9 Attractive Qualities Women Look For In A Guy

Started by ms da binsi, December 09, 2008, 11:46:29 AM

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ms da binsi

Here are the nine characteristics we've come up with:

Sense of Humor

Everyone says how important sense of humor is, and I have learned to look for it in women. I am lucky enough to be able to make women laugh, but I'm still super single.

Trustworthy

Trust is the holy grail of a relationship. It takes years to build it, and it is so delicate. There are few things that take so long to attain that can be destroyed so quickly. So a lot of us may finally settle on a very trustworthy person when we finally find that.

Kindness

This seems like a no-brainer, but I've seen plenty of girls stay with guys who don't treat them well. So, I'm thinking that most women look for a nice guy, but the fact of the matter is that mean guys seem to get girlfriends too-and at a better rate than nice guys.

Money
I admit it: I sometimes envision myself marrying rich and sitting there doing nothing. I could lie out on my wife's yacht and host lavish parties and hear about how crazy the Roaring 20's were, when my wife's friends were my age. Money is definitely high on a lot of people's list: remember when Anna Nicole Smith married that really old rich guy? I doubt it was because she thought he was hot, funny, or great in the sack

Confident

Confidence is based on a lot of these characteristics. You are confident if you are talented, super hot, intelligent, or wealthy most likely. But confidence also enables you to treat people better, so you are kind and trustworthy as well. Because confidence includes so many of these other characteristic, it may just be the one major thing women look for in a man.


Talented & Passionate

When someone possesses a special skill, such as visual art or guitar virtuosity, they get tons of girls. People like Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, and Tom Brady can go out with anyone they want because they are skilled. Heck, I'd go out with them. Usually skill occurs in tandem with passion, another attractive quality. When someone is really good at something, but not "hot," it makes sense that they can still attract a lot of women. It's less annoying to see someone like this in a relationship than it is to see a rich mean guy in a relationship.

Intelligent

I am intimidated by women who are more intelligent than I am (which explains why I'm intimidated by about 97% of the female population). For a lot of people, intelligence is sexy. When someone is stupid, it's frustrating and boring, which is enough to drive someone away.

Convenient

One can argue that convenience is a huge driver for a relationship. Does he live near you, is he "ready" to be in a relationship, does he want to have kids or not? Everything matches up correctly. Sure, he may not be the best-looking guy or have a lot of money, but it's just what you need and it's been a long, difficult search.

If we put these characteristics on a pie chart, what would get the biggest piece of the pie with you? Again, some of these characteristics occur together: intelligence and wealth, talent and passion, kindness and generosity, convenience and wealth.

How often do women care about superficial things like money? It's scary, but sometimes I fear that no matter how funny I am, if I had lots of money I could date any cute girl I wanted.

How do all of these characteristics shake out for you when choosing a boyfriend, and are there any you'd add to the list? Does confidence just take all of these characteristics into consideration?


Source: Shine

TOPAC

unja nakit-an ni nimu sa imung banana cue mdb?

ako, quiet and reserved type man gud. na koy sense of humor but i just couldn't make her smile.. jujuju
:-)

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ms da binsi


unja nakit-an ni nimu sa imung banana cue mdb?

ako, quiet and reserved type man gud. na koy sense of humor but i just couldn't make her smile.. jujuju



Wa jud tawon bisan usa! pastilan! hahahah

Aw taym pa naa diay usa kanang CONVENIENT, kay dali ra makablit! hahahhahhaha

TOPAC

lol.. na, muabot na sad ning thread run sa withdrawal..
:-)

glacier_71

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ms da binsi


lol.. na, muabot na sad ning thread run sa withdrawal..


bwahahhahaha!

TOPAC

si mdb, leading kau ug mga posts to withdrawal nga topic.. lol
:-)

bol-anon nga cebuano

ms dabins, naa man ko ana tanan nga qualities oi. giahak, mao diay nga daghan naggukod nako nga mga chix hangtod karon. tsk tsk tsk.
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glacier_71


ms dabins, naa man ko ana tanan nga qualities oi. giahak, mao diay nga daghan naggukod nako nga mga chix hangtod karon. tsk tsk tsk.

kaswerte nimo diay, bnc...patakdi ko ana be...aron daghan sad manggukod nako..chix.
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

TOPAC

:-)

Moyhua

mo dugang ko ikaw number 10.

He should be creative and resourceful in bed.
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TOPAC

resourceful? lisuda ana oi.. can you specify angie?
:-)

Moyhua

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TOPAC

:-)

hofelina

Inday Angie,

Resourceful is very intriguing, what are your means/ways  of resourcefulness? Can it be a guarranty of satisfaction?  Tubaga dajon hija mia!

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bol-anon nga cebuano


resourceful? lisuda ana oi.. can you specify angie?
technically, resourceful ug create ko when it comes to

mo dugang ko ikaw number 10.

He should be creative and resourceful in bed.
angie, technically speaking resourceful ug creative ko when it comes to bed. anhi na ma-apply ang TDK.
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Moyhua


Inday Angie,

Resourceful is very intriguing, what are your means/ways  of resourcefulness? Can it be a guarranty of satisfaction?  Tubaga dajon hija mia!

Manay Tess

Agoy, agoy!

I mean, be resourceful. Don't just rely what's between that balls. Do and look for something wherein sex would be more meaningful and exciting.
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buwadsanga

qualified ko da binz! heheehehe pwera lang sa kwarta
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glacier_71


laki diay ka glacier??? chix.. chix.. chix..

pwede laki, pwede pod baje...
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

glacier_71


mo dugang ko ikaw number 10.

He should be creative and resourceful in bed.

resourceful..kung makalimot og rubber, must know how to use socks as an alternative hahaha
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

Moyhua

"Asset Developer, Household Manager and Relationship Builder"

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glacier_71


stocking nalang kay aron medyo nipis.

dali ra man magisi na, bnc.
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

lindy

unsa naman ni nga nangabot naman ug medyas ug stocking.
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Moyhua

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lindy

Nganong puston man. Na mas lami man gyud nang original.
A Champion is a dreamer that refused to give up!

glacier_71

puston... kay modaghan unya ang mag-ilog sa katigayonan
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bol-anon nga cebuano

puston nalang ug dahon sa saging aron murag suman.
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hofelina

The list is long and it is not easy to look for a man with these qualities because I can´t offer it myself. There is no man who could handle my terrible character.
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Macky Ferniz

Sa ulitao pa ko, mao lagi ni akong problema. Naa man god ko aning tanan nga 9 attractive qualities(naks!)

Apan karon, nagpabilin lang gihapon ang 7 ka killer qualities. Ang nawala "Convenience" ug "Money" gi sequestered na. Sorry mga girls  ;D


Here are the nine characteristics we've come up with:

Sense of Humor

Everyone says how important sense of humor is, and I have learned to look for it in women. I am lucky enough to be able to make women laugh, but I'm still super single.

Trustworthy

Trust is the holy grail of a relationship. It takes years to build it, and it is so delicate. There are few things that take so long to attain that can be destroyed so quickly. So a lot of us may finally settle on a very trustworthy person when we finally find that.

Kindness

This seems like a no-brainer, but I've seen plenty of girls stay with guys who don't treat them well. So, I'm thinking that most women look for a nice guy, but the fact of the matter is that mean guys seem to get girlfriends too-and at a better rate than nice guys.

Money
I admit it: I sometimes envision myself marrying rich and sitting there doing nothing. I could lie out on my wife's yacht and host lavish parties and hear about how crazy the Roaring 20's were, when my wife's friends were my age. Money is definitely high on a lot of people's list: remember when Anna Nicole Smith married that really old rich guy? I doubt it was because she thought he was hot, funny, or great in the sack

Confident

Confidence is based on a lot of these characteristics. You are confident if you are talented, super hot, intelligent, or wealthy most likely. But confidence also enables you to treat people better, so you are kind and trustworthy as well. Because confidence includes so many of these other characteristic, it may just be the one major thing women look for in a man.


Talented & Passionate

When someone possesses a special skill, such as visual art or guitar virtuosity, they get tons of girls. People like Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, and Tom Brady can go out with anyone they want because they are skilled. Heck, I'd go out with them. Usually skill occurs in tandem with passion, another attractive quality. When someone is really good at something, but not "hot," it makes sense that they can still attract a lot of women. It's less annoying to see someone like this in a relationship than it is to see a rich mean guy in a relationship.

Intelligent

I am intimidated by women who are more intelligent than I am (which explains why I'm intimidated by about 97% of the female population). For a lot of people, intelligence is sexy. When someone is stupid, it's frustrating and boring, which is enough to drive someone away.

Convenient

One can argue that convenience is a huge driver for a relationship. Does he live near you, is he "ready" to be in a relationship, does he want to have kids or not? Everything matches up correctly. Sure, he may not be the best-looking guy or have a lot of money, but it's just what you need and it's been a long, difficult search.

If we put these characteristics on a pie chart, what would get the biggest piece of the pie with you? Again, some of these characteristics occur together: intelligence and wealth, talent and passion, kindness and generosity, convenience and wealth.

How often do women care about superficial things like money? It's scary, but sometimes I fear that no matter how funny I am, if I had lots of money I could date any cute girl I wanted.

How do all of these characteristics shake out for you when choosing a boyfriend, and are there any you'd add to the list? Does confidence just take all of these characteristics into consideration?


Source: Shine

glacier_71

am 50-50 in all of these qualities. but she loves me anyway.
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

bol-anon nga cebuano

actually, 4 M's ra man ang mas attractive sa mga babaye labi na kadtong kwarta ra ang giapas.
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Macky Ferniz

Basta naa kay sakyanan, 100 pogi points na kana sa atoa.

Mao bitaw mag antos na lang ko ug lakaw basin ma bok-bokan pa ko ni misis.

Psst! Excuse lang ni sa akong pagka way sapi. Hihihihi.

Happy Valentines Folks!

glacier_71

macky, bisan pa'g daghan sakyanan, kung way romansa, mabok-bokan gihapon ka ni misis...hehehe
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

Moyhua

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glacier_71


Korek ka Glacier! 100% pogi points ka!

hahaha. naka-dok-dok na tingali ni ay.
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

lindy

A Champion is a dreamer that refused to give up!

Moyhua

Dokdok mo lang! Matud pa ni Manong Lindy, daro...aw nanghimuntag jud og daro, as in nagdinaruhay!
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lindy

adtong bata-on pa ko magbutabg ko ug astray sa akong ulohan unya kada human sa round butangan nako ug coins aron iphon inig kabuntag.
A Champion is a dreamer that refused to give up!

glacier_71


adtong bata-on pa ko magbutabg ko ug astray sa akong ulohan unya kada human sa round butangan nako ug coins aron iphon inig kabuntag.

dili ba diay to tong, nong lindy? hhehe
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

lindy

A Champion is a dreamer that refused to give up!

glacier_71

kahinumdum ko anang tong, linds. kada duwa og mah jong, naay tong. ug ang tong padaghanon kay ining summer time, ipalit og karne kay magBBQ...
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

Moyhua


kahinumdum ko anang tong, linds. kada duwa og mah jong, naay tong. ug ang tong padaghanon kay ining summer time, ipalit og karne kay magBBQ...

Maayo nga idea na Glacier. Sa elementary pa ko, ang tawag ana, sinking fund. Kami akong cousin dri, mag sinking fund mi pra naa mi allowance inig adto sa L.A. phon kung madayon sa August.
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lindy

maayo ni nga himuon advice para sa mga teenager nga himuon na lang nga one dollar para ila ipalit ug condom.
A Champion is a dreamer that refused to give up!

glacier_71

hahahaha...condom man jud. patiguma lang kaha na sila para ipalit pohon ug kotse o pang-downpayment, lindy, kay kining condom, pinisik lang sa allowance, ok ra na hahaha
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

glacier_71


Maayo nga idea na Glacier. Sa elementary pa ko, ang tawag ana, sinking fund. Kami akong cousin dri, mag sinking fund mi pra naa mi allowance inig adto sa L.A. phon kung madayon sa August.

maayo bitaw pod no. ug good luck sa inyong LA trip
Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

Moyhua

Og nganong ni abot na pod sa condom? naay laing thread nga nag wanted og condom tester.
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glacier_71

Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

TOPAC

:-)

Lorenzo

hmmm, well ive got strength. unsa pa, i love to snuggle? lol!
i like to sing to my girl when i sleep with her, whisper ta sa ears. hehe. loyal ko. sure ko ana. sometimes---protective.
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glacier_71

Artificial Intelligence is nothing in comparison to Natural Stupidity.

Lorenzo

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bol-anon nga cebuano

10 Qualities Men look for in a woman.

Honest
Understanding
Mabait
Obedient
Talented
Beautiful
Industrious
Lovely
Active  
Thoughtful
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hofelina

Kana-kana, kining humot b**** kay mao kunoy maka lumay sa lalaki! Tinood kini mga Ondoy or mga hinimhoton?
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Lorenzo


10 Qualities Men look for in a woman.

Honest
Understanding
Mabait
Obedient
Talented
Beautiful
Industrious
Lovely
Active 
Thoughtful


Quite direct, lol!

Cheers, amigo!
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bol-anon nga cebuano


Kana-kana, kining humot b**** kay mao kunoy maka lumay sa lalaki! Tinood kini mga Ondoy or mga hinimhoton?
manay, mo vary man siguro ang baho. naa may humot naa say baho-baho. naa sad kunoy baho jud kadtong ilang giingon nga tuwayon.
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