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Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« on: September 10, 2007, 02:51:30 AM »

Inflicting pain to others through words of mis-judgment, harsh dispositions are sad realities.  It is more appropriate to confront and seek resolve before a judgment served that has adverse impact...

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2007, 02:56:08 AM »
I am guilty of this at times, Jun. And I ask God to grant me the strength to evade from doing it again. We should all try to do the best--even with our frail abilities; afterall we are the change we yearn in the world. Right?

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #2 on: September 10, 2007, 02:59:27 AM »


shortcomings, misgivings are results of impusilveness...however, we have the power to control ...

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #3 on: September 10, 2007, 03:02:53 AM »

especially sa atong culture, we have the tendency to judge....but we have the capacity to know what is right and wrong, so self-control gyud and we should learn not to be subjective.

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #4 on: September 10, 2007, 03:09:07 AM »


being objective is most appropriate approach...and the most important of all is the patience to LISTEN....

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #5 on: September 10, 2007, 11:26:47 AM »
^mr junayag, you hit the nail on the head  ;D

Most of us, during conversations, only pretend to listen. What we are really doing is just waiting for the other person to stop talking (sometimes, not even!) so we can further impress upon them our point of view. People who really listen are a rare bunch.

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #6 on: September 10, 2007, 11:41:16 PM »


Listening is not only through the pair of ears.... it should be from the heart...

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2009, 08:43:34 PM »

When we pass judgment to people we know, we failed to make an effort to know more about them. Thus, we judge without understanding.

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Re: Not Fair To Be Judgmental
« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2009, 08:59:32 PM »
true! true! true! NEVER let other people's judgment hinder us from establishing a healthy relationship with another person.

Never let pygmalion inhibit the inner core of our soul.

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