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MANILA, Jan. 11 â€" A pro-women group has questioned a proposal that would mandate a 10-year limit on the validity of marriage contract, saying that such idea is not feasible and could even hinder women victims of domestic violence from immediately getting out of their marriage.

Senatorial candidate Gabriela party-list Rep. Liza Maza said: "Putting expiration dates on marriage contracts is arbitrary and does not seem to address the problem of couples especially women in violent relationships."

"It could even tolerate the cycle of violence to continue as long as the contract has not yet expired," she said.

According to Maza, there is a cycle of violence that involves the honeymoon stage and the violent stage.

"It is possible that the batterer will suddenly shift from violent stage to honeymoon stage when the 10-year expiration nears and the cycle of violence will just continue," she said.

"This 10-year expiration date could also mean prolonging the agony of battered women," she added.

Maza further said that battered women invariably seek separation only after many years of trying to make the marriage work and separation only becomes imperative for them when they realize that it is necessary for their safety and their children’s survival.

Instead, the Gabriela party-list solon said she is pushing for House Bill 4016 or the "Divorce Bill" in the Philippines.

She said that her proposal would give couples the option for divorce, instead of confining their options to legal separation or annulment.

"The sanctity of marriage is not based on the number of marriages existing but on the quality of marital relationships. When a marriage is no longer viable, divorce should be an option," she said.

I agree with these women strongly.

They have a good point.

I DONT NEED EXPIRATION! I NEED DIVORCE!

What if i find out right after the wedding that i made a mistake? Should I wait until my marriage get expired?

Quote from: ms da binsi on January 15, 2010, 07:24:51 AM
I DONT NEED EXPIRATION! I NEED DIVORCE!

What if i find out right after the wedding that i made a mistake? Should I wait until my marriage get expired?

Well said!!!!

ayaw sa mo panggiminyo...sukod-sukod sa lang...

Quote from: ms da binsi on January 15, 2010, 07:24:51 AM
I DONT NEED EXPIRATION! I NEED DIVORCE!

What if i find out right after the wedding that i made a mistake? Should I wait until my marriage get expired?

sakto ka mdb, mao na ang argument sa gabriela. what if battered wife ka or battered husband during the early years sa inyong marriage, maghuwat pa ka 10 years usa ka kalingkawas? ang purpose nganong ing ana kakuti ang annulment kay aron dili magbasta basta ug buhat ang mga magtiayon ana. ay sus kung lugakan ang process, asa ra kag 10 annulment cases per day ang madawat sa mga fiscal.

ayaw sa mo panggiminyo...sukod-sukod sa lang... Grin

nindot nijamo, apan dili ka kalawat

Quote from: hofelina on January 16, 2010, 05:59:23 AM
ayaw sa mo panggiminyo...sukod-sukod sa lang... Grin

nindot nijamo, apan dili ka kalawat

aw...di lang sab gud sultihan ang Pari...hehehe
sa makonsensya lang.

bai bugs, adtu lang ta kalawat sa mga paring nag sukod-sukod pod   hehehehehehehehehe

Butangi!

Quote from: bugsay on January 16, 2010, 09:11:03 AM
aw...di lang sab gud sultihan ang Pari...hehehe
sa makonsensya lang.

Quote from: nat-cast on January 16, 2010, 09:28:19 AM
bai bugs, adtu lang ta kalawat sa mga paring nag sukod-sukod pod  hehehehehehehehehe

patay!!! hahahaha...

Quote from: hofelina on January 16, 2010, 05:59:23 AM
ayaw sa mo panggiminyo...sukod-sukod sa lang... Grin

nindot nijamo, apan dili ka kalawat

mao ba? tuo man ka ana, miingon ba ang Ginoo,,ayaw  dawata ang akong lawas ug dugo
ky gasegi nakag pasibo ug una²? sowe po...

ug gipasaylo nya si magdalena ug barabas sa una, why not us? (opinion lang po) confused me

i am for Divorce..why suffer..we only live once..!

You can go to communion anytime but don´t forget that this is the highest gift given to us, the body of Christ! It is with utmost care to recieve it with no mortal sin or else this would be interpreted as profanity.

Quote from: hofelina on January 17, 2010, 07:06:43 AM
You can go to communion anytime but don´t forget that this is the highest gift given to us, the body of Christ! It is with utmost care to recieve it with no mortal sin or else this would be interpreted as profanity.

mao ba tita Tess? unja kana uban ga live-in mortal sin nah?
what about ana uban nga naa sila anak sa iya uyab unja wla pa sila pakasal
ka gatigum pa sila..gi una nila ang priority..unZa man na insane? profanity?
pls. explain and thanks..puzzled meh...

ang pagbutang ug expiration date sa kaminyoon wala kini magsulbad sa problema sa kaminyoon hinoon makahatag kini ug laing problema. Seguro kita mangutana ngano wala molangtod ang usa ka kaminyoon? unsay nakaingon?

Sa akong nahibal-an kung wrong imong input wrong sad imong output. A proper courtship will lead to a good marriage. Pro kasagaran sa among hererasyon karon wala na pakadak-i ang courtship basta kay maka date sa ngitngit nga lugar ok nana basta kay maka tan-aw ug sine ok nana mao nanay courtship karon, in short more on lust ang ginabuhat. siempre ug maminyo dili gyud magdugay plus wala kahibalo ug unsay meaning anang kasal so samot dili magdugay.

Busa ang angay unta natong buhaton ang pagedukar sa mga kabatan-onan unsa ka bilinhon ang kaminyoon.Nga ang kasal usa kini ka sagrado kay union kini sa tulo ka tao ang mag-asawa ug ang Ginoo. Atong e silsil sa alimpatakan sa atong mga kabatan-unan karon nga ang pakighilawas usa kini ka highest expression of love dili kay lust lang ang magpasulabe.

Quote from: ricx on March 29, 2010, 12:59:09 PM
ang pagbutang ug expiration date sa kaminyoon wala kini magsulbad sa problema sa kaminyoon hinoon makahatag kini ug laing problema. Seguro kita mangutana ngano wala molangtod ang usa ka kaminyoon? unsay nakaingon?

Sa akong nahibal-an kung wrong imong input wrong sad imong output. A proper courtship will lead to a good marriage. Pro kasagaran sa among hererasyon karon wala na pakadak-i ang courtship basta kay maka date sa ngitngit nga lugar ok nana basta kay maka tan-aw ug sine ok nana mao nanay courtship karon, in short more on lust ang ginabuhat. siempre ug maminyo dili gyud magdugay plus wala kahibalo ug unsay meaning anang kasal so samot dili magdugay.

Busa ang angay unta natong buhaton ang pagedukar sa mga kabatan-onan unsa ka bilinhon ang kaminyoon.Nga ang kasal usa kini ka sagrado kay union kini sa tulo ka tao ang mag-asawa ug ang Ginoo. Atong e silsil sa alimpatakan sa atong mga kabatan-unan karon nga ang pakighilawas usa kini ka highest expression of love dili kay lust lang ang magpasulabe.

Ricx, sa gina ingon na nga ang kalibutan is not going back to phase one but going forward. Kun ang inyung henerasyon na usab na, nag paila nga di na kana mahibalik pa sa among henerasyon but yet we got divorced.

tingala sad ko nganong sigi ninyo pasanginlan ang lust? ang relationship nga wa nay lust mao to ang relationship nga naay chance ma guba. would you like to be in a relationship where your partner doesnt like you anymore or the other?

blame it on MONEY. kay ang relationhip nga walay money mao jud na makaguba sa relationship. lets be real.