From Psychology Today
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Size Up Wisely Think of professional beauties as aesthetic marvels (and genetic accidents). Don't compare yourself with them.
2. Reflect on Your Relationships
Partners have a big impact on how we view our looks. If we get a steady dose of fondness and acceptance, "it's like being in the glow of a romantic candlelit dinner—we are seen in the best possible light," says McGrath.
3. It's Not About You!
"Show up at a party with a group of friends and you'll automatically appear more attractive," says Carducci. "It's social capital -- it suggests that you know how to lead others and bring them together."
4. You're Instrumental
If you think of your body as an instrument, you'll see it as something that you can shape and transform,"
5. Get an Inner Makeover
Give more airtime to other aspects of your self-image. "Consciously think of why you are desirable to other people -- perhaps because they respect your competence or because you are warm and interesting. In the long run, these characteristics are more important to attraction than physical looks."
6. Be a Singular Sensation
I'm trying to let people know, 'I'm here and let's have a good time.' When you're in clothes that reflect who you are, you make it easier for others to talk to you -- and it's not how beautiful you are, but how approachable you are."
7. Get Older, Feel Better
We dread getting older, but there is evidence that people feel more attractive with age. "Older women tend to shed their self-consciousness
8. Beauty Is No Panacea
On average, attractive people are not happier than their homelier peers. A sense of optimism and hope, gratifying relationships and meaning and purpose in your life have much more influence on your happiness than do your looks
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