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advance Merry Christmas sa tanan... may the spirit of Christmas lives in your heart not only on this season but throughout the years to come...

heroes are not born... they are made....thanks for making us one.....

sometimes we are hated for being out of tune... though there was no intention to inflict such... but i would rather be hated for being loved pretentiously...

sometimes we need or long to experience a deja vu.. to spice up something that is established and inclined to boredom... for when you experience deja vu... you try to dig up the mystery of it....

thanks asianfairy for your very warm compliments...  bambi, gervistill, happy and positive values' advocates... only if Bohol could establish a core group that would take care on VALUE REDIRECTION, our TB group is the most effective.

We have many intellectuals here...but being intelligent is not sufficient to be effective, we need to have that DEDICATION and firm CONVICTION that through us we could make a DIFFERENCE in Bohol's total "landscape"...

is this acceptable to you?  other's notion is this is me....and you've provoked me...

they abuse the power that was bestowed by the people.... but i know there are also people out there who have the heart...if given the chance... opportunity.

hi franklin,
just go on crying... cry your heart out for it cleanses the soul....and make a good start.... should you had dwelt on something that haunted you...

duna man purpose ang ngitngit... kay dili man ka kakumpara ug unsa ang light. kon walay ngitngit.... could you go deeper?

grabe dili gyod ka ganahan motan-aw...

through our mistakes we've learn, you could never let go if you've not accepted and forgiven...

we're grateful to be here... for if we are not... we could not withstand to be on this thread unless our perspective has changed for a transformation... but the heart speaks its beauty of being grateful...

one could not successfully resolve an issue if he/she has not taken the root cause, nga balikan ang kagahapon... on how to deal with this? just pray that one day kon magkita mo... when opportunity comes...i will accept and carry whatever the consequences of accepting even it is painful...

thanks bambi.... i felt that I have the mission to instill in every heart about helping... about caring... and loving.... one another.

tinuod man jud na!  kon dunay unfinished... it will always haunt you.... a question will always prevail... ngano man to?  ngano man nga wala man madayon? unsa kaha kon kami nagdayon?.... ug unsa pa....

daghan gyod nga mga beauties diri sa TB... dili lang sa nawong kon dili sa kasingkasing...

i felt that belongingness here, and I'm glad I've met beautiful people who are selfless in the real sense of the word...for i could feel how all your heart speak...

thanks bambi... sometimes i wonder why having all of you here in TB fascinate me... it gives me the voice what is in my heart... my mind... my soul... and i have that feeling that SOMEONE up there guided me to express the words I've shared, ive spoken...

good hearts speak beauty of the soul.... regardless of whatever circumstances...one will appreciate the beauty no matter what...

i've gained insights through this forum through your ideas, being candid...we've gained respect because we know how to respect ourselves, our shortcomings and for being imperfect....

wala siya acceptance sa iyang mga kulang.... i believe she is not a happy person...

thank you happy, am listening while am scribbling down the words to share in TB... its fascinating to have a family who listens....

it's YOU guys / gals in TB that made a HERO member...for without YOU all, I would never felt the essence of my presence here....

majavu.... mayabo ( mayaboan ug sabaw ) hahahaha basta dili lang init...

wa na gyod ko karelate ani... sorry nalang ko.... mao lagi ning wa magtuon og german swiss ba to ni? hehehe pila ra man god ko ka adlaw nibisita and get encountered with people who speak the same as what you're telling....

oi dili gyod ka off topic, because it seems that I am experiecing a deja vu talking with you....

am not working to live....but I live to to be on the quest for existence...it is working to give life to others... to be part of other's lives... to savor life as we all share the work of life...

it is really getting into the vicious cycle of being human....hence, we have to capitalize the good and noble ones....

unsa uban nindot iya kanta happy? aron magka nostalgia ko...

but there are circumstances baya nga dili maperfect....

you're welcome gin...lisod gyod kalimtan ang mga unang panahon... for the first step in every undertaking is the beginning for an end....

self awareness is one of the process of knowing....and self-acceptance is the solution....

"if I die today" i have to thank HIM for all what HE had given to me... ask forgiveness for my shortcomings....and ask to live with HIM in heaven...

what am trying to point out is that you would never forget a first impression though this had been corrected.....and for a first love does not mean she/he was meant for you though you have already a present partner... dili gyod kalimtan....

korek....i've heard some incidents nga kadtong mga violent manifestations of anger sa mga bata pa sila wala magawas ang ilang kaligutgot sa mga nahitabo sa bata pa sila...sama sa mga dinaogdaog, mga victims sa maltreatment...

naalagaan gyod niya ug maayo, she has a sense of discipline not compared with other artists...

tingalig siya namortalize of a past immortal singer??? hehehe, deja vu again...

kadungog ba mo sa mga sulti nga " nabuhat man to nako kay napawong akong panan-aw", daghang nahitabo tungod kay wala nila mamanage ang anger ug maayo... and i don't want this to happen to all of us here in TB....

am sure daghan siya'g kulang sa kinabuhi mao na in-ana siya... insecurities nga wala sa lugar....

"first love never dies" is similar to " first impression is lasting"....

dionne warwick is one of the greatest singers for me... am sure she had some deja vus....

yes ginger, family upbringing has something to do with anger management....how parents and families treated us for our past shortcomings played a great deal on how we react to people as we grow.... naa man god uban kon matandog ang ilang garbo... dili nimo mahibaloan nga nakasakit ka out of your anger... though they dont deserve it...

(sorry for the typographical error ) what i meant... if the intentions are bad, there will always be resistant forces.... 

sakto gyod ka ginger....what Malu had displayed was a poor taste... arong ingnon...a trying hard...

as we unravel the unknown...we are doing things for HIS greatness and likeness...which is a part of our existence... when this happens, you are one of the annointed....

all is well said, there area people who deserves to be helped, assisted, protected... and so on.... but there are really people who are pakialameros to boost themselves and their affiliations that they have the power.... if your intention is band... there is always a resistant force....

but how you control anger that would not inflict pain to others... and most to you, for crying will not solve and end your anger, it will always prevail...

di ba nindot ang kanta ni dionne warwick, the lyrics....

there are a lot of misconceptions about outsourcing nga mawad-an kuno ug trabaho ang mga tawo where in fact daghan tawo ang matabangan kay paspas man ang turn-over sa services...

People tends to be carried away with their suppressed emotions in the past (from childhood) that led to unwise, uncalled actions and results that made others and even their ownselves frown and realized that it was a mistake...

Do you know how to cope up with them?

The Boholano Overseas Workers And Community Credit Cooperative (BOWACCC) has just celebrated its 3rd Anniversary this afternoon.

We are inviting all TB members to be a part of a growing cooperative...

My congratulations...

Growing must also include enhancement of customer service....

yes, our government needs some reforms....there are misleading factors ngano there are some segment in the society nga gusto gyod magpolitiko though gamay ra ang sueldo... it is fallacy nga mo ingon nga moserve sa mga tawo...

having a position in the government equates power.... and power could be translated to everything beyond any amount...

mao nga dili effective ang preach sa uban o magpasunod kon tan-awon ilang kaugalingon nga wala man gani magsunod sa iyang gipanudlo.....

tungod sa impersonalism that prevails with the emergence of new technology, corrupted values and idealism.... mahadlok na lang ang mga tawo motabang... kay imisterpret man ug nakialam or interfering other's lives bisan tuod nga nagkinahanglan ug tabang... ang tabang dili lang sa financial, dili lang sa pagsabot, dili lang sa paghatag sa ideas.. but also tabang sa pag-ampo, kay kon daghan nga tawo mag-ampo para sa usa ka tawo o butang nga mahitabo... all positive forces will gather and solidify to make that something happen... this is a form of pagtinabangay....

interfering with vested interest is a different thing, interfering with a noble agenda is what we are talking about...

kita sa usag usa kahibalo kon kanus-a ka gitawag sa panahon nga mohatag ug tabang pinaagi sa advice nga gi-misinterpret sa uban nga nakialam, mao nay sakto... pero nakialam ka lang arong ingnon nga hero or dayegon sa imong gibuhat moback fire gyod na nimo....

we are not talking here of  interference for blowing his horn for supremacy.... we are talking here of interfering for caring someone.... nganong pasagdan man nimo ang naglisod kon duna kay ikatabang???

But it doesn't mean that since all our actions are bound to be with the blessing from up above... we jus lay around and wait for our fate.... God gave us the freewill, setting everything under our feet but left the quest of life for us to explore...

i've always preaching in the past that we at TB could make a difference on the issue when advocate the noble ideas, work for it in every opportunity until the change will prevail... of course we cannot expect a change to happen overnight... but at least, each of us has tried to tell everyone we encounter to change the lanscape of our political system, and must start in our own yard, Bohol....

hahahahahahaha....buanga gyod ninyo oi.............. really kataw-anan....hehehe

jaja,am sure you will enjoy staying in this forum with TB members...

Though wala ko mag eskwela sa Bohol sa college,maayo ang impression sa mga Engineering products sa UB.. even here sa gawas kong gikan sa Bohol, ang mga engineers gikan man sa UB.

Usa sa mga good product sa UB is my own brother-in-law who was the 7th placer in the Board Exam for Electrical Engineers ( not certain with the year  kong kanus-a to)...

bitaw moabot ra jod ang panahon para nimo,  dili pod maayo kong imo pugson. however, it is not recommendable that despite it is your vision / dream, but you haven't done to actualize them...

welcome jaja,

bisan maminyo nga taga lain ug culture, kinahanglan dili mawala ang atong culture kong asa ta gikan... however, we have to blend with the new culture we are in...

I commend your thoughs Asianfairy...a man who is on the right frame of mind and has the resources and vision to serve the people must do philantrophic works without a thing in return...

unsaon man ipatuman ang mga balaod nga ang nagbuhat sa balaod mao man say nanguna ug violate? mao dili effective and leadership, it is leadership by example in reverse...

there is nothing wrong when one marries from different culture... ones life / existence is not complete.... differences could complement each other....fill in the gaps. it is flexibility and acceptance that makes life beautiful.. it is in loving regardless of whatever differences that makes life complete.

ang pag angay sa mga kanta depende na sa imong personality, outlook and receptiveness...  when the song gives its meaning and could relative to your own, then the song regardless of what type makes sense to you....

am with you Franklin, taking care of ourselves is our foremost priority because it is a manifestation of loving oneself... the issue is we cannot be effective in selflessness if we haven't gone through the process of loving oneself, one family first....

i don't agree nga pasagdan nalang kay wa tay labot.... each one of us has a social responsibility...if at one time you've done your part and then ingnon kalang nga way labot, then let it be...but time will come that one will realize nga dili diay mao iya gibuhat... so we would also be ready to accept...

unsa nalang ang kalibutan kung dili nalang ta magpahilabot....such gesture is caring...

a mere coincidence is not deja vu, but occurences in frequencies are manifestations of deja vu....

bisan relatives o igsoon basta makasala kinahanglan silotan....

yes it could be coincidencies.... but when coincidencies come frequently... is deja vu...

in our present lives YOU CANNOT BE A DEVOTED GIVER IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO GIVE.... hence, you need to fill in first yourself and when its up and won't overflow you give it to others...

it you talk about sainthood... only few are destined to be like them and they're exceptional... there times were of  different from today... and the factors confronting it also follows... hence, that sense of meeting own needs is selfishness but it is not the "extremities that we've thought of"....

It is this virtue of HOPE that one will cling to keep his life...

ginger that's deja vu........... diba sometimes, ang mga words nga imong gilitok mura ug familiar sad... wala ba mang lingbawot imong balahibo?

sometimes you considered these as nice memories with someone you didn't know but close to your heart? wag lang yong mga horrible scenes ha?

Mike,
Daghan na ba tang natipon nga donations?  if we could make a difference in this family through our forum, we are encouraging more people with a heart...

Tubag Bohol is where the beautiful people meet... Welcome..

thank you ginger, i am learning too from you in the process... for a lamp confirms that it has lighted a dark space when it made a difference in its sight....

no one has fathomed yet the deadend of our quest for existence.... it is all crossroads...for one I know, we are here in this world to be happy.

deja vu...

when our body rests in sleep...our soul travels the cosmos...when your sixth sense is strong... you get to remember the scenarios, the people, the objects that you've when your soul separates the body... that is why sometimes we feel we are a reincarnation of somebody... from a monarchy, of an animal, etc... hence, when you meet your katapat ( soulmate ), you will sing "deja vu", hehehe

a man who takes every opportunity is a determined person, manifestation of consistency.  a man who always takes chances without conviction is capricious...

sometimes I have to rationalize why women get into such scenario  (of being kabit), there are reasons behind, (desperate of not having encounter of the same kind?, a victim of forbidden love?, purely of lust?, financial security?, having completeness of life sharing with that special someone... could we blame?

naa man gyoy mga Pinoy nga hilas kaayo, mas naaggravate nga naa na sila sa USA, natakdan pod sa mga Kano kay isig pasikatay baya silang mga Kano... wala diay mo kahibalo na hambogero man sad sila, a feel of superiority...?

Hi AnnJorg,
Hope you will find meaning in TB with fellow Bol-anons.. Welcome...

GOD protects Bohol, let's continue praying... Mama Mary's intervention to be closer to her SON...

you can be called kabit if one has already made commitment, but for pre-marital - this could be a venue for knowing each other deeply and then later venture into permanent commitment.

being a kabit is a different story, because you might be aware that you are three in a relationship...

nope...you could still have that... not only emotions...hence, it is called partnership...

there are always consequences for that constraints...

marriage is a type of business.... ( try to go deep ) di ba?

yes ginger, we have to fill in our needs first before we could successfully fill the needs of  others...

I would prefer for any oppotunity to know each other better, could it be pre-marital, a frequent visit, a short but meaningful togetherness... quality time... regardless, the bottom line is you give yourself the other the chance to be as open in the whole facets of you....

everything is a blessing from HIM... as the saying goes " all the things in this world happen at the time GOD chooses."

when you love something to want to do, it will prosper because you will be persevering...you will show your courage and strength to surmount whatever trials that may come your way, and most you will not easily surrender...

i've always passed / conveyed the message to my kaberks hehehe, younger ones na before getting into marriage, they have to be prepared... labina kon dugay wala magkakuyong ( kay long distance lagi ), wala magkailhanay sa batasan, sus inig ipon manggawas na gyod ang tinuod nga kinaiya....

kung maghunana kuno dayon nga madato tungod sa business dili maayo, ang sikreto is your passion to serve, being happy what you're doing... and money will follow...

yes, what an outsider's impression on us is not a factor... it is how our heart dictates...

unya pasagdan nalang nato nga mabiktima tawon ang mga walay kaila?  we should not tolerate this practice, something must be done...

bad or good has its own substance in our existence...and one has to be grateful for having them as part our lives...

it is not true nga bisan ug saging basta loving... unya wala nay saging, boxing.... hehehehe

that is why, we need to value whatever and whoever comes our way...

Thanks Princess for posting .... Anda has so much potential to be a tourist destination in Bohol.  It is an alternative for Panglao..

There is a web site for Andahanons... and another is on the making..

i would always pray... that being with Tubag Bohol is just a beginning... to another journey....it must not end sharing or knowing in the net...

We could always manifest the learnings we got from being a TB member wherever we go...

Everybody is free to express what he believes... but pre-judgment on someone whom we don't know deeply is not fair...