Boys, unsa man ang inyong trip, para dili mi maglisod pag-abla? Kay very daring na man karon ang mga babaye plus the society seem to tolerate it nowadays.
Tita,
the consensus for the younger generation has been open-mindedness in a woman pursuing a man. It is an empowering aspect for the woman.
For me, I have no problem with a woman pursuing a man or asking me out. In fact many of my dates were a result of such; however, whenever I go on a date, I will always offer to pay the check. Small things like paying for a woman, opening the door for her, seating her, is, in my book, still very essential.
Sure, women are looking for independence, but most women still look and hold true to conservative notions of a man offering to pay for her, escorting her. At least, it is part of the etiquette lang.
And for me, never jud to kiss on the first date. Ug mo offer siya 'signs' on the 3rd date or so, then it is the man's right to reign it so.
Lorenzo,
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