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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #80 on: January 31, 2011, 11:37:53 AM »
To: All members of tubag bohol dot com, and persons involved in this matter.


I have a question to all of you who are willing to share their views:

Why do you think women develop relationship with priests? We tend to have a presumption on why priests would engage with women, their celibacy in conjunction with their natural sexuality may cause such pluripotent ramifications. But i would like you all to dig deep in your core precepts , your principles, and to give us an answer why do you think / what psychological mechanism would allow a woman to engage with a man who is supposed to be of the cloth?

Let us talk about this further in detail.  I would also like to do a psychoanalysis / psychodynamic psychoanalysis of the different reasonings.


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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #81 on: January 31, 2011, 11:41:16 AM »
my view why some women engage in sexual relationships with priests might be an example of transference. they see the positive traits of that particular priest , traits that their parents have (a father, or a mother) and in the course of developing a relationship with that priest, transferred that admiration. This has resulted in the transference and libidal exertion usually manifests , something that normally occurs during a psychoanalytic therapeutic relationship between a patient and the psychiatrist. there usually is a intrapsychic tension in the patient's psyche that cannot separate the new entity (the priest) and the old entity (a loving characteristic of an old parent, loved one) which results in a subconscious sexual urge to acquire that entity.

then there is the second theory, which is a distortion of religiosity with sexuality. that in itself is a psychopathology that i will share later on.

i'd like to read further posts. 

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #82 on: January 31, 2011, 11:42:35 AM »
Malagmit mao ni ang makabugto aning lamboha...  ;D

nong, i'd like to hear the wisdom of  your answer to my simple question.



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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #83 on: January 31, 2011, 06:36:09 PM »
Malagmit mao ni ang makabugto aning lamboha...  ;D

manogbogto ang garter sang lawlaw na

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #84 on: January 31, 2011, 07:18:12 PM »
manogbogto ang garter sang lawlaw na

Manugdayag gid ang ginatipigang mangtas sang pari haw.

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #85 on: February 01, 2011, 12:05:19 AM »
Malagmit mao ni ang makabugto aning lamboha...  ;D

mabugto jud ni tungod sa kainit aning topika.... ;D ;D

nong, i'd like to hear the wisdom of  your answer to my simple question.


 ;D ;D ;D ;D aron, nong hubag, tubag...hahhahaha
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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #86 on: February 01, 2011, 12:36:14 AM »
Duol jud ang tintasyon labi na ug nag alagad ka niya, kini pong mga babaje nganong muadto man jud sila aning mga pari nga sayod naman sila nga engaged na sila sa bokasyong pari, labon daghang lalaki nga nagalayaw layaw lang,  way juy mutagad bisag usa.   :(

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #87 on: February 01, 2011, 12:50:01 AM »
Duol jud ang tintasyon labi na ug nag alagad ka niya, kini pong mga babaje nganong muadto man jud sila aning mga pari nga sayod naman sila nga engaged na sila sa bokasyong pari, labon daghang lalaki nga nagalayaw layaw lang,  way juy mutagad bisag usa.   :(

to quote the proverbial saying, "the grass is always greener on the other side..."

you bring up a good point, vhinz. my explanation to the psychology behind these relationships between women and catholic priests and the reasons why many women engage in them would be:

1. transference

2. the psychology of desiring what you cannot have (Eve Syndrome, as i would say).


I explained in detail the essential basis of the transference phenomenon in psychiatry, therapy, in the therapeutic relationship between patient and counselor. However, in regards to the Eve Syndrome, well let's look back to The Book of Genesis.

Why did Eve, the first woman, eat the forbidden fruit? Was it because it was bigger than the other apples? Because it looked more ripe than all the others? No. All the apples were equally, and effectively thesame. Eve took a bite of it because God made it known that it was forbidden. The qualities of the serpent (the liar that he is) merely motivated the innate rebelliousness of mankind towards law , and Divine Law. Humans are naturally rebellious. It is with proper dispensation of faith and effectively studying and reading of God's Word can man train his mind and allow his spirit to be trained and guided by the Holy Spirit to know right from wrong and to act accordingly and pleasing to the LORD.

The forbidden fruit; in many instances, priests and celibate men are seen as 'forbidden' fruit(s) to many women.

The great serpent , satan, deceived man kind during its infancy. he continues to deceive man even to this day.

The same force that corrupts women to sexually exploit priests is the same force that deceives many priests to craving the pleasures of the flesh, which, they have effectively denounced during their priestly ordination into the Church. Again, they themselves are craving the 'forbidden fruit'.




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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #88 on: February 01, 2011, 02:37:34 PM »
;D ;D ;D ;D aron, nong hubag, tubag...hahhahaha
kadugayan nakong binasa aning TB, nilanggud na jud ka Nong Hubs. hahahahahaha

Bwahaha! Unsay binasa gud nga wa na man kay duaw-duaw.
Karon, tan-awa, maihap na lang ang nahibilin nga hanggaw!

 ;D

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #89 on: February 01, 2011, 11:48:19 PM »
Bwahaha! Unsay binasa gud nga wa na man kay duaw-duaw.
Karon, tan-awa, maihap na lang ang nahibilin nga hanggaw!

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tigbasa pa ko oy, di lang tanana ug di lang kada-adlaw. kabawo na ka, daghan pod tag hinaggwan sa laing dapit. ;D ;D ;D

ok ra man gihapon og dyutay na lay nabiling hanggaw, total, naa pa man ka nga kina-hanggawan. hahahahahahaha



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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #90 on: February 02, 2011, 03:09:08 AM »
as the old saying goes, "It takes two to  tango"...
  in this case, two consenting adults agreed to flip and fornicate... ::)
 

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #91 on: February 02, 2011, 03:41:56 AM »
 Pasaylo-a sila! Bisag nakahibaw sila sa ilang gibuhat ;)

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #92 on: February 02, 2011, 05:46:24 AM »
Pasaylo-a sila! Bisag nakahibaw sila sa ilang gibuhat ;)

kinsa ba poy wa pa kahibawo anang buhata. hahahahah. bisan gani ang bu**** nga tigpuyo sa merkado sa among lungsod, makamao pa man mokayat. hahahahahahaha

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #93 on: February 02, 2011, 05:48:40 AM »
kinsa ba poy wa pa kahibawo anang buhata. hahahahah. bisan gani ang bu**** nga tigpuyo sa merkado sa among lungsod, makamao pa man mokayat. hahahahahahaha

 Bai Glacier! don't say BED WORD'S :D

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #94 on: February 02, 2011, 05:57:01 AM »
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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #95 on: February 02, 2011, 08:25:35 AM »
Why did Eve, the first woman, eat the forbidden fruit? Was it because it was bigger than the other apples? Because it looked more ripe than all the others? No. All the apples were equally, and effectively thesame. Eve took a bite of it because God made it known that it was forbidden.

Adam was but human--this explains it all. He did not want the apple for the apple's sake, he wanted it only because it was forbidden. The mistake was in not forbidding the serpent; then he would have eaten the serpent. --Mark Twain


 ;D

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #96 on: February 02, 2011, 08:28:51 AM »
ok ra man gihapon og dyutay na lay nabiling hanggaw, total, naa pa man ka nga kina-hanggawan. hahahahahahaha

Naa pa bitaw gihapon, tubaytubayan gani nako usahay...  

Bwahaha! ;D

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #97 on: February 02, 2011, 08:44:23 AM »
kinsa ba poy wa pa kahibawo anang buhata. hahahahah. bisan gani ang bu**** nga tigpuyo sa merkado sa among lungsod, makamao pa man mokayat. hahahahahahaha

Kamao mo lang. Di tuod kahibalo moihap pila na ka kiyod, pero di maglisod pagdumdom asa ituslo ang upaw!  ;D

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #98 on: February 02, 2011, 09:15:02 AM »
Pasaylo-a sila! Bisag nakahibaw sila sa ilang gibuhat ;)

Amen..! ;)  ... (sabi nga nila..masarap daw ang bawal.. the most curious thing to do, ika nga..)

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Re: relationship with priest
« Reply #99 on: February 02, 2011, 09:44:38 AM »
Bai Glacier! don't say BED WORD'S :D

Hmmmm mora man ni sa "grand stand" secret nimo... labon pa eskwelahon, adto jud saka suok2x sa grandstand hehehehe  ;D



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