Not Fair To Be Judgmental

[junayag]

Inflicting pain to others through words of mis-judgment, harsh dispositions are sad realities.  It is more appropriate to confront and seek resolve before a judgment served that has adverse impact...

[Lorenzo]

I am guilty of this at times, Jun. And I ask God to grant me the strength to evade from doing it again. We should all try to do the best--even with our frail abilities; afterall we are the change we yearn in the world. Right?

[junayag]

shortcomings, misgivings are results of impusilveness...however, we have the power to control ...

[hazel]

especially sa atong culture, we have the tendency to judge....but we have the capacity to know what is right and wrong, so self-control gyud and we should learn not to be subjective.

[junayag]

being objective is most appropriate approach...and the most important of all is the patience to LISTEN....

[C2H4]

^mr junayag, you hit the nail on the head 

Most of us, during conversations, only pretend to listen. What we are really doing is just waiting for the other person to stop talking (sometimes, not even!) so we can further impress upon them our point of view. People who really listen  are a rare bunch.

[junayag]

Listening is not only through the pair of ears.... it should be from the heart...

[Ginger]

When we pass judgment to people we know, we failed to make an effort to know more about them. Thus, we judge without understanding.

[Manong JOSE]

true! true! true! NEVER let other people's judgment hinder us from establishing a healthy relationship with another person.

Never let pygmalion inhibit the inner core of our soul.