Special Or Bad Things About You, Others Have To Know...

[ms da binsi]

YOu can tell us your secrets if you wish...

People find me funny but they didnt know i sometimes too depressed...

what about you?

[Lorenzo]

** Big Hug** dont be too depressed, 'te Belle


Ako, I'm too much of a workaholic and sometimes I come out as being 'chauvinistic', but the latter really it is not the case.

[hazel]

I can be very moody at times.

[grazie7y]

I am too much of a people pleaser.  I can be proud too but not really that bad.

[B:)]

Belle, if you don't mind me suggesting a therapist, it might help. There are drugs now that will help the chemical imbalance of the brain.

my special and bad? I can't really tell, I usually let my friends tell me who I am. I'm too mysterious in a lot of ways in a lot of times.
I'm so unpredictable that's the only thing I can say.

[Scarb]

im brutally frank and direct- ngeks
im fun of constructive criticism

those who knew me, i could be their best chum
but those who dont know me thoroughly-judge me differently

just like if i say to my best friend "ayaw na isul-ob oi wla kay angay ana! :o

[ms da binsi]

Re:  Belle, if you don't mind me suggesting a therapist, it might help. There are drugs now that will help the chemical imbalance of the brain.



Beth, i kept holding myself from going to the doctors kay dili gyud ko gusto ug mahimo samuton naho ug imbalance ahong bain tungod sa mga medications, yes im taking the herbal med like St. Johns Worth if i have an attack...I am struggling about this since the 9/11. Or maybe before wa lang naho mabantayi... I sometimes called this Winter Blues kay mostly sa winter man mo tokar. Naa gyud kuy amiga nga dili sha kasabot nako, nag buwag gyud mi sa maajong pagpanamilit kay di sha kasabot sa akong illness... dayun masuko sha ug di ko katawag nija sa phone, and i always think that i dont owe her an explaination so i just quit talking to her...better that way. nawala sha but i have TB peeps that can understand me more than she does.

[B:)]

Re:  Belle, if you don't mind me suggesting a therapist, it might help. There are drugs now that will help the chemical imbalance of the brain.



Beth, i kept holding myself from going to the doctors kay dili gyud ko gusto ug mahimo samuton naho ug imbalance ahong bain tungod sa mga medications, yes im taking the herbal med like St. Johns Worth if i have an attack...I am struggling about this since the 9/11. Or maybe before wa lang naho mabantayi... I sometimes called this Winter Blues kay mostly sa winter man mo tokar. Naa gyud kuy amiga nga dili sha kasabot nako, nag buwag gyud mi sa maajong pagpanamilit kay di sha kasabot sa akong illness... dayun masuko sha ug di ko katawag nija sa phone, and i always think that i dont owe her an explaination so i just quit talking to her...better that way. nawala sha but i have TB peeps that can understand me more than she does.

Ok Belle, just an idea lang to sya ha. But I think you mean Psychiatrist who prescribe drugs. What I meant is counceling, select a licensed well train professional therapist.
Well my fren, whatever works for you take it.
Some people just don't understand depression. Depression could even be biological.
In ladies' case, it might be hormonal changes or age. Basta dili paman pod ko maka relate sa age kay I'm still in my 30's pero I just hope when I get there, I can cope up the way I coped in my depressing growing up life.

[Moyhua]

I can be very moody at times.

Ako pod...usahay gani maka ingon pod ko sa akong kaugalingon..."Nganong gisapot naman pod ka ha???" Matingala na lng akong bana...

[Moyhua]

Unya...hilakon ko..unya lu-uran ko...

[willmerit]

hala Angie poparehas ta, ingon ana pod ko.
ako kay moody or sapoton, ug sa amoa pa lagi kuyog sa buwan, hehehe matinga si gary kay mokalit ra kog kalami.

[grazie7y]

Muot ra mo, Anj ug Amy!  Ing ana pod among kinamaguwangan. makabalo na lang mi gisapot kay ga budlot na simod sayo pa sa buntag.  No reason jud basta lang mag bunlot na lang na ijang simod pagka mata nya.

[PrincessSaDagat]

bi*chy when I am hungry. I gotta eat!

[willmerit]

Muot ra mo, Anj ug Amy!  Ing ana pod among kinamaguwangan. makabalo na lang mi gisapot kay ga budlot na simod sayo pa sa buntag.  No reason jud basta lang mag bunlot na lang na ijang simod pagka mata nya.

Ging ana ko ug kana gani taliabot na ang ahoang bisita.  mao jud na ahong nabantayan.  mokalit ra kog kalami.  baw ba oi, nganong ingon ani ko. 

[Scarb]

Muot ra mo, Anj ug Amy!  Ing ana pod among kinamaguwangan. makabalo na lang mi gisapot kay ga budlot na simod sayo pa sa buntag.  No reason jud basta lang mag bunlot na lang na ijang simod pagka mata nya.

we termly call it here "morgen muffel" - mornin grouse

kana cya inig bakon palang aborido na ug bo-ut
arang ga mod-ok ag nawong di ma spelling (laughing)


ako pod before and during my mens. ky sapoton-maldita bawo?

[Lorenzo]

Re:  Belle, if you don't mind me suggesting a therapist, it might help. There are drugs now that will help the chemical imbalance of the brain.



Beth, i kept holding myself from going to the doctors kay dili gyud ko gusto ug mahimo samuton naho ug imbalance ahong bain tungod sa mga medications, yes im taking the herbal med like St. Johns Worth if i have an attack...I am struggling about this since the 9/11. Or maybe before wa lang naho mabantayi... I sometimes called this Winter Blues kay mostly sa winter man mo tokar. Naa gyud kuy amiga nga dili sha kasabot nako, nag buwag gyud mi sa maajong pagpanamilit kay di sha kasabot sa akong illness... dayun masuko sha ug di ko katawag nija sa phone, and i always think that i dont owe her an explaination so i just quit talking to her...better that way. nawala sha but i have TB peeps that can understand me more than she does.

'te Belle,

I understand what you are going through. Specially during this time of the year, people usually get S.A.D (seasonal affected depression) specially during the winter season. I know that I sometimes experience it as well as my friends with the seasonal changes; that and the fact that we are just so far away from our family. Pero you know, I think it is good that you are herbal-oriented. Kai it is not always the best course of action to take prescription medication; sure there are anti-depressant pills that can try to alleviate chemical imbalances, but such anti-depressants can also cause imbalances within the limbic as well as other chemical homoeostasity in the brain. Mao na there are no 'quick fixes' when dealing with depression. And I totally believe that it is a legitimate condition. 'te Belle it is good that you just talk to other people, share your feelings, natural ra man jud na. Diba? It comes and goes ra man pood na 'te, and if you ever ever need to talk to someone, I am always a phone call away, ha? It is one of the crosses that we all bear, 'te Belle. Such is this thing we call 'life'. Just wanted to tell you that, naa ra jud ko diri. You are a beautiful person inside, very comforting and supportive whenever people need support, and God Bless you  for all your troubles, 'te. We Love you for the way you are! I love you Ante Belle.

With Big Hugs,
Bran

[grazie7y]

Oh, that's so sweet, Dong! 

Maring Bella, same here; I am just a phone call or a ym away from you.  Or, a plane ride away from you.   Just take it easy, my dear friend!  Hey, I have an update for you regarding my "talk to you later, friend in NY!"  You got to hear this jud!  Please call me whenever you can tomorrow kay mahadlok ko mag call unya mapukaw unja nko si Mike.

[hazel]

Wala naman ang depression ni Bella. Nibalhin na naku. Ask her.

[C2H4]

YOu can tell us your secrets if you wish...

People find me funny but they didnt know i sometimes too depressed...

what about you?

When I quit my ex-job (hehe), my boss did all he could to convince me to stay. He said I was 'always a happy person, he never saw me frown, i was always smiling, and i was a positive presence kuno'...

He didn't know that half the time, I wanted to strangle him. So there's my secret, I always smile with my lips, but not always with my heart.

[st. agnes]

bi*chy when I am hungry. I gotta eat!

note:
"don't talk to a person that is hungry, because, she/he is angry"

[st. agnes]

Wala naman ang depression ni Bella. Nibalhin na naku. Ask her.

Drama sad ning usa ai!
hahahahahaha!
nganung depress ni sya?

[st. agnes]

I am sensitive, hilakon, looran --- mao ni ang other side ni St. Agnes...

people see me as a "happy" person & full of life....
pero, plastik man ko, when it comes nga mag deal nah ug tawo / problems...
typical "politician" person bah.... like.. smile dinhi --- smile didto ---

When I get hurt, murag dili man cguro ma recognize sa mga tawo,
kay mag pa "as if" raman ko nothing happens...
pero, kon ako nalang ang naa, or akong bf --- ana nah na sya mo dagayday akong luha... hehe
Or, bisan phone calls, text messages --- ana sad ko makahilak kon unsa gani...
basta --- in short sensitive ko... dali ra ko pahilakon --- lupig pas Judy Ann Santos -- hihihihihi 
     

[Moyhua]

Ging ana ko ug kana gani taliabot na ang ahoang bisita.  mao jud na ahong nabantayan.  mokalit ra kog kalami.  baw ba oi, nganong ingon ani ko. 

Lagi..ingon to akong anhing Nanay nga kasabitan kono og bato akong simod....pirting isuga jud ko basta saputon...ingon akong bana "natatakot na ako sayo Angie...hwag ka namang ganyan"..hehehehe hadlok man di ay...

[hazel]

Drama sad ning usa ai!
hahahahahaha!
nganung depress ni sya?

Els, it's normal for us to get depressed during autumn/winter time. Nag dako man gud ta ug naanad nga naay sun permi. It's so hard gyud kung permi lang mag ligdom ang kalibutan. You'll get depressed for no reason at all.

[st. agnes]

Els, it's normal for us to get depressed during autumn/winter time. Nag dako man gud ta ug naanad nga naay sun permi. It's so hard gyud kung permi lang mag ligdom ang kalibutan. You'll get depressed for no reason at all.

ah... mao bah... hala sah... ana jud diay nah....

[Lorenzo]

ah... mao bah... hala sah... ana jud diay nah....

Its more pronounced in western countries with varying temperatures in accordance to seasonal changes (specifically during fall-to-winter, winter-to-spring etc), its a medical phenomenon known as S.A.D; Seasonal Affected Depression.

[ligiah]

ako... dumtanon... it is something that i still am trying to get rid of...

[Lorenzo]

Gai, unsa man nang meaning sa dumtanon?

[ligiah]

Gai, unsa man nang meaning sa dumtanon?

kana bang mag hold ug grudges against one person... mao na siya'y dumtanon.

[Scarb]

ako... dumtanon... it is something that i still am trying to get rid of...

you have to get rid of- jud ky dli na maau
maau pay mo franka ka bahalag in the moment masakitan cya
then after that wla na..ok?tambag-balibag ni Eya-winky

[ligiah]

you have to get rid of- jud ky dli na maau
maau pay mo franka ka bahalag in the moment masakitan cya
then after that wla na..ok?tambag-balibag ni Eya-winky

yes Ate... that is definitely what i am trying to do... naningkamot jud ko baya...

[Scarb]

good gurl naminaw ka ni manding kikay

[ligiah]

good gurl naminaw ka ni manding kikay

maminaw jud intawn ko kay makusian niya ko sa bugan inag EB nato....

[Lorenzo]

bitaw, thats good that you're working on that, Gai. Ikaw ra man jud ma sakit if you hold grudges; ako, im also trying to let things go. Its not worth our time and our thinking. Diba?

[kiamoy]

touch and go ko nga pagkatao..

[Lorenzo]

I'm very serious with work. When it involves work, I change my attitude and become "serious"

[Lorenzo]

My pet peeve is inadequacy.

[Moyhua]

Hingatugon.

[glacier_71]

laid-back...

[ihatekillers]

super ka maldita kung masukO!

[Raquelproud boholana]

YOu can tell us your secrets if you wish...

People find me funny but they didnt know i sometimes too depressed...

what about you?

Belle your not alone.I also suffer depression for long time unya wala ni nako dayon na diskubre.Ma worst ako depression esp. winter mao ni ila giingon S.A.D Pero akong depression gyud is postpartrum depression or baby blues kay right after ko nanganak sa ako first born medyo paranoid ko kay daghan jud ko gihunahuna sa ako utok.Samad samaran gud nako ug blade ako bukton naa term ani.Yes I am even suicidal nga matingala lang ko nganong makahunahuna ko adto.Wala pa gyud ko nagsaba kay basin di ko ma understand sa uban.Yes happy ko kaayo tan awon outside but I suffer deeply inside.Prayer raman jud to naka ease sa  akong depression but kabalo ka abi nako mawala ni pero I was wrong paghuman nasad panganak nako sa ako second child the same lang gihapon apil na ang third child.Na notice na gyud sa ako bana nga I always like to isolate myself magsira ko sa kwarto permi ako ra usa.Unya kung nakakita mo sa movie the aviator nga si howard hughes permi manghugas sa iya kamot  until it bleed thats OCD obsessive compulsive disorder ingon ana sad ko.I wash my hands till it gets raw.Feeling nako naay germ bisan asa. My husband insist nga mo seek ug medical professional.Nagpapsychologist jud ko ug nakatabang gyud siya sa ako depression.He recommend anti depressant drugs pero ako ang ingbalibad kay mao na mahadlok ko, ako gi reason niya nga daghan man  nuon namatay ana kay nag suicide.My psychologist explain to me nga ang tawo daw nga depressed kaayo naa jud daw ang suicidal thoughts then wala lang daw energy mobuhat karon once ning depressed nga tawo daw makainom na ug anti depressant then sa iya mind mag suicide siya mao daw na mahitabo suicidal thought plus more energy na mao na patay ang labas.
Wala koy gitumar nga anti depressant kay nadala raman to ug counceling unya ang psychologist dili man na sila maka sulat ug prescription diay for anti depressant ang psychariatrist ra.
We always need support group kay makatabang na ma lessen atong depression.Kabalo ba mo ang ginamos makatambal na siya sa depression.Very effective gyud ni siya mga medication sa depression.I notice jud nga wala ko ma depress this winter kay segi ko kaon ug ginamos hahahah.

[Ginger]

I can be very moody at times.

and tactless especially when i'm angry

[glacier_71]

i am sweet. ahemm.

[janjan]

ako way klaro

[halfcrazy]

me? i am half crazy

[Moyhua]

I don't have patience at home, pero sa work (school) grabe akong pasenysa jud, believe akong mga ka trabaho.

[glacier_71]

am an addict

[simplylee]

bad ba na kun isog ta basta unahan? naliwat ko sa akong papa nga waray

[Moyhua]

bad ba na kun isog ta basta unahan? naliwat ko sa akong papa nga waray

Aw! Parehas ta Ate Lee. Basta hilabtan ko og una, makatilaw jud pod sa akong ka isog og ka maldita.