Women Don't Really Like Jer-jer?

[pioneer]

By Neal Sears

He has been called ‘the cleverest man in Britain’. But even Stephen Fry’s fans must feel there are limits to his expertise.

And as one of the country’s most famous homosexuals, female sexuality is unlikely to be one of his specialist topics.

Yet 53-year-old Fry has raised eyebrows by claiming that women are unenthusiastic about sex, and see it only as ‘the price they are willing to pay for a relationship’.

Most straight men, he added, fear that ‘they disgust women’ and ‘find it difficult to believe that women are as interested in sex as they are’.

Feminist writer Susie Orbach suggested the remarks said more about Fry than they do about women, and ground-breaking female journalist Rosie Boycott said he was talking ‘rubbish’.

Fry told gay magazine Attitude that men feared that women were less interested in sex than them ‘for good reason’.

‘If women liked sex as much as men, there would be straight cruising areas in the way there are gay cruising areas,’ he said.

full article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1325299/Stephen-Fry-Women-dont-really-like-sex-What-know-ask-feminists.html

[luckybelle]

The Shocking Truth About Female Impotence
Ebony, Feb, 1999 by Melissa Ewey


For women suffering from female impotence, attempts to find the joy in sex can be harrowing, disappointing, and often painful. Although everybody talks about male impotence, defined as the inability to enjoy sex or adequately perform sexual intercourse, impotence appears to be more common among women.

According to a recent University of Chicago study, one in three women have a significant lack of interest in sex. This means that tens of millions of women are suffering in silence, with explosive and potentially devastating effects on relationships and marriages. Until recently, impotent women are ignored while men benefited from dozens of treatment and medications such as Viagra. The issue of female impotency has only recently been addressed, and found to be just as treatable.

In prior generations, sex was thought of as something a woman did to please her mate and to make babies, certainly not for her own gratification. If she did not like having sex. It was just as well, because she wasn't expected to. For many Black women, that belief holds true even today.

"There are a lot a women who have sex but absolutely do not enjoy it," says Dr. Ken Taylor, an obstetrician and gynecologist based in Atlanta. "They go through their whole lives having sex just to please a man, and never experience any pleasure themselves."

The idea that women are not entitled to sexual pleasure stems from early lessons about sexuality, according to Dr. Debra George, a Los Angeles-based psychologist and licensed marriage/ family therapist. She believes the sexual revolution passed by most Black women, who learned a lot of unrealistic, old-fashioned notion about sex from their mothers. "We had to wait until something happened before we were told anything," says Dr. George, who is pleased to see more women embracing their sexuality in a responsible manner. "The younger generation is being raised without the old misconceptions," she explains. "They're being educated about sex sooner and more comprehensively."

Despite this gradual change in attitude, there are several psychological and physical barriers preventing women from enjoying sex.

[luckybelle]

By Neal Sears

Yet 53-year-old Fry has raised eyebrows by claiming that women are unenthusiastic about sex, and see it only as ‘the price they are willing to pay for a relationship’.

full article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1325299/Stephen-Fry-Women-dont-really-like-sex-What-know-ask-feminists.html

Some women really do it as a price for good relationship and even tried to enjoy it but fail.

[hubag bohol]

Some women really do it as a price for good relationship and even tried to enjoy it but fail.

Whether or not women do it as a price for good relationship, I'm sure there are many who try to enjoy it and succeed--with flying colors... 

[luckybelle]

Whether or not women do it as a price for good relationship, I'm sure there are many who try to enjoy it and succeed--with flying colors...  

              tyahahahahahahhahaha... tsurenessssh..... hahahaha      

Ang lishod diwe grandpa Hubag Botoy kay ang wa man ni succeed....      tsaon nalang........? Maglukdo nya ug eggplant pagkogit na la japon..... tyayayayaya....     

[hubag bohol]

              tyahahahahahahhahaha... tsurenessssh..... hahahaha      

Ang lishod diwe grandpa Hubag Botoy kay ang wa man ni succeed....      tsaon nalang........? Maglukdo nya ug eggplant pagkogit na la japon..... tyayayayaya....     

Aw, nia may daghan diri sa TB nga pwedeng mo-troubleshoot--for free--sa problema sa mga unsuccessful... 

[luckybelle]

Aw, nia may daghan diri sa TB nga pwedeng mo-troubleshoot--for free--sa problema sa mga unsuccessful... 

Fagtsuuur vahhhh.....          Kinsa man pud na sila.........?  Apil kaha si GHB?

[bugsay]

Aw, nia may daghan diri sa TB nga pwedeng mo-troubleshoot--for free--sa problema sa mga unsuccessful... 

naay magpa sulbad diha?..

[luckybelle]

naay magpa sulbad diha?..

Ngano man naay troubleshooter na mo-volunteer... kay ajo dajon ibaniog tsa entire world para kadtong nagproblema makabsan na sa ilang tagblema-blema..........      
Tsa man willing you e-try you fffoooower! ? 

[hubag bohol]

naay magpa sulbad diha?..

Bwahaha! Abtika sa kanahan! 

[hubag bohol]

Fagtsuuur vahhhh.....          Kinsa man pud na sila.........?  Apil kaha si GHB?

He he, naay daghan, pero si GHB para ra sa hopeless cases... 

[luckybelle]

He he, naay daghan, pero si GHB para ra sa hopeless cases... 

kay hopeless man pud ang totpi na totpik... tyahahahahahaha....... PEACE pinangga 

[hubag bohol]

kay hopeless man pud ang totpi na totpik... tyahahahahahaha....... PEACE pinangga 

Bwahaha! Mao nga magdaog jud... 

[luckybelle]

Bwahaha! Mao nga magdaog jud... 

    hmmmm... asa kahay malingaw ani nila... di ba kaha intawon magmahay si Ms. Lukdo ug Eggplant?.......       

[hubag bohol]

    hmmmm... asa kahay malingaw ani nila... di ba kaha intawon magmahay si Ms. Lukdo ug Eggplant?.......       

Basin magpinasayloay na lang, bwahaha!

[bugsay]

Ngano man naay troubleshooter na mo-volunteer... kay ajo dajon ibaniog tsa entire world para kadtong nagproblema makabsan na sa ilang tagblema-blema..........      
Tsa man willing you e-try you fffoooower! ? 

....ang akoa ba nga makigtambayayong lang ko's sinulbaray.

[luckybelle]

Basin magpinasayloay na lang, bwahaha!

After forgiving



Natulog nalang with smiles...      ....

[luckybelle]

....ang akoa ba nga makigtambayayong lang ko's sinulbaray.

Sa unsa pud kahang paagia ikaw makipagtimbayayong alang sa kasulbarannnnnnnn?.........
Hmmmm....... labad ajo kutaw      

[bugsay]

Bwahaha! Abtika sa kanahan! 

hehehe.....palawhag lang ba...basin naa diay motugbaw..

[hubag bohol]

....ang akoa ba nga makigtambayayong lang ko's sinulbaray.

He he, matinabangon ra gud ta...

[bugsay]

Sa unsa pud kahang agia ikaw makipagtimbayayong alang sa kasulbarannnnnnnn.........
Hmmmm....... labad ajo kutaw      

..basin sayop ko's mga pulong nga nagamit....imbis alang sa kasulbaran, alang diay sa kahimayaan..

[bugsay]

He he, matinabangon ra gud ta...

mao..."Nothing Beats Stronger Than The Heart Of The Volunteer"...mao na'y mga pulong ni pare'ng Robinhood.

[hubag bohol]

mao..."Nothing Beats Stronger Than The Heart Of The Volunteer"...mao na'y mga pulong ni pare'ng Robinhood.

He he, sureness ko nga moingon si Ms. LB nga naay laing body part that throbs harder... 

[luckybelle]

He he, sureness ko nga moingon si Ms. LB nga naay laing body part that throbs harder...  

piktsur pls


LB Gorya 

[kan-ogong]

naay magpa sulbad diha?..

Bugs dili lalim ning problemaha oi. Dum dum ko when i was in Riyadh akong tawo nga Bangladeshi nag patabang nako ma rescue iya ig agaw kay dili na kono kaya basin mamatay sya.Driver sya sa arabiana nga ang bana naa sa Jeddah  unya na uyab nya ang anak nga hilig kaayo jerjer unya paghuman niya hatod sa anak sa school pag uli nya sa kwarto sudlon sya sa inahan jerjer. akong pangutana ang Bangaladeshi nga kalami imoha trabaho ang tubag nya pwede kono kada adlaw jerjer usa sa inahan usa pod sa anak. kaya kono niya . ang gusto sa inahan ug anak kay hantod matagbaw man jud .unya kada adlaw pa. mao nagpatabang nga mo layas sa amo kay dili na kono nya kaya

[bugsay]

Bugs dili lalim ning problemaha oi. Dum dum ko when i was in Riyadh akong tawo nga Bangladeshi nag patabang nako ma rescue iya ig agaw kay dili na kono kaya basin mamatay sya.Driver sya sa arabiana nga ang bana naa sa Jeddah  unya na uyab nya ang anak nga hilig kaayo jerjer unya paghuman niya hatod sa anak sa school pag uli nya sa kwarto sudlon sya sa inahan jerjer. akong pangutana ang Bangaladeshi nga kalami imoha trabaho ang tubag nya pwede kono kada adlaw jerjer usa sa inahan usa pod sa anak. kaya kono niya . ang gusto sa inahan ug anak kay hantod matagbaw man jud .unya kada adlaw pa. mao nagpatabang nga mo layas sa amo kay dili na kono nya kaya

Nyahhahaha...mauy gidangat....bakwion nalang nako ang akong panawagan..

[hofelina]

Whether or not women do it as a price for good relationship, I'm sure there are many who try to enjoy it and succeed--with flying colors

This sounds true Hubs!

[luckybelle]

Nyahhahaha...mauy gidangat....bakwion nalang nako ang akong panawagan..

Nyahahahaha.... wa pa gani magsugod, ni orks-orks naman....      

[hubag bohol]

piktsur pls


LB Gorya 

Nagkadaghan tuod ang mga Gorya sa TB... 

[wolfpack823]

Generally women do it because of love. Women need it as much as men, but women are not expressive about "jerjer". In the western world, that is a need, women look for it as part of their existence. But, in the 3rd World like the PH, to discuss about it openly is culturally taboo, more so, to openly admit the desires.

Women are privy about their feelings in bed.

[luckybelle]

Generally women do it because of love. Women need it as much as men, but women are not expressive about "jerjer". In the western world, that is a need, women look for it as part of their existence. But, in the 3rd World like the PH, to discuss about it openly is culturally taboo, more so, to openly admit the desires.

Women are privy about their feelings in bed.

Correct Ms. Wolfie... sa Pinas kasagaran byuda namong silingan wala naman nangita ug laki... walay uyab wala na pud nagminjo pag-usab maski sajo-sajo pa nabyuda... ang uban personnal choice, ang uban hadlok pud tsismisan intahon...

[luckybelle]

Nahinumdum ko ani sa amo physiological class kaniadto... haskang debate sa mga studyante ug sa professor... kay ingon man nga sex is not a factor of survival... unja sa western world kay di man jud intahon mabuhi ang uban kung wah, aw maski pud ang uban na wala sa WW... unja diha pay studyante na mi-stand jud na kung wa daw jer-jer na wa na daw tawo sa kalibutan nahibilin kay di naman daw mosanay... paska laging biboha ato na class kay mangugat gyod ang professor sa ija lesson...     

[wolfpack823]

Correct Ms. Wolfie... sa Pinas kasagaran byuda namong silingan wala naman nangita ug laki... walay uyab wala na pud nagminjo pag-usab maski sajo-sajo pa nabyuda... ang uban personnal choice, ang uban hadlok pud tsismisan intahon...

Daghan baya kog amiga nga mga Amerikana, tapos mangutana sila nako kung unsa akong gihimo kay kahibalo naman na sila sa akong sitwasyon. Katawa lang ko, mamula dayon. So one time they invited me to "Pleasure Party", mura ni og tupperware ba pero puro "sexual toys and accessories" ang gi-offer.

Owaw kaayo ko no, pero murag wala ra man nila tilap-tilap pa sila sa mga jelly.

[luckybelle]

Daghan baya kog amiga nga mga Amerikana, tapos mangutana sila nako kung unsa akong gihimo kay kahibalo naman na sila sa akong sitwasyon. Katawa lang ko, mamula dayon. So one time they invited me to "Pleasure Party", mura ni og tupperware ba pero puro "sexual toys and accessories" ang gi-offer.

Owaw kaayo ko no, pero murag wala ra man nila tilap-tilap pa sila sa mga jelly.

Tyahahahahaha... kaluoy tsa Pinay... na prito intawon sa mga kana... haska bitaw pud ni sila

[cujo]

Yes! we do,but not as often as men does.

[Lorenzo]

Generally women do it because of love. Women need it as much as men, but women are not expressive about "jerjer". In the western world, that is a need, women look for it as part of their existence. But, in the 3rd World like the PH, to discuss about it openly is culturally taboo, more so, to openly admit the desires.

Women are privy about their feelings in bed.

Excellent post.

[hubag bohol]

Correct Ms. Wolfie... sa Pinas kasagaran byuda namong silingan wala naman nangita ug laki... walay uyab wala na pud nagminjo pag-usab maski sajo-sajo pa nabyuda...

Hmm. Naghisgot na man lang jud tag silingan, naa koy silingan nga gwapa, in her early 30s, ambot lang kon naminyo ba siya sometime pero sureness ko nga naa siyay upat ta anak nga lainlain ang amahan. Pero dili man siya bigaon, buotan man gani kaayo...

[bugsay]

Hmm. Naghisgot na man lang jud tag silingan, naa koy silingan nga gwapa, in her early 30s, ambot lang kon naminyo ba siya sometime pero sureness ko nga naa siyay upat ta anak nga lainlain ang amahan. Pero dili man siya bigaon, buotan man gani kaayo...

.....pila ka buok ang moingon nimo nga "e ta tingko pa" sa upat? 

[hubag bohol]

.....pila ka buok ang moingon nimo nga "e ta tingko pa" sa upat? 

Bwahaha, "e ta tingko kol" man hinuon... 

[islander]

unta man ni tingko inyo gihitgutan?  tingko mil?

[Scarb]

unta man ni tingko inyo gihitgutan?  tingko mil?

tingko ka gatoz lang tali bazin ingko huboi daghan bahinan ija tingko mil bla 

[Scarb]

Daghan baya kog amiga nga mga Amerikana, tapos mangutana sila nako kung unsa akong gihimo kay kahibalo naman na sila sa akong sitwasyon. Katawa lang ko, mamula dayon. So one time they invited me to "Pleasure Party", mura ni og tupperware ba pero puro "sexual toys and accessories" ang gi-offer.

Owaw kaayo ko no, pero murag wala ra man nila tilap-tilap pa sila sa mga jelly.

Wolfie, kana mga jatot (8s only a term) sobraan na sila ka "game" ug wlay malicious..,normal ra jud na nila nga part sa body nga it needs daw to be used,,ky preha sa makina kon dli gamiton panagza matay-an ra daw aw awooh hahaha³. Maggunit pa na sila sa dildo dli mag kimi², and very profi ang selected words dli jud ta mobati og hilas nup?Mora ra sila nag explain unzaon paggamit ug day and night cream or ladies beauty aceswah.   jak§ sa atoa very TABU, na.., koydawo sa mga olds masilihan jud uza ka ligong...!

[wolfpack823]

Wolfie, kana mga jatot (8s only a term) sobraan na sila ka "game" ug wlay malicious..,normal ra jud na nila nga part sa body nga it needs daw to be used,,ky preha sa makina kon dli gamiton panagza matay-an ra daw aw awooh hahaha³. Maggunit pa na sila sa dildo dli mag kimi², and very profi ang selected words dli jud ta mobati og hilas nup?Mora ra sila nag explain unzaon paggamit ug day and night cream or ladies beauty aceswah.   jak§ sa atoa very TABU, na.., koydawo sa mga olds masilihan jud uza ka ligong...!

Lagi wala gyud na silay paki sa ana nga butang. Open kaayo, pero ako although modern akong environment dili pa gihapon comportable ana nga mga estorya. Sa ato sos, ingnon dayon kag burikat o igat kung magestorya tag law-ay.