Author Topic: Pinay Mother Kills 13 Year Old Son Using Broomstick (Read 5602 times)

MikeLigalig.com · « **on:** September 19, 2009, 09:27:34 AM »

By Julie M. Aurelio
Philippine Daily Inquirer

A 13-year-old boy who was caught stealing electric cables in their neighborhood died apparently after his mother hit him with a broomstick (walis tambo) on the head.

Police said the boy, Ronald Gonzales, a high school student, died Thursday night at the East Avenue Medical Center where he was brought for treatment.

Police investigation showed Ronald was scolded by his mother Salve Gonzales on Wednesday night after she learned of her sonâ€™s misdeed in their neighborhood in Barangay (Village) Commonwealth, Quezon City.

In her anger, investigation showed, the mother also hit Gonzales with the broomstick on the head.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #1 on:** September 19, 2009, 09:31:00 AM »

silhig tingting/gungi pod to pang hampak ni mommy sa amoa pero sa legs ug sa tiil ra man mi adto hampakon. ang kasakit lang adto kay kami pa jud ga bagos sa gungi.

as to the story, kaluoy pod bya sa inahan. wa nya na control iyang disappointment sa iyang anak mao to na sobrahan. nan karon, ma priso pa sya while magmahay sa iyang gibuhat. very tragic and sad.

may this boy, Ronald, rest in peace.

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statesville · « **Reply #2 on:** September 19, 2009, 10:41:27 AM »

Spare the rod,
spoil the child

Ang bunal isip disiplina pero dili
pasagad lang hampak , kadaghan
tuod ko katilaw ug bunal sa bata pa ko
puro pulos man ari sa akong sampot
mao bitaw noon akong manghud lalaki
kon masayop siya iya na lang hapinan
daan iya sampot ug karton para ighapak
sa bakos sa iya sampot igo ra molagubo
kay sa karton man modapat, unya iya hilak
i fake niya pero ig lakaw ni Mama pwerte niya
makakatawa kay luoy kono ang karton

Anyway, macharge ni siya kay murder man ning
iyang gibuhat, kalooy sad sa iyang anak
nga gihampak ang ulo ug silhig maong
namatay hinoon, salbahis nga pagka inahan!

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #3 on:** September 19, 2009, 11:13:14 AM »

Kining nahitabo ani discipline out of anger ni instead out of love.Nahinaykan pastilan. I don't believe in spanking. Most spanking man gud bunga sa kasuko. Akong mother perti pud makapamokbok nako sa una ug kunot pud. Kas a gani gihulugan ko sa akong mother ug baga nga flywood kay naa siya sa taas ako sa ubos perti niyang kasukoa nga namaligya ko ug puto buntag sayo sa akong iyaan. Ganahan man ko movolunteer sa una ug suroy baligya ug puto aron naay suhol, na kay nasuko akong mother kay ayo ra kono ko ug suguon sa laing tawo mao ingtubag ko nga dili man laing tawo si Mama akong iyaan.Didto gipusdakan jud ko ug baga kaayong flywood nakakita gud ko ug aninipot.
Karon dili ko kaako mobokbok sa akong mga anak.Akoy sakitan , gani kung mayawyawan sila sa akong bana makahilak ko kay lain baya ning bata badlongon sahay. Time out works on our kids.Kung makasala itime out namo pero never spank them.

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AsPo · « **Reply #4 on:** September 19, 2009, 03:12:22 PM »

dili dapat bunalan.explain them nga dautan iya gihimo.kay bunalan noon murag rebelde sila.

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hofelina · « **Reply #5 on:** September 19, 2009, 03:47:32 PM »

My parents used force to discipline us. I used to curse them out of anger also " mamatay pa unta mo". The worst is my mother, she has a temperament that every simple things bad in her eyes means holding a leather belt and some blows are expected. She will demand that I kneel before an altar to pray for forgiveness. Out of anger in return I break the necks of the "rebulto sagrada familia". I feel panic just thinking that I well get more punishment for doing this. This has caused me to be very rebellious.
I promise to mysel I will never discipline my children in this way. My kids are no angels but I could talk to them and listen, then make a compromise to make the situation better.
Parents or parents to be, please take a lesson from my experience.

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #6 on:** September 19, 2009, 04:46:39 PM »

Nahinumdom ko anang paludhon after ka latoson.But ang good thing ra nga ako nakita sa ako papa before is after me latoson ug paludhon,Tawgon me tagsa tagsa nya e hug me niya unya mo explain siya why gi latos me.Mag hilak pa jud to siya mo explain namo kay di daw niya unta gusto kay sa gamay pa siya permi siya kulatahon ug e modmod sa iya mama but badlongon man daw me maong makalatos jud siya.Mag andam to siya before ug stick out of uway mao toy favorite nya nga e latos namo but sa lobot ra jud permi.Sa na highschool name,di na ka hilabot amo papa kay ako lola masuko naman kay dagko na daw di na dapat latoson.Kasaba to the max nalang.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #7 on:** September 19, 2009, 06:17:42 PM »

Kining "spare the rod and spoil the child" dili kanunay effective. Sa bata pa mi ahong ig-agaw nga katalirongan pirme bukbokon sa ahong uncle kay sobra kamaldito. Karon nisamot kabuang. Ako, wa jud ko katilaw og bunaw sa ahong papa pero kaluoy sa Diyos, hangtod karon, buotan lang gihapon ko.

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #8 on:** September 19, 2009, 06:50:12 PM »

Kining "spare the rod and spoil the child" dili kanunay effective. Sa bata pa mi ahong ig-agaw nga katalirongan pirme bukbokon sa ahong uncle kay sobra kamaldito. Karon nisamot kabuang. Ako, wa jud ko katilaw og bunaw sa ahong papa pero kaluoy sa Diyos, hangtod karon, buotan lang gihapon ko.

Tsure ba kaha ning buotana.Ga tingsi man lang gani ang agi o.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #9 on:** September 19, 2009, 07:36:32 PM »

Klarex nga buotan. Sigi lang tingsi mao nga way kontra.

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #10 on:** September 19, 2009, 09:59:44 PM »

This has caused me to be very rebellious.
I promise to mysel I will never discipline my children in this way. My kids are no angels but I could talk to them and listen, then make a compromise to make the situation better.
Parents or parents to be, please take a lesson from my experience.

Pareha tag experience Manay nga bisan gamay sayop bunal,bokbok,ug kunot ang magpaabot. Gidisiplina mi/ko sa akong nanay out of anger and frustration diin ang pagdapat sa bunal kusog sad kay dili man out of love.Naa pay lain na disiplina nila nga pakaulawan ka in public mas sakit sad ni nga disiplina. I learn so much from my own experience kay bisan dili sayop pagkangan nga matouch ang pride sa akong nanay mabunalan ko dayon. Last ko nabokbokan di gyud ko maulaw ani is 4th year high school na ko. Nag attend ra ko ug birthday party sa akong bestfriend in which kining akong ig agaw nga mangisoyaon sad nagsumbong sumbong sa akong nanay unsaon wala siya ma imbitar. Pastilan kay ang family sa akong bestfriend medyo init ang dugo sa akong nanay igo jud mi human nangaon sa party didto na akong ig agaw ing ingon papaulion kono mi naa pud akong niece diay adto. Ug pag gawas namo didto nag singgit singgit na akong Nanay nga pakaulaw ra kono mi niya nga wa ba konoy pagkaon sa balay nga wa man da mi maulaw mangaon sa laing tawo. Ug dihay dako kaayo sanga sa bayabas gilatos jud ko perting pitia.Wa ko mohilak pero deep inside nag build up akong bitterness towards my own mother and promise nga never jud ko mamunal sa akong anak.
Kasagaran bunga sa disiplina nga force ang gamit or out of anger magresulta ug rebellion,bitterness, anger usahay death pa ug mahinaykan pareha ani rong nahitabo sa inahan nagbunal sa anak.

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hofelina · « **Reply #11 on:** September 20, 2009, 02:03:11 AM »

IÂ´m sad to hear that Inday, kanang magsiyagit-siyagit sa karsada, queen si Nanay nia-ana, mopitoh na gani sirit dayon. There was a time we had had a heated discussion (I was already married), I said to her you wil know how unfair you are when you are dead! Ang gadaghan pod sa ato kay tsismis, makanerbiyos, kay bisan dili tinood, madunggan ni Nanay dalang sukmat, kapoliki ka ug pasabot kay dili man tinood.
I think this is one of the reason I said to myself I wonÂ´t marry a filipino. I canÂ´t raise a good family in this familiar setting.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #12 on:** September 20, 2009, 02:52:48 AM »

Never jud mi nalatusan ni Daddy kay si Mommy to hilig manghampak kon makasa mi pero mas kurog mi n Daddy. Ngano kaha to ba na si Mommy dali ra mo kab-ot ug silhig panghampak pero di jud mi mahadlok pero si usa ka tingog lang ni Daddy kurog nami! Siguro di jud to kaayo sakit pagkahampaka kay wa man jud mi motagam.

I have no resentment whatsoever to my mother for how she dealt with us when we were young. She raised 13 children with a little help from my Dad and us, the elder children. I appreciate my Mom now more than ever even if I never got to have children of my own. Dire, gareklamo na mga katawhan kay naa sila'y 3 ka anak ga atimanon unya gani naa pa'y mga day care gabilinan sa mga anak.

To Manay and Raquel, I guess you are best mothers now because of your childhood experience with your respective mothers.

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pioneer · « **Reply #13 on:** September 20, 2009, 02:53:22 AM »

@Raquel: Sakit pud ni imong kaagi, Quel.

@Manay: Sakto imong desisyon. Daghan ko nakita nga mga asawa ug anak nag-antos. Naa ra sila sa akong palibot...

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #14 on:** September 20, 2009, 03:58:15 AM »

Okey raman unta nako nga latuson,bunalan,pusdakan,konoton sa akong nanay kay lagi nakasala ko pero kining naa na tay kabuot bitaw unya disiplinahon ta for wrong reason di gyud maayo. Naninda ra gani ko ug puto buntag sayo ug ing attend ug birthday latos ug pusdak ang napala pakapinan pa ug pakauwaw. Pasalamat sad mo nga ug naa moy school activity sa una nga dapat naa ang inahan motambong biyaan jud ang buhat aron mo support ninyo.Wala na nako ma experience. Ulaw pud ning sa tanan klase imong nanay ray di mo meeting ug magmeeting na gani sa school.Ipadala ra permi ang meeting card sa silingan nga unta wa may gikabusihan.Worts of all kanang ting closing na unya tauran ug ribbon ug medal ang mga nahonor.Firt embarassing moment nako grade 2 ko nahonor 2nd diha akong nanay kay gidungan man pud to sa graduation sa akong igsoon ,pagtawag sa akong ngalan didto ko sa stage gidawat ang ribbon unya paabot ko sa akong nanay nga sak on pero wa gyud mosaka gikamay raman nuon ko pakanaugon.Gasakit akong buot adto hehehe. Dreaded na nako ang ting closing sa whole school lifetime nako kay ngano? ug ma honor magyawyaw akong nanay nga lain napud konong bayronon.Maningkamot nalang intawon ko panginhas ibaligya aron makabayad sa ribbon. Mao lagi pud ug di silingan motaud ang maestra kay no show akong nanay.Sakit sud ongon nga ubang inahan dako ug ngisi nagtaud sa ribbon sa ilang anak naa pay regalo dala unya pa picture pa ang ako murag mamatay ko sa kauwaw nga maestra nagtaod. Mao karon bisan pa ug worthless ang activity sa school sa akong mga anak moadto gyud ko kay worth ang presence nako sa akong anak.

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bulak · « **Reply #15 on:** September 21, 2009, 02:28:41 AM »

Grabe pod diay ni imo kaagi Quel, ang mga pagkuwang sa imo mama sa una bakwea nalang sa imo mga anak karon. Mangtas man sad ako mama pero adto rang gagmay paming bata kay tungod daw to sa pills nga birth control, grabe mangunot pod ako mama sa una makaingon gud ko nga sa tanan inahan akong mama tengali pinaksalbahis

AKo pa jud mag baby sit sa ako mga manghod.

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jorgeanna · « **Reply #16 on:** September 22, 2009, 10:21:26 AM »

my husband and i have never laid a finger towards our children but we always feed them with words of wisdom... and they turned out to be great kids... so we do not believe that hurting children physically helps ....

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #17 on:** February 25, 2010, 08:41:15 PM »

my husband and i have never laid a finger towards our children but we always feed them with words of wisdom... and they turned out to be great kids... so we do not believe that hurting children physically helps ....

I agree. Pain only begets pain, just as victims of abuse become abusers themselves.

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Bambi · « **Reply #18 on:** February 28, 2010, 06:06:12 AM »

By Julie M. Aurelio
Philippine Daily Inquirer

A 13-year-old boy who was caught stealing electric cables in their neighborhood died apparently after his mother hit him with a broomstick (walis tambo) on the head.

Police said the boy, Ronald Gonzales, a high school student, died Thursday night at the East Avenue Medical Center where he was brought for treatment.

Police investigation showed Ronald was scolded by his mother Salve Gonzales on Wednesday night after she learned of her sonâ€™s misdeed in their neighborhood in Barangay (Village) Commonwealth, Quezon City.

In her anger, investigation showed, the mother also hit Gonzales with the broomstick on the head.

This is sad. What the boy did is a sin enough but what his mother did towards him is unethical. Unsa may punishment sa inahan ani?

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #19 on:** February 28, 2010, 11:01:30 AM »

This is sad. What the boy did is a sin enough but what his mother did towards him is unethical. Unsa may punishment sa inahan ani?

Most probably way intensyon ang inahan nga patjon.

Peligro jud ang ulo, ba. Sampot lang unta to, magkinaunsa dili man tingali fatal.

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