How To Spot A Good Girl/Woman

[jorgeanna]

There is really no "standard" litmus test for telling right away that a woman is "a good woman" or one of those "other" ones.

Here are just a few things to look for when you meet or date a girl/woman:

1. She has an open and welcoming smile that goes beyond the surface deep inside her eyes -- the window to her soul. Her eyes and her whole demeanor kind of "lights up" when you walk into the room or towards her.

2. She let's you be you. She does not want to change you - clean you up, re-make you or rename you etc - so she can love you but accepts you just the way you are.

3. She genuinely enjoys your company - isn't afraid to ask for it or tell you that she enjoys being around you. Being around her feels like being around your best friend because you can truly be just yourself -- no feeling like you're always walking on egg-shells or trying too hard to please (and always coming short). The experience of being around her is "satisfying" in its own.

4. She goes out of her way to do things she thinks will make you happy. She's the woman who'll call you just to say "hi" or "I was thinking of you" however busy/tired she is.

5. She is independent and secure within herself. She does not need constant attention and does not put pressure on you to feed her self-esteem, anxiety or worries about the future.

6. She's there for you when it's up and when it's down. She's happy out in an expensive restaurant just as she's happy sitting next to you on the couch, doing nothing.

7. She does what she says she will do. She does not play mind games but lets you know where you stand because she cares enough to treat others the way she'd like to be treated.

8. She believes that a relationship should be a 50/50 give-and- take partnership. With her it's not always "Me, me, me" but "we" and "us". Not only does she believe in a 50/50 give-and- take partnership, she takes her 50% part of the partnership seriously.

9. She shows respect for you not only in private but more so in public because she cares about how others see you and treat you.

10. She's not just nice to people she has something to gain from but is kind and treats the doorman, the customer service rep, the waitress, the beggar on the street, a child, the elderly etc. with compassion and respect. This is a telling sign of how she'll treat you once she feels she has you and isn't trying to impress you anymore.

11. She genuinely wants to be in a relationship with you and not just looking for "any man" to solve all her problems. She talks positively of the opposite sex but also not blind to their shortcomings.

12. She likes the things you like and makes an effort to do even the things you like and she doesn't.

13. She's not embarrassed or too proud to show you how much she loves you. She gives you her love and she also gives you her trust.

14. She's positive, happy with her life and always upbeat. She does not try to put other girls/women down to look better than she really is.

15. She makes you feel like you really matter even with all your faults and shortcomings-- and she's happy that you were born!

Yes, guys there are still good women out there. You just have to know what to look for. She could be just in front of your nose. She could be the woman in the next cubicle who brings you coffee at your workstation with just the right amount of sugar and cream and hangs around waiting to be noticed; or the cashier at the bank who smiles every time you walk in; or may be she is the woman you refer to as the bossy b-word - yes her, the one who is Vice President of the company you work for. She could be anyone.

[Lorenzo]

awwwwwwwww!

I love this post!

Really! thanks anne!

he he he

[Lorenzo]

I agree with this thread jud. Simple naturally but is well rounded in finer things. he he he

[Scarb]

pwede pod , e- apply sa boys  (Mr. Dream Boy)

8. She/He  believes that a relationship should be a 50/50 give-and- take partnership. With  her/him  it's not always "Me, me, me" but "we" and "us". Not only does  she/he  believe in a 50/50 give-and- take partnership, she/he   takes   her/his 50% part of the partnership seriously.

[hubag bohol]

How? Well, for one a good girl is one who is not so obsessed with her G-Spot.

[Scarb]

How? Well, for one a good girl is one who is not so obsessed with her G-Spot.

"G-pt," is impt. to both parties, explore and dicover it,it comes all of a sudden ahoi !

[hubag bohol]

"G-pt," is impt. to both parties, explore and dicover it,it comes all of a sudden ahoi !

How does one look like at the decisive moment of discovery?

Like this: 
or this: 

[Scarb]

How does one look like at the decisive moment of discovery?

Like this: 
or this: 

just like d answer of Wowwowee candidates, " i will both them" tyahahaha -gotta?

[hubag bohol]

just like d answer of Wowwowee candidates, " i will both them" tyahahaha -gotta?

You mean, you ALREADY both them? Bwahaha.

[Scarb]

You mean, you ALREADY both them? Bwahaha.

wowwawee candidates, "i will select my bf or pakner coz hes my personally in my life"- tyahahaha

[MikeLigalig.com]

Kadtong wala pay uyab, angay mobasa ani.

[hubag bohol]

Hmm, wa pa ra ba kunoy usab si Bugsay sa Tsayna...

[MikeLigalig.com]

Mao ba. But the fish are plenty.

[bugsay]

nabali na ang bingwit, dumpol na ang taga ug pan-os na ang pa-on...

[hubag bohol]

nabali na ang bingwit, dumpol na ang taga ug pan-os na ang pa-on...

Taasa sa balibad, oi. Pasumbingay pa ra ba...

[bugsay]

Taasa sa balibad, oi. Pasumbingay pa ra ba...

suko pa gyud...tan-awa ra gud

[hubag bohol]

suko pa gyud...tan-awa ra gud

Hmm, itpa diay kon naay daghang latbi nga galupadlupad unya gidid-an kang modagpas?

[bugsay]

Hmm, itpa diay kon naay daghang latbi nga galupadlupad unya gidid-an kang modagpas?

aron makabaton ug kinabuhing husay ba..
mag-igmat aron makalikay sa lingla sa pagsuway

[hubag bohol]

aron makabaton ug kinabuhing husay ba..
mag-igmat aron makalikay sa lingla sa pagsuway

Dako ang akong kalipay
Nga believer sa kahusay
Ang higala kong si Bugsay--
Apan tingali usahay
Si Bay Bugsay mamakakay...

[bugsay]

Dako ang akong kalipay
Nga believer sa kahusay
Ang higala kong si Bugsay--
Apan tingali usahay
Si Bay Bugsay mamakakay...

aron pod husay...