All I did on my marriage is to adjust..I have to be patient and have to learn everything,from the the way to speak,to cook,and everything.All the people who sorrounds me can't speak english,****!for every ceremony like wedding,burial,etc.I felt like a vase,I don't know where to stand or set...I will be lucky if my husband remember that I'm with him..coz' he's not that supportive and gentleman and I don't expect for it.SOmetimes I wanna cry,but all I have to think is that this will just pass by and the important to have as a gain is the lesson.
First is the coldness during winter,I hate winter time until now.I remember when my husband went to Indonesia for his business,I was left in our home with my 3 kids.T'was so cold and I need to put some kerosene for our fan heater,The kerosene tank is located at the back of our house,but I just can't have the kerosene that easy coz' the snow covered the tank more than a meter...so I shoveled the place at 9 pm..I can't imagine the pain of both hands not just the coldness,and feet so hard to move.
I had a hard time with those traitors..I know this is not a good word to say,but this is the only word I know to describe this sisters of my husband.Been so good all my life,But when my father in -law died,they turn into snakes,because of the "pamana"..You're right Sir Benne on the other thread.It will be a long story,but me as the daughter of Dagohoy never just turn about.1 vs 4 of them in a war.I fight for my right.And I did,now I have to celebrate my liberty every November.It gave me a mild stroke,that I can't move half of my body because of stress,..good thing that God is with me and I'm recovered.
I have lots of things to share,but geee it's time to fetch for my girl..to be continue...
Well to continue..here I am kicking and alive,more careful and I'm thankful for what had happened instead,because I feel stronger and I learned a lot from them..And I met a lot of friends instead..Some were closing doors,but a lot of people were opening thier heart for us..My kids are shining through,giving me a reward from my sacrifices.I know I have to travel a lot,but I'm ready to face whatever challenges to meet...
All I know for now is to fight.for our rights..And I'm glad can wear my smile again...(
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(putol na lang nako kay taassssssssss jod kaayo na..hehehe)
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