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The 2-year glitch, 7-year itch, 20-year switch
www.wordpress.comIt’s a cinch. Three monumental events face each marriage. Prevention starts years earlier. Avoidance is difficult. Recovery makes the steep slope slickier, but it toughens mates.
The two-year glitch arrives quietly as romantic love fades away in a couple’s second year together. Both undergo transformation. If an enduring kind of love has not developed mutually, separation is not far off.
The foundation for the man’s enduring love is laid in the respect she has earned, especially before conquest, and her likeability as a mate. The base of her enduring love is the current and anticipated gratefulness for him and what he does.
The seven-year itch arrives when his wandering eye opens. Devotion to her and commitment to vows are essential for survival.
She’s in charge. Seven years earlier she chose a man susceptible to wander. Or, she chose a man devoted instead of just committed to her; a man with sufficient character to honor his vows.
THIS IS INDEED A REALITY. SO MGA ASAWA NGA KUSOG UG KOMPYANSA KAAYO, PAGBANTAY GYUD KAY SI BAI HUBS WALA MAGKOMEDJA.
The twenty-year switch arrives when he wants to start over and hopes to do so with a trophy.
It’s a dream he’s harbored for years, because his sense of significance has been fading, needs rejuvenation, and he’s just dying to prove it to himself with an attractive woman.