Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your hubby has been cheating on u?

[jorgeanna]

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

[ms da binsi]

yeah, sure for once...

pero ug sigi, there is something wrong sa partner nga nag cheat...

it's either wa na kay lami  or naay pagka  KATOL gyud ang pakner (term ni Blue)!!!

Remember guys, ug KATOLon gyud ang pakner, dili na gyud na ma usab, it's his/her nature...

wa na gyud mahimong happy marriage ana!

you know what to do then...

[lindy]

yeah, sure for once...

pero ug sigi, there is something wrong sa partner nga nag cheat...

it's either wa na kay lami  or naay pagka  KATOL gyud ang pakner (term ni Blue)!!!

Remember guys, ug KATOLon gyud ang pakner, dili na gyud na ma usab, it's his/her nature...

wa na gyud mahimong happy marriage ana!

you know what to do then...

depende ra kana sa hingtungdan ug dinhi ma prove ang giingon nga forgive and forget or vice versa.

[Lorenzo]

No. There can never be a second chance after 'cheating', IMO.

[orChids]

You may live together,you can forgive,but the trust goes to rust.And the wrong doing will always appear into your mind,making your relationship getting into worse.Just like a wreaked ship.

[svetlana]

bitaw, lisod jud ibalik if mawala na ang "trust". magsige nalang hunahuna ang isa nga nagbinoang na pud ang isa, so it would be one heck of a roller coaster ride! gubot......

I've never been married, but I was cheated a couple of times before, pero i know lahi ra pud ang husband/wife to bf/gf, but still when it comes to infidelity, bottom line is, gubot jud, sakit, and problemang dako!

[Lorenzo]

Bitaw, Sheila. Ang term i use to describe cheating is "Hapdos".
Its like pouring 100% ethanol on a gaping wound. Ma sakit ang dughan intawn.

I never want to experience that again.

[svetlana]

Bitaw, Sheila. Ang term i use to describe cheating is "Hapdos".
Its like pouring 100% ethanol on a gaping wound. Ma sakit ang dughan intawn.

I never want to experience that again.

korek imong term Bran "hapdos" jud!
I think no one deserves betrayal, especially not from the people whom we love the most...(kay mas hapdos!)

[ms da binsi]

Actually dili man na sha cheating...

kay ang tawo normal man na nga motilaw ug lain nga putahi...

it is a normal animal gyud...

kana noon monogamous mao gyud nay abnormal kay dili man ta gi design ana ug boot kwentahon...

monogamy is only a law, kay sa una lain lain man ang pakner (term ni blue) ang mga tawo...

[ms da binsi]

Actually dili man na sha cheating...

kay ang tawo normal man na nga motilaw ug lain nga putahi...

it is a normal animal gyud...

kana noon monogamous mao gyud nay abnormal kay dili man ta gi design ana ug boot kwentahon...

monogamy is only a law, kay sa una lain lain man ang pakner (term ni blue) ang mga tawo...

jama-jama man ko ani!

hahahahha

[Scarb]

ang pakner, bow !
mahapdosan jud if cheated (for the first time)
but if he/she broadminded enough,would accept it
knowing nobody cheat if ones pakner is contented and happy
it always involved both-causes, its likely unfair to blame only
one party, things happen coz one has allows ngeks,

ops natuturirik ko dah? hehehehe
ops wla pako maka cheat ha?(very naning defensive) ngoks
so far im contented and happy

[orChids]

Well,you can't describe how it hurts,if you can't travel the way yourself.Unsaon na lang ang nakasakay sa sakajan?Wa nay lami ibugsay tawon kung naay nibuslot sa sakajan.Ows,lawon na man ni.

[Scarb]

Well,you can't describe how it hurts,if you can't travel the way yourself.Unsaon na lang ang nakasakay sa sakajan?Wa nay lami ibugsay tawon kung naay nibuslot sa sakajan.Ows,lawon na man ni.

i understand darlin (you know that)uhum

[orChids]

hahaha drama pod ta no?Sus pag manguwag butangan ug biga ang brief,bow!

[Scarb]

korek, iktin-iktin jud sa ka katol sa Biga plants bow!

motagam dli na ka kanta ug, di na dli nako lagi mousab-kausa na lang

[orChids]

hahaha imbis serious na unta ko,sus ang kabuang nimo Germz di na matimbang bisan timbangan sa kopras.hahaha

[Bambi]

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

NO........and   NO!

Truly loving someone - there is no chance for a double deal.  Loyal and  Respect your partner with her/his dignity.

There could be a second try or chance but.....trust will not be exisisting  anymore and it disturbs the marriage harmony at all.

[Scarb]

hahaha imbis serious na unta ko,sus ang kabuang nimo Germz di na matimbang bisan timbangan sa kopras.hahaha

pagpalit lang ug dakong timbangan gud?

well, talking about Trust, once lost its hard to regain,
cheated? it hurts soo deeply,u might be able to forgive but hell ! u cant forget,
but you have to move on,strive forward, nevah look back

[PrincessSaDagat]

Absolutely NOT!  Your heart will but not your mind.    Love and loyalty to one another is the two of several keys to happy marriage.

[Lorenzo]

NO........and   NO!

Truly loving someone - there is no chance for a double deal.  Loyal and  Respect your partner with her/his dignity.

There could be a second try or chance but.....trust will not be exisisting  anymore and it disturbs the marriage harmony at all.

Bitaw, pare.

When we take that oath in the wedding isle, "Till death do us part." It has to be so, in my beliefs.
You are married under the eyes of God, and under observance by your families. It is a sacred oath, marriage is, that two people give to each other, to promise that they are each other's. There is something special, beautiful and divine about it.

Take my parents for example, sure they have their bad storms (really really bad storms), but they love each other. Fighting is part of the whole deal, as what my dad says. They've been married for almost 25 years now, "there is no turning back" my dad always says. Hahaha. And it is really heart-warming to see my dad, from time to time say "I love you" to mom. We kids usually act all disgusted to hear it, but deep inside, we're happy for them and content that our ginikanans are still 'in love'. I can only wish 25+ more years for them.

[C2H4]

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

It might be possible for some, but not for me.

I won't tolerate cheating.

[swakee]

kanang... la pa ko nag-cheat... pero diha koy mga crushes... ok ra ba na? na-crush kos akong co-worker nga toyab... sauns...

[swakee]

sorry, na-OT man tong akong reply...

Is it possible ba nga happy pa ang marriage after cheating? dili na i think... dili na man gani happy sa wala pa nag-cheat... how much more nga mag-cheat pa... faets!

[C2H4]

Hehehehe, malingaw man jud ko nimo swaks oi. Pero sakto jud.

[swakee]

C2, fugong lang sa ta ron hap!

[Barbaro]

oistttt. swakee, pag lay-oy nalang diha sa imong kamunggay aron mo ubos ang pressure sa dugo sayang labong na raba..

[Moyhua]

Is it possible ba nga happy pa ang marriage after cheating?... I don't think so....Lisod na kaau ibalik ang trust once mag cheat ang tawo sa kaminyo-on....ako jud ingnun nga "dagko na ta nagkita, mag iya iya na lng ta ug dalan".

[mistyeyed]

ug mag cheat,pag cheat pod...hahaha...joke...bitaw noh...ako biktima ana...sakit...lisod dawaton...hangtod karon i'm grieving...tabang!!!!

[hofelina]

The pain is beyond words to describe especially with kids and how to hide the hatred, without them hating the father. This conflict  was really difficult to resolve rationally, I   nearly lost  my sanity. It took me 6 years to come to terms with the situation, and now we are good friends.

[-<GEC348>-]

ug mag cheat,pag cheat pod...hahaha...joke...bitaw noh...ako biktima ana...sakit...lisod dawaton...hangtod karon i'm grieving...tabang!!!!

So that explains the poem.

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

i don't want to comment on this kay nag cheat ra ba ko sa una...


















pag college, pero panagsa ra kanang dili ko makatuon kay laag ang unahon...
bitaw oi, i don't want to cheat to my wife. i love her man jud and besides im contented na in her.
pero kung naay manghagad ug manghagit nako aw, dili sad ko mobalibad basta libre. hehehehe

[insurectus]

pero kung naay manghagad ug manghagit nako aw, dili sad ko mobalibad basta libre. hehehehe

sarap ng libre hehehe
mura anang gi ingon nga grasya na unya dili-an pa jud
or kwarta na naging bato pa

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

sarap ng libre hehehe
mura anang gi ingon nga grasya na unya dili-an pa jud
or kwarta na naging bato pa

mao bitaw na ilang giingon nga to refuse an offer is an insult. hehehehe

[slackware]

mao bitaw na ilang giingon nga to refuse an offer is an insult. hehehehe

moingon nalang ka na, "Lord, thy will be done!" hehehehehehe

[lindy]

kon dili nimo na buhaton hinglapas lang gihapon ka sa balaod nga naga ingon:

paimna ang giuhaw
pakan-a ang gigutom
bistihi ang walay sapot

[Moyhua]

Asus! Enjoy life wisely What your partner don't know, wont hurt him or her.


Pero ang gaba dli magsaba!

[lindy]

mintras duna pay ikabuga kay ug wala na manluwa na lamang.

[swakee]

for your eyes only...

[leanne]

Topic: Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your hubby has been cheating on u?
... my opinion. its no

[mistyeyed]

So that explains the poem.

Yap! korek ka dyan, but there is always a second chance if there is true repentance,puedi gihapon mo magmalipayon,it depends upon the two of you..

[bulak]

kon dili nimo na buhaton hinglapas lang gihapon ka sa balaod nga naga ingon:
paimna ang giuhaw
pakan-a ang gigutom
bistihi ang walay sapot

Ayaw intawn kamo pag cheat mga anak sa inyong mga kapikas sa kinabuhi bisan pa man og hukaran kamo, kay susama ra usab nga naglu-ib kamo sa dios..Ang pagsalig kung mao na kiniy mapukan sa usa ka managtiayon,ang panag uban dile na gayud susama sa kanhing panahon diin tibuok pa ang hulagway sa gilu-ibang pagbate, ang mga uwat sa mga kasakit magpabilin gihapon  kining lama! sa mga handumanan nga mapakli gihapon kine sa umaabot nga panahon..

[wardiflex]

wow ka nindot sa balak ni BUlak,, salamat naa koy nakat-unan... nakasala raba sab ko sa akong gf...

[aira_galope]

it based to each situation....sa mga lovers....BUT

The one thing which I would like to plead with people who choose the decision to betray and cheat on someone they say they really do not want to loose and love. Whether anyone is willing to admit or likes it or not, the impact of ADULTERY CHANGES YOUR LIFE FOREVER.


Please people take better care of your loved ones, friends and family. Take special care not to loose something important to you. THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN
MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

tawo ra baya sad nga dali matintal ug makasala.
kung naay magsige ug samok nimo ug mag ibid ibid jud.
kung akoy matungnan ug ing ana aw respetaran oi abi nalang b***t. ehehehe
wala pa sad nuoy nagbuhat ug ing ana nako kay maglugit sad ko abi nalang easy boy.

[pioneer]

abi nalang easy boy.

Abi nalang "makuha sa tingin."

[bulak]

wow ka nindot sa balak ni BUlak,, salamat naa koy nakat-unan... nakasala raba sab ko sa akong gf...

Unsay balak ba wardiflex ..maayu unta og naa kay nakutlo nga mga pagtulun-an kay huh dile lalim intawon kung ang dughan na ang masamaran

[mistyeyed]

Unsay balak ba wardiflex ..maayu unta og naa kay nakutlo nga mga pagtulun-an kay huh dile lalim intawon kung ang dughan na ang masamaran

i second the motion...ayaw intawn ninyo samari ang dughan sa mga babae...bow..

[junayag]

I haven't read the whole thread.  Yes, there is still a chance to be happy in marriage after the husband or wife has cheated if there would be wholehearted forgiveness and acceptance. But what dwells in most cases is PRIDE. So, seldom you find success stories on this predicament.

[hofelina]

It should also be not forgotten that aside from the mental anguish and hurt pride, there is a great danger of sexually transmitted diseases to the innocent partner.

[Moyhua]

Pasaylo-a lng jud ko bana...if mag cheat gani unya sakpan jud sa akto??? ako jud i reject... mapasaylo cguro nako pero, dli na mabalik ang trust and respect jud, lisod na.

[buwadsanga]

ug gihigugma nimo sija. kaya nimo sijang pasayloon kay ang pasaylo usa ka lunhaw nga gugma.

maajo pay ikaw ang mo pasaylo kaysa ikaw ang mangajo ani.

[mistyeyed]

I haven't read the whole thread.  Yes, there is still a chance to be happy in marriage after the husband or wife has cheated if there would be wholehearted forgiveness and acceptance. But what dwells in most cases is PRIDE. So, seldom you find success stories on this predicament.

I haven't read the whole thread.  Yes, there is still a chance to be happy in marriage after the husband or wife has cheated if there would be wholehearted forgiveness and acceptance. But what dwells in most cases is PRIDE. So, seldom you find success stories on this predicament.

I haven't read the whole thread.  Yes, there is still a chance to be happy in marriage after the husband or wife has cheated if there would be wholehearted forgiveness and acceptance. But what dwells in most cases is PRIDE. So, seldom you find success stories on this predicament.

korek! swerti ang pamilyang mubalik ang pagkamalipayon after sa unos sa kadagatan nga gi ngalan ug: KINSA SIYA,NGANONG NAG LU-IB KA....

[Gener]

Guys, I have a revelation to share and I hope you can learn from it.

I had an extra-marital relation 2 years after my marriage. I got married 1992 and I must say that we never had a good marriage foundation since my job in the Philippines then requires me to be abroad often. At that time, my mind set--Im still a bachelor. My attachment to my barkada is more than to my family that eventually leads me to having an affair outside of marriage. This relationship goes on for about 3 months until the turning point of in my life came one early morning, I came home after spending the entire night with the girl. I saw my wife sleeping, then with our first child. That time, I asked myself what is this that Im doing with my family?

The following day, I split off with the girl but getting away from her is not that easy for aside from the fact that we belong to the same company, she never let go off me unless I agree to sire her a child.I was able to manage myself more than the girl manages herself. I hid this secret from my wife for so many and my concience is bothering me so much to the point that I'm turning the table against my wife, meaning I got easily jealous wherein fact there is nothing to be jealous of (maybe I was afraid of my own ghost).

Year 2002 when I decided to confess to her my sin. We had it in Tagaytay, just the two of us and I let go of my emotional baggage. The confession I made brought her indescribable pain. We cried on each other's shouder and we patched up everything. We kissed and make up and made a vow that I will never hurt her again. That reconciliation in Tagaytay resulted to our 3rd child.

While it is true that what she didnt know will never hurt her but I believed otherwise. The more youre not being truthful is the more you will hurt your partner. However, that revelation had a setback. In some instance, seeing a woman's name in my cellphone's address book or meeting attractive lady officemates of mine made her paranoid. Well it is the price that i have to pay but I can live with it. Sometimes, I just have to crack jokes just to make her feel relax, "Ikaw kasi mag-aasawa ka ng kamukha ni John Lloyd Cruz pagkatapos seselos-selos ka diyan?

Sometimes it pays to be truthful and make sure that the forgiveness given to you must be compensated with a utmost responsibility and respect, for this would make the relationship more stonger and matured. But convincing your wife to believe that you are already a good boy is another thing, well this could be another story to tell.

Marriage is a relationship between two forgiving partners.

[pioneer]

Gener, I admire your openness. You are a real man.

[mistyeyed]

Congrats Gener, I guess u were able to encourage those guys & girls out there... that adultery will never makes you good & on the other side you encourage us that there will be always a second chance as long as the unfaithful partner will try to be faithful not only in words but in action.It's very true that being truthful could lead to openess and can even build more trust. It's our  choice to make good or not.Yon ang tunay na lalaki,aamin at maruning mag make amends.

[Lorenzo]

Marriage is sanctified, as one is married before God and Man. The act of adultery is a sin, pero ang fact is that no one is free from sin. Bless those who are able to reconcile their differences and their faults and mistakes in any marriage. For what ever is joined together under God, no man or woman should be able to break apart.

Gener, I think that it took alot of courage for you to tell your beloved. And that it was inivetible that you confessed. Truly, you cherished your marriage and Providence has rewarded both of you with a child.

Nothing can eve remain concealed, as your personal anecdote tells us. And it correlates to a verse in scripture:

There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs.

--Luke 12:2-3


God Bless,

[Lorenzo]

Gener,

I will tell you right now that you have been blessed with an understanding and loving wife. She is your second half, I can tell. Cherish her, my friend, cherish the union you have and the children that you both have.

And remember your sacred oaths that you confessed together before Almighty God and Man.

'Until Death do us part'

Respectfully,

[mistyeyed]

korek,pastor lorenz...praise be to god!!!

[Gener]

Thank you all and above all, thank God for giving me an undertsanding wife. Hope my sharing will inspire others who may be in the same predicament.

God bless everyone

[hofelina]

Gener,
My tears flowed as I read your posting, you are brave and ... at the same time.
In my opinion it is a lot wiser to just be silent about the whole situation. I have lots of friends that the partner confessed everything and there goes the whole mess. The agrieved party might forgive and forget but the fear and insecurity is there. Kon matago, i tago nalang.  Go to confessions and start a new life. There is always hope in a new day.
God bless to you and your family Gener,  Manay Tess

[Gener]

Thank you Manay Tess and may God also bless you and your family.

I agree that there may be risks inlvoved in it and perhaps that may be the reason why sometimes, offending party never disclosed nor admit this to the agrieved party. Thus, the 11th commandment surfaces -Thou shall not admit.

It just so happen that my confession happened not by chance but rather part of God's plan for my marriage life. He had laid the plan for me. He prepared us spiritually more than emotionally. After keeping my 'misadventure' secret for so many years, my marriage runs as any normal relationship does.But God wanted our relationship to be more than just normal, with Him at the center. He led us to attend a Marriage Encounter and from there, we learned that married couples are no longer two but one, not in flesh but in spirit. And by being one in spirit, there would be no room for concealment, a thing that anybody will find rediculous.

Admittedly, His ways are not our ways. Marriage after all is all about forgiveness, thus, it is a union between two forgiving partners. If the forgiveness that has been given results to fear and insecurity, this only mean that there is no forgiveness given on the first place. There is no such thing as half-baked forgiveness, in the same way as a woman can't be 50% virgin. After all, saying sorry and you are forgiven sometimes are words commonly misunderstood, and sometimes abused.

Learn to forgive completely so that you may also be forgiven. The yard stick you use will also be the same yard stick that will measure you. But nonetheless, forgiveness received must be compensated by utmost respect and responsibilty, as a person worthy to be forgiven.

[mistyeyed]

Praise God! I know It is His works that's why your marriage is save & that is because you make HIM as the center of your relationship.Keep on making Him as d center of your life.Keep loving your wife..Di naka kita parehas nya Doy..Congrats boy!

[buwadsanga]

pero ngano man sauna nga si haring solomon daghan mag asawa? unja karon usa na? unja ang muslim pwede tolo ka buok?

ang solution siguro ug gusto ka nga daghan balhin kas muslim. ug usa ra, kay di kaya daghan kristyan na.

ang ahong buot ipasabut, di na nato problemahon ni! hehehe!

[mistyeyed]

hahaha...mao nay giingon ug sauning ra man to,mao bitaw naabot si jesus kay aron ma bag-o ang tanang daan.....
korek,di angay problemahon ang problemang lisod sulbaron,instead mag move on...kay daghan ang nakat-on mahitungod ani nga sugilanon...bow

[buwadsanga]

oh gugma, gugma nga maluibon..
nga karon sa dughan akong gi komkom...

sa dihang ahong nahibaw-an nga ikaw Inday nag budhi...
akong gi yarok ang tubang bahal ni Inday Misty....

misuka, naluray, natumba ug mikamang.....
gutom ang tiyan kay ang sumsuman asin lamang....


okay ba? hehehe!     

[mistyeyed]

hahaha..ako ipadayon imo balak bwad ha


Niabot ang kabuntagon...lugos ko kabangon...
Gusto naku ako kaugalingon ang basolon ug nganong sa kabuntagon nahinumdon japon ako sa usa ka maluibon...

Bisan tuba,di makatabon sa gibati sa ako kaugalingon....
tungod sa usa ka tawo nga maluibon....

Karon ako gi istoryahan ako kaugalingon...
Nga kinahanglan na ako magmatngon...

Para di na ako mahisulagma sa tawong maluibon...
Ug ako nang pangita-on ang makaayo sa ako kaugalingon...

Ug maka tabang sa umaabot naku nga kaminyo-on..bow...

[buwadsanga]

hahahahah! sumpayan pa kay wa pay istorya sa tingpaniudto time...

misubang, misaka sa kalingitan si haring adlaw
miingon nga ayaw na pagtuwaw kay taas na ako ang adlaw....

hapdos ang tiyan, uhaw sa kailadman.
hangover maoy hinungdan...

gusto ko pa untang mo inum sa bahal ni inday misty....
kay ang akong gibati murag gi peste...

tingpaniudto na, dung-ag na....
haa na batong maluibon......
kay ako na siguro syang hiloan para patyon.....


hehehe.... nagka thrilling na ang istorya..... hala sumpay na!
 

[mistyeyed]

hahahaha....

Ug ako siya patyon,mahuman na ang sugilanon...
Ug ako siya biay-biayon basi ako iya patyon...
Unsa kaha ako buhaton karon?

Sakit na kaayo ako pus-on, pati ako bukton...sa sige ug lili sa ilalom sa kahon..
Ug unsa bay ako kan-on,kay ang usa ka maluibon wa man jud magbilin ug pagkaon kay ang tanan iya giba-on
Pagkapait ug kitay maka asawa ug maluibon
Way andam bisan para sa panihapon,way bag-ong pantalon...

[buwadsanga]

hehehe hunahuna una ko ug unsay isumpay!
tira mist!

[A Layman]

Tira mga kaliwat ni Caloy Garcia!

O Inday kong mabudhion, hain ka na man karon
Hinaot ikaw nagmalipayon, sa laing mga bukton
Pero sa rurok sa imong kalipay, panaghoy ko imong dunggon
Mga huni ni kuliyaw maoy nagpapukaw
Sa kahapdos sa imong pagpanaw...

Sa taliwala sa imong pagluib, paghigugma ko kanimo way paglubad
Mga paghandom sa malipayon natong panahon
Maoy duwang sa akong mga paglaom, arenola sa akong mga kahidlaw
Nga ikaw Inday mobalik gihapon sa akong mga bukton
Aron atong ipadayon ang malipayong natong pag ipon...

Yaks...

Ngano man nga kasagaran sa magasawang maluibon mangita mag lain? Tingali wa nay attraction kay lusyang na man ang partner. Ug dili sila mangita ug lain magantos na lang kanunay paginom-inom ug bahal hangtod mahubog o diba maghubog sa beer usa sila modug sa ilang asawa. Pag nahubog kana, bisag unsay baho o itsura sa asawa wa nay epek kay hubog ka na man.

So they say, "Beauty is in the eyes of the BEERholder." LOL

[buwadsanga]

thats rayt layman!

busa mga ondoy ug mga inday
ang pagkaligo ikanunay
aron lunsay ug piskay
ang inyuhang mga kuan buslot man o nagbitay.....

hahaha!

[mistyeyed]

hahahaha....

matod pa ni inday..
sige siya kaligo kanunay...
pero ang inatay nga ga bitay....
adunay lain kanunay kay di maigo ug usa ra kunohay,,,

[mistyeyed]

bwad lain napod nga balak,...sugdi na kay ako sumpayan

[alfonso_potane]

thats rayt layman!

busa mga ondoy ug mga inday
ang pagkaligo ikanunay
aron lunsay ug piskay
ang inyuhang mga kuan buslot man o nagbitay.....

hahaha!

kuyawa ni si buwad no.. maajo kaajomo garay ug balak ba...

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

ngano si junior dili makontento ug usa ra?
tungod ba kay bata maong lagsik pa?
apan si manoy nga edad edaran ganahan pa man gihapoin mokuan.
kay ang biga dili kapugngan kung edad lang ang hisgotan.
karingking didto karingking diri.
kani sila sige nalang ug pasuwabe.
wala hunahunaa ang ugma basin unya maghugka.
kay sa sige'g amit laspag na diay maong di na kalahutay.

[Moyhua]

Hala jud! Lingaw ko kaau ninyo

[A Layman]

Sa tumoy sa akong kahidlaw, kanimo nangandoy
Sa imong pagbalik, diri sa akong mga bukton
Kay lab-as pa gihapon ang pagbuhagay sa atong gugma
Nga imong gidula lulaan ug gibiyaan..

Sa pagtuyhakaw sa haring adlaw ikaw akong gitan-aw
Nga ikaw unta mobalik sa atong gamay nga payaw
Diin atong gisaluhan ang kalipay sa atong paghiusa
Nga karon kanunay nang nabalisa sa akong paginusara...

Ngew...korni ba?

[bulak]

Tua na nagpabuhagay na sa ilang mga balak ang mga bantugang bol-anon

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

Tua na nagpabuhagay na sa ilang mga balak ang mga bantugang bol-anon

wala pa gani moapil ang nangalimyong bulak sa indigay sa balak.

[mistyeyed]

Sa atong Payaw
Didto saksi ang payaw sa imong mga yawyaw...
Mao ondoy ako mibiya sa ato payaw kay nabungol naku sa imo yaw yaw..
Sige yaw yaw sige yaw yaw wa may bolinao..
Sige pulaw sige pulaw,abi ko unsa,pero sa masyaw..
way nakuhang bulinaw...

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

ay pastilan kanimo inday
magsige ka naman lang singgaak
murag irong pumapaak
maayo unta to kung ang giyawyaw makatagbaw
makadugang naman nuon sa kauhaw
ug kini imong gibuhat kada adlaw
daw naanad na ang akong dalunggan ug sa mga silingan
sa kada adlaw ako imong butang butangan
moabot ang adlaw nga dili nako makaagwanta
motaliwan nalang ko aning panimaya
kay unsa pa may bili ug mag antos dire
nga bisan gani ang santos dili malibre

[bulak]

wala pa gani moapil ang nangalimyong bulak sa indigay sa balak.

Ha ha ha BNC wala kot talent anang maghimo og balak lagi,tigbasa lang tawn ko sa inyong mga maanindot nga pasundayag

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

ms flower, ikaw baya ang bangiitang magbabalak sa TB. idol gud ka ni balongskie ug sa tanang mga taga TB. lie low lang sa karon?

[mistyeyed]

Bulak

ikaw ang pinakamaanindot nga bulak...
daghan ang nag balak
sa pagpupu sa imong bulak
apan ikaw inday adunay gibalak
nga sa usa ka lalaki lamang kanimo ihatag ang imong bulak...bow

[slackware]

Mao na ni gidangatan! hehehehehe 

[mistyeyed]

hahaha...busa kitang mga  single pa di nalang ta mag minyo,,,,kafaet...

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

kung di sad mag minyo luoy pud ka. walay moguroy nimo inig ka tiguwang nimo.

[mistyeyed]

hahaha...paguroy nalang kos kabaw diay

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

hahaha...paguroy nalang kos kabaw diay

di sad ka daginoton sa kabaw kung tiguwang naka. ngita man ning kabaw ug bata. paguroy nalang sa bao. hehehe

[A Layman]

Bitaw no? Unsa na kahay imong kahimtang ug matigulang kana nga way asawa o bana nga magatiman nimo?

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

Bitaw no? Unsa na kahay imong kahimtang ug matigulang kana nga way asawa o bana nga magatiman nimo?

i know several people who opted to single rather than marrying someone. they have only 1 common comment, it's so lonely being alone.

[swakee]

korek! mas nindot jud ning naa tay kapikas para dili empty atong life, but in fairness sa mga singles... happiness is how you make it anyways... so if they're happy being single then so be it.

[buwadsanga]

hehehehe! nagngisi ko nga nagbasa sa atong mga bolanong binisajang balak!

tira mga sana ug sano!

hunahuna sa ko kay dia akong Boz
aporado!

[mistyeyed]

i know several people who opted to single rather than marrying someone. they have only 1 common comment, it's so lonely being alone.

mao ba,o sige mag minyo nalang ko oi...

[buwadsanga]

mist, pwede kang makilala? 

[buwadsanga]

bulak....

pagkahumot sa imong alimyon mahal nga bulak
gusto kitang kutloon, idayandyan ug itanum aron mamolak
nga unta sa imong kaanyag way mo hilak...

mohilak sa tumang kalipay
mohilak ba kay ikaw bulak gi away
o mo luha ba kay giluiban si bulak inday.....

ohh bulak sa kaalimyun, usab kaanindut nyang sod-ungon
dili gyud ko pow-an o laayon bisan sa akong mga paghandum
kay ikaw bulak akong gimahal ajaw jud pag maluibon..... 


      rak na obama na!

[Lorenzo]

This is the First Rule:

DO NOT cheat in the FIRST PLACE.

Husband, honor your wife.

and,

Wife, Honor your husband.

[buwadsanga]

paano na literal ang pagbsa sa golden rule:

LOVE ONE ANOTHER...

[bulak]

ms flower, ikaw baya ang bangiitang magbabalak sa TB. idol gud ka ni balongskie ug sa tanang mga taga TB. lie low lang sa karon?

Hu karon pako ka ukab ani nga thread og balik dah, naawngan nako ninyu BNC mao dile nalang ko mubalak oi tigpakpak lang ko ninyu ha

[bulak]

Bulak

ikaw ang pinakamaanindot nga bulak...
daghan ang nag balak
sa pagpupu sa imong bulak
apan ikaw inday adunay gibalak
nga sa usa ka lalaki lamang kanimo ihatag ang imong bulak...bow

bulak....

pagkahumot sa imong alimyon mahal nga bulak
gusto kitang kutloon, idayandyan ug itanum aron mamolak
nga unta sa imong kaanyag way mo hilak...

mohilak sa tumang kalipay
mohilak ba kay ikaw bulak gi away
o mo luha ba kay giluiban si bulak inday.....

ohh bulak sa kaalimyun, usab kaanindut nyang sod-ungon
dili gyud ko pow-an o laayon bisan sa akong mga paghandum
kay ikaw bulak akong gimahal ajaw jud pag maluibon..... 


     rak na obama na!

Salamat sa inyong  mga matahom nga balak
Nga kaninyu gihalad alang kang bulak
Kay tungod sa inyong nga maanindot nga pulong
Ang nangalawos na nga bulak subli mang nipahiyom