Protecting Your Marriage from Its Greatest Threat

[Gener]

Infidelity is considered the most significant cause of breakdown in marriage. Whilst there are other factors such as financial disputes, children, career and even in-laws, however infidelity remains as the number one marriage killer. But what drives one to become unfaithful to his or her partner?

Why Infidelity

Infidelity knows no boundaries or socio-economic status that even couples who are living together as husbands and wives for so many years are not exempted from it. Though risk is higher to those who have just started to live together under “one roof” as married couples (this is the stage where one’s imperfection no matter how small is becoming to be more obvious) and those marriage relationship though being consummated but separated geographically because of work assignments or job location. Most self-help articles that I read related to marriage talk about infidelities caused when one became more “comfortable” with someone else other than his or her spouse.

Protecting Your Marriage By Maintaining Your Boundaries

“We never intended to fall in love. We were just friends at the office.” These are phrases we commonly heard in the movies though not far from common reality. So how can we protect our relationship from its greatest threatâ€"infidelity or any affair? One word: boundaries.

Some experts say that marriages with strong foundation are immune to affairs. But in reality, it’s not the strength of your love that protects your relationship but the strength of your boundaries. A boundary is an inviolable, personal conviction. Most marriage falls into the trap where one is being unfaithful to his or her partner when he or she lost control of the situation when they crossed their boundaries. The boundary that usually falls first is the “shared secret.” By sharing this “secret” you break your boundary.  A “boundary â€"breaker” could be anything like “flirtatious touch” or can be an e-mail with a double meaning or an overly personal compliment. If the other person responds in kind and neither of you tells your spouse, you give each other a silent signal that your feelings are mutual and the secret is safe. Like a spark igniting fuel in an engine, a shared secret revs up a relationship and begins the affair.

How To Maintain Your Boundaries

First, don’t cross the “shared secret” boundary. If you sense that somebody is testing that boundary, immediately tell your spouse. Exposing the secret immediately defuses it and builds trust.

Second, never share marriage problems or dissatisfaction to anybody other than your spouse. Opening up your relationship problem to a third party (unless he or she is a relative) may give “wrong signal” to that party. A third party can be an officemate, a secret admirer, your boss or could be your close friend. Sharing your marital woes to a relative sometimes is not helping at all because of their tendency to be biased. Marriage problem can be best settled between you and your spouse alone unless of course you are sharing it to prove a point where you think your own personal experiences can be of help.

Third, don’t give overly personal compliments. This exactly may have the same impact as the second advice though done in the form of compliments and “sweet nothings.”

And lastly, never violate personal space by sitting too close or touching. I don’t see the need to elaborate on this further, right?

Lest we are tempted to become unfaithful to our spouse, remember that “The marriage bed is to be undefiled” (Hebrews 13:4) and the phrase “marriage bed” means the physical and emotional intimacy that makes the marriage sacred. Don’t give the intimacy that you promised your spouse to anyone else and keep your boundaries firm.

[gwargz]

And lastly, never violate personal space by sitting too close or touching.
I don’t see the need to elaborate on this further, right?

Dali ra ba jod ko makuryentehan. Hahahaha!

[mistyeyed]

Hahahaha.GWARZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Thank's Gener for the nice info.

[gwargz]

    

[glacier_71]

Dali ra ba jod ko makuryentehan. Hahahaha!

then, you are protected. 

[gwargz]

Woooh, i am electricuted, Mist !!!! Hehehehe.

[Gener]

Woooh, i am electricuted, Mist !!!! Hehehehe.

hahaha, patay, sunog ka na yan(lol)

[Chongki]

nice.....ill bear this in mind

[mistyeyed]

Woooh, i am electricuted, Mist !!!! Hehehehe.

Hahahaha.Mag order ka nang maraming saging kay Jimmy para you can maintain your boundaries. 

[mistyeyed]

nice.....ill bear this in mind

And bring it into action...when the scene starts..

[hubag bohol]

Woooh, i am electricuted, Mist !!!! Hehehehe.

Dili man hinuon ni matawag og "shared secret", pero example ni sa "overly personal compliment", bwahaha.

[mistyeyed]

Dili man hinuon ni matawag og "shared secret", pero example ni sa "overly personal compliment", bwahaha.

Bwahahahaha..perting pangawot ni gwargz ron Toy.

[hubag bohol]

Bwahahahaha..perting pangawot ni gwargz ron Toy.

Hala ka, Mist, next step ato kay mo-PM nimo, bwahaha. Peace, Bay Gwargz!

[mistyeyed]

Hala ka, Mist, next step ato kay mo-PM nimo, bwahaha. Peace, Bay Gwargz!

Hahahaha,unya ig PM, moingon Mist,naa koy dalang daghang saging gusto ka?

[hubag bohol]

Hahahaha,unya ig PM, moingon Mist,naa koy dalang daghang saging gusto ka?

Unja motubag pud ka, usa ray ako, oi, pero kanang dakong dawin nga balikog sa tumoy, bwahaha.

[mistyeyed]

Unja motubag pud ka, usa ray ako, oi, pero kanang dakong dawin nga balikog sa tumoy, bwahaha.

Bwaahahha.,..mapul-an jud ang mo translate ni Gener ani kay di raba to kasabot ug bisdak.

[hubag bohol]

Bwaahahha.,..mapul-an jud ang mo translate ni Gener ani kay di raba to kasabot ug bisdak.

Oo nga, ano? Pasensya na, Bay Gener. Ang ibig sabihin ni Misty, walang threat yung marriage nya kun palagi syang pinapakain ng saging, pero ang gusto nya ay yung saging nga baluktot ang tumoy.

Bwahaha, unsa toy tumoy sa Tagalog, Mist? Nagkayamukat tuloy itong isip ko!

[Gener]

Oo nga, ano? Pasensya na, Bay Gener. Ang ibig sabihin ni Misty, walang threat yung marriage nya kun palagi syang pinapakain ng saging, pero ang gusto nya ay yung saging nga baluktot ang tumoy.

Bwahaha, unsa toy tumoy sa Tagalog, Mist? Nagkayamukat tuloy itong isip ko!

hahaha, grabe

[mistyeyed]

Oo nga, ano? Pasensya na, Bay Gener. Ang ibig sabihin ni Misty, walang threat yung marriage nya kun palagi syang pinapakain ng saging, pero ang gusto nya ay yung saging nga baluktot ang tumoy.

Bwahaha, unsa toy tumoy sa Tagalog, Mist? Nagkayamukat tuloy itong isip ko!

Hahahaha...tumoy is- sa dulo ng walang hanggang..

[gwargz]

Hoooooy! Grabe mo manglibak haaaaa?
Gatoo mo ug wa koy intelligence agent?
Naa ko. Daghan sila. Apil si Jimmy Galolo.
Hahahahahaha.

Bitaw, Mist. Gamay ra ang kuryente, oy.
9 Volts ra. Morag manghod sa battery sa ispat.
Kutob ra sa panit. Wa maapil ang unod.
Sa akong bagtak ba.

Time pa, nganong nawala na ta sa thread?
Aw, protection diay sa marriage from its greatest threat?
Gaba, sa akoa threat man tanan higayon?
Ugaling lang gihatagan ta sa Dios ug panghunahuna
aron maghigugma pag-ayo sa asawa, magpailob pirmi
kay aron mahimong balaan, ngisi pirmi bisag way bugas,
bahalag saging basta kay tigas. Tigas ang katawan
sa kalusugan.

[mistyeyed]

Hoooooy! Grabe mo manglibak haaaaa?
Gatoo mo ug wa koy intelligence agent?
Naa ko. Daghan sila. Apil si Jimmy Galolo.
Hahahahahaha.

Bitaw, Mist. Gamay ra ang kuryente, oy.
9 Volts ra. Morag manghod sa battery sa ispat.
Kutob ra sa panit. Wa maapil ang unod.
Sa akong bagtak ba.

Time pa, nganong nawala na ta sa thread?
Aw, protection diay sa marriage from its greatest threat?
Gaba, sa akoa threat man tanan higayon?
Ugaling lang gihatagan ta sa Dios ug panghunahuna
aron maghigugma pag-ayo sa asawa, magpailob pirmi
kay aron mahimong balaan, ngisi pirmi bisag way bugas,
bahalag saging basta kay tigas. Tigas ang katawan
sa kalusugan.

Hahaha.Nigawas na jud si gwargz gikan ni kuyog ni Jimmy..tagalog oi kay di kasabot si Gener.

[mistyeyed]

Ang masasabi ko lang talaga dito is girl or boy we have to check ourselve if we are already mature and strong inside.If you are, then kahit na ilang girls or boys ang magparamdam ng kuryenti ay hindi ka ma kuryenti kung marunong kang mag decide ng NO.

[david]

ako magpa kuryente permi

[gwargz]

ako magpa kuryente permi

Tweeeng, tweeng, tweng.

[gwargz]

David, pila ka volts?

[david]

kanang di pa high voltage

[mistyeyed]

Hahahaha..

[jorgeanna]

honesty is always the best policy... mao na secret sa relationship namo sa akong bana.. bahala og you know masakitan imong partner, basta tell it all lang gyud para naay solutions dayon and sakto gyud nga never tell any of your relatives about your marital woes kay makadugang na sila sa problema

[gwargz]

honesty is always the best policy... mao na secret sa relationship namo sa akong bana.. bahala og you know masakitan imong partner, basta tell it all lang gyud para naay solutions dayon and sakto gyud nga never tell any of your relatives about your marital woes kay makadugang na sila sa problema

Correct! 100%. Approved. Certified.

[Gener]

Ang masasabi ko lang talaga dito is girl or boy we have to check ourselve if we are already mature and strong inside.If you are, then kahit na ilang girls or boys ang magparamdam ng kuryenti ay hindi ka ma kuryenti kung marunong kang mag decide ng NO.

salamat mistyeyed for being dialect sensitive, konti na lang ang dugo ko sa ilong, di na gaanong malakas ang nose bleed ko, hehehe

[gwargz]

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Tagalog si Gener Geneeeeeeer
Ba't di mo sinabeeeeh. Huhuhuhuhu.
Dong, patuwarin mo akoooooooooo.

[gwargz]

Yes true, Gener.
The greatest check against temptation
is just within ourselves.

And how strong is a person against flesh temptation
is checked sometimes by how strong Faith in God.
Ang taong malayo sa Dios, o, walang Dios
ay hiyang sa tentasyon, o nagpaparaos palagi
sa tentasyon.

Ang taong gumagawa palagi ng mali, lalo na
kung wala siyang Dios, para sa kanya,
subconsciously ito ay nagiging tama.

At ang taong malayong-malayo sa Dios,
ay hindi malapit. Teka, teka, mali yata.

At ang taong malayong-malayo sa Dios,
ay walang dunong tungkol sa pagtutuwid
ng kamalian.

Ang taong walang spiritual nourishment
ay parang tanim na di dinidiligan.

Ang maling pagkakataon (chance of the flesh),
ay parang posporo. Nasa kamay mo na ang palito
at pwedeng ikiskis. Isang maling desisyon at
masusunog ka agad.

Kaya tama ka Gener, kung pwede lang,
huwag masyadong malapit sa opposite sex
lalong-lalo na kung mahina pa at makukuryente pa.
Misty, palayo jod inday. Hehehehehehe.
Joke, joke, joke.

Pag-ampo. Pag-ampo jod sa kanunay.
Para mapildi ang daotang hunahuna.
Ug palayo para di makoryente.

[Gener]

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Tagalog si Gener Geneeeeeeer
Ba't di mo sinabeeeeh. Huhuhuhuhu.
Dong, patuwarin mo akoooooooooo.

hahaha, wag gaanong tumuwad baka pasukin ng hangin ang kuwan...hahaha
ok lang, medyo kasabot ng konti, it's a learning process for me:-)

[gwargz]

Gener, why are you joining TB when you are a Tagalog?
What pushes you down here?
Why not on Tagalog speaking webbies?
Just curious. Kasi bihira lang ang taong katulad mo
na umistambay sa ganito.

[Gener]

Gener, why are you joining TB when you are a Tagalog?
What pushes you down here?
Why not on Tagalog speaking webbies?
Just curious. Kasi bihira lang ang taong katulad mo
na umistambay sa ganito.

it all started after seeing the link to this site when bennylene posted my article he found originally posted in Inquirer.net. Im a member of other networking groups but I must say that people here in TB esp. boholanons are hospitable (manay tess, grazie) and very intellectual; like bro mike, bennylene, lorenzo. These are something I can't find in other networking groups, frankly speaking, medyo mababaw and walang sense ang mga threads. Kaya eto, trying to learn your dialect and hopefully, someday I can converse with all of u guys fluently para no need na for manay tess to translate for me, hahaha

[gwargz]

it all started after seeing the link to this site when bennylene posted my article he found originally posted in Inquirer.net. Im a member of other networking groups but I must say that people here in TB esp. boholanons are hospitable (manay tess, grazie) and very intellectual; like bro mike, bennylene, lorenzo. These are something I can't find in other networking groups, frankly speaking, medyo mababaw and walang sense ang mga threads. Kaya eto, trying to learn your dialect and hopefully, someday I can converse with all of u guys fluently para no need na for manay tess to translate for me, hahaha

I see. Awesome. And me, as a full-blooded Boholano or Bol-anon, by the Power and Authority vested upon me by Mike Ligalig and the Consortium of Bol-anons, hereby grant upon you an Honoris Causa by the Order Of Dagohoy. And you shall be now an Adopted Son Of Sikatuna. It is the highest order (according to me, hehehe.) of adoption given to people with your mindset of bonding with us. Congratulations !

[Gener]

I see. Awesome. And me, as a full-blooded Boholano or Bol-anon, by the Power and Authority vested upon me by Mike Ligalig and the Consortium of Bol-anons, hereby grant upon you an Honoris Causa by the Order Of Dagohoy. And you shall be now an Adopted Son Of Sikatuna. It is the highest order (according to me, hehehe.) of adoption given to people with your mindset of bonding with us. Congratulations !

...and I accept it. hahaha

[mistyeyed]

salamat mistyeyed for being dialect sensitive, konti na lang ang dugo ko sa ilong, di na gaanong malakas ang nose bleed ko, hehehe

Hahaha,mabuti,kailangan may target time ka na maging fluent sa bisaya para wala nang dugo.

[mistyeyed]

I see. Awesome. And me, as a full-blooded Boholano or Bol-anon, by the Power and Authority vested upon me by Mike Ligalig and the Consortium of Bol-anons, hereby grant upon you an Honoris Causa by the Order Of Dagohoy. And you shall be now an Adopted Son Of Sikatuna. It is the highest order (according to me, hehehe.) of adoption given to people with your mindset of bonding with us. Congratulations !

I second the motion and alive witness.

[mistyeyed]

...and I accept it. hahaha

Congratulations!!!

[hubag bohol]

Hahaha,mabuti,kailangan may target time ka na maging fluent sa bisaya para wala nang dugo.

At alam mo ang isagot kay Misty kung sakali magtanong siya kung mabuti ba ang iyong kalagayan.

[Gener]

At alam mo ang isagot kay Misty kung sakali magtanong siya kung mabuti ba ang iyong kalagayan.

kumusta ba 'ika mo ang aking 'lagay'? Well, eto, bi-bitay-bitay, hahaha

[mistyeyed]

Bwahahahaha..

[mistyeyed]

Toy, ibaligja nato ni si Gener.

[Gener]

Toy, ibaligja nato ni si Gener.

walang ng bibili kay 2nd na man (taken na kasi):-)

[mistyeyed]

Hahaha,kasabot pala,akala ko walang intindi hindi maka intindi.Intindihin pala.

[bugsay]

Hahaha,kasabot pala,akala ko walang intindi hindi maka intindi.Intindihin pala.

pinawisan nang maraming singot si Pareng Gener, translating bisaya to tagalog...

[Gener]

pinawisan nang maraming singot si Pareng Gener, translating bisaya to tagalog...

hehehe,oo nga at first nose bleed, ngayon uhog na:-)

[mistyeyed]

pinawisan nang maraming singot si Pareng Gener, translating bisaya to tagalog...

Hahahaha.Taga translate ka nalang Bugs.

[mistyeyed]

hehehe,oo nga at first nose bleed, ngayon uhog na:-)

Ano ang uhog?,bugs,paki translate baka ako ang mabenta ni Gener.

[bugsay]

Ano ang uhog?,bugs,paki translate baka ako ang mabenta ni Gener.

absent ako , no'ng nag lecture yo'ng titser namin sa Highschool, inday Misty...

[taga tigbao]

Ano ang uhog?,bugs,paki translate baka ako ang mabenta ni Gener.

Uhog in other words kulangot, kung sa pulong binisaja, KUGMO! Hehehehehehe

[mistyeyed]

absent ako , no'ng nag lecture yo'ng titser namin sa Highschool, inday Misty...

Mao diayng wa kasuot ug tuga Bugs.

[mistyeyed]

Uhog in other words kulangot, kung sa pulong binisaja, KUGMO! Hehehehehehe

Hahahaha,aguroy kugmo diay ni.

[Gener]

Uhog in other words kulangot, kung sa pulong binisaja, KUGMO! Hehehehehehe

'uhog' is not a 'kugmo' but before maging kugmo, sipon ba, hahaha

[taga tigbao]

Hahahaha,aguroy kugmo diay ni.

Ajaw kabalaka Te kay akoy translate. Hahahahaha. Asan na si Brod Gener? Magkokabilds tayo dito sa TB.

Tagalog palaka Brod Gener? ai este Tagalog ka pala Brod Gener?

[Gener]

Ajaw kabalaka Te kay akoy translate. Hahahahaha. Asan na si Brod Gener? Magkokabilds tayo dito sa TB.

Tagalog palaka Brod Gener? ai este Tagalog ka pala Brod Gener?

yup...KOKAK...KOKAK

[taga tigbao]

yup...KOKAK...KOKAK

Baki kasi ang bisaya ng palaka. Hahahahaha. Buti napadpad ka sa kubo ng mga Boholano Brod? Ako nakikisawsaw lang din sa kanila at Leyteno ako ai. Saan ka nakatira sa Manila Brod?

[Gener]

Baki kasi ang bisaya ng palaka. Hahahahaha. Buti napadpad ka sa kubo ng mga Boholano Brod? Ako nakikisawsaw lang din sa kanila at Leyteno ako ai. Saan ka nakatira sa Manila Brod?

I'm the man from Imperial Manila, but my mother hails from Burgos, Southern Leyte. I have been in Leyte when I was 6 y.o. and stayed there for about a year. Sa Leyte ako nag pre-school that's why kasabot ako ng bisaya pero jutay-jutay lang, hehehe, pero hirap makapag sinulti, kadalasan, wrong grammar ang bisaya ko, (trying hard)

[taga tigbao]

I'm the man from Imperial Manila, but my mother hails from Burgos, Southern Leyte. I have been in Leyte when I was 6 y.o. and stayed there for about a year. Sa Leyte ako nag pre-school that's why kasabot ako ng bisaya pero jutay-jutay lang, hehehe, pero hirap makapag sinulti, kadalasan, wrong grammar ang bisaya ko, (trying hard)

Oi, Brod Gener, if you may ask I am from Libagon, Southern Leyte. Ang Padre Burgos ay nasa kabilang parte ng Sogod Bay. Kaya pala medyo nakakaintindi ka.

Salingkit lang ako dito. Adi by culture pala you have a Boholano blood in you. Southern Leyte is a Boholano dialect speaking province. Nindot ra ba ang mga resort sa Padre Burgos. Unja sa Padre Burgos, andiyan din yung mga lantsa na biyaheng Bohol minsan at papuntang Limasaw Island.

[gwargz]

Tigbao, taga Libagon ka?
Kaila ka ni Tomas "Tommy" Soledad?

[Gener]

Oi, Brod Gener, if you may ask I am from Libagon, Southern Leyte. Ang Padre Burgos ay nasa kabilang parte ng Sogod Bay. Kaya pala medyo nakakaintindi ka.

Salingkit lang ako dito. Adi by culture pala you have a Boholano blood in you. Southern Leyte is a Boholano dialect speaking province. Nindot ra ba ang mga resort sa Padre Burgos. Unja sa Padre Burgos, andiyan din yung mga lantsa na biyaheng Bohol minsan at papuntang Limasaw Island.

ako rin saling-pusa lang dito and yes i can say that i have a portion of Bol-anon blood that's why boholanos are close to my heart apart from their being an affectionate people. my mother belongs to the bohol-speaking part of leyte while the remaining is a waray-speaking part where Imelda Marcos came from. maraming magandang resort sa Burgos, but what I like most is the Limasawa island, just a few minutes by pump boat. I'm also dreaming that someday, I can visit Bohol with my family (siguro pag uwi ko sa Pinas this December). I have heard & read good reviews of different places in Bohol (perhaps better than Bora). Likewise, I'm fascinated so much about Bohol's tarsier famous for its small size and big eyes. But I heard that Bohol officials had passed a law prohibiting tourists for coming closer to this animal, maybe endangered specie na kasi sila.

[taga tigbao]

Tigbao, taga Libagon ka?
Kaila ka ni Tomas "Tommy" Soledad?

Arang ilaha Bay Gwargz, ngano man diay, kaila mo Bay Gwargz? Aw, sukad karon Brod na ahong tawag nimo.

[taga tigbao]

I see Brod Gener. Lahing Leyteno ka talaga, half Boholano half Waray. San sa Leyte Brod? Sa Tolosa? Dun galing si Imelda kasi di ba?

Maganda daw talaga sa Bohol. I myself have planned of visiting Bohol, if not this December this coming May next year na lamang.

[AsPo]

Ano ang uhog?,bugs,paki translate baka ako ang mabenta ni Gener.

mist uhog is ta e

[gwargz]

Arang ilaha Bay Gwargz, ngano man diay, kaila mo Bay Gwargz? Aw, sukad karon Brod na ahong tawag nimo.

Oy, Brod Tigs. Hehehe.
Brod nako si Tommy sa Visca Polyphonics.
Kauban pod mi ug dorm sa Visca.
Sa Mulberry Men's Hall mi.
Wa na ko kabalo life niya after Visca.

[taga tigbao]

Oy, Brod Tigs. Hehehe.
Brod nako si Tommy sa Visca Polyphonics.
Kauban pod mi ug dorm sa Visca.
Sa Mulberry Men's Hall mi.
Wa na ko kabalo life niya after Visca.

Ah. Mao ba diay Brod Gwargz?

Karon si Sir Tommy naa magtrabaho sa Provincial Capitol. Mao nay last news naho nga nadunggan nija. Ijang sister kay mura ug modagan ug utro pagkamayor sa amoa, independent candidate siguro.

Kining mga Soledad sa Nahulid sa amoa Brod Gwargz ilado ni sila. May pag umangkon ganing ni Sir Tommy nga guwapa.

[Lorenzo]

it all started after seeing the link to this site when bennylene posted my article he found originally posted in Inquirer.net. Im a member of other networking groups but I must say that people here in TB esp. boholanons are hospitable (manay tess, grazie) and very intellectual; like bro mike, bennylene, lorenzo. These are something I can't find in other networking groups, frankly speaking, medyo mababaw and walang sense ang mga threads. Kaya eto, trying to learn your dialect and hopefully, someday I can converse with all of u guys fluently para no need na for manay tess to translate for me, hahaha

Gener,

It is an honor, truly, an honor to read your postings, your articles, and your personal messages in this web forum.
One phrase describes your postings, my friend: Wisdom of God.

I mean that.

Glad to have you part of this powerful forum. God Bless.


Lorenzo.

[Lorenzo]

I see. Awesome. And me, as a full-blooded Boholano or Bol-anon, by the Power and Authority vested upon me by Mike Ligalig and the Consortium of Bol-anons, hereby grant upon you an Honoris Causa by the Order Of Dagohoy. And you shall be now an Adopted Son Of Sikatuna. It is the highest order (according to me, hehehe.) of adoption given to people with your mindset of bonding with us. Congratulations !

And as a grandson of Dagohoy and of the land of Panangatan, pledge loyalty to this fraternal brotherhood.

In God We Trust,
In God We Honor!

[Lorenzo]

I'm the man from Imperial Manila, but my mother hails from Burgos, Southern Leyte. I have been in Leyte when I was 6 y.o. and stayed there for about a year. Sa Leyte ako nag pre-school that's why kasabot ako ng bisaya pero jutay-jutay lang, hehehe, pero hirap makapag sinulti, kadalasan, wrong grammar ang bisaya ko, (trying hard)

Small world, my brother. We share true blood!

I am in your boat.

My mother and her entire continuum hails from Valencia, Bohol, but my father of the Lucino-Ebuenga Dynasty hails from Southern Leyte. The Lucinos hail originally from Pintuyan of Southern Leyte, and my paternal grandmother is part of the Ebuenga Clan, who hails from Burgos, Southern Leyte. Though they had relatives and ancestors from Bohol, and some migrated to Bohol.

I am by blood, a Leyteno-Bolanon. The blood of the waray also runs in my veins. Isug jamo.