthy.

If they lied to you, cheated, connived, squawked at you or friends before, there is no guarantee that the will not do it again.

Trust and Integrity are one in the same. You either have it or you don't.



Cheers!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Bambi on September 10, 2009, 04:26:57 AM

 Yes trust is good but control is much better!  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ben on September 10, 2009, 07:15:10 AM
Haha, your comment made me chuckle.  Of course, not hard for the Boholana to control the putig itlog using all her aesthetic gifts.  He will surrender if he knows what's good for him.

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: jorgeanna on September 10, 2009, 02:23:27 PM
everything is all about money... that is why sometimes we forget this saying that money isn't everything.. love is..
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: lindy on September 10, 2009, 03:50:00 PM
kon walay money wala gud love kay matabang ba gud ug love love ug wala na sulod ang tiyan ug naglurat nang mata.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on September 10, 2009, 03:52:52 PM

Ha ha, mao na nay giingon nga "When the wolf comes in at the door, love creeps out of the window."
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ben on September 10, 2009, 04:32:42 PM
... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place ;)  jk jk

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on September 10, 2009, 05:22:04 PM

Ha ha ha, "retarded" jud. Basig "retired" lang, he he. ;D



Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on September 10, 2009, 10:22:55 PM


TRUE!!!

hahahhaha!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: beyotch on September 11, 2009, 02:02:07 PM
huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
Mabuhay kayong lahat!!!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on September 11, 2009, 02:05:21 PM

British baya si sangay Ben. But I guess he's more Boholano now than many of us.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Mulligan on September 11, 2009, 02:13:37 PM

Sakto jud ka Beyotch ...  ;)

Opps.  Na intriga ko sa imong handle - Beyotch.  Unsa pag pronounce kana ?   Beyotch as in B _ _ _ _ ?   Hehe.

Peace and happy weekend sister.   :)

[quote author=beyotch link=topic=17700.msg278760#msg278760 date=1252648927]
huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
Mabuhay kayong lahat!!!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: PR0CESS0R on November 02, 2009, 12:43:41 PM
Before, not all but now Pinays trying to be practical. Daghan diri after nabuntisan sa uyab nya gibiyaan, walay laing choice ang mga angkan kundi mangita ug kano aron mo support sa iyang baby. Kasal dayon :)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 05:04:11 PM
Well I just had some funny experiences with 3 short relationships with girls in Spain since I came back in October: a peruvian, a paraguayan and a spanish girl so I realized this happens everywhere :D not only in Philippines.

The 3 of them think I am rich lol. :D I think the crisis is making them blind here, even the spanish ones lol
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on December 30, 2009, 07:14:09 AM


yeah kay ang kano di man mag mind ug pila ka buok imong kabataang barangay! tig mind! KIBER! hahahhaha!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on January 31, 2011, 09:28:48 PM

Oi, 92% ang baje?  :-\
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: wolfpack823 on February 01, 2011, 12:01:15 AM
That is true all over the world even European women whose economy is far advanced than the Philippines I married an American national, and it is b*** if I would say " I love him" the first time I saw him. The feeling progressed into love and respect, I have good and worst years, but that is my isolated story.

In general, it is true but for Christ's sake not only Pinay but all Eves in the universe.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 01, 2011, 08:20:35 AM
Love is, after all, not a requisite of marriage.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: aquarius on February 01, 2011, 10:54:02 AM

Just marry first and love will follow.... ;)

I remember  when I was then a bank teller, there was this foreigner who transacted me together with his Filipina wife, far from behind, the family and relatives of the wife who’re also inside the bank lobby  (maybe they needed  back-up  ;))..  and  I don’t know if that foreigner was just joking as  he said “ you know marrying a Filipina is just like marrying the whole tribe” I nodded my head with a smile and replied, “you knew, you’re much lucky, because Filipina women are caring and loving to the max… (labi na'g bol-anon..  ;) ).. he smiled too,  I don't know if it was a sign of affirmation..   ;D (gwatsi pod tong tawhana mora’g  taga TB..)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 01, 2011, 10:57:52 AM

If love will not follow, it is best to just leave it behind...  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 01, 2011, 11:02:08 AM
marrying a Filipina is just like marrying the whole tribe[/b]” I nodded my head with a smile and replied, “you knew, you’re much lucky, because Filipina women are caring and loving to the max… (labi na'g bol-anon..  ;) ).. he smiled too,  I don't know if it was a sign of affirmation..   ;D (gwatsi pod tong tawhana mora’g  taga TB..)

He he, kon magkalisod naa pay friendly neighboring tribes...  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: benelynne on March 09, 2011, 11:44:27 PM
I know of many Filipinas who married Japanese for the visa, so they could work in Japan and earn money. And some even had to pay their supposed Japanese husbands a monthly allowance until they could get permanent residency. So they did marry Japanese for money--to pay their husbands.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: islander on March 10, 2011, 12:02:58 AM
so some japanese men are in the business too...

i've heard some stories about this same business in the u.s. too.  and over ten years ago in germany, this modus operandi involved indian women more than filipino women.  imagine a 25-year-old german guy marrying fortyish indian women and divorcing them one after the other.  it was business.  there were givers and there were takers, and money changed hands. :(

     
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: fdaray on March 10, 2011, 07:49:30 AM
Yes, for money......, and love will follow if there is always money.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: cujo on March 10, 2011, 08:41:12 AM
In reality not all foreigners are rich..There's a lot of Filipinos who got more money than foreigners..Some Filipina has other reason to marry a foreigner,like hoping to work in another country to help the family in the Phil.and personally is more of a practical reason.We do have pride and worked our butt to help our relatives.To some who are judgemental please  give us some credit...If you really are meant for each other and that is how God help you pick your partner in life and blissfully happy,does it really  matter which comes first Love or money ?
                    
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 10, 2011, 01:07:12 PM

Well said.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 26, 2011, 12:30:06 PM

If there is money, there will be followers aplenty--and love is not always the foremost of them...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on March 30, 2011, 02:23:04 AM
that's the reason why social networking sites, chat sites and the likes are frequently flooded with women. they are using it as venue in looking for potential partners wherein the main target are foreigners. as far as i can recall, there were 2 incidents here in cebu that i know of wherein 2 cebuanas duped their male friends substantial amount of money where it reaches up to 11M in philippine money. their modus, befriended the male foreigner using a bogus name then they will become online lovers. after that they will ask assistance from their male friend in securing the needed visa but they need money.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 30, 2011, 02:43:51 AM

tsk tsk, quite pragmatic. thanks for sharing this, brod.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 30, 2011, 05:44:55 PM

P. T. Barnum (or David Hannum, whoever) still rocks. Indeed, there's a sucker born every minute... :P
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 31, 2011, 07:31:04 AM
I feel that many Filipinas are somewhat sexualized by many foreigners. I personally hold Filipinas above the fay. No other woman in the world can compare to the Filipina. None is as resilient in the work force, as loving, mother-like, a good wife, and as family oriented as a Filipina.

That is why I am sickened when I read reports of foreign men coming to the Philippines to take advantage of Filipinas sexually. Sure there are Filipinas who marry and go abroad, but the reasons for their doing so is their own and thus should not be talked about negatively. Who are not in their predicament, not in their shoes.

It is evident that the Asian Woman is the most sexualized by the mass media here in the United States. She is portrayed as submissive, sexual, and ready to please the husband. Pish Posh!

Pardon my reactive response. I don't take too kindly to the sexualization of my own people. Sure there are some black sheep out there, but that few should not represent the overwhelming majority.

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 06, 2011, 10:38:06 PM
"None is as resilient in the work force, as loving, mother-like, a good wife, and as family oriented as a Filipina."

aguy ambruuut lang! pwerte na kadaghan mga pinay nga cheap kaajo!!! Mga expats nakaingon nga mga philippines is more like thailand na daw kay daghan cheap nga baje....

Si maam Inse maka relate ani...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 06, 2011, 11:14:44 PM

awww, naa pood siguro mga cheap na cheap baje, pariho pood nga naay cheap na cheap lalake. diba?

okey lang ug gusto sila ma minyo : black, white, yellow, green (mga alien or baki) even purple (nga tawo nga ultra black) hahaha. ila ra gud nang desisyon.

para nako, di lang ko gusto maka dungog nga naay mga foreigners mo adto sa pinas para sex exploitation sa pinays. maluuy man pood ta ug maka dungog ta ana.

salamat sa imohang gi post, ms da binsi, thank you jud.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 07, 2011, 11:06:14 AM


sus maka ulaw na jud! mo ingon na gud sila nganong mo adto pa man daw sila sa thailand nga naa man mas barato diri (pinas)? Oh emm gee!!!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 08, 2011, 09:41:49 AM

unsa man pod kabaratoha, mdb? mura kaha og kanang naas Dollar Store diri sa Canada? hehehe
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 08, 2011, 11:26:16 AM

He he, malagmit depende sa gidak-on...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 08, 2011, 01:52:50 PM



unsay gidak on Hubs?? ang bangag? aw ehe shalan ba oi... :D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 08, 2011, 02:10:50 PM


Bwahaha! Ayaw klaroha basin maeskandalo si Bay Glacier! ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: islander on April 08, 2011, 11:55:56 PM

bangag sa bulsa gyod ang ipasabot ani, way lain, gawas tingali sa bangag sa alingagngag.

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 09, 2011, 09:41:51 AM

He he, lihay jud. Sa tanto nimong lihaylihay, Ms. Isle, basin bayag ma-schomoi hinuon...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 09, 2011, 01:25:45 PM

lol @ "oh emm gee" :)

Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 09, 2011, 01:41:10 PM
Such double standard.  I am sure there are Filipino men marrying foreigners (for love , for money, or both).

Enough of this anti-Filipina bull-crap. I don't see alot of white women complaining about Russian-mail order brides etc.

 ::)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 09, 2011, 01:42:38 PM
We live in one world.

We all have one blood.

We all have one heart.

We all have One God.

We are all human beings.

Let's look past the limitations that keep us all apart.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 09, 2011, 08:57:27 PM

We Are the World
By Michael Jackson


There comes a time
When we head a certain call
When the world must come together as one
There are people dying
And it's time to lend a hand to life
The greatest gift of all

We can't go on
Pretending day by day
That someone, somewhere will soon make a change
We are all a part of
God's great big family
And the truth, you know love is all we need

[Chorus]
We are the world
We are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day
So let's start giving
There's a choice we're making
We're saving our own lives
It's true we'll make a better day
Just you and me

Send them your heart
So they'll know that someone cares
And their lives will be stronger and free
As God has shown us by turning stone to bread
So we all must lend a helping hand

[Chorus]
We are the world
We are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day
So let's start giving
There's a choice we're making
We're saving our own lives
It's true we'll make a better day
Just you and me

When you're down and out
There seems no hope at all
But if you just believe
There's no way we can fall
Well, well, well, well, let us realize
That a change will only come
When we stand together as one

[Chorus]
We are the world
We are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day
So let's start giving
There's a choice we're making
We're saving our own lives
It's true we'll make a better day
Just you and me
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 09, 2011, 08:58:38 PM

Michael Jackson We are the World (original) 1985 Lionel Richie, Quiney Jones (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nP5s-1VyXNU#)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 09, 2011, 10:51:31 PM


hinay-hinayi tawn ko ninyo, kay bag-o pa ra ko tawn diri...ahehehehee
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 10, 2011, 01:06:10 AM


tawon na murder ang balik bayan! hahahahhaa
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 10, 2011, 09:03:36 AM

basin na lang unta og tagbuon tag banda kay balik-bayan ra ba. hehehehe
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 10, 2011, 12:07:29 PM


He he, bitaw no? Kon naay terminal ang newbies, naa pud unta ang balikbayans, kadtong long taym no si bat naw sinaw...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 10, 2011, 09:37:13 PM

maau na hunahunaa, bay hubs. naay mo-abi-abi og balik-bayan kay daghan na ra ba pong wa mailhin ni sila kay buaw na pog bag-ong members diri...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 10, 2011, 10:56:01 PM


mas nindot abi abihon ang mga balik bayan kay daghan tinigum nga pasalubong! hahahha! aber iwadwad na na imong bakat!!!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: islander on April 10, 2011, 11:27:21 PM
As God has shown us by turning stone to bread[/b]
So we all must lend a helping hand


mao gyod niy apan aning kantaha ni michael jackson.  klarong wa kabasa sa tb online bible studies.  nowhere in the bible baya gyod intawon ni nahitabo (in bold letters), or am i just missing something?  ???

 
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: islander on April 10, 2011, 11:29:16 PM

kun magkalisod, masaypan pang foreigner ang balikbayan, labi nag gitina ang buhok ug blue.


Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 11, 2011, 06:32:12 AM


Bitaw. Unya naay category sa balikbayan. Pananglit, newbie balikbayan kanang na-absent lang for more than a month but not exceeding two months.  Naay master balikbayan, etc., all the way to global citizen balikbayan...

;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 11, 2011, 06:34:11 AM


He he, kini si Bay Glacier hinuon, ang priceless nga pasalubong mao nga magpaila na siya kinsa siya... ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 11, 2011, 10:38:47 AM


mag EB daw mo nga nag maskara!!!! hahahahah
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: ms da binsi on April 11, 2011, 10:39:54 AM


ajaw tawon litoka nang gitina kay tawon akong buhok.... nga sa imo pang giingon sa una murag buhok sa maiz! ahahahaha!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 11, 2011, 10:50:41 AM

You are right, Isles. No where in the bible does it say that God turned stone into bread.

However, in the bible, it says that when Jesus went to fast and pray in the desert for 40 days and 40 nights he was tempted by the devil.

Satan tempted Jesus Christ the Lord Our God to turn the stone into bread to prove his power.

Satan then tempted Jesus to jump off a cliff saying that the angels will catch him and he will not suffer death.

Jesus responded to Satan's foolish queries / requests by saying, “‘You shall worship the Lord your God
and him only shall you serve.’”


Reference: Matthew Chapter 4
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: Lorenzo on April 11, 2011, 10:53:22 AM
Matthew Chapter 4 Verse 1-11:


1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3 And the tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread.” 4 But he answered, “It is written,

“‘Man shall not live by bread alone,
but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

5 Then the devil took him to the holy city and set him on the pinnacle of the temple 6 and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written,

“‘He will command his angels concerning you,’

and

“‘On their hands they will bear you up,
lest you strike your foot against a stone.’”

7 Jesus said to him, “Again it is written, ‘You shall not put the Lord your God to the test.’” 8 Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9 And he said to him, “All these I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me.” 10 Then Jesus said to him, “Be gone, Satan! For it is written,

“‘You shall worship the Lord your God
and him only shall you serve.’”

11 Then the devil left him, and behold, angels came and were ministering to him.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 12, 2011, 09:20:14 PM
hu kalabad hahaha
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 12, 2011, 09:27:10 PM


Maayo ka kay karon lang...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 12, 2011, 09:30:29 PM
ingon ate naa kono misugmat anhi og mitoderel?

asa ba to usa ka lambo nga preha ani hubs?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 12, 2011, 09:40:09 PM


Hmm, kini man tingali to...

http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/all/do-you-think-late-angelo-reyes-died-honorably/ (http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/all/do-you-think-late-angelo-reyes-died-honorably/)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 12, 2011, 09:43:08 PM
di na mao parti yapon ug pinay nga nakahir ang mga engkanto, wa kono siya mosugod sumpay kay unja mahinayak, nag segi ra siya katawa kono.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 12, 2011, 09:47:10 PM

Aw, lain pud diayng klase sa pagkatoderel. Sultian tika kon ako tong maagian...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 12, 2011, 10:04:33 PM
kadto naay ugly rich ba to?
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 12, 2011, 10:10:07 PM
Hmm, kini kaha?

http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/talk/pinays-prefer-ugly-rich-husbands/ (http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/talk/pinays-prefer-ugly-rich-husbands/)
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 12, 2011, 10:14:40 PM
yes korek hahaha thanks..!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on April 14, 2011, 02:37:53 AM
http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/talk/pinays-prefer-ugly-rich-husbands/[/url]
motoo jud ko ani hubs. praktikal na kaayo ang mga babaye ron.
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 14, 2011, 05:59:00 AM


Mao puy akong namatikdan. Sabagay, kon mangitag palami di na man maglisod... :P
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 14, 2011, 03:42:32 PM
ho kagilok hahaha
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 14, 2011, 04:36:05 PM
naa poy nachambahan lang oy,preha sila naa trabaho,narihat lang ang engkanto kang inday pinay,








whatever...!
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 14, 2011, 05:39:31 PM

Basin pud nagdalag come here and pahiyom ni Inday Agokoy... ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 14, 2011, 05:51:30 PM
bawo  ;D
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: hubag bohol on April 14, 2011, 06:04:58 PM

He he...
Title: Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
Post by: AsPo on April 14, 2011, 06:32:47 PM
 ha ha..
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