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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #180 on: September 09, 2009, 11:01:01 PM »
Love is built on trust,
 without it, there' no harmony and joy
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korek ka dyaan, state.

If he was already a victim then maybe he will never beleive any more to any filipina.

Then I do not know why he tried again. And even more if not trust to you why he sent money.

Did you meet him already in Pinas? Only knowing you in person he can realize who you are really.
If you are a good person he will see it quickly. He shouldn´t doubt of you any more.

At least for me you match the rule number 1 for foreigner-filipinas relationship "If she never ask for money is a good signal" :P

And seems with the gold digger he broke rule number 2 "Never send money to a girl you do not know (if it´s a girl hahahaha)"

I think some foreigners are just blind. They send money to people they do not know and then they think all are the same when it´s their mistake.

First they flash their money and act like buying her with money then they are scammed and blame the filipinas for that.

I am very careful witth my gf, yeah she is poor but she is happy with her life and I am not anybody to try to change that, if I keep giving her huge amount of money I would feel as I am buying her love and I cannot have that idea in my mind :)

My opinion is that not only foreigners have to be aware of scammers. Filipinas has to be aware as well of foreigners flashing their "richness" to buy a girl. Lot of time the flashy type is just a looser in their respectives countries and the girl will end in some case beeing not a wife, more as a slave.

So there are "scammers" in both sides :)

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these are indeed very admirable words from you, keko.





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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #181 on: September 10, 2009, 02:16:00 AM »
Love is built on trust,
 without it, there' no harmony and joy
  :-*

Trust is EVERYTHING.

I can be the most darling of friends to my friends, I am extremely loyal, and supportive.
But when a person who I hold dear ever violates my trust, it is hard to re-establish trust.

Its a one time thing.

A person is either trustworthy or untrustworthy.

If they lied to you, cheated, connived, squawked at you or friends before, there is no guarantee that the will not do it again.

Trust and Integrity are one in the same. You either have it or you don't.



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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #182 on: September 10, 2009, 04:26:57 AM »
Love is built on trust,
 without it, there' no harmony and joy
  :-*

 Yes trust is good but control is much better!  ;D

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #183 on: September 10, 2009, 07:15:10 AM »
Haha, your comment made me chuckle.  Of course, not hard for the Boholana to control the putig itlog using all her aesthetic gifts.  He will surrender if he knows what's good for him.

Yes trust is good but control is much better!  ;D


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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #184 on: September 10, 2009, 02:23:27 PM »
everything is all about money... that is why sometimes we forget this saying that money isn't everything.. love is..

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #185 on: September 10, 2009, 03:50:00 PM »
kon walay money wala gud love kay matabang ba gud ug love love ug wala na sulod ang tiyan ug naglurat nang mata.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #186 on: September 10, 2009, 03:52:52 PM »
kon walay money wala gud love kay matabang ba gud ug love love ug wala na sulod ang tiyan ug naglurat nang mata.

Ha ha, mao na nay giingon nga "When the wolf comes in at the door, love creeps out of the window."

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #187 on: September 10, 2009, 04:32:42 PM »
... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place ;)  jk jk

Ha ha, mao na nay giingon nga "When the wolf comes in at the door, love creeps out of the window."

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #188 on: September 10, 2009, 05:22:04 PM »
... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place ;)  jk jk

Ha ha ha, "retarded" jud. Basig "retired" lang, he he. ;D





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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #189 on: September 10, 2009, 10:22:55 PM »
... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place ;)  jk jk



TRUE!!!

hahahhaha!

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #190 on: September 11, 2009, 02:02:07 PM »
huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #191 on: September 11, 2009, 02:05:21 PM »
Ha ha ha, "retarded" jud. Basig "retired" lang, he he. ;D

British baya si sangay Ben. But I guess he's more Boholano now than many of us.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #192 on: September 11, 2009, 02:13:37 PM »

Sakto jud ka Beyotch ...  ;)

Opps.  Na intriga ko sa imong handle - Beyotch.  Unsa pag pronounce kana ?   Beyotch as in B _ _ _ _ ?   Hehe.

Peace and happy weekend sister.   :)

huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
Mabuhay kayong lahat!!!


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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #193 on: November 02, 2009, 12:43:41 PM »
Before, not all but now Pinays trying to be practical. Daghan diri after nabuntisan sa uyab nya gibiyaan, walay laing choice ang mga angkan kundi mangita ug kano aron mo support sa iyang baby. Kasal dayon :)

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #194 on: December 29, 2009, 05:04:11 PM »
Well I just had some funny experiences with 3 short relationships with girls in Spain since I came back in October: a peruvian, a paraguayan and a spanish girl so I realized this happens everywhere :D not only in Philippines.

The 3 of them think I am rich lol. :D I think the crisis is making them blind here, even the spanish ones lol

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #195 on: December 30, 2009, 07:14:09 AM »
Before, not all but now Pinays trying to be practical. Daghan diri after nabuntisan sa uyab nya gibiyaan, walay laing choice ang mga angkan kundi mangita ug kano aron mo support sa iyang baby. Kasal dayon :)


yeah kay ang kano di man mag mind ug pila ka buok imong kabataang barangay! tig mind! KIBER! hahahhaha!

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #196 on: January 31, 2011, 09:28:48 PM »
MANILA, Philippines- The inability of the Philippine economy to produce high-paying jobs especially for women has pushed Filipinos to marry foreigners as a way to provide for their families, the study Country Gender Assessment by regional lender Asian Development Bank said.

The number of Filipinos marrying foreigners have also tripled in just a span of eight years from 7,819 in 1998 to 24,954 in 2006.

It is also estimated that currently, 300,000 Filipinos, 92 percent of whom are women, are married to foreigners mainly from the United States, Japan, Canada, the United Kingdom and South Korea.

Oi, 92% ang baje?  :-\

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #197 on: February 01, 2011, 12:01:15 AM »
That is true all over the world even European women whose economy is far advanced than the Philippines I married an American national, and it is b*** if I would say " I love him" the first time I saw him. The feeling progressed into love and respect, I have good and worst years, but that is my isolated story.

In general, it is true but for Christ's sake not only Pinay but all Eves in the universe.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #198 on: February 01, 2011, 08:20:35 AM »
Love is, after all, not a requisite of marriage.

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Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?
« Reply #199 on: February 01, 2011, 10:54:02 AM »
Love is, after all, not a requisite of marriage.

Just marry first and love will follow.... ;)

I remember  when I was then a bank teller, there was this foreigner who transacted me together with his Filipina wife, far from behind, the family and relatives of the wife who’re also inside the bank lobby  (maybe they needed  back-up  ;))..  and  I don’t know if that foreigner was just joking as  he said “ you know marrying a Filipina is just like marrying the whole tribe” I nodded my head with a smile and replied, “you knew, you’re much lucky, because Filipina women are caring and loving to the max… (labi na'g bol-anon..  ;) ).. he smiled too,  I don't know if it was a sign of affirmation..   ;D (gwatsi pod tong tawhana mora’g  taga TB..)

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