What we look for in a woman?

[Lorenzo]

What do we men look for in a woman?

Just to name and list a few.

[ms da binsi]

Abi nimo Dodong no? Tambag inigsoon?

Ang imo jud kinahanglan pangitaon nga girl? Most important kanang pwede mabalibaran ug tanday when you are tired! Mao ra jud na. Kay abi nimo ang mga girl? ug dili tandayan mangita jud na kinsay mo tanday. Mark my word. Ayaw na pangita pa anang imong giingon nga cook, intelligent etc.

Ako ra nang obserbasyon, kay daghan na jud ko nabaw-an mga puti nga ug di matandayan sa ilang banana mo adto sa ilang friends with benefit kay magpa tanday.

Number one reason sa divorce.

Ngeeeek!

[Lorenzo]

Someone who can reign me in. LOL.

Good point of view, 'te.

Ah, muchas gracias para los hintados.

[hofelina]

I´m sharing you an email this morning which fits to this thread;

I'd like to tell you a story...

   It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.

   Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.

   At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.

   But, there was one problem.

   As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

   Why?

   Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

   Sometimes, she would say things like, "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage.

   There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once, she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.

   But, something was wrong with the picture.

   She just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was acting like a friend.

   The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.

   Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him.

   After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that, if she only knew how HE FELT, she would feel the same way.

   So, he made a bold move.

   He TOLD HER how he felt.

   He confessed that he was in love and that he would do anything to be with her.

   She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said, "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...."

   This only confused the man more.

   He didn't know how to take it...

   Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?

   Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long term relationship?

   Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?

   Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?

   Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?

   He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.

   He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so, he took a big step
- He bought her a symbolic gift and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his feelings.

   And then, the unthinkable happened.

   She didn't reply.

   He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.

   She made an excuse about being very busy and said, "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"... and hung up...

   but... he never got a call back.

   Over the following months the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.

   THE END

   OK, I'm back.

   Now, wasn't that a sweet story?

   Heartwarming, huh?

   I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels...

   Now, let's talk about that story.

   That story is basically a MYTH.

   And I'm not talking about FICTION here.

   I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that is timeless. A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it.

   And why does this particular story resonate for most men?

   Because we've all been there in one way or another... at one time or another... and many of us have been there OFTEN in our lives.

   Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of...

   Stories and situations like this one really FASCINATE me.

   They fascinate me because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent.

   In this particular situation I think there is a solution.

   And it lies in understanding a secret that women know, but MEN DON'T.

   And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

   In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE.

   The very things that a man does to try to make a woman LIKE HIM, make her NOT like him.

   They make her run.

   All those great intentions and emotional dedication actually cause the man feeling them to do things that make her go away.

   It sucks.

   And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens, I'll help you to avoid this painful situation in the future...

   By the way, if you read that story and said to yourself, "That's happened to ME!", then you might want to go and check THIS out. It will help Big Time:
ha ha ha ha ha!

[Lorenzo]

I aim for the FWB appeal.

F-face
W-waist
B-body

[glacier_71]

Abi nimo Dodong no? Tambag inigsoon?

Ang imo jud kinahanglan pangitaon nga girl? Most important kanang pwede mabalibaran ug tanday when you are tired! Mao ra jud na. Kay abi nimo ang mga girl? ug dili tandayan mangita jud na kinsay mo tanday. Mark my word. Ayaw na pangita pa anang imong giingon nga cook, intelligent etc.

Ako ra nang obserbasyon, kay daghan na jud ko nabaw-an mga puti nga ug di matandayan sa ilang banana mo adto sa ilang friends with benefit kay magpa tanday.

Number one reason sa divorce.

Ngeeeek!

da bins, at her  best. flirtatious!!! thought-provoking!!! LOL.

[C2H4]

I aim for the FWB appeal.

F-face
W-waist
B-body

The waist must be a good proportion to the hips, to make sure nga fertile ang tsiks dong.

[Lorenzo]

hahahahaha, you know my tastes too well, My Dear.

[Lorenzo]

When it comes to relationships, serious ko kaayo. Pero dali ko ma louran.
If ang baji--if i get a vibe that she is very uwagon uwagon--too open ra,
dili na mo work out.

If i she smokes, if she drinks excessively (like binge drinking), dili na puydi. I loose interest immediately.

Family--family is a big thing for me. If she is disrespectful to her mother and father or siblings from how she treats them in the phone--i loose absolute all interest. Even if the lady is physically beautiful. Ugly heart. Dili na puydi.
I dated and courted a  girl in my 3rd year in college---sweetheart from class. I had the hots for this girl; like crazy for her. We went out on dates--started as coffee dates, then to library dates, then to sneeking out at night to go over to her dorm to hang out.
Pero one thing that disaudded me was how she treated her mom on the phone. Whenever her mom called--she would hav a high pitch tone when she talked to her mom. in my mind i would say, "why do you treat your mom like that?". Because of that--i lost interest in her.

I still remain friends with her, pero that is it lang. If she treats her own mother like that--imagine how a woman would treat her husband or her husband's family.

I could not bear to live with a wife that disrespects and maltreats my own mother, and my family. I would only marry a woman if i get the blessings from my parents.

[Lorenzo]

Intellectual women, is a plus factor.

O man, being able to just sit in a restaurant with a girl--and talk about classics--or history and give points of view. Enjoy a nice side glass of Sauvignon and listen and watch her lips move.

As she twirls her glass of sauvignon, ald fondly kisses the tip--while talking about the subject matter.

Ya,

[taga tigbao]

Loyal,

Buotan,

Mabilin sa bay,

In short, LBM nga baje ahong gipangita.

[hubag bohol]

Ha ha ha. LBM? Bantay, pwede ra ba pud na

L - laagan
B - badlongon
M - mug-oton!

   

[taga tigbao]

Ha ha ha. LBM? Bantay, pwede ra ba pud na

L - laagan
B - badlongon
M - mug-oton!

   

L - lingas nga

B - baje

M - makauban

[Bunchy]

L-abad sa O

B-isan asa silingan tua,buntag pa

M-osingka singka murag kinsa


Patay bai,bantay ani.

[taga tigbao]

AMA na lang bay bunchy ug STI,

A - arang ka

M - mahigugmaon nga

A - asawa

ug

S - sapnayon

T - tanang

I - ikalimod kanimo.

[Bunchy]

Hahaha.Na hala pangita-a.Ingna me diri sa TB ug makit-an na nimo siya.

[taga tigbao]

Hahaha.Na hala pangita-a.Ingna me diri sa TB ug makit-an na nimo siya.

kita na. dugay ra. magalo lamang lagi usahay mao nang magloko. kung sa sakjanan pa kinahanglan pud ug minor repairs.

[Bunchy]

kita na. dugay ra. magalo lamang lagi usahay mao nang magloko. kung sa sakjanan pa kinahanglan pud ug minor repairs.

Hahaha.Basta bai,hunahuna-a permi nga ug sakyanan nga sige ug repair mas maayo pa ibaligya ug pulihan ug brand new kay ikaw ray mag antos sige gasto nya guba-on  permi,di ka komportable.

[Lorenzo]

Right now the things I look for in a woman are:

companionship, fun time, common interests.

[glacier_71]

maayo mogiling-giling

[lindy]

ang ako kana gyud dunay panglaban ug makamao moduwa kay kon wala na gubot pas lokot.

[taga tigbao]

M A T U R E  !!!

[glacier_71]

kanang di luorannnnnn!!!

[Lorenzo]

I am looking these traits in a woman:

1. Highly educated, or in graduate/medical training-schooling
2. Comes from a respectable family
3. Moderate, open minded
4. Dresses well, good style
5. Smells 'nice'
6. Compatible.
7. Open to new things.
8. Willing to wait for me (until I finish my Medical Degree)
9. Willing to bear 4 or more kids. hehehe. I want babies
10. Family-oriented.

am i asking for too much? hehe

[hubag bohol]

kanang di luorannnnnn!!!

Kanang dili luoran, pero magpaluod-luod usahay...

[glacier_71]

Kanang dili luoran, pero magpaluod-luod usahay...

basta usahay lang, apan dili kanunay.