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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #120 on: August 28, 2009, 10:03:44 AM »
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« Reply #121 on: August 28, 2009, 10:04:58 AM »
i will! magpatahi na ko ug BALINTAWAK  sa pinas! hahahahha!

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« Reply #122 on: August 28, 2009, 10:06:25 AM »
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« Reply #123 on: August 28, 2009, 10:17:45 AM »
ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.

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« Reply #125 on: August 28, 2009, 10:26:12 AM »
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« Reply #126 on: August 29, 2009, 01:49:40 AM »
ngano man diay gud ug makigminyo gumikan sa cuarta. magbuot diay cla. ako naay

kuarta mangasawa kog bata nga guapa magbuot diay cila.


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« Reply #127 on: August 29, 2009, 02:10:12 AM »
ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.

 oh yah LAMBADA jud nindot kaajo na kimbot sa lubot dalang grinding hahahaha

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #128 on: August 29, 2009, 04:44:55 AM »
  Murag Pinoy raman nag ingon ani tingali?

Kay ako FOREIGNER  man diri sa Merika, daghan man sad nag tralala nako unsa man ni? daw beh unsa man ni??

makalivug!

SAkto jud ka Inday Icel!

No one has the right to judge anyone.

Sige raman gud balik balik ni nga issue Belle, mura wala kahumanan.

Wala man hinoon mga tawo nga magtralala diri about ani, kay dili ra gud mga pilipina ang nangaminyo sa taga diri. kung tan-awon pa pud, ang nagdugay nga mga magtiayon ang kani hinoon nagpares nga dili pareha nila ug lahi.

as an older  Pobre nga Pinay and still  my younger foriegner  husband married me.  Duha na ming pobre ron  ;D

hahaha ate Bambs, ako giingnan si Palle nga wa ka mahadlok nga imo ra unya kwarta hinungdan hinungdan nga makigminyo ko nimo, gitubag man hinoon ko nga wa siyay angay kahadlokan kay waman siyay kwarta haha, duha napud mi, upat nata ani ;D

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #129 on: August 29, 2009, 10:54:25 PM »
Ang gadugay gyud nga relationship kanang dili pinaka-importante nga factor ang kwarta, although let's admit it, kinahanglan man gyud ma-cover ang basic needs sa pamilya.

I just went out for beach picnic today with some church members and one of the happiest in the group is a lady of very humble means. Minyo s'ya sa Hapon unya gamay ra kaayo ilang puy-anan, di pa gyud nila kaugalingon. Pareho silang dili regular sa iyang bana sa trabaho. In fact, lately lang nakapangitag trabaho iyang bana after being laid off. And yet she is a very cheerful lady and has even the time to teach praise song choreography. Her children are well-behaved and respectful.

kung tan-awon pa pud, ang nagdugay nga mga magtiayon ang kani hinoon nagpares nga dili pareha nila ug lahi.

hahaha ate Bambs, ako giingnan si Palle nga wa ka mahadlok nga imo ra unya kwarta hinungdan hinungdan nga makigminyo ko nimo, gitubag man hinoon ko nga wa siyay angay kahadlokan kay waman siyay kwarta haha, duha napud mi, upat nata ani ;D

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #130 on: August 30, 2009, 12:14:14 AM »
Ang gadugay gyud nga relationship kanang dili pinaka-importante nga factor ang kwarta, although let's admit it, kinahanglan man gyud ma-cover ang basic needs sa pamilya.

I just went out for beach picnic today with some church members and one of the happiest in the group is a lady of very humble means. Minyo s'ya sa Hapon unya gamay ra kaayo ilang puy-anan, di pa gyud nila kaugalingon. Pareho silang dili regular sa iyang bana sa trabaho. In fact, lately lang nakapangitag trabaho iyang bana after being laid off. And yet she is a very cheerful lady and has even the time to teach praise song choreography. Her children are well-behaved and respectful.


"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after  :D



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« Reply #131 on: August 30, 2009, 12:47:04 AM »
God bless your generous heart, Bambs. After what you've been through, you deserve a second chance, and I believe you have it already.

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after  :D



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« Reply #132 on: August 30, 2009, 01:45:17 AM »
"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after  :D




Bayat, i really admired your generousity! Preha ta Bayat, i left with nothing and started again. Then after several years naka uyab sad ko sa LA na and when i left, i left everything to him. Material ra na, makita ra basta piskay lang ang lawas. It hold me at first kay lagi sayang (ang material nga biyaan) but i thought the relationship would ruin me. Di na unya ko ka kiat kiat kay na lusyang na sa maajo!

Karon noon when i had none, nagkita mi ni banana and he gave me everything that i lost. Uwaw kaayo pamation sa bag-o pa mi, pero i realized nga ingon man jud diay ana ang panag ipon, ug unsay ija mao sad aho! (dili ija ija- aho aho).

One and only thing that i cant afford to loose is a car. Bahala ug wa ko jamo bisan balay basta naa kuy car, mabuhi ra jud ka.



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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #133 on: August 30, 2009, 01:49:40 AM »
"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after  :D



Bambi, your story is so touching. And I pray the Good Lord bless you and your husband for all your days.

God Bless! God Bless!

Very heart felt personal anecdote.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #134 on: August 30, 2009, 02:12:51 AM »
God bless your generous heart, Bambs. After what you've been through, you deserve a second chance, and I believe you have it already.


Thank you very much.  At least,  I have the best man despite of our age gap and he likes  our country and love the Filipinos traits as well.   He visited Phils. 5x in the period of 9 yrs. am proud having him.


Bayat, i really admired your generousity! Preha ta Bayat, i left with nothing and started again. Then after several years naka uyab sad ko sa LA na and when i left, i left everything to him. Material ra na, makita ra basta piskay lang ang lawas. It hold me at first kay lagi sayang (ang material nga biyaan) but i thought the relationship would ruin me. Di na unya ko ka kiat kiat kay na lusyang na sa maajo!

Karon noon when i had none, nagkita mi ni banana and he gave me everything that i lost. Uwaw kaayo pamation sa bag-o pa mi, pero i realized nga ingon man jud diay ana ang panag ipon, ug unsay ija mao sad aho! (dili ija ija- aho aho).

One and only thing that i cant afford to loose is a car. Bahala ug wa ko jamo bisan balay basta naa kuy car, mabuhi ra jud ka.



Bayat,  " A new start is something like a new chance" And you did also the best you could and that means....feeling of existence while living. 

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #135 on: August 30, 2009, 02:26:22 AM »
Bambi, your story is so touching. And I pray the Good Lord bless you and your husband for all your days.

God Bless! God Bless!

Very heart felt personal anecdote.

Thanks.....  this is not a self- defense.  The truth to tell how life sometimes  goes in wrong directions even though struggles and emotions played most a role. 
Everyone of us has his/her own sad story and sometimes to express it, uncaged you from hatred, and guilty conscience.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #136 on: August 30, 2009, 10:18:18 AM »
Thank you very much.  At least,  I have the best man despite of our age gap and he likes  our country and love the Filipinos traits as well.   He visited Phils. 5x in the period of 9 yrs. am proud having him.

Bayat,  " A new start is something like a new chance" And you did also the best you could and that means....feeling of existence while living. 



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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #137 on: August 30, 2009, 10:31:04 AM »


hurot ako bilib ni madam bambi ug  Da bins so kana mga tawo nag-ingon nga pinay na minyo puti kay wawarts lang ge apas usapa na ninjo injo ge pang-jaw-jaw

korek ka dyan, jan!  money-wise, i had more money when i was in the phils than here but my poor husband loves and takes care of me - things that money can not buy.  just like BOC Bambi, my husband is a foreigner with Filipino heart.  mas labaw pa ug taga manga maka abi-abi kon naay bisita.  ako masungot gani ko sahay kon way abiso mo abot dire pero sya gani, mag karag-karag andam pa inom, pakaon, etc. 

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« Reply #138 on: August 30, 2009, 10:41:52 AM »
kantahan pag buwad ug sekwati! hahahahhhah!

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« Reply #139 on: August 30, 2009, 10:42:52 AM »
korek ka dyan, jan!  money-wise, i had more money when i was in the phils than here but my poor husband loves and takes care of me - things that money can not buy.  just like BOC Bambi, my husband is a foreigner with Filipino heart.  mas labaw pa ug taga manga maka abi-abi kon naay bisita.  ako masungot gani ko sahay kon way abiso mo abot dire pero sya gani, mag karag-karag andam pa inom, pakaon, etc. 


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