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benelynne · « **on:** February 04, 2009, 01:08:30 PM »

Filipinas marry foreigners for money not love
CHERYL ARCIBAL, GMANews.TV
02/03/2009 |

MANILA, Philippines- The inability of the Philippine economy to produce high-paying jobs especially for women has pushed Filipinos to marry foreigners as a way to provide for their families, the study Country Gender Assessment by regional lender Asian Development Bank said.

The number of Filipinos marrying foreigners have also tripled in just a span of eight years from 7,819 in 1998 to 24,954 in 2006.

It is also estimated that currently, 300,000 Filipinos, 92 percent of whom are women, are married to foreigners mainly from the United States, Japan, Canada, the United Kingdom and South Korea.

"(I)n the Philippines (as elsewhere), the phenomenon of 'mail order brides' is not uncommon. In the absence of employment prospects and with families to care for, many women view marrying a foreigner as an easy ticket to an overseas life with steady remittances. With the advent of the Internet, chat rooms, and text messaging the marriage migration numbers are on the rise," the ADB said.

Data from The Commission on Filipinos Overseas showed that Filipino women marrying men from East Asian countries tend to be younger and less educated. These foreign men also usually are at least 40 years older than their Filipino brides.

"Reports indicate that more women apply for 'marriage visas' to Japan as a result of Japan reducing its official demand for entertainers," ADB said.

In 2005 Japan has imposed a stricter immigration policy following Tokyo's inclusion in a US watchlist of high incidence of human smuggling.

ADB said Manila should undertake measures to protect Filipino women as those who marry foreigners that they do not know face enormous risks.

"Many of the men live in remote areas and are unsuccessful with women from their own culture, who they feel are spoiled and have too many freedoms. Instead, they want women with 'traditional' family values who, once in the country, have nowhere to turn and are completely at their mercy," ADB said.

Among the recommendations of the ADB was to tap remittances from overseas Filipinos for productive investment and sustainable livelihood opportunities for women so that migration becomes a choice rather than a necessity.

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benelynne · « **Reply #1 on:** February 04, 2009, 01:23:37 PM »

Where I am, in Japan, most anecdotal evidences seem to support this claim. Even now, my hands are tied up to the drafting and translation of postnuptial agreement on division of Philippine properties between a 66-year old Japanese and his 28-year old Filipina wife who first came to me practically jumping at each other's throat as they hurled accusations against each other.

Since 1995, Filipinas marrying Japanese have topped 7000 every year but close to half of these marriages end up in divorce. Tsk, tsk...

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #2 on:** February 04, 2009, 01:40:11 PM »

dili man tingali tanan...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #3 on:** February 04, 2009, 02:27:09 PM »

Noting against this at all. This is another manifest of Globalization, and the humanistic intrinsic need to search for greener pastures.

Europeans immigrated abroad in the 19th century and early 20th century to the United States as well as to Canada--for exactly the same reasons: Greener Pastures.

If anything, the fact that foreign men are preferring to marry Filipina women speaks wonders for the Filipina. And it honors the generalization of her being:
a) Hardworking
b) Loyal
c) Family-oriented
d) Religious
e) Patient
f) Intelligent

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A Layman · « **Reply #4 on:** February 04, 2009, 03:30:03 PM »

My niece went to Japan the first time in 1986 as a cultural dancer, a time when our country experienced economic set backs under Cory. The obvious reason was to look for a greener pasture. A year after, she was on vacation with her 50 yo Japanese suitor. The Jap built her a house in the province and entrusted her money to convince her about his marriage proposal. She was not inclined to marry that Jap because of age gap. She was still 18 yo that time. When she went back their relationship broke up and she found another Jap slightly older that she was. They got married here in our country and bore two children. The younger Jap was an ordinary employee whose income was much lesser than what my niece had. So this negates the presumption that she married the younger Jap for greener pasture. Lately, the marriage broke up when my niece was in vacation, because the Jap couldn't return anymore the money he borrowed from my niece. He left their home without even notifying her wife why and where? Only then when the authorities traced this person that he returned to their home and opened a divorce proposal to his wife because of the irresponsibilities he had. Now they are already separated and still my niece with her two grown up kids are staying in Japan, still enjoying their lives there. But, he lived unhappily ever after.

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fdaray · « **Reply #5 on:** February 04, 2009, 03:45:53 PM »

Some Pinays marry foreigners just for money. Loves develop when there is money.

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Bad Godesberg · « **Reply #6 on:** February 04, 2009, 07:41:46 PM »

If money talks

everybody listen, di ba !

but not all because of money! not everything on earth is money.
dili baya mapalit tanan sa kuwarta ang atong kalipay.

depende sa situasyon ang kaminyoon ay sagrado ug dili kini tiaw tiawan ug kung tao nahuna huna sa iyang future ay mahimo pod nga magminyo siya ug naahan

+JLY

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Scarb · « **Reply #7 on:** August 23, 2009, 06:54:08 AM »

mao gyud dili tanan..depende

naay cases nga tungod daw kay pang papel (staying permit)

apan di ikalimod nga naa pod uban tungod kay nagkasinabot
ug nagkahigugmaay aye

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #8 on:** August 23, 2009, 07:32:08 AM »

STEREOTYPING i could say.

dili tanan oi! Pero ug ang uban nga mao ilang purpose to marry foreigner, i dont care. I still salute them kay di baya tingali lalim maminyo ka or mo dulog ka ug tawo nga wa ka ganahi.

I overstayed in the US for more than a decade pero i never think of marrying para maka papel kay wa jud ko kakita ug lalaki nga akong giganahan. ( I even thought i was a lesbian

) Mao nga kadtong nangamenyo para maka datung ug maka papel, I RESPECTED YOUR DECISIONS peeps SALUDO JUD KO NINYO and more power! (ayaw lang usba inyung kinaija ha? labi na tong nakabana ug MADATUNG?)

peez!

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janjan · « **Reply #9 on:** August 23, 2009, 08:56:10 AM »

ay di gud tanan ako nailad na ko pinoy

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AsPo · « **Reply #10 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:35:54 AM »

depende god pod na.moingon nga money ra ngano adto pamas foreigner nga naa may pinoy nga mapera pod.namenyo sila kay sa mga foreigner kay maoy ilang naswerte

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #11 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:38:58 AM »

Could be true pero dili tanan. Ug moingon man gud ta tanan filipina nagmenyo ug foreigner kwarta ray gihigugma nag generalize na ta ani. Ang assumption man gud sa uban ingkalit ra ka ug menyo sa lalaki nga wa nimo nakita pero this is not true. Mostly namenyo ug foriegner bisan unsa pa na nga means sila nagkaila penpal,personal introduction by family member or sa chat ing undergo na sila ug getting to know each other wala man na sila mohamag rag menyo. Plus ang paper works lang gani sa pag obtain ug visa dili lalim i scrutinize ka ug maayo unsa jud ka true imong purpose ug intention ug tinuod ba mong naghinigugmaay. Ug nagmenyo man gani ang filipina nga walay gugma sa gimenyuan nga banyaga 100 percent sure ko kining bayhana way kalipay.

In my case yes tinuod namenyo ko ug foreigner pero dili gyud money akong number one intention.Ipokrita ko ug moingon ko nga wa na maapil, kinsa bay gusto nato magmenyo ug magkalisod lisod wala di ba. Ug smart ka nga babae usa na ang financial stability inig mamenyo ka sa imong wish.

Gamay pa jud ko gusto na ko mamenyo ug caucasian. Unya sa nadaga na kong hingkod kay wa may nanguyab nako mao nakaingon jud ko sa ahong kaugalingon Patay candidate jud ko ani sa dagang bakot.Mao ingbalik to ahong hilig ug foreigner. Ug gusto pa jud ko magmenyo ug kwarta gipili siguro nako ang doctor ug attorney. First jud nakong gibati aning akong nabana karon kalooy kay sa iyang profile iyang giingon kay Farm Laborer ra daw siya.Akong hunahuna nga pareha sa laborer sa atua. Good Catholic sad siya maoy akong gipangita sa laki unya kalooy ang nga dili ning akong bana makakita ug pangasaw on kay lagi laborer ra mao akong gisuwatan. Napuno baya ko ug biay biay sa akong mga kauban sa trabaho sa una kay bu**** kono ko nganong ang farm laborer gipili nga naay daghan daw kwartahan.Gisungog pa ko nila nga nakita na daw nila akong future naglukdo ug mais unja naay daghan bata nagsunod. Ingtuo gyud ko pag ayo sa akong nabana nga farm laborer ra siya mao shocking kaayo pag abot nako diri ultimo iyang chicken shade mas nindot pa sa among balay hahahah. As in low kaayo akong expectation sa akong nabana. Murag nailad lagi ko kay gipili nako siya kay abi naho pareha ming way nahot naunsa tag ija man diay ug farm. Kining akong case mo prove jud ko ani nga dili money ug greener pasture akong motive kundi true love kay very low kaayo akong expectation.Bahala na ug pobre akong bana basta relihiyoso mao na akong permi sulti.

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Brownman · « **Reply #12 on:** August 23, 2009, 09:43:35 AM »

as for now it's very practical coz di ka kalihuk ug wa tay kwarta
ma o lagi gui ingun nga no money no honey!

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #13 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:44:12 AM »

Data from The Commission on Filipinos Overseas showed that Filipino women marrying men from East Asian countries tend to be younger and less educated. These foreign men also usually are at least 40 years older than their Filipino brides.

Nakatan-aw ko one time og ducumentary about Filipina wives of Korean farmers. Luoy kaajo kay kasagaran nila nakalitan sa treatment nga ilang nadawat. Nihit man kunog mga babaye didto, unja ang mga farmers nangitag mapangasawa for sex, companionship and free labor. Dihay gi-interview (several of them Bisaya ang pinulongan) nga nagmahay intawon kay kuwang in terms of companionship pero bugbog sarado in terms of sex and free labor.

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #14 on:** August 23, 2009, 11:13:12 AM »

Nakatan-aw ko one time og ducumentary about Filipina wives of Korean farmers. Luoy kaajo kay kasagaran nila nakalitan sa treatment nga ilang nadawat. Nihit man kunog mga babaye didto, unja ang mga farmers nangitag mapangasawa for sex, companionship and free labor. Dihay gi-interview (several of them Bisaya ang pinulongan) nga nagmahay intawon kay kuwang in terms of companionship pero bugbog sarado in terms of sex and free labor.

Kasagaran namenyo ug Korean kay mao man siguro ni result sa matching matching ni Moon bitaw kanang gitawag nila ug Moon mass wedding bale naa ni siya unification church. Na schock bitaw ko katong nagpastamp ko sa una sa DFA before ta mo out sa country mosiminar man anang CFO perti kadaghan pinay namenyo ug Korean ug mao lagi daw ni matching matching ra daw sila nagkaila uban gani wa nila ma meet ilang bana ba to.Mao ni hadlok ug klaro kaayo motive.

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Koddi Prudente · « **Reply #15 on:** August 23, 2009, 11:49:29 AM »

Money and/or love. Both reasons. Pero wala tay figures kon pila ang naminyo mainly for money or mainly for love. Ang mas importante kon unsay nahitabo sa pagpanglabay sa panahon. Kon giunsa nila pagmatuto ang kinabuhing minyo ug giunsa nila pagpadaku ang ilang mga anak.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #16 on:** August 23, 2009, 12:26:32 PM »

Moderno na man ni nga notion, marrying for love. For centuries love was never part of the equation. Nahimuot bitaw ko sa ahong nabalitaan about Germany several years ago, nga dihay question about arranged marriages between aging Indian women and young German men. Investigations revealed that the consideration for marriage was the acquisition of German citizenship. The Indians paid a lot of money. The couples would divorce right after the objective was achieved. (I've been told that an enterprising young man married this way three times before he turned 30, and made a lot of money.) The courts ruled that there is nothing in the law that required love as a prerequisite for marriage. As long as the bride and groom have all the qualifications and none of the disqualifications, they can marry under German law. Ambot lang kaha kon nagsigi pa ba ni nga practice didto.

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #17 on:** August 23, 2009, 12:59:39 PM »

Money and/or love. Both reasons. Pero wala tay figures kon pila ang naminyo mainly for money or mainly for love. Ang mas importante kon unsay nahitabo sa pagpanglabay sa panahon. Kon giunsa nila pagmatuto ang kinabuhing minyo ug giunsa nila pagpadaku ang ilang mga anak.

Sakto ka Koddi. Pero mostly jud sa nagmenyo ug money ang reason way kahapsay ang pamuyo ug kinabuhing menyo mao ni moresulta magbulag. Naa koy sister inlaw(ex na karon) Ang adopted brother sa akong bana namenyo ug filipina mas una pa sila namo ug kamenyo.Karon nag ingon ni nako ang filipina before mi naabot diri nga mao kono nagmenyo siya sa igsoon sa akong bana kay aron maabot diri sa america aron makapangita ug trabaho aron makatabang sa pamilya. Tinuod gyud iyang sulti kay pag abot diri namugos jud siya mangita ug trabaho bisan dili gusto ang bana kay kaigo baya ila income nila. Pila ka tuig gi divorce gyud niya ang igsoon sa akong bana. Very unhappy iyang marriage the whole time daghan siya complain.Kung kami pasultion wala baya silay problema unta pero siya ang nagbuhat problema bunga ni sa bad intention niya nagmenyo in the first place sa tawong wala siyay gugma. Sa una favorite siya sa akong mother inlaw na feel gyud to nako hehehe then iya giaway among inlaws gipasanginlan nga gi spoil kono nila ang iya bana. Na branded nuon to siya sa akong inlaws ug materialistic kay bisan unsay gusto dapat matuman gyud. Permi siya naa sa disco ug daghan barkada. Kas a nagvisit mi nila sa kansas inay mang disco mi kay inglugsong lagi kono ko didto taga bukid mao iya unta ko dalhon disco naunsa ba didto man nuon mi sa hospital nag overnight kay nag comvulsion akong anak.Wa jud to itugot sa kahitas an siguro. Akoy nasayang sa kamenyuon nilang giusikan. Namenyo na akong ex sisterinlaw ug balik one month human siya na divorce.

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Keko · « **Reply #18 on:** August 24, 2009, 06:43:58 PM »

Well in my opinion I think I know now how to detect a "bad" filipina or a good one. I think is too obvious when a filipina is just there for money but some foreigners (overall the ones that marry bar girls Â¬Â¬) seem blind.

I think with an easy check they could know if she is clean or not but I do not know why they do not do them. They just say "no she is not like the others"

I am 25 yo. My gf is 23 yo, she is filipina and lives in Cebu. We never were interested in each other, all that happened between us was unnespected for both of us.
She earns the minimum filipino wage right now.

I do not send her money and she never asked me for a peso even beeing there.

I told her I wonÂ´t marry soon that I need years before that and she didnÂ´t go for other one.

She expends money from her little wage to call me to my spanish mobile and never told me to payback.

She is not interested in come to europe by the moment. She seems happy with her life and she says me "I am poor but I am happy here"

She refused from me a work I found to her in call center with more money by far than her current wage. Her reason was that in that work she would earn more money but she wonÂ´t have a good shift to chat to me cause of the difference of time.

She doesnÂ´t know how much I earn and never asked about it.

Even earning only the minimum wage she has spent quite amount in things for me (unexpected presents overall)

Even borrowing her my old laptop that is not brand new by far (5 years old) she seemed the happiest person in the world and never requested me to buy a brand new one as others do.

She knows I am not looking a future house wife to maintain and that she will have to work as well as me.

When we started to break ice between us she told me what she likes to do when she is on spare time and I found was exactly what I like but I never told her I liked those things.

I think these all signs are good so I think I am safe with her.

Obviously maybe for me is different cause I am young and not and old man. But if people there would think with the brain instead of the ..... hehehe (sorry I did not know other way to explain it) then in some time nobody will hear again "filipinas marry foreigners for money" cause those girls wouldnÂ´t have a chance.

A scammer or a filipina that is looking for money or leaving the country will hurry in all (soon request money for any reason, when is the visa ready, when will you marry me? etc etc) all this things happen in a short time the most and in a medium time in the rest but they show their real face soon

This is my opinion of this

About why a filipina gf. I wasnÂ´t looking for it. It all happened by surprise.
But I like how she is. How she treat me. And I like her cause she likes the same things I like so we enjoy together always.

Take care all

Regards from Spain

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thegirlnextdoor · « **Reply #19 on:** August 24, 2009, 07:44:07 PM »

It seems we have some change of mind in here from something sort of simliar that I had posted in Expats thread in Tubag.

I do recall many Filipina women in here got really irked off when I had brought this topic up in the past.

As for older men marrying younger aged girls as they say one foot on the bannana peel and one foot on the grave!

As for the part about Good Filipina versus versus gold digger bad girl types yea men should really do they're homework first and not be so blind about chosing the right descent woman here.

Also women here need not fall for a man who is a reject amongst his own race back in his own country.

Many foreigner guys are ugly who come here looking for love and some are on fixed income due to being clinically diagnosed as manic depressed. They receive what we call an SSI if they found unable to work do to non curable chemical imbalances in the head.

These are normally the type of guys who come here. I know plenty foreigner men and most want to play around and not be serious.

There are also really good foreigner men who come here also.

Lorenzo I do not totally agree with you that all Filipina woman or any other women are all those positive characteristics that you have mentioned above.

No one is perfect.

I respect the rights of everyone's feelings and opinions on this topic and look at it from all angles especially as the islands spokesperson on Bohol Expats.

Most the men are not shy to talk about how they treat women and how women treat them.
Its hard being the only foreign female in the group of a bunch of horny and finatic foreigner men who are ga ga ga over Pinay!

LOL!

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Keko · « **Reply #20 on:** August 24, 2009, 08:13:44 PM »

Many foreigner guys are ugly who come here looking for love and some are on fixed income due to being clinically diagnosed as manic depressed. They receive what we call an SSI if they found unable to work do to non curable chemical imbalances in the head.

Some of these ugly old foreigner look for love but others look for a slave or a maid. this is my feeling after I spoke some of them in Philippines.

And as well some behaved so arrogant in philippines. I was really ashamed even if I am not from their country but because the people would think I am like them just cause I am not pinoy

Best regards

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #21 on:** August 24, 2009, 08:53:49 PM »

Also women here need not fall for a man who is a reject amongst his own race back in his own country.

Some of these ugly old foreigner look for love but others look for a slave or a maid. this is my feeling after I spoke some of them in Philippines.

And as well some behaved so arrogant in philippines. I was really ashamed even if I am not from their country but because the people would think I am like them just cause I am not pinoy

Best regards

Sorry I can't help chiming in. Yes, sad to say, most of these old ugly foreigners are losers in their home country. And many of them are sick (not ill, but really sick, as in sicko).

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #22 on:** August 24, 2009, 09:28:24 PM »

Any men who hold a decent job,had good financial stability no matter what race is a good candidate to be a good husband. Foreigner had good standing chance being chosen by filipina over most Filipino whom just set around,live with parents, don't wanna work and acting immature.
Old men whom in disabilities check or SSI,bum men, men with no real job have no business in marrying someone unless he can provide for his family.
I agree with Pricilla that lot's of foreigners (old,fat,bald and ugly, on disabilities) marry a young hot chick Filipina. Can't blame them. The filipina want money and maybe love while the foreigner want a trophy wife or he wanna relive his youth by having hot chick with him all the time. Beside it's a cheaper way to live in Philippines so better get a filipina wife so be easy to move there and live like a king on fixed income.

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #23 on:** August 24, 2009, 10:21:06 PM »

ang uban, money o convenience una, then love na.

ang uban, love una, then money na sunod.

palehola

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Keko · « **Reply #24 on:** August 24, 2009, 11:15:38 PM »

The truth is that there are friends and foes in both sides and is the people who has to check who is the real person they are with

. If they do not do it then later they shouldnÂ´t say "All filipinas marry for money" or "all foreigners etc etc

"

The problem is old men the most part of the times go to easy women or cheap women as my gf says

And if they do not get along in europe or usa with that kind of girls why they do that there or worse with "professionals" and marry them.

Later they will blame all the women there cause they were acting brainless, and we have the topic "all filipinas marry foreigners for money"

If they act stupid they should blame themselfs, not others

Regards

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #25 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:57:18 AM »

Well in my opinion I think I know now how to detect a "bad" filipina or a good one. I think is too obvious when a filipina is just there for money but some foreigners (overall the ones that marry bar girls Â¬Â¬) seem blind.

I think with an easy check they could know if she is clean or not but I do not know why they do not do them. They just say "no she is not like the others"

I am 25 yo. My gf is 23 yo, she is filipina and lives in Cebu. We never were interested in each other, all that happened between us was unnespected for both of us.
She earns the minimum filipino wage right now.

I do not send her money and she never asked me for a peso even beeing there.

I told her I wonÂ´t marry soon that I need years before that and she didnÂ´t go for other one.

She expends money from her little wage to call me to my spanish mobile and never told me to payback.

She is not interested in come to europe by the moment. She seems happy with her life and she says me "I am poor but I am happy here"

She refused from me a work I found to her in call center with more money by far than her current wage. Her reason was that in that work she would earn more money but she wonÂ´t have a good shift to chat to me cause of the difference of time.

She doesnÂ´t know how much I earn and never asked about it.

Even earning only the minimum wage she has spent quite amount in things for me (unexpected presents overall)

Even borrowing her my old laptop that is not brand new by far (5 years old) she seemed the happiest person in the world and never requested me to buy a brand new one as others do.

She knows I am not looking a future house wife to maintain and that she will have to work as well as me.

When we started to break ice between us she told me what she likes to do when she is on spare time and I found was exactly what I like but I never told her I liked those things.

I think these all signs are good so I think I am safe with her.

Obviously maybe for me is different cause I am young and not and old man. But if people there would think with the brain instead of the ..... hehehe (sorry I did not know other way to explain it) then in some time nobody will hear again "filipinas marry foreigners for money" cause those girls wouldnÂ´t have a chance.

A scammer or a filipina that is looking for money or leaving the country will hurry in all (soon request money for any reason, when is the visa ready, when will you marry me? etc etc) all this things happen in a short time the most and in a medium time in the rest but they show their real face soon

This is my opinion of this

About why a filipina gf. I wasnÂ´t looking for it. It all happened by surprise.
But I like how she is. How she treat me. And I like her cause she likes the same things I like so we enjoy together always.

Take care all

Regards from Spain

Como Estas?!

Hope your stay el Las Filipinas was great!

Regards, amigo!

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statesville · « **Reply #26 on:** August 25, 2009, 08:10:33 AM »

Though the title is a stereo-type, tunnel vision
   in categorizing all Filipinas that are married to
   foreigners, remind you that for every rule
   there's always an exception.

Everybody have their own reasons; in my case
  puro dimalas akong mga pinoys nga nauyab sa
  una ug ang pinakadimalas kay kining particular
  nga pinoy grabe ko nga pagka in love niya gani
  ni attempt ko ug hikog pagbuwag namo
  kay nakakita siyag laing mahal. Pulos mga
palikero, pasikat kinsay pinakadaghan ug uyab,
walay mga batikun...aw kasingkasing diay.

Then I realized, alkanse ko, siya malipayon sa
   bag-ong mahal unya ako kaonon lang sa wati....

I closed my ears and changed my heart, basin kon
  sa foreigner makakita kog tinood magmahal nako
   and I was succesful: I have a good career, a
   man that loves me and most of all I'm here in
   a greener pasture as they say, so pinays...you go
   girls.....
My husband says that, he could never ask for
   another pinay; since I'm a Registered nurse,
   Accounting degree from the Philippines,
   a cook, a gardener and a dressmaker.

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #27 on:** August 25, 2009, 08:20:20 AM »

Though the title is a stereo-type, tunnel vision
in categorizing all Filipinas that are married to
foreigners, remind you that for every rule
there's always an exception.

Everybody have their own reasons; in my case
puro dimalas akong mga pinoys nga nauyab sa
una ug ang pinakadimalas kay kining particular
nga pinoy grabe ko nga pagka in love niya but
ni attempt ko ug hikog pagbuwag namo
kay nakakita siyag laing mahal.

Then I realized, alkanse ko, siya malipayon sa
bag-ong mahal unya ako kaonon lang sa wati....

I closed my ears and changed my heart, basin kon
sa foreigner makakita kog tinood magmahal nako
and I was succesful: I have a good career, a
man that loves me and most of all I'm here in
a greener pasture as they say, so pinays...you go
girls.....
My husband says that, he could never ask for
another pinay; since I'm a Registered nurse,
Accounting degree from the Philippines,
a cook, a gardener and a dressmaker.

asa ra sila ana? Pinays are great lovers. Faithful lovers.

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fdaray · « **Reply #28 on:** August 25, 2009, 08:20:33 AM »

Para sa mga Pinay, money first, the love. If love is not developed, then divorce.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #29 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:22:14 AM »

Para sa mga Pinay, money first, the love. If love is not developed, then divorce.

He he, mora diayg photographic film. Kon ma-expose unja dili mo-develop, diskasi...

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Mari · « **Reply #30 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:27:13 AM »

why is it always associated with 'money' when we choose to be with a foreigner. we all deserve to be with someone regardless of race and nationality, someone who will love us, understand and care.

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benelynne · « **Reply #31 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:41:27 AM »

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #32 on:** August 25, 2009, 12:11:43 PM »

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

hoy mga minjo, ug minjoon, paminaw mo ni Brod. Bene. basaha ni.

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Lollapalooza · « **Reply #33 on:** August 25, 2009, 12:20:34 PM »

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

nice kaayu sir... tama gyud ka...salamat kay naa nako guide kung sure na ba ko or dili hehehehehe

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Keko · « **Reply #34 on:** August 25, 2009, 03:09:31 PM »

why is it always associated with 'money' when we choose to be with a foreigner. we all deserve to be with someone regardless of race and nationality, someone who will love us, understand and care.

The same reason as lot of people in pinas thing we have a tree in our house that grows lot of money every day and we are all rich when the reality is far from that.

Just topics as always.

I met lot of filipinas married to husbands that were living on the edge all the months so I think they were not chasing money

I hate that just cause I am with a filipina gf all the people have to think she is looking for money. She doesnÂ´t like that neither she is always worried of "what the people could think of her" but well she showed me she is good like the most part of the filipinas.

But as always a little bad people do more noise than a huge amount of good ones, just be careful and select with who you are

Regards

Como Estas?!

Hope your stay el Las Filipinas was great!

Regards, amigo!

Yeah I had fun. Was better than I expected by far. I will go back again in November another 21 days

I was in your town in the springs

See you

Regards

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #35 on:** August 25, 2009, 03:40:23 PM »

Keko am happy you visited my beloved Valencia!

Hopefully I can meet you in Spain.

I wish to visit Mother Spain someday.

Viva!

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Keko · « **Reply #36 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:19:01 PM »

Keko am happy you visited my beloved Valencia!

Hopefully I can meet you in Spain.

I wish to visit Mother Spain someday.

Viva!

hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops"

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasnÂ´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards

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AsPo · « **Reply #37 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:21:51 PM »

mao jod sir bene,mag inono ngay jod.moingon man ako bana nga binsa unsa ang mga pag suway ninjo mag asawa,og nagmahalan daw,tanan malusu

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #38 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:44:07 PM »

hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops"

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasnÂ´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards

Glad to know you had fun. Did you take pictures?

I hope you visited the Church in Valencia. Its so beautiful...

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Keko · « **Reply #39 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:49:50 PM »

Really I do not have a lot of pictures. some in Sagbayan peak. Some in Panglao. Some in Chocolate hills, some in Loboc and some random. I am not good with pics

I do not like them a lot. I am not the kind of tourist that goes with a cam in the hand all the time

-

Regards

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #40 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:51:03 PM »

I would have loved to have seen the pictures.

Thanks anyways.

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hofelina · « **Reply #41 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:59:53 PM »

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

This is a wise posting! I love your wisdom.

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benelynne · « **Reply #42 on:** August 25, 2009, 05:38:05 PM »

Manay Tess,

I've read perhaps a library of books, and attended hundreds of lecture hours up to grad school. But Experience is still the best teacher.

Hangtud ron, estudyante pa gihapon ko sa kaminyuon. All I can say is that even marriages made in heaven have to pass the test of hell.

Kung subayon nato ang metaphor sa pagsakay sa bus, didto sa kinalibaongan nga dalan angay magkuptanay ug ayo, as in holding hands gyud aron di mahagbong. Ug mupili lang ka'g hanoy nga dalan, pangturista lang ang pag-ipon nga gusto nimo. The patchy, rough roads are the real test of your union.

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

This is a wise posting! I love your wisdom.

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #43 on:** August 25, 2009, 07:36:17 PM »

Looy jud ning Filipina kay ug magmenyo ug foreigner ingnon kwarta ray gimenyuan,unya ug mamili pud tag abroad sa atua ug kwatahan ug kagikan mao gihapon ingnon kwarta ray giapas. Pastilan asa naman ta ani molugar.
Ang importante para nako nga bahala ug walay motuo nako unsa akong gugma sa akong bana nag uros uros permi heheheh basta importante ako ray nasayod ug akong bana sa among paghinigugmaay diin nagbunga ug daghan bata ug hilabihang kalipay sa pagpamuyo.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #44 on:** August 25, 2009, 09:53:27 PM »

It's a nice thing for a marriage to last. A golden wedding anniversary is no doubt an amazing feat. If a man and a woman truly love each other and wish to live together forever, each one growing stronger in close physical and emotional proximity to the other, well and good. But the focus should be the welfare of the persons involved, not the definition of the tie that binds them. Indeed, it's more desirable to have the human beings brought together by marriage to survive as persons, as individuals, whole and wholesome, with their faculties intact, with the smile of insouciance neatly framed by the wrinkles of experience. There's no greater hypocrisy than presenting a marriage as apparently intact, happy and strong for all and sundry to admire, and yet with the principals involved therein wallowing in self-loathing and despair, cursing each other and God and God knows who else, only because church and society would remind them time and again that they don't have option to be honest in their fallibility.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #45 on:** August 25, 2009, 09:58:02 PM »

Looy jud ning Filipina kay ug magmenyo ug foreigner ingnon kwarta ray gimenyuan,unya ug mamili pud tag abroad sa atua ug kwatahan ug kagikan mao gihapon ingnon kwarta ray giapas. Pastilan asa naman ta ani molugar.
Ang importante para nako nga bahala ug walay motuo nako unsa akong gugma sa akong bana nag uros uros permi heheheh basta importante ako ray nasayod ug akong bana sa among paghinigugmaay diin nagbunga ug daghan bata ug hilabihang kalipay sa pagpamuyo.

Korek Kel, we dont have to live in accordance with other people's opinion or what people think! kay ug sila atong pa but-on na unsa na kaha sad ta ron.

Naa sad unta question nga Nganong ang mga Tawo sa Ato Are More worried about what other people think?

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #46 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:27:05 PM »

Again this is just other people's trivial exercise of opinion. who cared when one made that decision and trudged the rather slippery road of a relationship with somebody they barely knew--or at least they just met in the Net or whatever?

now that they've thrived and flourished with all the struggles and risks, for love and being loved, do you think it still matters what others think?

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #47 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:32:28 PM »

What really matter to me now is your nice beard! hahahahha! huy ka gwapo ba nimo abata ka! hahahhah!

Ikaw na Glace??? Ug kana jud noon nawonga makig penpal nako sa suwat o internet, mo sugot jud ko! hahahahahhah

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jamo2x · « **Reply #48 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:40:09 PM »

nahimo na man gud ning komedja sa ato ron labi na sa mga babae nga hilig mag chat para mangitag 3Ms...Matandang Mayaman madaling Mamatay, aw 4Ms na man diay.

og tigulang na ang ma asawa og masakiton pa jud, lisod na jud tuohan nga nahigugma ang baje sa tigulang nga laki...di na pud nato ma 'deny' ni kay makita man nato sa mga malls, mga young girls kauban ilang mga senior nga foreigner BF o hubby.

mao na gani na cge ingon sa ahong mga amigang chix, 'pangitae kog 3Ms dha sa merika beh'

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #49 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:41:52 PM »

nahimo na man gud ning komedja sa ato ron labi na sa mga babae nga hilig mag chat para mangitag 3Ms...Matandang Mayaman madaling Mamatay, aw 4Ms na man diay.

og tigulang na ang ma asawa og masakiton pa jud, lisod na jud tuohan nga nahigugma ang baje sa tigulang nga laki...di na pud nato ma 'deny' ni kay makita man nato sa mga malls, mga young girls kauban ilang mga senior nga foreigner BF o hubby.

mao na gani na cge ingon sa ahong mga amigang chix, 'pangitae kog 3Ms dha sa merika beh'

Like Nicole Smith? unsa man ang ika 4M Jams? naa ba gud na?

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jamo2x · « **Reply #50 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:53:26 PM »

Like Nicole Smith? unsa man ang ika 4M Jams? naa ba gud na?

hehehe kato gud, Matandang Mayaman Madaling Mamatay, pero 3Ms (Mayaman Madaling Mamatay) man ang na uso sa ato gud.

hehehe naa baya ko auntie biyuda nah, last yr lng nag pakasal sa iyang BF sa chat taga London, masakiton na sab (hapit na guro ma dedz)

asus niangay baya ang laki sa Dvo, tua ron didto na nag puyo...lipay cguro ang tigulang ky daghn mag bantay sa iya...

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glacier_71 · « **Reply #51 on:** August 25, 2009, 10:56:04 PM »

What really matter to me now is your nice beard! hahahahha! huy ka gwapo ba nimo abata ka! hahahhah!

Ikaw na Glace??? Ug kana jud noon nawonga makig penpal nako sa suwat o internet, mo sugot jud ko! hahahahahhah

bawi-bawion na lang kay ABAT na man diay imong panaaw diha. hahahaha

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Bambi · « **Reply #52 on:** August 25, 2009, 11:47:30 PM »

What really matter to me now is your nice beard! hahahahha! huy ka gwapo ba nimo abata ka! hahahhah!

Ikaw na Glace??? Ug kana jud noon nawonga makig penpal nako sa suwat o internet, mo sugot jud ko! hahahahahhah

Bayat. arang nahong pagka- crush ni Glacier sa iyang avatar ganinang buntag....asa ra ba to? Pagkagwapo niya...dili ba kaha ni siya apo ni Eddie Garcia? Kadtong sexbomb actor sa ato.

bawi-bawion na lang kay ABAT na man diay imong panaaw diha. hahahaha

Hoy Glacier aron mi malipay diri, hala ibalik tong imong black and white avatar. okey? PLEASE! Mao ni among TB inspiration diri.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #53 on:** August 26, 2009, 12:29:17 AM »

Bayat. arang nahong pagka- crush ni Glacier sa iyang avatar ganinang buntag....asa ra ba to? Pagkagwapo niya...dili ba kaha ni siya apo ni Eddie Garcia? Kadtong sexbomb actor sa ato.

Hoy Glacier aron mi malipay diri, hala ibalik tong imong black and white avatar. okey? PLEASE! Mao ni among TB inspiration diri.

nawa na sad! shalan gud ni oi!

hard to get jud si Glacier Bayat!!!

hahahhah!

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Scarb · « **Reply #54 on:** August 26, 2009, 03:59:09 AM »

ada oroy sigeg atiman ana mga yawit sa uban
mano ba siin unsa naa sa ila huna huna
sila bay gikatipon?

whatever reason,situation,tumong ug tinguha ug unsa pana diha
sa mga kababaihan natong Pinay nga nakapakner ug engkanto
mao gyud na ang gitawag nga swerte?
fate, destiny blah blah bow !

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #55 on:** August 26, 2009, 04:03:08 AM »

ada oroy sigeg atiman ana mga yawit sa uban
mano ba siin unsa naa sa ila huna huna
sila bay gikatipon?

whatever reason,situation,tumong ug tinguha ug unsa pana diha
sa mga kababaihan natong Pinay nga nakapakner ug engkanto
mao gyud na ang gitawag nga swerte?
fate, destiny blah blah bow !

ENGKANTO!

wahahhaahha!

(lagsik na sad akong laway ani taman sa Sacra!)

hahahhahahha!

bitaw oi! tig buot gud nila uroy! maayo na isumpay tong thread ni Bambi nga "Kung Sija Pa Ang Akong Nadayun"

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Bambi · « **Reply #56 on:** August 26, 2009, 04:23:37 AM »

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.

Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

A wise man has given his words. Exact marriage analysis.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #57 on:** August 26, 2009, 05:44:50 AM »

Bayat ug pwede pa lang eskwelahan ug mag PhD ko para makakita ug maayong kaminyoon, mo eskwela jud ko ana!

Tinuod man jud nang giingon ni Bene san.

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Happy · « **Reply #58 on:** August 26, 2009, 05:54:39 AM »

Ngano permi manjud himoon nga issue ning mga filipina nga nangaminyo ug foreigner nga kwarta ang hinungdan?

Helloooo people, look other nationalities too, dili ra pilipina ang nangaminyo ug dili taga-ila. paet rapud ning isyoha, way kahumanan.

No one has the right to judge anyone.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #59 on:** August 26, 2009, 07:07:56 AM »

Ngano permi manjud himoon nga issue ning mga filipina nga nangaminyo ug foreigner nga kwarta ang hinungdan?

Helloooo people, look other nationalities too, dili ra pilipina ang nangaminyo ug dili taga-ila. paet rapud ning isyoha, way kahumanan.

No one has the right to judge anyone.

Murag Pinoy raman nag ingon ani tingali?

Kay ako FOREIGNER man diri sa Merika, daghan man sad nag tralala nako unsa man ni? daw beh unsa man ni??

makalivug!

SAkto jud ka Inday Icel!

No one has the right to judge anyone.

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janjan · « **Reply #60 on:** August 26, 2009, 09:02:45 AM »

Ngano permi manjud himoon nga issue ning mga filipina nga nangaminyo ug foreigner nga kwarta ang hinungdan?

Helloooo people, look other nationalities too, dili ra pilipina ang nangaminyo ug dili taga-ila. paet rapud ning isyoha, way kahumanan.

No one has the right to judge anyone.

na S lang na sila lol basta kay love gud naho aho banana nga puti

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benelynne · « **Reply #61 on:** August 26, 2009, 09:14:42 AM »

Ang tinuod ani, Glace, "Women really go for the looks, and mistake it for love, but end up with someone else for money."

Pero ug ikaw gyud na Glace, swerte ang baje, kay she can have the looks, the love, and the money in one package.

bawi-bawion na lang kay ABAT na man diay imong panaaw diha. hahahaha

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janjan · « **Reply #62 on:** August 26, 2009, 09:22:39 AM »

Murag Pinoy raman nag ingon ani tingali?

Kay ako FOREIGNER man diri sa Merika, daghan man sad nag tralala nako unsa man ni? daw beh unsa man ni??

makalivug!

SAkto jud ka Inday Icel!

No one has the right to judge anyone.

hahaha tinuod gud na da bins ha daghan guihapon mo tralala mamoot lang ko kay mga batan-on pa gud naay nakig-ila-ila naho ngeee maski nag pushed ko stroller sa ahong bugoy kailad pa man hehehe

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lindy · « **Reply #63 on:** August 26, 2009, 10:55:13 AM »

diha koy nakaila nga puti ang iya asawa taga bohol. ako pangutana ngano nangasawa man ka niya. ingon sya kay kamao man sya mo drive. lol.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #64 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:00:17 AM »

diha koy nakaila nga puti ang iya asawa taga bohol. ako pangutana ngano nangasawa man ka niya. ingon sya kay kamao man sya mo drive. lol.

drive us SUV? klaroha Pards! o drive lang jud!

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Bambi · « **Reply #65 on:** August 26, 2009, 04:15:47 PM »

...... mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Morag ing-ani "Bus" tong ahong nasakyan permiro..... Ningkanaog ko kay mahal kaajo pangayo ang plete unsa gihimo pa kong sagoy-sagoy (kargador). Karon...sa kalouy sa Diyos hanoy pa ring ahong gisakyan....abot pa kada tuig sa Bohol.

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Scarb · « **Reply #66 on:** August 26, 2009, 05:34:07 PM »

drive us SUV? klaroha Pards! o drive lang jud!

ayee abot na sa drive oh
unya mosamtong sa dinarohay
dayon kan anay ug imbaw

bahakhak nako diwe yeyeye

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #67 on:** August 26, 2009, 07:28:45 PM »

dayon kan anay ug imbaw

kon way imbaw, tuway
tuway nga naglaway

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lindy · « **Reply #68 on:** August 26, 2009, 08:05:16 PM »

over drive

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statesville · « **Reply #69 on:** August 26, 2009, 09:54:58 PM »

Ngano permi manjud himoon nga issue ning mga filipina nga nangaminyo ug foreigner nga kwarta ang hinungdan?

Helloooo people, look other nationalities too, dili ra pilipina ang nangaminyo ug dili taga-ila. paet rapud ning isyoha, way kahumanan.

no one has the right to judge anyone.

Exactly.
An American white nurse I work with likes to chat with foreigners
in Europe. This week and for the next 3 weeks
she is on vacation kay ang iya male friend from
Scotland is coming over to see her.
She is 35 years old, very pretty blond, blue eyes
and petit.
The Scottish is about her age, and not a rich
man either.
Both of them are looking for a future mate, after
their previous failed marriages.
It's not about money.

Sa Pinas kay daghang himantayon, hilabtanon
mga balhiboon ug mga dila.
Kon ila anak college student makauyab
ug walay grado, pwerteng daghanag saway, apil
tanang relatives, gubot pas lukot.

Hypocrisy of the highest kind
looking only from the economic point
of view, kon pobre ug way grado, they look
at you like manure.

Kon mamenpal ka or magnetpal, libakon kay nangitag dollar.
Aw, come'n now, nobody's gonna pay their bills, but
the person herself.
Mga libakera, himantayon, mga dila nag lit-ad lit-ad
morag bitin tumotundok.

Ignore them. Flap your wings while young and
able to fly to look for a greener pasture to graze
mentras wala pa mangapangag ug mangataltag
ang mga ngipon.

I'm glad I did, my Spaniard-American hubby is just
wonderful.
If I have to do it again, I will still do the same.

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janjan · « **Reply #70 on:** August 26, 2009, 10:33:13 PM »

Exactly.
An American white nurse I work with likes to chat with foreigners
in Europe. This week and for the next 3 weeks
she is on vacation kay ang iya male friend from
Scotland is coming over to see her.
She is 35 years old, very pretty blond, blue eyes
and petit.
The Scottish is about her age, and not a rich
man either.
Both of them are looking for a future mate, after
their previous failed marriages.
It's not about money.

Sa Pinas kay daghang himantayon, hilabtanon
mga balhiboon ug mga dila.
Kon ila anak college student makauyab
ug walay grado, pwerteng daghanag saway, apil
tanang relatives, gubot pas lukot.

Hypocrisy of the highest kind
looking only from the economic point
of view, kon pobre ug way grado, they look
at you like manure.

Kon mamenpal ka or magnetpal, libakon kay nangitag dollar.
Aw, come'n now, nobody's gonna pay their bills, but
the person herself.
Mga libakera, himantayon, mga dila nag lit-ad lit-ad
morag bitin tumotundok.

Ignore them. Flap your wings while young and
able to fly to look for a greener pasture to graze
mentras wala pa mangapangag ug mangataltag
ang mga ngipon.

I'm glad I did, my Spaniard-American hubby is just
wonderful.
If I have to do it again, I will still do the same.

mao tinuod gud libakera daghan sa pinas ma S lang lagi na sila

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #71 on:** August 26, 2009, 10:59:58 PM »

Exactly.
An American white nurse I work with likes to chat with foreigners
in Europe. This week and for the next 3 weeks
she is on vacation kay ang iya male friend from
Scotland is coming over to see her.
She is 35 years old, very pretty blond, blue eyes
and petit.
The Scottish is about her age, and not a rich
man either.
Both of them are looking for a future mate, after
their previous failed marriages.
It's not about money.

Sa Pinas kay daghang himantayon, hilabtanon
mga balhiboon ug mga dila.
Kon ila anak college student makauyab
ug walay grado, pwerteng daghanag saway, apil
tanang relatives, gubot pas lukot.

Hypocrisy of the highest kind
looking only from the economic point
of view, kon pobre ug way grado, they look
at you like manure.

Kon mamenpal ka or magnetpal, libakon kay nangitag dollar.
Aw, come'n now, nobody's gonna pay their bills, but
the person herself.
Mga libakera, himantayon, mga dila nag lit-ad lit-ad
morag bitin tumotundok.

Ignore them. Flap your wings while young and
able to fly to look for a greener pasture to graze
mentras wala pa mangapangag ug mangataltag
ang mga ngipon.

I'm glad I did, my Spaniard-American hubby is just
wonderful.
If I have to do it again, I will still do the same.

AYLAYKEEEEET! hahha!

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #72 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:07:46 PM »

here in cebu, particularly in lapu-lapu city where hotel and resorts are abundant. you can see foreigners walking around the city's malls and shopping centers accompanied by young filipinas whose age are ranging from 13-19 years old. i think that's pretty obvious, that these teenagers are exploited by their own parents to be with these people to earn money. i asked some of those people who has some knowledge about this kind of relationships and most of them have the same answers, poverty is the reason.

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Mari · « **Reply #73 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:11:53 PM »

here in cebu, particularly in lapu-lapu city where hotel and resorts are abundant. you can see foreigners walking around the city's malls and shopping centers accompanied by young filipinas whose age are ranging from 13-19 years old. i think that's pretty obvious, that these teenagers are exploited by their own parents to be with these people to earn money. i asked some of those people who has some knowledge about this kind of relationships and most of them have the same answers, poverty is the reason.

if it can feed their family, i cant blame them. kanya kanyang diskarte sa buhay yan. those who are criticizing so much about this kind of relationships are not the one feeding them so anong paki nila. after all both parties benefit in whatever their intentions in the relationship are.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #74 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:16:42 PM »

if it can feed their family, i cant blame them. kanya kanyang diskarte sa buhay yan. those who are criticizing so much about this kind of relationships are not the one feeding them so anong paki nila. after all both parties benefit in whatever their intentions in the relationship are.

i agree with you. it's better than stealing or resorting to violence. but the saddest part here is that these people are not doing anything to augment their lives. instead they used their kids to feed them through this way. and it's a clear child exploitation which is punishable by law. pahayahay lang gud sila dawat limpiyo. and in the end kung biyaan na ilang mga anak sa mga foreigners, it will end up as sex workers in the sex dens.

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benelynne · « **Reply #75 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:17:19 PM »

13-year old girls with foreigners? Maybe the foreigner is a foster or a step-father.

Pedophilia is a crime. Why would these foreigners parade their perversion, and why do authorities look the other way?

here in cebu, particularly in lapu-lapu city where hotel and resorts are abundant. you can see foreigners walking around the city's malls and shopping centers accompanied by young filipinas whose age are ranging from 13-19 years old. i think that's pretty obvious, that these teenagers are exploited by their own parents to be with these people to earn money. i asked some of those people who has some knowledge about this kind of relationships and most of them have the same answers, poverty is the reason.

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Mari · « **Reply #76 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:17:46 PM »

i dunno why some make this an issue, with this global crisis, i cant blame these young filipinas resorting to this afterall the government hasnt done so much to minimize if not take away poverty. i would say this is the easiest way out of hunger especially to those young filipinas who have a hard time getting jobs. anyway, most of them turn out to have better lives and married and are happy.

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jamo2x · « **Reply #77 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:18:31 PM »

mas grabe gani to ahong nakit-an jud sa Olongapo...nag lagot ko nga way mahimo...
sa gawas sa bar, naay mag kauban mga americans ang isa ka itom nga dakong tawo ijang gi tuyok2x ang isa ka gamayng baji, morag bata ra gud nga gi tuyok2x sa hangin...

pag duol naho, perti japon katawa sa baji morag nag enjoy pud sya. asus pagkita naho, buta (blind) man diay ang baji. grabe jud ning uban nga sundalo kay bisag buta, piang, panget kaajo, birahan man japon ahehehehe. hinoon ka kwarta man sab ang baji...pero looy lng lagi tan-awon

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Mari · « **Reply #78 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:19:26 PM »

well i guess foreigners are not stupid to risk being with a 13 year old, they know the consequences otherwise they must be pedophiles

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #79 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:23:00 PM »

many filipinas married foreigners and become successful in their lives and they live happily with their husbands and those filipinas are all in legal age. i have friends and acquaintances who can attest this. but how about these young girls who are as young as 13? do these foreigners will marry them? after their vacation is over here, they don't give a damn. they will just left and go back home leaving these kids in disarray.

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Mari · « **Reply #80 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:23:47 PM »

i agree with you. it's better than stealing or resorting to violence. but the saddest part here is that these people are not doing anything to augment their lives. instead they used their kids to feed them through this way. and it's a clear child exploitation which is punishable by law. pahayahay lang gud sila dawat limpiyo. and in the end kung biyaan na ilang mga anak sa mga foreigners, it will end up as sex workers in the sex dens.

lahi nasad ng estoryaha ng child exploitation, we are talking about marrying a foreigner. i condemn parents also who dont care. They should make sure that the foreigner their daughter is with is a good man.

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benelynne · « **Reply #81 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:26:53 PM »

Relationship between two consenting adults is not within the purview of the law. But we have laws against exploitation of minors!

if it can feed their family, i cant blame them. kanya kanyang diskarte sa buhay yan. those who are criticizing so much about this kind of relationships are not the one feeding them so anong paki nila. after all both parties benefit in whatever their intentions in the relationship are.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #82 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:27:13 PM »

well i guess foreigners are not stupid to risk being with a 13 year old, they know the consequences otherwise they must be pedophiles

i know they don't take risk but with the blessing of the parents, i think that's plus for these foreigners. most of the cases that involves pedophilias here in RP, the complainants are not the parents but NGO's and some concerned citizens.

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Mari · « **Reply #83 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:28:15 PM »

many filipinas married foreigners and become successful in their lives and they live happily with their husbands and those filipinas are all in legal age. i have friends and acquaintances who can attest this. but how about these young girls who are as young as 13? do these foreigners will marry them? after their vacation is over here, they don't give a damn. they will just left and go back home leaving these kids in disarray.

well these young girls know who is serious and who is just a banger. kanang imong mga young girls nga gihisgutan are obviously hookers, kung dili sila magwinise nah paingon jud sila ana. but if these girls are descent and would just love to marry a foreigner, have a happy life, they have a long way ahead. kay mostly kadtong gipangbiyaan, are those girls nga wala sad mga klaro.

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benelynne · « **Reply #84 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:31:22 PM »

With Ace Durano at the tourism helm, nganong mawad-an man ug sensible ideas ang Cebu for tourist attraction and offer up these hapless children?

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Mari · « **Reply #85 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:32:09 PM »

this is not a question of wanting to marry a foreigner now, its about taking money for a bang with a foreigner.

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jamo2x · « **Reply #86 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:33:33 PM »

on a happy note, i also noticed plenty of young japayukis now married with older japs...maka sabay naho sa plane og airports...og makita sab sa malls...i think some of them have better loving family relations kay giuban pa jud sa hapon ang iyang mga japanese relatives mo vacation sa ato.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #87 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:34:55 PM »

With Ace Durano at the tourism helm, nganong mawad-an man ug sensible ideas ang Cebu for tourist attraction and offer up these hapless children?

sir benne, ang focus sa DOT tourist destination lang man gud. maong wala kaayo hatagi ug pagtagad ang mga lumulopyo. kadto lang hitabo didto sa bantayan island karong bag-o lang. ang mga taga didto na ang nireport sa police nga naay foreigner ni checkin sa usa ka resort nga kuyog ang usa ka batang babaye nga edad ug 14. unsay rason sa foreigner, gipakuyog ang bata sa mga ginikanan kay friend kuno sila.

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Mari · « **Reply #88 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:36:13 PM »

yeah it's a feel good story, hearing filipinas having a happy life with a foreigner and seeing their family back home happy too.

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Mari · « **Reply #89 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:38:36 PM »

sir benne, ang focus sa DOT tourist destination lang man gud. maong wala kaayo hatagi ug pagtagad ang mga lumulopyo. kadto lang hitabo didto sa bantayan island karong bag-o lang. ang mga taga didto na ang nireport sa police nga naay foreigner ni checkin sa usa ka resort nga kuyog ang usa ka batang babaye nga edad ug 14. unsay rason sa foreigner, gipakuyog ang bata sa mga ginikanan kay friend kuno sila.

kanang parents nga in ana makarma ra. mao ng maamong lang uban filipina dili respetuhon tungod kay parents mismo salbahe, walay mga paki sa ilang anak

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #90 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:40:20 PM »

i think mao ni ang usa sa mga rason ngano naay higayon nga insultohon atong kaliwat sa mga taga gawas.

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Mari · « **Reply #91 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:42:58 PM »

mas grabe pa gani sa Thailand, kay nig madalaga na ilang mga anak, ibilin dayun sa mga bar patrabahuon pero gikuha na sa ilang parents ang sweldo daan so they have no way out na

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Mari · « **Reply #92 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:44:52 PM »

i met a very young girl there she's 15 now but she has been working in that bar since she was 10 and she never receive any money, poor girl, free lang tawn kaon iya kay gikuha naman sa iya mama ang bayad sa iyaha. murag gi-loan na daan

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #93 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:49:32 PM »

pareha ra siguro ning philippines ug thailand. i think sa whole southeast asia, murag singapore, brunie ug malaysia lang ang medyo wala ma involve ug ing ani.

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jamo2x · « **Reply #94 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:49:40 PM »

mas grabe pa gani sa Thailand, kay nig madalaga na ilang mga anak, ibilin dayun sa mga bar patrabahuon pero gikuha na sa ilang parents ang sweldo daan so they have no way out na

kuyaw pud diay dha noh, maong sikat ang Bangkok, morag primary asian tourist destination sa mga foreigner manyakiz og mga pedos...daghn gogo bars dha...mroag mga pinay ra bag itchura...kyut sab

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Mari · « **Reply #95 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:52:59 PM »

pareha ra siguro ning philippines ug thailand. i think sa whole southeast asia, murag singapore, brunie ug malaysia lang ang medyo wala ma involve ug ing ani.

ive heard naa lang gihapon pero discreet lang kay very strict ang law

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Mari · « **Reply #96 on:** August 26, 2009, 11:55:24 PM »

kuyaw pud diay dha noh, maong sikat ang Bangkok, morag primary asian tourist destination sa mga foreigner manyakiz og mga pedos...daghn gogo bars dha...mroag mga pinay ra bag itchura...kyut sab

lahi ra ang Pinay (mas gwapa and passionate hehehehhe), bitaw thais are very skinny and fair skinned, mahilig mangretoke sa face and body. as in ladlad ila prostitution both men, women and gays...on the face jud ba

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jamo2x · « **Reply #97 on:** August 27, 2009, 12:01:14 AM »

lahi ra ang Pinay (mas gwapa and passionate hehehehhe), bitaw thais are very skinny and fair skinned, mahilig mangretoke sa face and body. as in ladlad ila prostitution both men, women and gays...on the face jud ba

di ba bag-o lng na legalize ang prostitution dha sa thailand? hearing pud naho bisan mga pinoy gays dha moanha dw dha para mag pa sex change....diha ba to sa thailnd o sa hongkong kay barato ra dw. di ba kaha si Gandanghari nag pa sex change na diha hehehehe

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Koddi Prudente · « **Reply #98 on:** August 27, 2009, 12:03:38 AM »

lahi ra ang Pinay (mas gwapa and passionate hehehehhe), bitaw thais are very skinny and fair skinned, mahilig mangretoke sa face and body. as in ladlad ila prostitution both men, women and gays...on the face jud ba

Now I remember my Patpong nights in Bangkok! "Pusisyu, pusisyu" . . . pastilan, "pussy show" man diay ang gitanyag sa barker sa gawas sa bar. Tuod man, diha juy basketball, dart, cigarette-smoking, etc. sa sulod. "Idjara," matod pa sa akong kaubang babaye.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #99 on:** August 27, 2009, 12:12:00 AM »

Now I remember my Patpong nights in Bangkok! "Pusisyu, pusisyu" . . . pastilan, "pussy show" man diay ang gitanyag sa barker sa gawas sa bar. Tuod man, diha juy basketball, dart, cigarette-smoking, etc. sa sulod. "Idjara," matod pa sa akong kaubang babaye.

walay banana cutting ug beer drinking sir koddi?

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