Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your hubby has been cheating on u?

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

Hu karon pako ka ukab ani nga thread og balik dah, naawngan nako ninyu BNC mao dile nalang ko mubalak oi tigpakpak lang ko ninyu ha

maawngan ba diay ang original... hehehe

sa imong pag usbong isip usa ka putot
daghang tawo ang nahimoot
nagsud-ong sa gamay nga butang nga nagtungtong
sa pungango sa sanga nga maligdong
paglabay sa pipila ka adlaw
adunay bag-ong kinabuhi nga miusbaw
ug wala damha sa mga gihidlaw
usa ka matahum nga butang ang nisugwak
nga mao diay ang matahum nga bulak.

[buwadsanga]

heheehehe! kinaiyanhon gyud ang balak sa mga bol-anon!

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

sa pag usbong sa matahum nga bulak
ang mga tawo daw ganahan nga mobalak
ang mga buyog, kaba-kaba ug mga langgam nagsige ug ibid-ibid
kay gustong modimdim sa imong katam-is
daw dili sila matagbaw sa ilang kauhaw
kay nagsige lang sila balik ug tugsaw
hinaut nga sa imong pagtimbaya
ibayaw mo kami sa himaya.

[A Layman]

O maanyag nga bulak
Ang imong Kahumot kanunay nangalimyon
Gipadpad sa Kahanginan
Dagit sa hanging amihan

Sa akong paginusara
Kaanyag mo kanunay tan aw sa akong mutaong mata
Alimyon mong way kupas ang kahumot
Hapuhap sa ilong kong gibin ot

[buwadsanga]

rak en rollll na!!!!

[A Layman]

Ang sibol sa gaymay mong mga tarorot
Subang sa adlaw sila mitan aw
Hamog ug patak sa ulan gipang uhaw
Ma ipakita lamang ang ilang pagka anindot

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

it's possible to have a happy marriage even after your hubby has been cheating. i can attest to that because my father cheated to my mother twice already. first when we were young and second just recently. and yet they are still together strong, alive and kicking. though i adhor what my father has done but still I appreciate that they made ways to mend the differences and still looking to stay with each other till their last breath. hopefully that father learned from his mistakes and will not commit that sin again.

[A Layman]

If wives just know how to exercise tolerance to their loved ones, I bet happiness could still be maintained in every relationship. Mao nay giingon sa proverbial saying that, "To err is human, to
forgive is divine!" Forgiveness is deep rooted in the degree of tolerance you exercise to every mistake your loved ones commits.

[Gener]

I sound like a broken record for this but I may have to quote this again;
"There is no such thing as marriage made in heaven".

If couples are made to believed that their marriage must be 'worry-free' or 'walk in the park' kind of a thing must be told by my quote above. Marriage is a handy work of 2 forgiving partners; that despite one's shortcomings to another will continue to love the offending party for love is also a decision to make and not just a feelings. If our partner keeps on offending us and you are not capable of  forgiveness, then why don't you cast the first stone as Jesus had shown to us?

How many times must we forgive one another? We must do it seven times seventy seven times.

[ms da binsi]

If wives just know how to exercise tolerance to their loved ones, I bet happiness could still be maintained in every relationship. Mao nay giingon sa proverbial saying that, "To err is human, to
forgive is divine!" Forgiveness is deep rooted in the degree of tolerance you exercise to every mistake your loved ones commits.

I agree to you A'lie...
i experienced that before pero pagka dugayan di na kaya oi!

[lindy]

mao nga mas maayo pag pananghid na lang daan aron walay lie. di ba dear?

[ms da binsi]

korek ka ana dear...

[windgate]

mao nga mas maayo pag pananghid na lang daan aron walay lie. di ba dear?

easier said than done.  how about unja ra ka managang ug masakspan na.hehehe.  for sure there's always a reason nganong nangaliwa

[ms da binsi]

tinuod ka windgate, the main reason ana...just plain promiscuous act. simple ha?

naa man jud KATOL nga tawo di jud na malikajan, it is their nature or sometimes that is their illness.

so wives, girlfriends, husbands or boyfriends, if you love your significant other take it or leave it...kay bisan pila pa ka novena imong pangadyeon ana di jud na mawala.

[windgate]

tinuod ka windgate, the main reason ana...just plain promiscuous act. simple ha?

naa man jud KATOL nga tawo di jud na malikajan, it is their nature or sometimes that is their illness.

so wives, girlfriends, husbands or boyfriends, if you love your significant other take it or leave it...kay bisan pila pa ka novena imong pangadyeon ana di jud na mawala.

lagi.  sajon ra kaajo mosulti ug dili kitay maig-an.  pero kung moabot na^ sa ato, sakit baja pod.  pero kadaghanan jud magbuwag labi na ug baji magtinunto.  pero ug laki gani ingnon laman ug ga-exercise ra

[ms da binsi]

huy abi nimo mao jud na naka unfair sa baje ug laki noh? ug ang laki mo bilangkad mo ingon akong folks nga "wa man mawala nila" kita diay unsa may mawala kanang ilang giingon nga HYMEN? nga hymen raman na? di man sad na makamatay ug wa na na?

haaay ambut laman!!!!

[Brownman]

What knew in muslim community ok lang sa kanila bisan lima ang
asawa provided that the husband can support his mistresses but i'm not sure
kung happy ang mga babae, for sure the secret to happy marriage is honesty.

[lindy]

daghan kaayo ang rason left and right & both parties. mangawas na tanan labi pag mag away. but then bahalag maputlan di gyud moangkon.

easier said than done.  how about unja ra ka managang ug masakspan na.hehehe.  for sure there's always a reason nganong nangaliwa

[bulak]

Huh maayu pay magmadre nalang lagi aron walay mag-luib

[windgate]

Huh maayu pay magmadre nalang lagi aron walay mag-luib

nah! samot na ka dako ug sala ug madre ang mokaliwa : mobalik na pod tas" to err is human....

[Moyhua]

Either si bana or asawa ang mag cheat, lahi na jud ang pagsamahan sa usag-usag. Dli jud malikayan ma utingkay jud maong panghitabo.

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

my father twice cheated to my mother but my mother still accepted him. i think what's best is you accept your fault and show remorse on what you did. hopefully women should understand that men are born polygamous.

[ms da binsi]

Ray human are supposed to be animals...

I dont agree with you that only men are polygamus...thats not fair.

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

Ray human are supposed to be animals...

I dont agree with you that only men are polygamus...thats not fair.

men are really polygamous. it's up to them to control it but often times they can't because of temptations mostly by women.

[grazie7y]

So then Ray, history repeats itself.  When we talk about Adan and Even eating-apple-story, people blamed Eve for tempting Adan to eat the apple.  I'd say, Adan was such a weakling.  Ngano gud ga pa tintal sya!

[ms da binsi]

KOREK!!!


kay according to some study nga ang men daw only uses 1/3 of his brain...

ug mo viga na murag 10 % nalang!

[slackware]

but still smarter than women...

[ms da binsi]

women are smart too that men cant thrash...

[grazie7y]

I agree with you, Maring.  Objectively speaking, I think women are smarter than men! hahaha  Men will always be boys! Opps! Did I say it? 

[lindy]

agree pod ko ana nga mga smarte ang mga girls kay maayo kaayo mangita ug paagi nga malipat ang mga tatay.

[grazie7y]

my father twice cheated to my mother but my mother still accepted him. i think what's best is you accept your fault and show remorse on what you did. hopefully women should understand that men are born polygamous.

When we were growing up (and even up to now), I told colleagues that I was so sure my Dad never had another woman in his life.  And the usual question thrown to me was, how sure are you?  Well, ingon nila, if maldito ang amahan - meaning tsikboy, somehow masumbalikdaw  sa mga anak na babae.  At that time, most of us 9 girls were in our 30s and none of us ever got pregnant or married except for my police sister.  But tinud jud, Dad never had any other woman kay busy man sya mahjongan ug sa Sunday school aka buwangan.

My grandfather had another woman though.  My grandma told us grandkids that Tatay Macar had other woman (or women, maybe) while working as a soldier.  One day, my grandmother received a letter from "the other" woman professing her love to my grandpa.  My grandma was one strong and feisty woman but she took the news so calmly and with grace.  She wrote back to the other woman and one thing she said that I couldn't forget what she said in her broken english, something like - thank you for loving my husband and thank you for taking care of him while I wasn't around to take care of him. 

[grazie7y]

agree pod ko ana nga mga smarte ang mga girls kay maayo kaayo mangita ug paagi nga malipat ang mga tatay.

hahaha nabiktima na diay ka ani, Nong? 

[lindy]

wala man ko mabiktima pero akong mga uyab sauna. karon ilang lipaton akong kumander. hahaha joke problema nas motuo sa bot bot.

[grazie7y]

ngek!  istorbot ra diay na, Nong?  Aya pa ilad oi!

[lindy]

hahaha oo god. ipaagi ra una ug ing ana pero nahuman na diay.

[bol-anon nga cebuano]

i started a new thread on who's smarter men or women....
http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=16763.new#new