What Would You Do if Your Partner Became Disabled and Couldn't Work?

[hazel]

 
What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?

Hala mga minjo. Tubag!

[Bambi]

I must have to take good care of him and that is 100%, simbako lang........my husband will undergo knee operation in two weeks. I filed vacation leave for his convinience.  It's a give and take, Miga.

[Brownman]

Mao ni kina kuyawan nga sitwasyun sa magtiajun Ms Ginger and Ms Bambs coz these will test on how true do we love our respective partners,lot's of marriages turned sour and in the end parted ways because of these similar situation wherein physically we can no longer give satisfaction to your partners. purya bujag ug ma disabled ang atong partner kinahanglan nga unungan jud nato sila kay piritng looya tawun bisan ug naa tay kwarta unja baldado kana wa nay lami ang kalibutan, of course nobody beats prayer,   

[lindy]

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?

Hala mga minjo. Tubag!

day Ginger mora man ug nagsugod kana ug research sa imong mga posting...

[Lorenzo]

Pray and hope this wouldn't happen. But if I was married and, God forbid something like this ever happens simbako simbako simbako, I would of course provide for her. Ang importante ani is it is forever na jud, Till Death Do Us Part.

There is no need to talk about what to do etc. Its all part of the package, it is expected that we care for each other, in the younger years and in our golden years pood.
That is what I've always been taught. 

[mikeygatal]

di man ko minjo but kidding aside, being very helpful to people in need ba...my friend called me kay na injured sya sa among tennis last week and got some tennis injury,so i have to assist in every way,you name it and ako ng nabuhat,...shower,bathroom(inig ihi ba,hehehe) and changing of clothes.u bet, that was hot!

www.mikeygatal.com

[Lorenzo]

Bless your kind heart, Mike. You're a great friend to your buddies over there, I bet.

[B:)]

I must have to take good care of him and that is 100%, simbako lang........my husband will undergo knee operation in two weeks. I filed vacation leave for his convinience.  It's a give and take, Miga.

I agree with you Ms.Bams. I hope your husband's surgery will go just fine.

Mao ni giingon sa among vows nga "in sickness and in health" ug uban pa, mag-inunungay gyud!

[orChids]

"Pray and hope this wouldn't happen. But if I was married and, God forbid something like this ever happens simbako simbako simbako, I would of course provide for her. Ang importante ani is it is forever na jud, Till Death Do Us Part."..from Lorenzo.

Bitaw,I will work and take care of my husband.
God has a reason of allowing things to happen,we may like it or not.Ug diha nato maipakita ang love sa atong bana.For better or for worse,'til death do us part.

[hazel]

day Ginger mora man ug nagsugod kana ug research sa imong mga posting...

I never thought about that, Mr Lindy.

[Sigbin II]

I think the marriage vows say it all.  "...in sickness or in health...."

[Bambi]

I think the marriage vows say it all.  "...in sickness or in health...."

but........."Til Death do us PART" .......... it is in our new era very rare.  There might be but the sidelines!

[Bambi]

I agree with you Ms.Bams. I hope your husband's surgery will go just fine.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH B. FOR THE BEST WISHES! 

Mao ni giingon sa among vows nga "in sickness and in health" ug uban pa, mag-inunungay gyud!

[bulak]

I think the marriage vows say it all.  "...in sickness or in health...."

ai kung tampalasan nga bana..agu nganong muantos...wala nay tilll death do us part  oi kung dile till part do us death na...

[Bambi]

I think the marriage vows say it all.  "...in sickness or in health...."

Hala Ite Sigbin.....sulayi sa ug minjo then...........let us see!  Aww.. hinoun perti man pod kang boutana nga pagkatawo sa ahong obserbar nimo last EB.  Hala Miga, sugot na lagi oi!   Mag-double wedding mo ni Elsie and Bonie aron dita ko mag doble ug plete.

[st. agnes]

same as what my mom did to my dad...
even though they were just like cats & dog,..
pero sa time nga kong papa na diagnose nah for Breast CA,
my mom was there...
she supported him, financially, morally, physically and spiritually...
kayud to the max akong mama para ma salbar ang kinahanglanon sa akong papa,
dili jud basta-basta ang cancer baya... mo kutkut jud kaayo sa bulsa...
as in bilib jud ko sa akong mama... as in supportive kaayo ni papa...

[ms da binsi]

It is our culture nga dili pasagdan ang mga disabled nga partner...

[Sigbin II]

Ate Bambs, Bulak, I understand what you both say, but "in sickness or in health" is just a part of the marriage vows.  I do not support that a wife unconditionally tolerate an erring husband who has no love for her.  What the vows are, for me, is a mutual promise of the husband and of the wife to love each other, to be faithful to each other, to support each other through whatever trial may come.  If I expect my wife to be there for me when I am on the sickbed then I must be ready to do the same for her when she needs me.  Husband and wife should help each other through hard times.  This is what I believe in.

[swakee]

kung ma-in ana ang akong banana... simbako padool lang... aws... joke hehe... kuan kanang dili na lang ko manguhit niya... i just help myself... eringgg!!!

[lindy]

kung ma-in ana ang akong banana... simbako padool lang... aws... joke hehe... kuan kanang dili na lang ko manguhit niya... i just help myself... eringgg!!!

uy gusto napod diay kag laing putahi Swaks!

[willmerit]

suportaan kay bana man.  apil man na sa wedding vow nga sa kasakit ug kalipay mag unong tang duha pero ug badlongon na bana, dili ko magpakamartir oi.  maajo pag mag inusara na lang ko kaysa mag agwanta ug ipon anang tawng badlongon.

moagree jud ko sa gisulti ni Ms Bambi nga it's a give and take.  diha nimo mapakita sa imong partner ug unsa mo siya kamahal.

[st. agnes]

kung ma-in ana ang akong banana... simbako padool lang... aws... joke hehe... kuan kanang dili na lang ko manguhit niya... i just help myself... eringgg!!!

Swaks, pastilan... mag SAVE YOURSELF nalang diay ka sah?
hahahahahaha

[ms da binsi]

If that would happen to me, I wont wait for another day...

i dont want to give burden to anybody...

I might have to inject some air to my bloodstream...

Agnes and Insoy must know this!!

[lindy]

kini maoy usa ka dakong pagsuway sa kinabuhi sa usa ka magtiayon kon asa kutub ang ilang pagminahalay nga ilang gipanunpa-an asa taman ang ilang pailob nga ilang matagamtaman kon kini mahitabo sa usa ka magtiayon...

[Lorenzo]

If that would happen to me, I wont wait for another day...

i dont want to give burden to anybody...

I might have to inject some air to my bloodstream...

Agnes and Insoy must know this!!

Ayaw pood Ate Belle uy, mo mingaw man jud mi intawn nimo. 
Lets not talk about that uy. Simbako simbako simbako simbako jud!!

[ms da binsi]

bwahahahha!

dong unsa gani to term ana nga naay air imong bloodstream? embolism ba gihapon na?

limot na ko dear!

[st. agnes]

If that would happen to me, I wont wait for another day...

i dont want to give burden to anybody...

I might have to inject some air to my bloodstream...

Agnes and Insoy must know this!!

When air enters the bloodstream it is called an air embolus.
mag euthanasia kintahay ka Ms. Belle..., ajaw pod woi.... pastilan...
ayaw nang ing-anan kay, atong e face tanan-tanan... fighter man ka ba, I know.......

sakto si Enzo... we will not talk about this...
simbako, simbako, simbako...

[st. agnes]

bwahahahha!

dong unsa gani to term ana nga naay air imong bloodstream? embolism ba gihapon na?

limot na ko dear!

"air embolism" Ms. Belle

[hazel]

If that would happen to me, I wont wait for another day...

i dont want to give burden to anybody...

I might have to inject some air to my bloodstream...

Agnes and Insoy must know this!!

wehehehe kung mo balibad si Insoy ug Elsie. Ako'y tusok nimo...hahahaha

I can't bear to see you suffer.

[ms da binsi]

That's a real friend...

that's what friends are for!

huy asa ka nag wara-wara?

did u get my text?

[st. agnes]

wehehehe kung mo balibad si Insoy ug Elsie. Ako'y tusok nimo...hahahaha

I can't bear to see you suffer.

grabeh sad pod ning usa ai...
mo consider pod ni Ms. Belle...
pastilan...

[hazel]

That's a real friend...

that's what friends are for!

huy asa ka nag wara-wara?

did u get my text?

I got your text early this morning. Wala ma'y drama.

Anyway, unsa akong i-inject? Para kurikong or kuto?

[ms da binsi]

When air enters the bloodstream it is called an air embolus.
mag euthanasia kintahay ka Ms. Belle..., ajaw pod woi.... pastilan...
ayaw nang ing-anan kay, atong e face tanan-tanan... fighter man ka ba, I know.......

sakto si Enzo... we will not talk about this...
simbako, simbako, simbako...

ang mga kagwang baja!

simbako ug ma disabled ko pero to suffer dili  simbako!

akong pletihan si Ginger para mo tusok naho!

avah Bongga akong murderer kay import from Norwway!

[hazel]

ang mga kagwang baja!

simbako ug ma disabled ko pero to suffer dili  simbako!

akong pletihan si Ginger para mo tusok naho!

avah Bongga akong murderer kay import from Norwway!

First class akong gusto ha?

[st. agnes]

ang mga kagwang baja!

simbako ug ma disabled ko pero to suffer dili  simbako!

akong pletihan si Ginger para mo tusok naho!

avah Bongga akong murderer kay import from Norwway!

hahahahaaha...
sa ato pa mo hire kag killer from Norway?
aguy! Haze, ma known man kaha ka diri sa TB...
daghan unyag mo hire nimo...
hahahahaha           

[Scarb]

If that would happen to me, I wont wait for another day...

i dont want to give burden to anybody...

I might have to inject some air to my bloodstream...

Agnes and Insoy must know this!!

agoy mag "embolie" ka Binskie? tawgon sa atoa ag "gi-ayrehan" simbako!

[Lorenzo]

lol, kamo duha uy, bugal-bugalon jud

Bisaya gyud!

hahaha

[Scarb]

simbako kon mahitabo sa ako pakner,
i will care for him till the last seconds and I'll be holding his hands
if time will come that the Lord calls him..amen

ayaw lang palaygaya Ginoo,coz cant see him suffering

[ms da binsi]

First class akong gusto ha?

Kapal talaga'ng ambisyosa ka!

[ms da binsi]

Blue mura man na ug salida ni Fafa Piolo ug Maricel!

sweet!

[hazel]

Kapal talaga'ng ambisyosa ka!

dapat lang! imported gud imong assasin.

[ms da binsi]

kapal gyud!

sigi na oi! first class with martini fountain pa gyud na from Norway to the US, hahahhaha

ining abot nimo diri nag gunit ka injection natusokan na noon ka sa ka hubog!

hahahhaha

sus ako man kaha ma kiha ani sa taga Leyte!

kamatyunon na, ma priso pa!

[st. agnes]

kapal gyud!

sigi na oi! first class with martini fountain pa gyud na from Norway to the US, hahahhaha

ining abot nimo diri nag gunit ka injection natusokan na noon ka sa ka hubog!

hahahhaha

sus ako man kaha ma kiha ani sa taga Leyte!

kamatyunon na, ma priso pa!

grabeh kaayo ang inyong story dah,,,,,,,
meaning MS. Belle.. ikaw jud diay ang bida aning salidaha...
tiaw bay.... mi hire nah kinsay mo tusok nimo from Norways pajud...
then ang gi hire... mao may na unay no-an...

[hazel]

sige lang kay aron sigurado ang misyon, mag mail lang ko daan ug anthrax usa mo larga.

in case ma palpak ang injection, naa ma'y mo abutay nga anthrax.

see you in heaven.

[ms da binsi]

bwahahahhah

way batasan!!!!

[Scarb]

Blue mura man na ug salida ni Fafa Piolo ug Maricel!

sweet!

ayeh mao ba? wla ko kakita ana salidaha hehehe

[st. agnes]

sige lang kay aron sigurado ang misyon, mag mail lang ko daan ug anthrax usa mo larga.

in case ma palpak ang injection, naa ma'y mo abutay nga anthrax.

see you in heaven.

hahahahaha!
mura!
kama-o diay jud ning atong hired killer dah...
fatay diay japon ang labas sa bida...
mag kita-ay pas langit ang duha?
ug nganong sa langit man?

[Scarb]

kapal gyud!

sigi na oi! first class with martini fountain pa gyud na from Norway to the US, hahahhaha

ining abot nimo diri nag gunit ka injection natusokan na noon ka sa ka hubog!

hahahhaha

sus ako man kaha ma kiha ani sa taga Leyte!

kamatyunon na, ma priso pa!

kafaet adto hinoon ka matiklo sa prisohan ana hahaha

[Scarb]

sige lang kay aron sigurado ang misyon, mag mail lang ko daan ug anthrax usa mo larga.

in case ma palpak ang injection, naa ma'y mo abutay nga anthrax.

see you in heaven.

adto mo magtiwas sa laing kalibutan ug dinokdokay agaray tabang!

[ms da binsi]

bwahahahahhahha!

wehehehehehe

[st. agnes]

mao nah...
mag dukduk diay gihapon sa laing kalibutan...
pastilan...
kahadlok siguro sah?
kintahay... naa nas silas lain kalibutan...
nya... mo reply pas atong mga post...
pastilan..
horror kaaju!

[hazel]

hahahaha na unsa naman ni oi!

balik ta's tinoud...

[ms da binsi]

ok balik na!

mao ra to basta  embolism Ger ha?

no anthrax no nothing...

ajaw nalang pagdala ug kaugalingon nga injection kay basi naay taya ma titanus nya ko!

wahahhahahha

[Scarb]

ok balik na!

mao ra to basta  embolism Ger ha?

no anthrax no nothing...

ajaw nalang pagdala ug kaugalingon nga injection kay basi naay taya ma titanus nya ko!

wahahhahahha

sigbaw ! hadlok paka ma titanus kon ma-embolie ka? no worry ky mo "Ave Maria" alabado na
simbako simbako simbako..atimana na lang injo pakner oi whaaa

[ms da binsi]

ok ra ug si pakner Blue..

ug ako? nahh dili ko anang akatahon Blue...

[Scarb]

ok ra ug si pakner Blue..

ug ako? nahh dili ko anang akatahon Blue...

ug ako? mo- alabado lagi kog una-una, dli pod ko gusto makahasol huuh

[st. agnes]

ug ako? mo- alabado lagi kog una-una, dli pod ko gusto makahasol huuh

hahahahaha...
mangunay nalang?

[Scarb]

hahahahaha...
mangunay nalang?

LC-paningkamotan nako nga makalimot ug ginhawa ba? unya plastar nako alabado
agoy !

[st. agnes]

LC-paningkamotan nako nga makalimot ug ginhawa ba? unya plastar nako alabado
agoy !

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

[C2H4]

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?

Hala mga minjo. Tubag!

I will take care of him. If it were me, I'm sure he would do the same.

That's what we both signed up for. For better or for worst.

[swakee]

uy gusto napod diay kag laing putahi Swaks!

thats not what i meant Lindy... kuan ba... si Hannah & the five sisters to da rescue...

[lindy]

thats not what i meant Lindy... kuan ba... si Hannah & the five sisters to da rescue...

ay solly... mao bah!

[swakee]

ay solly... mao bah!

hehe... theres good & bad of everything noh Lindy?

[lindy]

mao gud uy... pawala lang gud tas kalaay bah!!!

[Spiderman]

Ate Bambs, Bulak, I understand what you both say, but "in sickness or in health" is just a part of the marriage vows.  I do not support that a wife unconditionally tolerate an erring husband who has no love for her.  What the vows are, for me, is a mutual promise of the husband and of the wife to love each other, to be faithful to each other, to support each other through whatever trial may come.  If I expect my wife to be there for me when I am on the sickbed then I must be ready to do the same for her when she needs me.  Husband and wife should help each other through hard times.  This is what I believe in.

Well said. Kay it should be mutual not one sided.

[swakee]

mao gud uy... pawala lang gud tas kalaay bah!!!

korek ka jan!