Long Distance Relationship

[buenavista]

Distance is not the end of the world in a relationship

Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.

Although you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart!

Truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people

[Happy]

I have tried this before but it didn't work for us

[buenavista]

i hope it work for me

[Happy]

good luck for it gen

[buenavista]

thanks

[si makapuling]

my philosophy professor once said "distance is like what wind is to fire; it blazes the already strong yet extinguishes the weak."

it didn't work for me either. we were just too lazy to work things out. but, we are still good friends now (hahahahaha rose!). hope things will work out for the better for you buenavista

[lumine]

my husband and i were "products" of a long distance relationship. we would start with a prayer before going to further conversation.

[hazel]

my husband and i were "products" of a long distance relationship. we would start with a prayer before going to further conversation.

that was wise lumine..

[bulak]

that was wise lumine..

ok i try to apply this...i hope it works...

[Happy]

gi apply na bitaw na nimo for 1 year na siguro ron.. works na para nimo cion kay die hard man hahaha

[slackware]

di man applicable na long distant relationship sa mga gwapo ug mga gwapa kay daghan man gud manunggkab ug magpasungkab! lisud kaayo likayan...

[hazel]

gi apply na bitaw na nimo for 1 year na siguro ron.. works na para nimo cion kay die hard man hahaha

ayaw kompyansa shane...wa'y kumo sa sigurado.

[bulak]

mao bitaw...sakto pod kay kabalo naka nga ingon sila mailog man gani daw ang yuta nga titulado na!hu tanang pamaagi applayan jod..

[slackware]

knang long distant relationship angay ra na sa mga maot kay wala gyud motintal nila...

[Happy]

you can't be sure ghost kay, some men and women ron doesn't care about the looks na, what they cares is if buotan ug mapinggaon ang tawo.

[bulak]

oops sorry....dile man siguro buot pasabot nga ang long distance relationship para sa mga maot kay walay matintal...pagsukod lang na kung unsa kalig on ang inyong  mga pagbati bisan layo namo sa usag usa...kung matental ka it doesnt mean nga good looking ka..it only means nga dile ka kasaligan og dile gyod mo para sa usag usa...

[Happy]

oops sorry....dile man siguro buot pasabot nga ang long distance relationship para sa mga maot kay walay matintal...pagsukod lang na kung unsa kalig on ang inyong  mga pagbati bisan layo namo sa usag usa...kung matental ka it doesnt mean nga good looking ka..it only means nga dile ka kasaligan og dile gyod mo para sa usag usa...

korek, maayoha jud nimo day oi 

[slackware]

ang maot na babae kay wala may manguyab lain...mao na secure kaayo if makauyab ang guy ug maot na babae...

[Happy]

ang maot na babae kay wala may manguyab lain...mao na secure kaayo if makauyab ang guy ug maot na babae...

ayaw sab pag-ingon ana oi, nakaminos manka sa mga maot

[slackware]

im just expressing my idea! period!

[slackware]

ingon pa ni andrew e...humanap ka ng panget!

[Happy]

mao pud

[slackware]

mao na moingon nalang ta na salig ayaw laom!

[Happy]

sakto jud 

[..yadz..]

haay, maka relate jud ko ani nga topic..kay as of now, long distance relationship jud mi ron sa ako honey bunch..saon man, lisod ang pinas., and school na amo bugoy, mahal ang tuition..hehehe! bitaw, the only key to a successful long-distance relationship is TRUST.. mao ra na..with a lot of love, prayers and faith., im sure mo last jud na nga relationship... dba ingon sila 'it takes two to tango' so dapat both parties jud naay full trust sa usag usa.

[..yadz..]

you can't be sure ghost kay, some men and women ron doesn't care about the looks na, what they cares is if buotan ug mapinggaon ang tawo.

you are so right cel, beauty is only skin deep. in a relationship mas importante ang attitude sa tao....iasa man ang gwafo/gwafa kon dili makaon sa iro ang batasan pud...

[slackware]

Only ugly people believe that beauty is only skin deep...by Fletcher Reede

[..yadz..]

so therefore, i am ugly.....well, i admit without any hesitations...lolz!

anyways, we are all GOD's creation., and according to the bible God created men with his image and likeness...therefore i conclude, all of his creation and that includes women, men and children are beautiful and wonderful.....bow!

[slackware]

amen!

[Julai]

haay, maka relate jud ko ani nga topic..kay as of now, long distance relationship jud mi ron sa ako honey bunch..saon man, lisod ang pinas., and school na amo bugoy, mahal ang tuition..hehehe! bitaw, the only key to a successful long-distance relationship is TRUST.. mao ra na..with a lot of love, prayers and faith., im sure mo last jud na nga relationship... dba ingon sila 'it takes two to tango' so dapat both parties jud naay full trust sa usag usa.

I agree with you Yadz,importante jud ang trust sa relationship..I have a lot of friends here na naka survive sa long distance relationship tungod sa ilang pag salig sa uag usa..

ut unfortunately,it didn't work for me.

[..yadz..]

well siguro julai, it's not your time yet or he's not the one...cge lang oiz, you are still young...for sure one of these days, moabot ra jud sya. ma long distance man o dili if you're meant for each other, mg work jud ang relationship..

[buenavista]

ayaw sab pag-ingon ana oi, nakaminos manka sa mga maot

as what he said he just expressing his idea..pasagdihi lang na sya!
kay wala gyu'y maot na tawo,special gud ta na gihimo sa Ginoo.

[Julai]

well siguro julai, it's not your time yet or he's not the one...cge lang oiz, you are still young...for sure one of these days, moabot ra jud sya. ma long distance man o dili if you're meant for each other, mg work jud ang relationship..

thanks yadz..lagi for sure di to cja pra naho..
enjoy pamn pod ko sa ahong single life..ky way daghang gubin..aheheheh

[Happy]

haay, maka relate jud ko ani nga topic..kay as of now, long distance relationship jud mi ron sa ako honey bunch..saon man, lisod ang pinas., and school na amo bugoy, mahal ang tuition..hehehe! bitaw, the only key to a successful long-distance relationship is TRUST.. mao ra na..with a lot of love, prayers and faith., im sure mo last jud na nga relationship... dba ingon sila 'it takes two to tango' so dapat both parties jud naay full trust sa usag usa.

amen to that yadz..

[Barbaro]

follow your heart..

[queen]

so therefore, i am ugly.....well, i admit without any hesitations...lolz!

anyways, we are all GOD's creation., and according to the bible God created men with his image and likeness...therefore i conclude, all of his creation and that includes women, men and children are beautiful and wonderful.....bow!

I beg to disagree. I've seen your photos and you are beautiful!

[si makapuling]

im just expressing my idea! period!

hala ka rose, dili jud ko modest...following ghost's train of thought, my ex and i didn't work out, so therefore, mga gwapa and gwapo mi!!!!!!! yahooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahahahaha

[slackware]

yehey! naay nidapig nako!

[queen]

hala ka rose, dili jud ko modest...following ghost's train of thought, my ex and i didn't work out, so therefore, mga gwapa and gwapo mi!!!!!!! yahooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahahahaha

I agree, Riva baybee. Gwapa ug gwapo jud mo but it's not the beauty factor that makes a relationship work or not. Just like you Riva and your X,Y, and Z, I couldn't stand a long distance relationship. Permi ko ma mistaken as dalaga! Mag queue jud ang mamisita. Hahahaha! And the same thing with the hubby, ma mistaken as ulitaw and daghan chicks modikit. Temptations are everywhere that's why we're inseparable and have planted locator chips in each other's body. Gawd! But then again, we couldn't generalize things. I still adhere to my belief that relationships are not rooted on physical beauty alone. Womanizing (and 'manizing') is an incurable disease whether the couple is near or far from each other. Bow!

[lumine]

I still adhere to my belief that relationships are not rooted on physical beauty alone. Womanizing (and 'manizing') is an incurable disease whether the couple is near or far from each other. Bow!

korek, rose!

[slackware]

I agree, Riva baybee. Gwapa ug gwapo jud mo but it's not the beauty factor that makes a relationship work or not. Just like you Riva and your X,Y, and Z, I couldn't stand a long distance relationship. Permi ko ma mistaken as dalaga! Mag queue jud ang mamisita. Hahahaha! And the same thing with the hubby, ma mistaken as ulitaw and daghan chicks modikit. Temptations are everywhere that's why we're inseparable and have planted locator chips in each other's body. Gawd! But then again, we couldn't generalize things. I still adhere to my belief that relationships are not rooted on physical beauty alone. Womanizing (and 'manizing') is an incurable disease whether the couple is near or far from each other. Bow!

di cguro...ang babae na dili gwapa bisag 10yrs pa na biyaan sa bana wala gyud mopatol ana! parehas gud na sa karaang TV na black & white bisag imo pa na ibilin sa daplin sa karsada, wala gyud moponit ana! hahahahahahaha!

[queen]

di cguro...ang babae na dili gwapa bisag 10yrs pa na biyaan sa bana wala gyud mopatol ana! parehas gud na sa karaang TV na black & white bisag imo pa na ibilin sa daplin sa karsada, wala gyud moponit ana! hahahahahahaha!

Funny man ka ghost oi. I've a very beautiful friend, a former beauty queen, gi biyaan sa bana for someone really 'jamokmok' ug dagway. The husband is equally good looking. Ngano kaha, nga ang iyang gwapo nga bana, nangita man ug 'bati ug nawong' nga baje? Hahaha. Dili lagi na sa beauty daugon, ghost.

[slackware]

kana mga abnormal cases na sad na...basig kuyaw sad diay ug performance tong jamokmok' ug dagway...basig kamao mo dribol ug duha ka bola ilawom sa iyang ba-ba! heheheheheeh!

[queen]

kana mga abnormal cases na sad na...basig kuyaw sad diay ug performance tong jamokmok' ug dagway...basig kamao mo dribol ug duha ka bola ilawom sa iyang ba-ba! heheheheheeh!

Wahahahahahha! I see. Naa jud d i special case. Nah sige, agree na ko nimo. Total, gwapa ug gwapo man mi nga couple mao nga wala jud mi ni try ug long distance relationship kay madagit unya mi ug lain. Hahahaha!!!

[slackware]

pero tinood gyud na bitaw na naay tao na di hilig ug gwapo/gwapa!

[queen]

pero tinood gyud na bitaw na naay tao na di hilig ug gwapo/gwapa!

Ikaw, unsa man imong hilig? Kanang bahalag taas basta sexy ug gwapa pud? Or kanang computer whiz ba kaha?

[buenavista]

di cguro...ang babae na dili gwapa bisag 10yrs pa na biyaan sa bana wala gyud mopatol ana! parehas gud na sa karaang TV na black & white bisag imo pa na ibilin sa daplin sa karsada, wala gyud moponit ana! hahahahahahaha!

disagree jud ko ghost,kay diri sa amoa gitrabahuan naa lagi"jamokmok"ug nawong (purya saway lang)doble-doble man lagi ila laki.. :-*proud pa ang laki nila..

[queen]

disagree jud ko ghost,kay diri sa amoa gitrabahuan naa lagi"jamokmok"ug nawong (purya saway lang)doble-doble man lagi ila laki.. :-*proud pa ang laki nila..

Accdg to ghost, naa daw taw na dili hilig gwapo ug gwapa. Then kanang jamokmok daw ug nawong, matud pa ni ghost, maayo daw na mo dribol ug bola. Wait lang ta sa explanation ni ghost woi. Haha!

[slackware]

depende nalang na sa performance lagi!

[si makapuling]

I agree, Riva baybee. Gwapa ug gwapo jud mo but it's not the beauty factor that makes a relationship work or not. Just like you Riva and your X,Y, and Z, I couldn't stand a long distance relationship. Permi ko ma mistaken as dalaga! Mag queue jud ang mamisita. Hahahaha! And the same thing with the hubby, ma mistaken as ulitaw and daghan chicks modikit. Temptations are everywhere that's why we're inseparable and have planted locator chips in each other's body. Gawd! But then again, we couldn't generalize things. I still adhere to my belief that relationships are not rooted on physical beauty alone. Womanizing (and 'manizing') is an incurable disease whether the couple is near or far from each other. Bow!

yeah we didn't work out. i am okay with that coz we've had our time. no one cheated on another and it was an amicable and mutually decided break up! oh di ba we were so grown up about it! BUT, my consuelo de bobo is the thought na mga gwapo and gwapa diay mi !!!!! chaaarrrrrrraaaannnnnnnnnn!!! hahahahahaha!!!

yes folks, i am vain!

roseth, i've got  set my eyes on someone new which is surprising really coz i have NEVER set my eyes on someone before! we'll see. will tell you more about it later.

good luck to all long distance relationships out there. may things work out for the best for both parties!

[..yadz..]

I beg to disagree. I've seen your photos and you are beautiful!

nah rose., ayaw jud pg ingon ana kay basin naay motoo...lolz!
by the way, when it comes to love, long distance or not., i dont really think looks would matter..it's simply love! apilan sa trust, honesty and pgka faithful...amen!

[queen]

Amen!   

[queen]

yeah we didn't work out. i am okay with that coz we've had our time. no one cheated on another and it was an amicable and mutually decided break up! oh di ba we were so grown up about it! BUT, my consuelo de bobo is the thought na mga gwapo and gwapa diay mi !!!!! chaaarrrrrrraaaannnnnnnnnn!!! hahahahahaha!!!

yes folks, i am vain!

roseth, i've got  set my eyes on someone new which is surprising really coz i have NEVER set my eyes on someone before! we'll see. will tell you more about it later.

good luck to all long distance relationships out there. may things work out for the best for both parties!

Couldn't wait for the outcome and the photos! I could tell that it'd be another long chat of 5 hours with all the blah blah blah. You blabbermouth!

[ms da binsi]

I agree sa performance gyud and the person's personality, naay gwapa nga bulok esoryahon dili man na maka turn on sa laki.... Personality and importante sa tawo. pero ang long distance relation ship, di pwede. Depende sa sitwasyon...

[junayag]

a long distance love affair is difficult to prosper...for even a friend needs a simple pat at the back...and for lovers... it needs a touch as a manifestation of affection...

[Bambi]

Some couples are facing this problem unvolutarily due to professions  and/or business ventures.  And this is commonly practised in Europe.... i think it will not really a disadvantage - To build up a stable Family life is not based only in extreme love and romances, but we also need something to chew with.

It is only in the Philippines we commonly says:  Bisag saging basta loving!.....

[ms da binsi]

Bams dili ko pwede kanunay ug saging... kay mangita gyud ko ug steak usahay, know what i mean? Depende raman gyud na sa sitwasyun...

[junayag]

it is not true nga bisan ug saging basta loving... unya wala nay saging, boxing.... hehehehe

[Bambi]

Mao man gani.... got a neighbor before.... she was my alarm clock for my office work,  shouting every morning "Sigi lang ug  K......  unja way bugas bisag saging wa na tay gilagot"... it was very disgusting! Bastos kaajo.... even the former Mayor J. Torralba knows her personally daily program

[hazel]

it is not true nga bisan ug saging basta loving... unya wala nay saging, boxing.... hehehehe

right, ug wala'y saging, lupad ang mga plato ug kaldero.

[buenavista]

mao gyud,kulob pa man gani kaldero hehehe

ingon man gud sila for better or for worst....magkauban gyud..
unya ug sige kauban worst man permi...

[Bambi]

that is true love.... at first hapohap sa buhok and never the least...maglarotay sa bol-bol na

[ms da binsi]

Bambi, bold!!!!    


Hinumdom ka sa fruit salad nga joke??? related ra sa imong gi post...

[junayag]

i've always passed / conveyed the message to my kaberks hehehe, younger ones na before getting into marriage, they have to be prepared... labina kon dugay wala magkakuyong ( kay long distance lagi ), wala magkailhanay sa batasan, sus inig ipon manggawas na gyod ang tinuod nga kinaiya....

[ms da binsi]

Jun, would you agree to live together before marriage??? I do...akong banana introduced me to his friends as a wife man di man girlfriend...

[junayag]

I would prefer for any oppotunity to know each other better, could it be pre-marital, a frequent visit, a short but meaningful togetherness... quality time... regardless, the bottom line is you give yourself the other the chance to be as open in the whole facets of you....

[hazel]

i've always passed / conveyed the message to my kaberks hehehe, younger ones na before getting into marriage, they have to be prepared... labina kon dugay wala magkakuyong ( kay long distance lagi ), wala magkailhanay sa batasan, sus inig ipon manggawas na gyod ang tinuod nga kinaiya....

2 of my friends here are having long distance relationship and they said that they will get married once they get home...the thought of it scares me kay 3 yrs na sila wala mag kuyog or magkita. Unsa kaha mahitabo nila? I will keep my fingers crossed.

[junayag]

there are always consequences for that constraints...

[Bambi]

Pre-marital stage is practised in Europe and some other Western countries...in our own Philippines, it is always shown the holy sacred/perfect marriage life out to the public but....mostly our fellowmen are having a secret the so-called "Kabit" especially those who belongs to the high class of the society.  I had open a site about this theme "Is  divorce only for the rich Pilipinos? - well, the leader of the Church will cruzified us poor Pinoys, isn't?

[junayag]

you can be called kabit if one has already made commitment, but for pre-marital - this could be a venue for knowing each other deeply and then later venture into permanent commitment.

being a kabit is a different story, because you might be aware that you are three in a relationship...

[hazel]

I hate the word "kabit"...it should not have existed in the first place.

[junayag]

sometimes I have to rationalize why women get into such scenario  (of being kabit), there are reasons behind, (desperate of not having encounter of the same kind?, a victim of forbidden love?, purely of lust?, financial security?, having completeness of life sharing with that special someone... could we blame?

[hazel]

they forget that they still have the freedom to choose.

we can't blame them, after all they are just humans.

[junayag]

no one has fathomed yet the deadend of our quest for existence.... it is all crossroads...for one I know, we are here in this world to be happy.

[ms da binsi]

I hate the word "kabit"...it should not have existed in the first place.

That has already existed before the bible was written...

[pioneer]

2 of my friends here are having long distance relationship and they said that they will get married once they get home...the thought of it scares me kay 3 yrs na sila wala mag kuyog or magkita. Unsa kaha mahitabo nila? I will keep my fingers crossed.

3 years na mi wa magkita sa rayna sa akong kasing-kasing. the love is getting stronger. no fear. no anxiety.

[Bambi]

Oh Mike, let LOVE the mountains move!

[Happy]

3 years na mi wa magkita sa rayna sa akong kasing-kasing. the love is getting stronger. no fear. no anxiety.

Trust is the foundation of long distance relationship. (I think)

[Bambi]

Mostly people said: "Trust is good but control is better".... but if you are in love makes you totally blind, isn't Happy?

[Happy]

hahaha, korek 

[Bambi]

And then.... when being together you will suffer of the blindness of her/his beauty      , deaf-mute of her/his kisses  and nonsense  ::)bla....blA...bla...

[hazel]

Mostly people said: "Trust is good but control is better".... but if you are in love makes you totally blind, isn't Happy?

Not just control but TOTAL COMMITMENT.

3 years na mi wa magkita sa rayna sa akong kasing-kasing. the love is getting stronger. no fear. no anxiety.

Nice to hear that, Mike. I will pray for you and your rayna.

[ms da binsi]

Nahinuklog baya ko ana, pag ingon ni Mike, pagka buotan sa banana...

[hazel]

Nahinuklog baya ko ana, pag ingon ni Mike, pagka buotan sa banana...

Ngano man, Belle? Ako man siguro ang dapat mag hinuklog, kay after 2 failed long distance relationships, hadlok naku mo commit. 

[ms da binsi]

Mao ba? sigi lang kay dili lagi ni Race ang kinabuhi...

[hazel]

Mao ba? sigi lang kay dili lagi ni Race ang kinabuhi...

Right, Belle!

[buenavista]

dili pa to sila ang right man Haze,makakita ra lagi ta...hehehe

[slackware]

mabiyaan gyud mo sa last trip!

[Bambi]

No worry Ginger.... even in the last trip there sits a good looking man who answered the qualifications of your dreams.  And in every kaldero may sakto gayod nga takob.

[junayag]

bitaw moabot ra jod ang panahon para nimo,  dili pod maayo kong imo pugson. however, it is not recommendable that despite it is your vision / dream, but you haven't done to actualize them...

[Happy]

bahalag last trip basta front seat

[Bambi]

Basin gwapo kaayo driver di-ay.

[slackware]

konduktor nalang inyaha! ahahahahahah!

[C2H4]

It's difficult enough to keep a relationship going strong when both parties are close by, unsa nalang kaha nang lagyo?

So I commend those who are able to make LDRs work. 

[Happy]

konduktor nalang inyaha! ahahahahahah!

naa man konduktor sa luyo nya front seat man, so ang driver gud aheheheh

[slackware]

mga sagoy nalang inyoha!

[Happy]

hahaha, dili ko oi, front seat kaayo ko aning akoa.

[Bambi]

Paita gjod nis Mohandis.... taga-an man lang tag sagoy.

[Happy]

ipasagoy ta kay kab-it man ang iyaha lol

[ms da binsi]

hoy ug sagoy nga morag si Branson kadto bang tag-iya sa Virgin Atlantic, pwerte man to ka saguy beh???