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#3601
Quotable Quotes / Re: Quote For The Day
May 25, 2010, 09:12:13 PM
"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose."
#3602
Travel and Tours / Re: help me! please....
May 25, 2010, 02:47:45 AM
Quote from: kan-ogong on May 24, 2010, 11:24:17 PM
Anna maayo kapa diha hayahay..America sus paeta mao nga u got wise decission to stay there.....ang naa diha sa Pinas maka ingon ug lami America...I work all over the world before i decided in US ..thats why i know theres a big difference.diha sa China barato tanan.nindot pa suruyan sa mga parks and resorts.i work in Shenzhen Guangdong and Guangzhou the capital of Guangdong Province.then trasfer to another 3 countries.after 4 years balik ko work diha sa China sa Sanya,Hainan naman ako...outside US maayo kaayo ang China mag work.barato tanan.mag negosyo ka diha ug mangga.di ba diha sa China sikat kaayo ka ug makakaon ug mangga.mopalit na sila ug mangga tag 5 boxes pas-an sinangay nila oi.sa Guangzhou 1kilometer ang mga tindahan diha ug manga before airport nag galumbay tanan manga gikan sa Pilipinas..ngita ka kasosyo diha kompra ka manga sa Bohol.

sakto gyud ka. naa ko sa zhangzhou which is an hour away sa Xiamen... puros barato gyud unya diri sa among dapit, fruits ang barato. asa ka makakita og lycee nga P6.00 ang kilo oi (start na baya ang season sa lychee)....
#3603
Bohol Directory / Re: CORTESANON.COM
May 24, 2010, 02:28:10 AM
i will tell my bff jesse c.. naa siya sa canada karon but taga loreto cya.. another good friend nako si Itchoy, naa cya sa denmark unya taga pob. cya.. batchmates nako nga ipong, padron, chiu, aguaviva,  friend pud nako si Zia og Edi nga naa na states.. taga la paz pud ni sila.. mga jubac pud sa salvador.. pa-klaro gyud ko nga sige ko pamista sa cortes sauna hehehe
#3604
Introduce Yourself / Re: Picture of Yourself
May 24, 2010, 02:22:09 AM
Quote from: Lorenzo on May 23, 2010, 08:50:10 PM
What a happy picture of your friends and family, Anna. :)

thanks.. but puros friends ra na... some since i was in the elementary and some sa HS na.. Go Batch92!
#3605
Quote from: hofelina on May 22, 2010, 01:42:57 AM
Anyone of you who visited this place? I want to hear your feedbacks, salamat.

Manay, i was connected with the Bohol provincial Library sauna and under ni sa office namo. all i can say is that it will take about 30 minutes of your time kay puros old things ni CPG ang makit-an.. we also have a new museum located sa Old Provincial Library (atbang sa plaza Rizal) and all about Bohol ang naka-display.. 
#3606
Health and Food / Re: Fruit Fights the Flu
May 23, 2010, 05:32:14 PM
thanks Manay for telling me about this 3-day fruit fast kay i will try.... and it is true that we should never eat fruits after meal
#3607
Introduce Yourself / Re: Picture of Yourself
May 23, 2010, 05:26:04 PM
Quote from: vrglguapo on May 23, 2010, 04:41:20 PM
Lovely pictures J,but excuse me  for my curiosity what is Bff stand for, i hope you don't mind me asking..

hehehe bff means best friend forever. my bff passed away last march 20 due to breast cancer. we've been bff since we were in grade 4
#3608
Introduce Yourself / Re: Picture of Yourself
May 23, 2010, 04:28:33 PM

tapok2x sa balay... march 24, 2010


memorial service of my bff.... march 22, 2010


memorial service of my bff.... march 22, 2010


homecoming of charles ... march 21, 2010


tapok2x sa balay... feb. 20, 2010


tapok2x with friends.... jan. 28, 2010
#3609
royal unya butangan og itlog sa native chicken with dahon2x nga wala ko kaila og murag dagway og mongos para tambal og chicken pox. my oyang asked me to drink this sauna when i had chicken pox  ewwwww
#3610
Product Reviews / Re: Milo vs Ovaltine
May 22, 2010, 04:05:43 AM
milo butangan gamay hot water og gamay sugar.. palaman na!... ma ni gusto sa mga anak nako
#3611
Travel and Tours / Re: help me! please....
May 22, 2010, 04:02:39 AM
Quote from: kan-ogong on May 22, 2010, 03:27:10 AM
Cebu girl FORGET THE AMERICAS DREAMS.. ang wala pa maka ari dere sa America gusto moari.unya mamaligya o mo prenda mga yuta kay gusto mo ari sa US. dili lalim ang kinabuhi dere sa America. pangalan na lang nga America ang nindot siguro pamation. taga liog bill dere. adto na lang ka sa Bohol suroy ayaw sa America.let your BF visit you and bring to Bohol that you must be proud of.

yes this is true and mao ni ang reason nga wala koy guts mu-adto sa US.. getting a visa diri sa China for US is very easy especially og foreign teacher ka.. but listening to my friends and relatives talk about insurances, bills, etc, ajo pa ari rako sa china kay anyways, i can go home 2x a year
#3612
Facts and Trivia / Re: Your Last Word Is Mine!
May 22, 2010, 01:33:30 AM
Quote from: bol-anon quo nyur! on May 22, 2010, 12:48:36 AM
naglibog koh!

"Where Do I Begin" ;)

Begin to repent for the end is near
#3613
Facts and Trivia / Re: Your Last Word Is Mine!
May 21, 2010, 02:47:57 PM
Quote from: taga tigbao on May 21, 2010, 01:59:24 PM
Balitaan unja mo naho dire ug nakatubo na ang ahong gipugas. ;D

Gipugas? unsay meaning ani?
#3614
Quotable Quotes / Re: Quote For The Day
May 21, 2010, 02:46:53 PM
Never be in-love with your bestfriend's boyfriend for it will surely destroy what you both have... - Anna
#3615
Jokes and Humor / Excuse Notes
May 21, 2010, 12:42:33 AM
...from parents (with their original spelling) collected by schools from all over the country:

My son is under a doctor's care and should not take P.E. today. Please execute him.

Please excuse Lisa for being absent. She was sick and I had her shot.

Dear School: Please exscuse John being absent on Jan. 28, 29,30, 31, 32, and also 33.

Please excuse Gloria from Jim today. She is administrating.

Please excuse Roland from P.E. for a few days. Yesterday he fell out of a tree and misplaced his hip.

John has been absent because he had two teeth taken out of his face.

Carlos was absent yesterday because he was playing football. He was hurt in the growing part.

Megan could not come to school today because she has been bothered by very close veins.

Chris will not be in school cus he has an acre in his side.

Please excuse Ray Friday from school. He has very loose vowels.

Please excuse Pedro from being absent yesterday. He had (diahre) (dyrea) (direathe) the runs. [words in ()'s were crossed out.]

Please excuse Burma, she has been sick and under the doctor.

Irving was absent yesterday because he missed his bust.

Please excuse Jimmy for being. It was his father's fault.

I kept Billie home because she had to go Christmas shopping because I don't know what size she wears.

Please excuse Jennifer for missing school yesterday. We forgot to get the Sunday paper off the porch, and when we found it Monday, we thought it was Sunday.

Sally won't be in school a week from Friday. We have to attend her funeral.

My daughter was absent yesterday because she was tired. She spent a weekend with the Marines.

Please excuse Jason for being absent yesterday. He had a cold and could not breed well.

Please excuse Mary for being absent yesterday. She was in bed with gramps.

Maryann was absent December 11-16, because she had a fever, sore throat, headache and upset stomach. Her sister was also sick, fever and sore throat, her brother had a low grade fever and ached all over. I wasn't the best either, sore throat and fever. There must be something going around, her father even got hot last night.

Please excuse little Jimmy for not being in school yesterday. His father is goneand I could not get him ready because I was in bed with the doctor
#3616
General Topic / Amazing Facts
May 21, 2010, 12:40:12 AM
Each year 30,000 people are seriously injured by exercise equipment.

More than 50% of the world have never made or received a telephone call.

The word "set" has more definitions than any other word in the English language.

Due to gravitational effects, you weigh slightly less when the moon is directly overhead.

A female ferret will die if it goes into heat and cannot find a mate.

In its ancient form, the carrot was purple, not orange.

Snails breathe through their feet!

Its illegal to own a red car in Shanghai, China.

The first CD pressed in the USA was Bruce Springsteen 'Born in the USA'.

The bat on the Bacardi symbol is there because the soil where the sugar cane grows is fertile from the excessive guano (bat droppings.)

2 out of 5 people live in China or India.

Montpelier, Vermont is the only U.S. state capital without a McDonalds.

Coca-Cola was originally green.

It is impossible to lick your elbow.

90% of people who read that will attempt it...

Recycling one glass jar, saves enough energy to watch T.V for 3 hours.

Annually, the amount of garbage dumped in the worlds oceans, is three times the weight of fish that is caught from the oceans.

Most lipstick contains fish scales!

What's the most shoplifted book in the United States? The Bible!

Almonds are a member of the peach family.

97% of all paper money in the US contains traces of cocaine.

More than 10 people a year are killed by vending machines.

In America in 1977, the punishment for smuggling marijuana was 15 years less than the punishment for smuggling coffee!


source: http://www.e-jokes.net/true/027.htm
#3617
ha ha ha.. grabe ang nasulod sa imagination nako... karon pa ko kabasa aning article about Sucaldito.......
#3618
honestly speaking, when i married at the age of 21, life was colorful and full of happiness until such time we encountered so many problems that i really want to give up... now, i can say, i am glad i married early kay among mga anak is like our barkada .....
#3619
if this question was asked to me 14 years ago, i will choose its better to be single kay naka-agi ko og pa-it sa kinabuhi but NOW, i will say, it is better to be married....
#3620
Quote from: hubag bohol on May 19, 2010, 04:58:55 AM
Bitaw no? Naa pa juy daghang appropriate vegetables sa kusina... ;D




waahhhhhhhhhh pili lang ani, talong or upo or baguio beans? hahahaha
#3621
General Topic / Re: nagtatanong lang
May 19, 2010, 10:06:38 AM
i have heard about this rumor but dili ko maka-ingon og Yes or No kay wala ni nahitabo nako nor sa akong family and close relatives (buyag tawn pud!).......
#3622
World Daily News / Re: Unusual humans
May 19, 2010, 10:03:19 AM
Quote from: hofelina on May 19, 2010, 05:36:41 AM
Aray, adunay kahimtang nga dili madala ug pray. But you see Mandy Sellars face, she is at peace with her fate.
Each and everyone of us gets our own challenges, it is simply a matter of how to tackle them.

mao ni gi-ingon nga be thankful kung unsay naa nmo karon physically... these photos and the documentaries that i have seen (about these abnormalities) helped me realize that i am blessed gyud, and thats the reason why i dont complain why i am fat or that i have zits on my face, etc...
#3623
Quote from: fdaray on May 18, 2010, 02:58:16 PM
Nag-ingkit-ingkib ko ug inanag nga mais. Lami nam pud , bisan ug sakit akong ngipon e ingkib.

     

yummy! unya butangan og star margarine or butter, peyts na
#3624
ang time now diri is 2:54pm unya 1:30 nako nakamata so coffee pa akong gi-inom...
#3625
Photos Unlimited / Re: The Tausug
May 18, 2010, 02:24:25 PM
woot!
#3626
in fairness, gwapa gyud ang mga middle east women as long as dili lang sila mu-tambok
#3627
Balilihan - Bohol / Re: Balilihan and Its History
May 18, 2010, 02:17:31 PM
Quote from: bol-anon nga cebuano on May 18, 2010, 04:57:16 AM
unsay gisige ug tell sa imong anhing lola anne. bahin sa ungo? mao man na kasagaran ang isulti sa mga katiguwangan. kundi gani, bahin sa world war 2.

ang mga kabuang niya while growing up kay siya man daw ang bogoy sa mga igsoon hehehe
#3628
Inspiration & Hope / Re: How To Stay Young
May 18, 2010, 03:25:10 AM
Quote from: vhinz08 on May 18, 2010, 12:21:47 AM
mag sigi lang ug open ug TB ug facebook then atubang sa screen ug mukatawa   ;D lang ug kalit unja himanhiman nakalimot na pamahaw, paniudto ug panihapon kay nalingaw man sa website.  mao ni usa ka sikreto to stay young. whahahahaaha  :D

daghan na ta kung dli sa TB nagdukduk, tua sa FB pud ... hahay life
#3629
Facts and Trivia / Re: Your Last Word Is Mine!
May 18, 2010, 03:23:32 AM
you are the love of my life.......
#3630
naghuna-huna ko sa kalami sa kinilaw og sinugbang bangus.........
#3631
Facts and Trivia / Re: 4 Word Sentence
May 18, 2010, 02:09:10 AM
excited to eat kinilaw
#3632
Facts and Trivia / Re: Your Last Word Is Mine!
May 18, 2010, 02:08:02 AM
belongs to you and me no matter what..........
#3633
naglibog ko asa ko malooy, sa helper or sa bata? hhhhhhmmmmmm
#3634
Quote from: vrglguapo on May 17, 2010, 08:01:18 PM
Ayyyyy //Bading diay si Ayessa'...?


hehehe dili ilhan no.. cardino na iyang family and pakpak gyud ko sa guts niya oi. at least he/she is happy na gyud sa iyang life... being true to who you are makes u happy baya
#3635
Quote from: mr_donut17 on May 17, 2010, 10:12:29 PM
di ba naay maam sevilla sa divine word? iya ba ni husband? hehehe

yes iya na bana
#3636
Quote from: TOPAC on May 15, 2010, 08:41:07 AM
love is the best, if not the only, medicine for a broken heart.

in other words, kung buwagan ka, ngita napud lain hahaha
#3637
kapoya pud ning straight 2 days naa ra sa sulod sa kwarto unya sige dukduk sa computer...... TB to FB to TB... hahay!
#3638
LGU Philippines / Re: Belmonte vs Arroyo
May 17, 2010, 06:31:28 PM
grabe gyud ang politics sa atoa kay wala pa gani nakalingkod, daghan na og plans. why not concentrate in finishing their jobs sa pagkakaron........ daghan pa gyud unta projects magama in a span of one month plus
#3639
kinsa man ang 1st texter of the day nako? (diretso tan-aw sa cellphone dayon)....
#3640
Youtube Replay / Re: Last Movie You've Watched
May 17, 2010, 06:24:56 PM
Fantastic Mr. Fox...... nalingaw tawn akong pag-umangkon :)
#3641
Facts and Trivia / Re: Your Last Word Is Mine!
May 17, 2010, 06:23:35 PM
alike gyud mi sa akong eldest daughter
#3642
congrats to Jobert, an old friend of mine and my batchmate Benedict........
#3643
congrats to Bernie......
#3644
Quote from: gintonic on May 17, 2010, 03:37:48 PM
i THINK THE RE-ENGINEERING PROGRAM HAS STARTED THIS...that was during the time of Aumentado-herrera tandem...lisud jud ni buhaton ciguro w/out bias...mas maayo siguro, if pwede to get an independent, non-biased organization and let them do the choosing...lisud jud siguro kay macoloran jud ug politics ni...aber try to find a solution be..tabangan nato sila...this I know is easier said than done...

MAO NA NI...

the only solution is to check and evaluate them... sayang man gud to let go of excellent employees based on kontra partido system.....
#3645
congrats to my batchmate Kagawad Benedict.... hope to see you sa atong tapok2x puhon sa july
#3646
congrats Kagawad Bert.... you did it again. i hope vice-mayor na sa sunod election!
#3647
congrats to my dear old friend Kagawad Jun.. never thought you'll be interested in politics. i guess people change....
#3648
Balilihan - Bohol / Re: Balilihan and Its History
May 17, 2010, 03:29:42 PM
thanks for posting this. i love the pics... cant help but remembered +Lola Sosing Racho-Balabag telling us stories about balilihan
#3649
congrats Tita Yeye Abapo....
#3650
Quote from: hofelina on September 01, 2009, 05:15:07 PM


Tubag Bohol members, yours truly hofelina, Bad Godesberg and sexy Ayessa!

manay, nag-abot baya mi ni Ayessa sa HNU days namo (elementary and HS although younger cya nako)... under gani cya sa akong mama sa grade 6 pa cya... i'm happy for him kay ningladlad gyud cya and he is just being true to himself...
#3651
evaluate casuals and contractuals of past administration. if you think this person is an asset, dont let go of him/her.  make use of whatever he/she can offer. dont let go of this person just because kontra partido cya...
#3652
Quote from: gintonic on May 17, 2010, 02:54:34 PM
This can be done in collaboration with the Provincial Police Command...on the other hand, livelihood generation should be enhanced as this is the prime reason why people try to make a fast buck...they can't find e decent job...so mangita na lang ug swerte...

secondly, a lot of kubradors, coordinators make money out of swertres...for every peso taken as a bet. approximately only forty centavos, finally goes to the financier or operator. so Sixty centavos goes on to circulate and help establish this underground economy...

Lisod jud ni sumpuon kung walay alternative nga trabahoon ang mga kubrador who are the sales people and the coordinators who consolidate the takings of the kubrador... kung wala pod pangita ang mananaya...maningkamot makadaog iyawat iya makab-ot iya pangandoy...so please help find a way...and propose your solutions to our officials...

MAO NA NI...

encourage nalang gyud ang backyard gardening. sayang kaayo ang vacant lots sa mga kilid2x sa balay nato kung gam-on lang og stand-by area... and this should be supervised and ang the best backyard garden will be given prizes as incentives....
#3653
ako ra ba gyud besty ang former vice-mayor sa san miguel, si venia, but now she opted to live a quiet life as a government employee sa capitol
#3654
Travel and Tours / Re: help me! please....
May 17, 2010, 03:00:48 PM
Quote from: lindy on May 17, 2010, 01:18:38 PM
Na asa naman ni cebu girl nawala naman.

na-dsicourage siguro kay puros negative ang comments but mao man ni ang tinood gyud pud.
#3655
World Daily News / Re: Thai General Dead
May 17, 2010, 02:58:35 PM
chaos in thailand... never thought it would happen to a party-loving country
#3656
Philippine Showcase / Re: Jeepney Ride
May 17, 2010, 02:55:56 PM
Quote from: hubag bohol on May 17, 2010, 02:53:17 PM
Anne, di ba naay mga ruta nga butangan og stool sa tungatunga?

yes naa pud uban jeepneys nga naay stool sa taliwa. samot kahuot
#3657
World Daily News / Re: Unusual humans
May 17, 2010, 02:54:02 PM
looya oi. basta bata na gani ang topic, kumuton gyud akong dughan oi.
#3658
i hope he shares what he did kay suwayan daw nato ni para pud maniwang ko hahahaha
#3659
Philippine Provinces / Re: Jeepney
May 17, 2010, 02:50:54 PM
the one and only in the world........
#3660
Philippine Showcase / Re: Jeepney Ride
May 17, 2010, 02:50:17 PM
i hate musakay og jeepney but no choice kung naa ko sa cebu. makalagot lang kay misag naghoot na, pasakyan pa gyud until sa tumoy2x nalang sa lingkoranan imong lubot! faetz!
#3661
70 years? its impossible... 
#3662
Quote from: Michael Ligalig on May 17, 2010, 12:34:08 PM
Not in Davao City, Anna. Suklian pa ka sa imong singkwenta centavos. In Bangkok Thailand, there are many honest taxi drivers. But in Manila? Sigh.

what i meant is that isuroy pa ka before ka ihatod sa destination nmo.. even sa cebu, kapila nako naka-away og taxi drivers because of this...
#3663
i just hate taxi drivers, not only in the Philippines but also here in Zhangzhou. i think they are all the same all over the world... grabe manikas makalagot! 
#3664
Weird and Extreme / Re: FAT DOG!
May 16, 2010, 12:38:48 AM
daku og lawas unya gamay og ulo? hhmmm makaduda
#3665
Weird and Extreme / Re: Iring nga duha ray tiil!
May 16, 2010, 12:37:48 AM
ha ha ha namoot ko sa porma sa iring. watch the face!
#3666
LGU Philippines / Re: Goodbye Kris Aquino
May 16, 2010, 12:35:01 AM
Quote from: Chongki on May 15, 2010, 08:14:13 AM
parehas rapod ni diay sa usa ka mayor dire sa 1st district na nanghambog na kung mudaog sa gov. chatto sa iyang lugar mu resign sya ......... na nying daug man ..... mu resign kaha sya?

hhhhmmmmm very interesting gyud ni
#3667
Quote from: lindy on May 16, 2010, 12:17:17 AM
kinsa diay ang kapitan karon sa Mansasa.


Manolo "taran" Blanco... uncle sa banana nako
#3668
Product Reviews / Re: Sunsilk vs Palmolive
May 16, 2010, 12:00:05 AM
Palmolive kay barato ra
#3669
nothing beats ROYAL tru-orange  :-*
#3670
hay salamat barangay election napud. i just hope the people of mansasa district will turn out as intelligent voters..
#3671
Quote from: www.tubagbohol.com on May 03, 2010, 08:45:02 PM

The ultimate test to self-control

ha ha ha.. kung tinood pa ni, maka-ingon gyud ka og FAETZ
#3672
Product Reviews / Re: Milo vs Ovaltine
May 15, 2010, 11:54:36 PM
Milo ever since. murag kuwang sa lasa ang Ovaltine..
#3673
quality of service, i would chose PAL. sarap baya ilang pagkaon hehehe but i would still choose cebu pacific even if misag tubig paliton nmo because it is very cheap....
#3674
Fashion Trend / Re: Sick Pack
May 15, 2010, 11:51:48 PM
and so goes the saying......nobody is perfect hahaha
#3675
Question and Answer / Re: Question of the Day
May 15, 2010, 11:49:11 PM
Quote from: Kerstin on May 15, 2010, 10:51:07 PM
Gimme a ReaSon WhY others suFfeRs?



because we are not living in a perfect world.....
#3676
Product Reviews / Re: Ayala Cebu vs SM Cebu
May 15, 2010, 11:47:30 PM
SM cebu ko basta maka-adto ko sa cebu kay dool ra sa pier.........
#3677
congrats to my former bos RLR.. we are proud of you!
#3678
Quote from: jig37504 on May 14, 2010, 02:25:34 PM
ig-unsa man si salvio ug si leo madanguit, akong high school classmate?

ig-agaw baya na silang chatto og si nong salvio. nag-unay ra gud. same blood
#3679
Quote from: arki on May 14, 2010, 09:02:15 AM
mao jud kalamay de Bohol...I heard from the radio sa dyrd and dytr nga andam na makig uli si cong. elect Erico Aumentado ngadto ni Gov. Elect Edgar Chatto...Thats a true leader and a gentlemen... dili parehas aning mga alipores ni Cajes nga sigeg hirit nako hehehe...Pero ang mga leader nato saa bohol nag busy nag pahiluna sa transesyon sa power ug panagbalik sa ilang kabubut-on...I hpoe lets buried the hatchet ang mga kapungot ug kalagot set a side nato para sa pagsuporta nato sa mga bag-o leader sa Bohol.

dili gyud ta maka-blame nga naay daghan masakitan esp. tong mga contractuals, casuals, co-terminus kay makuban intawn sila og caldero... sure naman gyud nga mapahawa sila sa ilang trabaho and karong panahuna, lisod pangita og trabaho gyud
#3680
Quote from: Lorenzo on May 14, 2010, 06:27:45 AM
A respectable point of view. Tho i must say, Anne, i have heard cases of patients who were in stage 4. The patient did make a complete recovery after a full bone marrow transplant.

The point of financial cost is understandable and you do have a point. Thank you for sharing your view. Mo respect ko ana.


thanks... maybe because i am very realistic and i dont let my emotions get in my way of thinking. i lost 2 people that i love because of cancer. my fully recovered grandpa suddenly died. a very good friend of mine was ambushed. my grandma was sleeping besides me and i didn't even know she was already dead for i dont know how long....these made me stronger and have accepted that life is short and if my time will come, it will come..
#3681
eliminate swertres operators.......
#3682
continue outreach programs started by previous administrations......
#3683
By Denise Schipani

1. Never go to bed angry.
Where did this one come from? Turns out, it may go as far back as the Bible, which advises not letting the sun go down on your anger. But trying to work through a problem when you’re tired and stressed won’t get you anywhere, says Elizabeth Lombardo, PhD, psychologist and author of A Happy You: Your Ultimate Prescription for Happiness. “Agree to disagree for now, and to revisit the issue when you’re rested.”

2. Always be 100% honest.
In marriage, no-holds-barred honesty is not always the best policy. For example, “you don’t need to share details of past relationships,” says Bartlein. “That invites comparisons, and when you compare, someone comes up short.” The bottom line: You need to be polite and caring when it comes to your partner’s feelings.

3. Never vacation without each other.
The received wisdom here is that if you have time off from your jobs and lives, you should naturally prefer to spend it together. One problem with this rule is that you and your spouse may not have the same definition of a great getaway (you like to ski, he’s a beach bum). The other danger, says Dr. Lombardo, is the belief “that you have to be each other’s everything, and that’s just not realistic.” Sometimes, you need a spa weekend, and he may want to go camping (or vice versa). Just be sure that you don’t always take off without each other.

4. If you fight, you’re headed for divorce.
Actually, says Bartlein, research shows that couples who never fightâ€"assuming that means they’re holding back to avoid conflictâ€"are more likely to split. You need to find ways to fight healthily and productively (without blaming, name-calling and the like), but that said, being committed to respectfully airing out conflicts is a far better rule than “keep your mouth shut.”

5. Once you have children, they come first.
“So often, I see couples who have put their relationship on hold in order to be good parents,” says Dr. Lombardo. But those couples, she says, have it exactly backward. Making your relationship top priority is better not just for you, but for your children, who need to see you in charge and who feel safer and more secure with parents who have a loving relationship. “Create couple-only time during which you do not discuss bills or children, where you do fun activities and enjoy each other's company.” The kids’ll be all right.

6. You should never sleep in separate beds.
Um, snore much? It’s a myth that couples always sleep better and more cozily together than apart. One partner may be a toss-and-turner, or one may hit the hay early while the other keeps a reading light burning till the wee hours. So if one of you occasionally decamps to the guest room, don’t sweat it. “Getting a good night’s sleep is crucial to the health of your mind, body and marriage,” says Dr. Lombardo. Just be sure a separate-bed habit isn’t about avoiding  intimacy.

7. Partners should sync up their hobbies.
Though spending every free moment you have training for a marathon while your spouse works on his classic car isn’t good for your marriage, neither is subscribing to the notion you should quit doing what you love just because your husband doesn’t love the same things. Giving up your passions is akin to forgoing your independence, and “without independence in a marriage people feel trapped,” says Bartlein. Pursue your separate interests and find activities you both enjoy.

8. If there’s no spark, you’re doomed.
Many married couples understand intellectually that they won’t always experience that I’ve-been-drugged-by-love feeling in a long-term relationship. “But many still believe that when the spark dies out, it means they’re in the wrong relationship, and seek something new,” says Bartlein. Long-term relationships survive on commitment and trust, out of which grows love. The mistake here is to believe that you can live forever on fireworks, or even just love, alone.

9. Boring is bad.
The problem with this so-called rule, says Bartlein, is when couples confuse a calm, predictable union with a bad one. A drama-filled relationship may feel exciting, but in the long run it’s not likely to be healthy. Isn’t it better, she says, to “boringly” know where your spouse is every night than to be “excited” by constant ups and downs? “Better to have a safe, relaxed, ‘boring’ life together in the everyday. You can always inject excitement with vacations and activities.”

#3684
Question and Answer / Re: Do you eat frog's legs?
May 13, 2010, 02:06:12 PM
Quote from: AsPo on May 13, 2010, 02:00:37 PM
hala,tambal diay sa hubak ning tiki?


sa akong nahibaw-an gyud kay turtle ang tambal sa hubak... sauna, mangadto pa mi sa Loon kay ang lola sa akong tio joseph kay mananambal man unya turle iyang sige ipakaon sa sister nako. kalooy sa dios, nawala gyud iyang hubak.
#3685
Quote from: Lorenzo on May 13, 2010, 04:56:56 AM
Terry Shiavo Case comes to mind.

What is your view on euthanasia, Anna?

my view in this issue is that it shouldn't be banned for personal reasons. if this will happen to me, i would rather die immediately than burden my family with financial problems and heartaches. i have discussed this issue with my husband and we have the same point of view. in the case of cancer, stages 1 and 2, treatment will be sought but if its already in stages 3 and 4, never mind!
#3686
makadawat og food allowance ang mga students.. my basis for this is mao ni nahitabo diri sa skul where i am presently teaching sa china nga naa silay food allowance (more or less P700 per month) nga naka-ATM style unya swipe lang nila sa cafeteria
#3687
Quote from: bol-anon quo nyur! on May 13, 2010, 02:04:32 AM
Anna, MAO NA kuno NI! :D

ha ha ha MAO NA NI diay ang new shout out karon but i like DI BA LAIN?
#3688
Question and Answer / Re: Do you eat frog's legs?
May 13, 2010, 01:34:18 PM
Quote from: AsPo on May 13, 2010, 10:57:26 AM
anne maayo daw sa health nimng baki.sa hubak.isagol man gani sa lugaw sa mga insek.pwede pod steam w/garlic.mahal raba dire ang baki.

yes for health gyud ang reasons nila ngano mukaon sila
#3689
Question and Answer / Re: Do you eat frog's legs?
May 13, 2010, 01:31:52 PM
Quote from: hubag bohol on May 13, 2010, 09:08:02 AM
Very valid reason? Unsa kaha? Please share, Anne, for the enlightenment of our frog's legs devotees here in TB... ;D

the reasons stated in this article are very valid reasons why we shouldn't eat frogs...
#3690
Quote from: bol-anon quo nyur! on May 13, 2010, 01:55:07 AM
DILI OI!.......MAO NA NI!!! :D

kadlawn daku diri but sige ko katawa kay nahimo ng shout out ang
DI BA LAIN ni gintonic hahahaha
#3691
Quote from: bol-anon quo nyur! on May 13, 2010, 01:42:51 AM
Anna, kong sa ILONG-GO pah (JOKE!) Amo nalang gipatay among Lolo kay dili man gyud mamatay ;)

ha ha ha
#3692
Facts and Trivia / Re: LAST NAME GAME
May 13, 2010, 01:16:25 AM
1. Last Name: ............ A
2.  A Boys name:........ Anferne
3. A 4 Letter Word....   Auto
4. A Girls name :......... Annette
5. An occupation: ....... Anthropologist
6. A color:….................. Apricot
7. Something you wear:.. Apron
8. Beverage:...................  Ale
9. A food.........................  Anchovies
10. A place..................  Athens
11. Something you shout..... Absolutely!
12. something you find in the bathroom... Anti-perspirant
#3693
Quote from: fdaray on May 12, 2010, 09:53:00 PM
Hasta ang sabaw makabughat, pero ang doctor dili motuo ug bughat kay wa nay eninglish . What's the English of bughat.

hala tinood unsa gani english og bughat? or this word only existed sa vocabulary natong mga bisaya

#3694
Question and Answer / Re: Do you eat frog's legs?
May 13, 2010, 12:30:48 AM
Quote from: hubag bohol on May 12, 2010, 08:21:26 PM
Bitaw, France, the US, and China are the greatest consumers of frog's legs.

He he, tingali, Anne, kon ginagmayon og hiwa unya dili na maklaro ang leg muscles, mokaon na jud tingali ka...

;D

basta adobong baki kay ginagmay man pagka-slice.. kada naay mu-invite og dinner nako kay mu-ingon na lang ko og allergic to frogs, turtles and snakes ko kay maoy kasagaran ilang orderon basta VIP guest kunohay ilang gi-invite
#3695
Quote from: AsPo on May 12, 2010, 07:52:29 PM
hala jan ,musuway ko  og kaon,kon naay mag ihaw sa amoa.

tinood lami but personally, dili ko magpangita. mas mu-prefer pako og beef lol
#3696
Question and Answer / Re: Do you eat frog's legs?
May 12, 2010, 08:17:35 PM
eating frogs like adobong baki or frog soup is very popular diri sa Zhangzhou and all throughout china. a lot of my friends convinced me to taste it but dili gyud kaya sa sikmura nako. now, i have a very valid reason not to eat it...
#3697
congrats to my cousin Benjie... at least naa koy madool sa capitol nga pwede og dli ko mukinto lol...
#3698
me, myself and i ....
#3699
Quote from: TOPAC on May 12, 2010, 03:54:33 PM
tulo - kadto ako relative, si anne and gintonic.

ingun ako dad nagkaistorya sila ni Kag. Alix Garcia. naproclaim na ganina pang buntag.

ha ha ha.. at least nahiluna na imong kalag
#3700
Youtube Replay / Re: Last Movie You've Watched
May 12, 2010, 03:55:27 PM
the back-up plan and invictus

the back up plan = i dont think mahitabo ni sa pinas
invictus = thats the reason why i truly admire mandela but i didn't understand the game rugby