Sea princess, why man dili gyud? In my case, I've one who stalks me at friendster - my ex and his wife. I feel that it's so pathetic but my husband thinks it's just OK. Weird. You have to respect each other's feelings if my other half explain to me in a mature and non demanding manner that it's not okay because ... I'll respect his wishes vice versa.
dili na! basig manumbalik unya ang mga kagahapon lisud na!
You must TRUST each other because no matter what you do or say if you really want to "play around" with an ex or someone else it will happen with or without your knowledge. You cannot keep an eye on him/her 24 hours a day or anytime or any night.
Why make things complicated - relationship is hard as it is already.
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