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Calling an Ex at Night
« on: March 12, 2011, 06:30:33 AM »
Have you ever made more than 10 calls to your ex in one night?

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2011, 07:46:06 AM »
...than to speak out and remove all doubt." - Abraham Lincoln

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2011, 09:53:41 PM »
Have you ever made more than 10 calls to your ex in one night?

nope. the other way round. sija ning tawag nako.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #3 on: March 14, 2011, 02:06:30 AM »
before, when i was not married. ;D

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #4 on: March 14, 2011, 02:49:33 AM »
before, when i was not married. ;D
awww, dili diay puydi mag amigo sa exgf basta ma minjo na?

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2011, 08:07:57 AM »
pwede sad oi but at night? its kinda weird. i guess it also depends unsay reason sa call.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #6 on: March 14, 2011, 08:16:31 AM »
You are right, deep, lain pood bitaw ug mo tawag sa ex kai, -- mo imply that gi mingaw nija.

ikaw, deep, sa una, mo tawag ka sa imohang x?

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2011, 08:53:01 AM »
actually, wla may kaso if mingawon ka nija. normal raman na kay tao ra bya ta but naa jud limitasyon. ya, i still call particular exes but only the ones i know the wives/ gfs kay as a girl, kbaw nka mukutaw bya ang utok basta mkadungog nitawag ang ex. you have to respect the girls point of view sad. and i am glad i have good relations with all my exes.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #8 on: March 14, 2011, 09:06:24 AM »
hmmm, naka hinuktok sad ko sa imong gi ingon, inday deep. adunay naay panahon ma mingaw ko sa ahong particular ex gf sa una. maka hilak lagi kai ako man at fault sa among break up. maka hilak ko kai maka hinumdum ko sa iyang nawong , especially kadtong time-a nga ning buwag kami duha. ning hilak sija, ug ning ingon sija, "ayaw lang ta mag buwag, pwede ba mo work out ta sa tong differences ?"

ma sakit ahong dughan ug maka hinumdum ko nija kai to be honest, i really did love her. ang rason sa ahong desisyon adtong time-a kai di ko gusto ug relationship before mo start ko sa medical school. ma hadlok ko ma distracted ko sa studies. gi labay ra nako among relationship after almost 1 year. i would later regret that decision later on. it was my loss.

sometimes, maka damgo ko nija. pero di ko mo tawag nija. i cannot bring myself to hearing her voice again...kai ma sakitan ko.  :-[

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2011, 04:02:56 AM »
i could hardly open the tubagbohol page yesterday. anyway, i feel for your ex. Gibuwagan man sad ko sa ako ex boyfriend pagmedicine kay mao daw kaso nahagbong sija. Ikaw rajud mkabalance imo relationship and study and manage how it affects you. kadto uyab pami, inspired kayo ko. I finished my studies on time so I could see my ex. I even was in the top ten of the whole year level and I got offered a scholarship pero ako gturned down kay i knew ma.affected ko sa break-up and dont like to be pressured. after that, average student nlng ko. so na ex na sija nako pero cge ghapon ko tawag, nangamusta unja pareha man mi freinds so magkita ghapon me... mao to mga sakit na panahon. hangtud i tried not contacting him at all for at least 3 months ... i slowly healed in time, met another guy, now my husband and happy ever since. we are facebook friends with my ex. small world ra bya ang medicine, kaila sad sila sa ako bana.

unsa ka dugay naman diay mo wlay contact? if over a year, you should try to at least make friends. if she's still available, you never know, but if dli... accept na mao man to imo na decision. be happy for her. mao na nagdamgo ka kay wla pakay closure if ok ra ba sija or dli.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2011, 04:25:34 AM »
how oddly familiar. our situation. i being the giving end, and you the receiving end. yes, it is with contrite heart that i speak about this (a form of therapy almost, in an oddly yet positive way) to anonymous folk. the reasons for my breaking up with her was to make sure i attain excellence in studies. sa under grad nako, i graduated summa cum laude from college and so i wanted to maintain that same excellence in medicine. i thought that by removing all forms of distraction, i could maintain. my relationship , at the time, did take up so much of my time and emotional energy.

tho to my finding , later on that is, that medicine would be 10x as hard as undergraduate.

during my 1st and 2nd years, especially my 2nd year, i realized that i desperately needed the mental and emotional support that my xgf gave me during college. luckily for me, i did meet a med student who clicked with me. btw, she happens to be filipina and emotionally supportive. we support each other and are there for one another, especially during this crucial time of our lives, the clinical internship years.

closure. you know, you have a point. perhaps i never did have closure with my xgf. that is probably why i think of her from time to time. whatever she is doing now, wherever she is, i hope and pray that she is happy. the last i heard (from a mutual friend) is that she is still working on her Ph.D in immunology in Galveston, Texas.

its wierd. i can't bring myself to apologize to her or to hear her voice. it would make me weak. and i don't want to cry about her anymore. it is a loss that i will have to live with for the rest of my life.

i guess, one of the sweet, spices, of life.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #11 on: March 15, 2011, 05:25:25 AM »
so you studied med dri sa US diay?

hmmmm... lalake jud ka. i dont think it would make you weak. and why are you crying about her? in love japon ka nija diay? ayay... past is past. its how you became you now. besides, whats more harder than life sa medicine? kinabuhi bya imo gtackle. honestly, she will appreciate it that you called. just a call. :-)

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« Reply #12 on: March 15, 2011, 05:33:07 AM »
yes, sa us. pero i did have thoughts before of studying in pinas. (i originally had interest in applying to medical schools in: santo tomas, up, cim, univ. of the east)

you're right. the past is past. since you brought it up tho, deep, i will admit that i never had closure with her (Katie). i told my parents before of my decision to do this as well as my friends. their response is similar to yours. and i appreciate it. and you're right, i guess. we have to move on and to focus on the plate in front of us.

as for calling her. perhaps. someday when i can muster enough strength. i guess i am a coward when it comes to emotional recoil. i can operate on patients, i can handle being screamed and yelled by attendings, and handle admission calls. but when it comes to seeing a woman cry-- it is hard for me. i've always walked away from emotional break ups. i prefer to walk away instead of delving in the drama of it. my weakness i guess. one which i must tackle head on someday.

but on that note. i will keep the option of calling her. who knows. maybe it might not be as bad.

much thanks for listening and the advice.

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Re: Calling an Ex at Night
« Reply #13 on: March 15, 2011, 05:36:45 AM »
:-) good for you. you are the only one who knows best what to do in the end

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