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I am the Jewish Nurse by Ari Mahler
« on: November 05, 2018, 04:03:19 AM »
I am The Jewish Nurse.

Yes, that Jewish Nurse. The same one that people are talking about in the Pittsburgh shooting that left 11 dead. The trauma nurse in the ER that cared for Robert Bowers who yelled, "Death to all Jews," as he was wheeled into the hospital. The Jewish nurse who ran into a room to save his life.

To be honest, I’m nervous about sharing this.  I just know I feel alone right now, and the irony of the world talking about me doesn’t seem fair without the chance to speak for myself. 

When I was a kid, being labeled “The Jewish (anything)”, undoubtedly had derogatory connotations attached to it.  That's why it feels so awkward to me that people suddenly look at it as an endearing term.  As an adult, deflecting my religion by saying “I’m not that religious,” makes it easier for people to accept I’m Jewish – especially when I tell them my father is a rabbi. “I’m not that religious,” is like saying, “Don’t worry, I’m not that Jewish, therefore, I’m not so different than you,” and like clockwork, people don’t look at me as awkwardly as they did a few seconds beforehand.

I experienced anti-Semitism a lot as a kid. It’s hard for me to say if it was always a product of genuine hatred, or if kids with their own problems found a reason to single me out from others.  Sure, there were a few Jewish kids at my school, but no one else had a father who was a Rabbi.  I found drawings on desks of my family being marched into gas chambers, swastikas drawn on my locker, and notes shoved inside of it saying, “Die Jew.  Love, Hitler.”   It was a different time back then, where bullying was not monitored like it is now.  I was weak, too.  Rather than tell anyone, I hid behind fear.  Telling on the people who did this would only lead to consequences far worse.   

Regardless, the fact that this shooting took place doesn’t shock me. To be honest, it’s only a matter of time before the next one happens.  History refutes hope that things will change.  My heart yearns for change, but today's climate doesn't foster nurturing, tolerance, or civility.  Even before this shooting took place, there’s no real evidence supporting otherwise.  The FBI and the Southern Poverty Law Center note that Jews only account for two percent of the U.S. population, yet 60% of all religious hate crimes are committed against them.  I don’t know why people hate us so much, but the underbelly of anti-Semitism seems to be thriving.   

So now, here I am, The Jewish Nurse that cared for Robert Bowers. I’ve watched them talk about me on CNN, Fox News, Anderson Cooper, PBS, and the local news stations. I’ve read articles mentioning me in the NY Times and the Washington Post.  The fact that I did my job, a job which requires compassion and empathy over everything, is newsworthy to people because I’m Jewish. Even more so because my dad’s a Rabbi.

To be honest, I didn't see evil when I looked into Robert Bowers’ eyes. All I saw was a clear lack of depth, intelligence, and palpable amounts of confusion.  Robert Bowers probably had no friends, was easily influenced by propaganda, and wanted attention on a sociopathic level.   He’s the kind of person that is easily manipulated by people with a microphone, a platform, and use fear for motivation.  I can’t go into details of our interactions because of HIPPA, but Robert Bowers thanked me for saving him, for showing him kindness, and for treating him the same way I treat every other patient.  This was the same Robert Bowers that just committed mass homicide.  The Robert Bowers who instilled panic in my heart worrying my parents were two of his 11 victims less than an hour before his arrival.   

I’m sure he had no idea I was Jewish. Why thank a Jewish nurse, when 15 minutes beforehand, you’d shoot me in the head with no remorse? I didn’t say a word to him about my religion. I chose not to say anything to him the entire time.  I wanted him to feel compassion.  I chose to show him empathy.  I felt that the best way to honor his victims was for a Jew to prove him wrong.  Besides, if he finds out I’m Jewish, does it really matter?  The better question is, what does it mean to you?   

Love. That’s why I did it. Love as an action is more powerful than words, and love in the face of evil gives others hope. It demonstrates humanity.  It reaffirms why we’re all here.   The meaning of life is to give meaning to life, and love is the ultimate force that connects all living beings.  I could care less what Robert Bowers thinks, but you, the person reading this, love is the only message I wish instill in you.  If my actions mean anything, love means everything. 


Ari Mahler, RN.

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Romans 10:9-10
"If you declare with your mouth, Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved."

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