Author Topic: Marry a man/woman you love to talk to (Read 6337 times)

MikeLigalig.com · « **on:** August 27, 2009, 05:13:58 PM »

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

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hofelina · « **Reply #1 on:** August 27, 2009, 05:42:51 PM »

Tubag Bohol, gipakyaw man nimo ang imong thread, but in my opinion this is the only one that makes sense.

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Bambi · « **Reply #2 on:** August 27, 2009, 06:17:22 PM »

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

It is well-known that the longer ties of marriage..."mahutdan naman ug estorya". Sad to say, that the woman does the talking and the man never listen at all. My workmate from Hungary often said: "Husbands must have to undergo every two years technical check-up "TUV" like the cars .... suitable for the streets. And then subject for change if they will not meet the qualities strictly required. "

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #3 on:** August 27, 2009, 09:52:49 PM »

I agree! Manay mo tuo sad ko ani. Kay magka dugay like what Bayat said, mahutdan na mo ug storya!

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AsPo · « **Reply #4 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:25:53 PM »

bisan unsa lang god nga topic,aron di hutdan og estorya.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #5 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:32:12 PM »

bisan unsa lang god nga topic,aron di hutdan og estorya.

Cat murag parrot?? hahahaha!sigi lang storya!

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AsPo · « **Reply #6 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:37:00 PM »

oo og walay motubag kuhita imo kaestorya motingog lagi na.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #7 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:39:24 PM »

oo og walay motubag kuhita imo kaestorya motingog lagi na.

bwahahahha! basi ma five fingers noon ta??

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benelynne · « **Reply #8 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:43:57 PM »

Sadly, in marriage, man and woman invariably settle back to their natural state--woman loves to talk, man sometimes prefers the state of silence.

Women love to connect by talking, men are not as inclined to express what they feel inside. It's the way man and woman are constituted psychologically, according to Dr. John Gray.

Understanding our inner differences will enable the man to understand that when a woman says, "I didn't marry to talk to a wall," she really means she needs a hug and a token of appreciation for her long day; and the woman to understand that when a man seems withdrawn and without a word, he is saying "I am here for you, I am just processing some thoughts and even emotions inside which I don't really want you to worry about."

Real conversation between a couple is appreciating the woman's feelings behind her words, and the man's thoughts behind his silence.

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AsPo · « **Reply #9 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:44:05 PM »

ajaw tudlo gamita pagkuhit,kanang siko sumangil nasikhan ba.

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jamo2x · « **Reply #10 on:** August 27, 2009, 10:50:01 PM »

I agree! Manay mo tuo sad ko ani. Kay magka dugay like what Bayat said, mahutdan na mo ug storya!

diri na mogawas ang pag ka nagger...kasagaran mga baji nagger kay balik2x na ang storya morag daut nga plaka.

i disagree to the topic...kay naa man gani mga buta og amang (pipi) nga mag asawa, haruhay man japon ang relasyon

besides, action speaks louder than words man di ba

delicads lng sa uban laki kay mangawat og halok, ahhhhh sagpaan jud, kambal nga sagpa pa jud toinkz, ahahahahaha

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lindy · « **Reply #11 on:** August 30, 2009, 01:32:01 AM »

ang usa pod nga hinungdan nga wala na ang sweetness kon mag estorya. puro na lang banghag labi pag kapoy kuno kay magduty pa inig kabuntag. kini maoy kanunay nako gipahinumdom sa akong asawa nga kanang inig abot nako from work nya mutopad kog higda nya akong gakson ug hagkan, instead malipay unta moingon man hinuon nga samok diha kay sayo pa ko momata. wala man unta koy gusto nga makig sex, all i need is a hug, ug moingon maayo kay nia na diay ka. hala pahulay na kay parehas tang kapoy.mao nga ang resulta wala na nuoy tinganay ug moresulta pa gyud nga adto na lang sa couch matulog ug tv na lay kaestorya ug dulog.so i think dili lang lalaki angayan ipa tune up apil pod mong mga babaye.

It is well-known that the longer ties of marriage..."mahutdan naman ug estorya". Sad to say, that the woman does the talking and the man never listen at all. My workmate from Hungary often said: "Husbands must have to undergo every two years technical check-up "TUV" like the cars .... suitable for the streets. And then subject for change if they will not meet the qualities strictly required. "

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Mari · « **Reply #12 on:** August 30, 2009, 01:37:09 AM »

i disagree with that for my case, i talk less, my partner does much of the talking. i dont like nagging and i hate talking like a broken record. if argument is needed, id like it a run off, settle it one time and no recalls once it's settled, nagging is uncalled for and will make things worst.

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Bambi · « **Reply #13 on:** August 30, 2009, 01:48:18 AM »

ang usa pod nga hinungdan nga wala na ang sweetness kon mag estorya. puro na lang banghag labi pag kapoy kuno kay magduty pa inig kabuntag. kini maoy kanunay nako gipahinumdom sa akong asawa nga kanang inig abot nako from work nya mutopad kog higda nya akong gakson ug hagkan, instead malipay unta moingon man hinuon nga samok diha kay sayo pa ko momata. wala man unta koy gusto nga makig sex, all i need is a hug, ug moingon maayo kay nia na diay ka. hala pahulay na kay parehas tang kapoy.mao nga ang resulta wala na nuoy tinganay ug moresulta pa gyud nga adto na lang sa couch matulog ug tv na lay kaestorya ug dulog.so i think dili lang lalaki angayan ipa tune up apil pod mong mga babaye.

whahahaha mao bitaw nga advisable nga every room dunay TV.
lindy, okey lang unta kay gahigda pa man. Kiring ahong bana mao poy igakos-gakos kon duna koy dinalian nga trabahoon (magluto, mangtuwad-tuwad ug panghinlo) magsamok-2x hinoun. ahong ingnon....tabangi hinoun ko aron madali aron inigkahuman ang ahong pagtagad anha nimo gjod. moingon lang....your actions is too salacious!

unja moundang dayon ug hangyoon na nga patabangon.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #14 on:** August 30, 2009, 01:53:14 AM »

Jams, dili tanan nagger! i hate arguments and i hate fighting. I like to tell jokes more than nagging. Basta gani naa na mi mga confusions and misunderstandings, hilom kaayo ming duha, among balay murag way nagpujo! hahahha! until ma bugnaw na ang mga utok. Then we talked afterward. Ako kasagaran ang mo attack but in a nice way sagulan ug siaw ug bugalbugal! hahahha! Its just me.

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #15 on:** August 30, 2009, 03:41:41 AM »

whahahaha mao bitaw nga advisable nga every room dunay TV.
lindy, okey lang unta kay gahigda pa man. Kiring ahong bana mao poy igakos-gakos kon duna koy dinalian nga trabahoon (magluto, mangtuwad-tuwad ug panghinlo) magsamok-2x hinoun. ahong ingnon....tabangi hinoun ko aron madali aron inigkahuman ang ahong pagtagad anha nimo gjod. moingon lang....your actions is too salacious!

unja moundang dayon ug hangyoon na nga patabangon.

Kanindot anang gakson ah.Pagakos lang gud una unya ig human trabaho napod. or mag gakos while nag trabaho;D

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #16 on:** August 30, 2009, 03:54:20 AM »

Sadly, in marriage, man and woman invariably settle back to their natural state--woman loves to talk, man sometimes prefers the state of silence.

Women love to connect by talking, men are not as inclined to express what they feel inside. It's the way man and woman are constituted psychologically, according to Dr. John Gray.

Understanding our inner differences will enable the man to understand that when a woman says, "I didn't marry to talk to a wall," she really means she needs a hug and a token of appreciation for her long day; and the woman to understand that when a man seems withdrawn and without a word, he is saying "I am here for you, I am just processing some thoughts and even emotions inside which I don't really want you to worry about."

Real conversation between a couple is appreciating the woman's feelings behind her words, and the man's thoughts behind his silence.

I could not help but think about my parents in your accurate synopsis, Mr. Benne.

My father is a very quiet and reticent man. Mom doesn't talk much, but when she does she does so with dad. From my observation tho, though my father does not speak much, he likes it when we all talk, very content sija to have us all back in the house.

I agree, men tend to be more silent, thinking. Observant. Analyzing.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #17 on:** August 30, 2009, 03:58:16 AM »

My grandfather once opined, to my grandmother Lola Nating, "Nating, ngano mo kalingaw mo ratatat man ka?"

Away-away napood sila duha. lol!

Nakahinumdum ko sa una..

My lola was sickly and ning joke joke sija sa ahong Lolo Ciano. She was spitting phlem at the time, and she said to my lolo, "Ondoy Ciano, gi pinangga ba ko nimo? Ug pinangga ko nimo, inuma ahong phlem ( i forget the word she used to refer to mucus phlem)."

Then lolo responded immediately, "Saba dinha Nating."

LoL.

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #18 on:** August 30, 2009, 04:02:05 AM »

Speaking of lolas and lolo,I had memories of them too. Ako lola saba-an ako lolo very silent but magkasinabot man japon sila kay ig singhag sa ako lola kay gakson man sa ako lolo dayon.Nature sa babae ang tabian but tagsa ra ang nagger nga way rason.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #19 on:** August 30, 2009, 04:04:16 AM »

Maka katawa pood ni lagi.
I remember my parents, God Bless their hearts!, would argue about the simplest and littlest things.

Ning joke joke to silang duha one time.
Mommy said to dad, 'Rico, do you love me?'
Katawa si dad, "Saba dinha Lisa. Of course I love you. Taga-an gud ka upat nga anak"

LOL!

Ngek!

Mom and dad are so cute when they argue. Kai quick ra sila mo hilom. Mo make-up pa lol. Man and Wife jud.

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lindy · « **Reply #20 on:** August 30, 2009, 04:07:14 AM »

I think lifestyles sauna ug karon dako kaayo ug deperinsya nga nag contribute sa sobrang stress level nga nakaapekto sa usa ka magtiayon that always lead to misunderstanding.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #21 on:** August 30, 2009, 04:08:20 AM »

On a side note tho, my father is completely and utterly in love with my mom.

We had a father-to-son conversation before.

And my father once told me that my mom is the perfect mother. The perfect wife. Very forgiving, and hard working for her kids ug pamilya.

Hilak pa si dad. Pero I always tell him, "Daddy, don't argue kalingaw kai pinagga man jud ka ni mommy. You both love each other, sacrificed together, and loved together."

Its good to know that they still argue from time to time, pero happy man sila duha. Natural ra man ug mo away ang bana ug asawa.

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #22 on:** August 30, 2009, 04:12:56 AM »

I think lifestyles sauna ug karon dako kaayo ug deperinsya nga nag contribute sa sobrang stress level nga nakaapekto sa usa ka magtiayon that always lead to misunderstanding.

Tinuod,karon daghan kag competition sa imong time with your loved ones like gadgets etc etc..

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Moyhua · « **Reply #23 on:** August 30, 2009, 09:06:03 AM »

It is well-known that the longer ties of marriage..."mahutdan naman ug estorya". Sad to say, that the woman does the talking and the man never listen at all. My workmate from Hungary often said: "Husbands must have to undergo every two years technical check-up "TUV" like the cars .... suitable for the streets. And then subject for change if they will not meet the qualities strictly required. "

Agree! akong bana??? tarong lng sya ika storya kung ako na ingnan nga: " ang sama mong magsalita sa akin, iwan talaga kita." mo hilak dayon, dajong gakos unya mo ingon, "di mo ko kayang iwan kasi alam ko na mahal na mahal mo ako." lagot, pungot pod usahay!

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jorgeanna · « **Reply #24 on:** September 10, 2009, 02:26:00 PM »

this is the reason why i married my bestfriend....... we never run out of things to talk about

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