I was asked because I am a foreigner. (Not a HARDHEAD)
In the states you do not get asked to do near as much as we foreigners are asked to do here as most persons here see foreigners with dollar signs flashing in their eyeballs.
Even in my country back home I am generous but what does it get me in return for all the good deeds I have done?
I am not bossy, or pushing other persons around and making false judgement neither am I going back on things I say.
I do not call persons mental or emotionall disturbed, neither do i call them hard headed. You never get asked because the people in the world know already that Philippine persons come from a hard back ground.
I have nothing to show but I have entrusted myself to persons here who have abused my trust and goodness.
Ungratefully indeed thats when people need and should be reminded of the good deeds that are done. The kindness of persons generosity are far and few and in between now a days.
I had a surgery this year i needed a down payment and my husbands allotment was not yet deposited into the bank when I asked the persons whom I normally help out and it was embarrassing to ask the few i was rejected by all?
They would rather i die but two weeks after my surgery they want that I lend them.
No one volunteers to pay for ones responsibilities since when?
You guys have to remind yourself that your culture and church makes things different here.
Here the people have babies when they have no money and often not a house of their own and still depending on their olds to help them raise what is suppose to be their own kids responsibilities.
Catholic church wants to preach about and impose the use of birth birthcontrol but where are they when the kids are Hungary no diapers, and barely one meal on the table per day? Are they giving money to those persons who have babies with out money as they tell them not to use birth control?
Who ends up footing the bills here when the churches tells 18 yr olds who are "HOT" that they are too young to have sex?
Blows my mind I do not see the help or assistance from the church here once Jr. pop's out.
Then Jr. is put out on the street or holding his palm out to passers by in the streets.
Your resources are thin here do to the over population of the Philippines.
Things are more expensive now and the dollar is down.
I have to ask any of you how often have you been asked to pay for hospital bills by white native persons in America who you do not know so well?
Even I have sat at a local radio station here and when the community desk had nothing to give I reached out of my pocket several times when they approached me as I could see they needed the assistance. Walang stingy naman I am the one that does not assist and sit and try to justify to those who who do get hit up allot and not appreciated.
I have seen Filipino mothers get outraged when their own kids ask for money for a project at school.
Imagine how much more they would be outraged if persons with no money approached them about to have a baby asking them to pay the hospitalbill as they have no money?
I have a house of 7 members when the dad is an OFW and eight when he is home. Its hard to make ends meet with my household members that i have and the dollar being down and the prices getting higher. Why would I offer and when I do it is that I offer to those in a life or death situation now a days.
You can talk to any other foreigner here the story is the same from them.
They are married to Filipino ladies.
In the states you do not get asked to do near as much as we foreigners are asked to do here as most persons here see foreigners with dollar signs flashing in their eyeballs.
Even in my country back home I am generous but what does it get me in return for all the good deeds I have done?
I am not bossy, or pushing other persons around and making false judgement neither am I going back on things I say.
I do not call persons mental or emotionall disturbed, neither do i call them hard headed. You never get asked because the people in the world know already that Philippine persons come from a hard back ground.
I have nothing to show but I have entrusted myself to persons here who have abused my trust and goodness.
Ungratefully indeed thats when people need and should be reminded of the good deeds that are done. The kindness of persons generosity are far and few and in between now a days.
I had a surgery this year i needed a down payment and my husbands allotment was not yet deposited into the bank when I asked the persons whom I normally help out and it was embarrassing to ask the few i was rejected by all?
They would rather i die but two weeks after my surgery they want that I lend them.
No one volunteers to pay for ones responsibilities since when?
You guys have to remind yourself that your culture and church makes things different here.
Here the people have babies when they have no money and often not a house of their own and still depending on their olds to help them raise what is suppose to be their own kids responsibilities.
Catholic church wants to preach about and impose the use of birth birthcontrol but where are they when the kids are Hungary no diapers, and barely one meal on the table per day? Are they giving money to those persons who have babies with out money as they tell them not to use birth control?
Who ends up footing the bills here when the churches tells 18 yr olds who are "HOT" that they are too young to have sex?
Blows my mind I do not see the help or assistance from the church here once Jr. pop's out.
Then Jr. is put out on the street or holding his palm out to passers by in the streets.
Your resources are thin here do to the over population of the Philippines.
Things are more expensive now and the dollar is down.
I have to ask any of you how often have you been asked to pay for hospital bills by white native persons in America who you do not know so well?
Even I have sat at a local radio station here and when the community desk had nothing to give I reached out of my pocket several times when they approached me as I could see they needed the assistance. Walang stingy naman I am the one that does not assist and sit and try to justify to those who who do get hit up allot and not appreciated.
I have seen Filipino mothers get outraged when their own kids ask for money for a project at school.
Imagine how much more they would be outraged if persons with no money approached them about to have a baby asking them to pay the hospitalbill as they have no money?
I have a house of 7 members when the dad is an OFW and eight when he is home. Its hard to make ends meet with my household members that i have and the dollar being down and the prices getting higher. Why would I offer and when I do it is that I offer to those in a life or death situation now a days.
You can talk to any other foreigner here the story is the same from them.
They are married to Filipino ladies.

he hehe!Just kidding my sweet buddy!







