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By Ted Laguatan, Esq.
INQUIRER.net First Posted 10:11:00 10/10/2010 Filed Under: Migration, Crime and Law and Justice, Americas - Canada

CALIFORNIA, United Statesâ€"In January of this year, I wrote the following material which was published and included as a part of my regular column by three newspapers. It was a response to a letter sent by a reader. Since then, I have had so many requests to have the material reprinted. Here it is.

Dear Attorney, I am a 72-year-old retired accountant who did well in the US. A widower, I married my attractive 25-year-old wife three years ago. We come from the same barrio in Nueva Vizcaya. I brought her to the US and she certainly has a much better life now. I gave her parents a generous sum of money when we married and send them money now and then. I was very happy until I discovered her affair with a co-worker. I discovered the sizzling exchanges of romantic text messages in her cell phone. I confronted her and she tearfully confessed, asking for forgiveness. She says this young man had been very aggressive and she tried to resist but eventually gave in. She has been seeing him for three weeks now. I want to hurt this guy. I feel devastated and hurt by the betrayal. I want my wife deported. Can you please help me on this?â€"Ben

Dear Manong Ben, Here’s my take on your situation: I understand your anguish, confusion, and anger. You cannot eat, sleep, or concentrate. Conjured scenarios of your young wife in wild passionate sensual engagement swirl in your brain with tortuous repetition. Your initial reaction reeks of revenge: Deport her. Condemn her back to barrio poverty and boredom. Get a hit-man to bury this bum alive. Rip his head off. Chop off his thing.

You would not be human if you had no such reactions.

Cool it and look at reality and the big picture. Most likely she married you not so much for your Piolo Pascual looks but because of your tender waysâ€"legal tender that is. You made yourself attractive by going green. You showered her parents with green bucks. Your fat wallet and your blue US passport made you super pogi. You gave her an offer she could not refuse: escape from the barrio, a green card, nice clothes, nice cars, great food, a nice house and spending money. That’s fine. Hey, you do what you gotta do to achieve your goal. You made other old guys’ fantasies a reality. That shows guts. But Manong, marrying an attractive woman 47 years youngerâ€"I am sure you are awareâ€"has its risks. You assumed that risk.

Most likely she never intended to cheat on you. Extramarital affairs are often unintended. But shift happens. Her attention shifted to another guy. Kalibidohan, kakulangan, and kalungkutan are to blame, operating singularly or in combination.

It’s a friendly planet except when an old guy’s young attractive wife meets a young aggressive stallion. I am sure she initially resisted the stud’s advances but because of kalibidohan, that is, tyrannical biological and hormonal imperatives, resistance eventually converted to welcomed acceptance. Kakulangan is simply unsatisfied kalibidohan, which may have been a factor. Kalungkutan, loneliness, may have also played a part.

What then? Anger, hate, resentment, thoughts of revenge? These won’t help. These destructive negatives increase your blood pressure, eat you up, and drown you in constant misery and depression. They can even drive you to insanity.

What then should you do? Here’s my advice: For your psychological-emotional survival and because it is the right and good thing to do, unconditionally forgive her and cease demonizing her.

Deeply understand that she is only human like all of us. Once you forgive her and forget her indiscretions, your peace will come back to you. The tightness in your chest, the headaches, sleepless nights, thoughts of revengeâ€"all will vanish like sidewalk ice melted by the hot sun. You can then proceed with your life. Forgiving heals your hurt and makes you feel good about yourself. This is good science.

Forget about deporting her. Revenge and bitterness won’t do much good. And, since you had a genuine good faith marriage, a good lawyer can prevent her from being deported. I know I can.

If she leaves you or if you leave her, genuinely wish her well. You gave her a chance for a better life. Be happy about that. You made a big difference in one person’s lifeâ€"maybe several persons, if you include her family. In exchange, you had her for three good years, enjoyed her company, made love to her. She made you feel young again. She may even have been a good cook.

Do your crying, sincerely forgive, forget, and move on. Don’t let your dark side dominate.

If you cannot really live without her, then tell her so. Love her not only as a wife but as a human being. Affirm your love despite her extramarital liaisons. Risk being a fool. It’s all right. Love begets love, especially true, honest-to-goodness love. Who knows, she might get tired of her young lothario and appreciate you more and truly love you.

If this does not work, nothing prevents you from divorcing her, returning to your barrio and marrying another woman. Maybe Manong, a little older this time? Good luck. Take care.â€"Ted]  By Ted Laguatan, Esq.
INQUIRER.net First Posted 10:11:00 10/10/2010 Filed Under: Migration, Crime and Law and Justice, Americas - Canada

CALIFORNIA, United Statesâ€"In January of this year, I wrote the following material which was published and included as a part of my regular column by three newspapers. It was a response to a letter sent by a reader. Since then, I have had so many requests to have the material reprinted. Here it is.

Dear Attorney, I am a 72-year-old retired accountant who did well in the US. A widower, I married my attractive 25-year-old wife three years ago. We come from the same barrio in Nueva Vizcaya. I brought her to the US and she certainly has a much better life now. I gave her parents a generous sum of money when we married and send them money now and then. I was very happy until I discovered her affair with a co-worker. I discovered the sizzling exchanges of romantic text messages in her cell phone. I confronted her and she tearfully confessed, asking for forgiveness. She says this young man had been very aggressive and she tried to resist but eventually gave in. She has been seeing him for three weeks now. I want to hurt this guy. I feel devastated and hurt by the betrayal. I want my wife deported. Can you please help me on this?â€"Ben

Dear Manong Ben, Here’s my take on your situation: I understand your anguish, confusion, and anger. You cannot eat, sleep, or concentrate. Conjured scenarios of your young wife in wild passionate sensual engagement swirl in your brain with tortuous repetition. Your initial reaction reeks of revenge: Deport her. Condemn her back to barrio poverty and boredom. Get a hit-man to bury this bum alive. Rip his head off. Chop off his thing.

You would not be human if you had no such reactions.

Cool it and look at reality and the big picture. Most likely she married you not so much for your Piolo Pascual looks but because of your tender waysâ€"legal tender that is. You made yourself attractive by going green. You showered her parents with green bucks. Your fat wallet and your blue US passport made you super pogi. You gave her an offer she could not refuse: escape from the barrio, a green card, nice clothes, nice cars, great food, a nice house and spending money. That’s fine. Hey, you do what you gotta do to achieve your goal. You made other old guys’ fantasies a reality. That shows guts. But Manong, marrying an attractive woman 47 years youngerâ€"I am sure you are awareâ€"has its risks. You assumed that risk.

Most likely she never intended to cheat on you. Extramarital affairs are often unintended. But shift happens. Her attention shifted to another guy. Kalibidohan, kakulangan, and kalungkutan are to blame, operating singularly or in combination.

It’s a friendly planet except when an old guy’s young attractive wife meets a young aggressive stallion. I am sure she initially resisted the stud’s advances but because of kalibidohan, that is, tyrannical biological and hormonal imperatives, resistance eventually converted to welcomed acceptance. Kakulangan is simply unsatisfied kalibidohan, which may have been a factor. Kalungkutan, loneliness, may have also played a part.

What then? Anger, hate, resentment, thoughts of revenge? These won’t help. These destructive negatives increase your blood pressure, eat you up, and drown you in constant misery and depression. They can even drive you to insanity.

What then should you do? Here’s my advice: For your psychological-emotional survival and because it is the right and good thing to do, unconditionally forgive her and cease demonizing her.

Deeply understand that she is only human like all of us. Once you forgive her and forget her indiscretions, your peace will come back to you. The tightness in your chest, the headaches, sleepless nights, thoughts of revengeâ€"all will vanish like sidewalk ice melted by the hot sun. You can then proceed with your life. Forgiving heals your hurt and makes you feel good about yourself. This is good science.

Forget about deporting her. Revenge and bitterness won’t do much good. And, since you had a genuine good faith marriage, a good lawyer can prevent her from being deported. I know I can.

If she leaves you or if you leave her, genuinely wish her well. You gave her a chance for a better life. Be happy about that. You made a big difference in one person’s lifeâ€"maybe several persons, if you include her family. In exchange, you had her for three good years, enjoyed her company, made love to her. She made you feel young again. She may even have been a good cook.

Do your crying, sincerely forgive, forget, and move on. Don’t let your dark side dominate.

If you cannot really live without her, then tell her so. Love her not only as a wife but as a human being. Affirm your love despite her extramarital liaisons. Risk being a fool. It’s all right. Love begets love, especially true, honest-to-goodness love. Who knows, she might get tired of her young lothario and appreciate you more and truly love you.

If this does not work, nothing prevents you from divorcing her, returning to your barrio and marrying another woman. Maybe Manong, a little older this time? Good luck. Take care.â€"Ted

good advice.

The old fool deserves all that mental anguish and then some.

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 10, 2010, 06:11:44 PM
The old fool deserves all that mental anguish and then some.

Wag naman manong Hoboi, just because he's 72.... he has still the right to love and to be love Gamay nalang baja ija moments sa earth. Why not spend it with love and happiness? My good wishes for him... God bless the old guy

Quote from: luckybelle on October 10, 2010, 09:25:11 PM
Wag naman manong Hoboi, just because he's 72.... he has still the right to love and to be love Gamay nalang baja ija moments sa earth. Why not spend it with love and happiness? My good wishes for him... God bless the old guy

Kon gusto siyag bata, kinilo na lang unta. He shouldn't have bought the whole cow. 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 10, 2010, 09:32:05 PM
Kon gusto siyag bata, kinilo na lang unta. He shouldn't have bought the whole cow.  

Maajo manag whole cow kay hinay-hinay ra ug hurot pwede tiil unay lapwahan.... unja sunod buwan inig buhi pa ang cow pwede ang isa napud ka tiil... Libre pa minti ug gatas. Inig sum-ulan pwede ihawon ibaligya. Makaginansya pa.

Quote from: luckybelle on October 10, 2010, 09:38:05 PM
Maajo manag whole cow kay hinay-hinay ra ug hurot pwede tiil unay lapwahan.... unja sunod buwan inig buhi pa ang cow pwede ang isa napud ka tiil... Libre pa minti ug gatas. Inig sum-ulan pwede ihawon ibaligya. Makaginansya pa.

He he, ang nakadaot lang sa iyang whole cow kay gisayonsayon lang og syomoy sa usa ka young bull... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 10, 2010, 09:43:28 PM
He he, ang nakadaot lang sa iyang whole cow kay gisayonsayon lang og syomoy sa usa ka young bull... 

Asus, nganong gaproblema ba sija, nga niuli naman sa ija ang cow... Mag-andam ra gud sija ug kwartahan na buyer inig mobalik ang young bull... basin diay naay gusto mopalit pud ug young bull

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 10, 2010, 09:32:05 PM
Kon gusto siyag bata, kinilo na lang unta. He shouldn't have bought the whole cow. 

..pareha silang duha...milking cow?

Quote from: luckybelle on October 10, 2010, 09:48:54 PM
Asus, nganong gaproblema ba sija, nga niuli naman sa ija ang cow... Mag-andam ra gud sija ug kwartahan na buyer inig mobalik ang young bull... basin diay naay gusto mopalit pud ug young bull

Mao bitaw nga dili na lang unta niya problemahon. Hunahunaon na lang niya nga it's part of the package. Sa iyang edad di na unta siya angay madismaya sa mga isyu kabahin sa kamasalad-on sa tawo ug sa kahaguka sa pagbati sa mga anak ni Eba...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 10, 2010, 09:57:42 PM
Mao bitaw nga dili na lang unta niya problemahon. Hunahunaon na lang niya nga it's part of the package. Sa iyang edad di na unta siya angay madismaya sa mga isyu kabahin sa kamasalad-on sa tawo ug sa kahaguka sa pagbati sa mga anak ni Eba...

Bwahahahaha

Luoy pero, he deserved it. Kahibalo na siya mao na mahitabo.

Quote from: wolfpack823 on October 10, 2010, 11:26:17 PM
Luoy pero, he deserved it. Kahibalo na siya mao na mahitabo.

Quote from: vrglguapo on October 10, 2010, 04:09:23 PM
Cool it and look at reality and the big picture. Most likely she married you not so much for your Piolo Pascual looks but because of your tender waysâ€"legal tender that is. You made yourself attractive by going green. You showered her parents with green bucks. Your fat wallet and your blue US passport made you super pogi. You gave her an offer she could not refuse: escape from the barrio, a green card, nice clothes, nice cars, great food, a nice house and spending money. That’s fine. Hey, you do what you gotta do to achieve your goal. You made other old guys’ fantasies a reality. That shows guts. But Manong, marrying an attractive woman 47 years youngerâ€"I am sure you are awareâ€"has its risks. You assumed that risk.

Indeed, you pay for what you want--in more ways than one. Parehas ni sa giingon ni Oscar Wilde:  "There are two tragedies in life. One is not to get your heart's desire. The other is to get it."

There's nothing worst than an old fool.....

Quote from: statesville on October 11, 2010, 10:55:17 AM
There's nothing worst than an old fool.....

Bitaw, OK lang ang young fool. Pero kon old fool, makaingon jud tag, "Mirisi"... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 11:01:36 AM
Bitaw, OK lang ang young fool. Pero kon old fool, makaingon jud tag, "Mirisi"... 

hahahaha,asa man diay ta padung bai kung di sa  old fool pud

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 11, 2010, 12:28:39 PM
hahahaha,asa man diay ta padung bai kung di sa  old fool pud

Matiguwang ko bay magkinilo ra ko oi...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 12:32:03 PM
Matiguwang ko bay magkinilo ra ko oi...

hahahah,bai akoy supplier

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 11, 2010, 12:33:28 PM
hahahah,bai akoy supplier

Klaroha bay, basig pinilian ray imong ipagamit...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 12:36:21 PM
Klaroha bay, basig pinilian ray imong ipagamit...

puro bag-o bai basta ikaw,wa pay gamit

Quote from: statesville on October 11, 2010, 10:55:17 AM
There's nothing worst than an old fool.....

strange, but i have no sympathy for this old fool.  did he ever think that he could buy love?  if he did, well, he got the proper loose change.

for hubag and vito andoline, a loving message:

you, two middle-aged fools!

Quote from: islander on October 11, 2010, 01:18:52 PM
strange, but i have no sympathy for this old fool.  did he ever think that he could buy love?  if he did, well, he got the proper loose change.

Nisamot ka-loose ang sa iyang whole cow kay perming gimakmak sa young bull. 

Quote from: islander on October 11, 2010, 01:20:51 PM
for hubag and vito andoline, a loving message:

you, two middle-aged fools!

Middle-aged, sigi na lang. But fools? Hah! Certainly not in the sense of this thread. 

Quote from: islander on October 11, 2010, 01:18:52 PM
strange, but i have no sympathy for this old fool.  did he ever think that he could buy love?  if he did, well, he got the proper loose change.

hahahaha,basin mapalit  nya murag si peter

Quote from: islander on October 11, 2010, 01:20:51 PM
for hubag and vito andoline, a loving message:

you, two middle-aged fools!

hahahaha,minor age fool pa ko  islander

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 02:11:03 PM
Nisamot ka-loose ang sa iyang whole cow kay perming gimakmak sa young bull. 

hahahah,nangumbitay ang kunot bai

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 02:15:12 PM
Middle-aged, sigi na lang. But fools? Hah! Certainly not in the sense of this thread. 

ayaw angkon bai para di mahibaw-an

"Old Carabao Likes To Eat Young Grass"

Only this time, there is a slight twist.

"Old Carabao Likes To Eat  Young Grass, but when the old carabao took a nap, the young bull devoured the basak.." 


tsk tsk tsk   

Quote from: Lorenzo on October 11, 2010, 02:33:08 PM
"Old Carabao Likes To Eat Young Grass"

Only this time, there is a slight twist.

"Old Carabao Likes To Eat  Young Grass, but when the old carabao took a nap, the young bull devoured the basak.." 


tsk tsk tsk   

hahaha,bantay salakay

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 11, 2010, 02:21:26 PM
ayaw angkon bai para di mahibaw-an

Maayo ning nagtuo sila nga edaran ta bay aron magdahom sila nga daghan tag kwarta...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 11, 2010, 02:50:11 PM
Maayo ning nagtuo sila nga edaran ta bay aron magdahom sila nga daghan tag kwarta...

hahahaha,basin sulongon ka ana bai paonan ka ug  18 anyos

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 11, 2010, 03:06:16 PM
hahahaha,basin sulongon ka ana bai paonan ka ug  18 anyos

Aw, makapaniba jud tag ahat kon maohon!

Quote from: Lorenzo on October 11, 2010, 02:33:08 PM
"Old Carabao Likes To Eat Young Grass"

Only this time, there is a slight twist.

"Old Carabao Likes To Eat  Young Grass, but when the old carabao took a nap, the young bull devoured the basak.." 


tsk tsk tsk   

bwahahaha

hehehe mao lagi, luuy pood si manoy...

Quote from: Lorenzo on October 11, 2010, 11:08:10 PM
hehehe mao lagi, luuy pood si manoy...

Mao gani basta mahilig gyud kay Daisy.. ( sais,siete, otso, nuebe), unsa man diay? Mao gyud na mahitabo.

At 75 he should have bee enjoying his golden years ; na unsaon naman nag heart ache napood sija.

“Older men are to be self-controlled, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love, and endurance. In the same way, older women are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not addicted to much wine. [They are] to teach what is good” (Titus 2:2-3).

Manoy was not being self-controlled and sensible.     

That is true. Para nako dili dapat magregret si Manoy...

In fact from moralist's point of view. Immoral ang gihimo ni Manoy eh, he lured a poor young girl from the barrio in exchange for sex and taking care of him. He used his money to exploit the vulnerabilites of this young woman, whose only dream is to get out of poverty and maybe to help her family.

Who are we to judge on how a  75 year old man live his life.We all are going in that direction.What do you call it Ageism? reflects a prejudice in society aginst older adults.He has a heart like you and me capable of feeling alone and longing to be with someone we care.SHE should know what she is getting into when he married him.Duh!

Quote from: wolfpack823 on October 11, 2010, 11:49:04 PM
That is true. Para nako dili dapat magregret si Manoy...

In fact from moralist's point of view. Immoral ang gihimo ni Manoy eh, he lured a poor young girl from the barrio in exchange for sex and taking care of him. He used his money to exploit the vulnerabilites of this young woman, whose only dream is to get out of poverty and maybe to help her family.

Good point, Wolf.

Kidding and joking aside, I do feel bad for this old man. In his old dotage (and as a widower) he was lonely, so he married a younger woman. However, it seems that the young woman was unsatisfied with him. 

Quote from: cujo on October 12, 2010, 01:50:46 AM
SHE should know what she is getting into when he married him.Duh!

Perhaps she did, Cujo, and saw him as a one-way-ticket.

As an accountant, he forgot to do his calculation
                         before jumping into conclusion
Here's a word for you;  do not deport your wife
     keep on going green and make it more attractive
     buy a huge life insurance maybe 3 or 5 million dollars
     and have your young wife as beneficiary......
     
     
         

Quote from: Lorenzo on October 12, 2010, 02:08:31 AM
Perhaps she did, Cujo, and saw him as a one-way-ticket.

You know what they say "Be careful what you wish for."

Quote from: statesville on October 12, 2010, 05:16:15 AM
As an accountant, he forgot to do his calculation
                         before jumping into conclusion
Here's a word for you;  do not deport your wife
     keep on going green and make it more attractive
     buy a huge life insurance maybe 3 or 5 million dollars
     and have your young wife as beneficiary......
     
     
         

Bwahahahahahaha............ korek madam.. e-enjoy nalang nija ang nahibilin nija na time with his young wife. Kay kung ija kunuhay ipadeport na maghanap na pud sija ug young grass unja basin this time naa na jud daan nagsabsab na young bull....
Bwe....hehehehe.... hay naku... pasaylua nalang  manoy... isipa nalang nagbakasyon lang si young wife kadali then move on. Kay kung dili basin matigok ka sa heartache... sus maglabad ra imo ulo ana, masakit ka tigok...

Quote from: wolfpack823 on October 11, 2010, 11:49:04 PM
That is true. Para nako dili dapat magregret si Manoy...

In fact from moralist's point of view. Immoral ang gihimo ni Manoy eh, he lured a poor young girl from the barrio in exchange for sex and taking care of him. He used his money to exploit the vulnerabilites of this young woman, whose only dream is to get out of poverty and maybe to help her family.

Di pud tingali lalim ang kalisod sa sitwasyon sa baje kay siyempre naay maghunahuna nga kwarta ray ijang giapas (which is very probably true and which we commonly perceive to be as reprehensible as the old man's intentions). Dili kalikayan nga gihimo sijang kataw-anan sa ijang peers (out of envy perhaps, or just plain deviltry). In this equation, I would expect the older spouse to possess the greater capacity to withstand the pain that their lopsided relationship is sure to unleash upon them.

Quote from: luckybelle on October 12, 2010, 07:56:27 AM
Bwahahahahahaha............ korek madam.. e-enjoy nalang nija ang nahibilin nija na time with his young wife. Kay kung ija kunuhay ipadeport na maghanap na pud sija ug young grass unja basin this time naa na jud daan nagsabsab na young bull....
Bwe....hehehehe.... hay naku... pasaylua nalang  manoy... isipa nalang nagbakasyon lang si young wife kadali then move on. Kay kung dili basin matigok ka sa heartache... sus maglabad ra imo ulo ana, masakit ka tigok...

He he, bitaw, who knows? Basin mas passionate towards her doddering husband ang young wife sa mga higayon nga gikan siya sa usa ka makabalig-bukog-makahislot-og-panit nga kombate uban sa iyang raging bull...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 08:07:31 AM
He he, bitaw, who knows? Basin mas passionate towards her doddering husband ang young wife sa mga higayon nga gikan siya sa usa ka makabalig-bukog-makahislot-og-panit nga kombate uban sa iyang raging bull...

A sa ato pa nagresearch ra diay ug new techniques... Unja love is sweeter the second time around kay manong ug inday

Quote from: luckybelle on October 12, 2010, 08:15:45 AM
A sa ato pa nagresearch ra diay ug new techniques... Unja love is sweeter the second time around kay manong ug inday

In this case, angay pasalamatan ni lolo si young bull... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 08:18:05 AM
In this case, angay pasalamatan ni lolo si young bull... 

Bwehehehehehe......... you think so?.. a para sa high-techniques... basin pud noh... basin nakupas na ang power ni lolo

Quote from: luckybelle on October 12, 2010, 08:19:45 AM
Bwehehehehehe......... you think so?.. a para sa high-techniques... basin pud noh... basin nakupas na ang power ni lolo

Gawas pa, nganong idawo man gud ni lolo ang iyang pinalit nga asawa? Manghuwam ra bitaw mi, di man ni mangangkon... 

Quote from: statesville on October 12, 2010, 05:16:15 AM
As an accountant, he forgot to do his calculation
                         before jumping into conclusion
Here's a word for you;  do not deport your wife
     keep on going green and make it more attractive
     buy a huge life insurance maybe 3 or 5 million dollars
     and have your young wife as beneficiary......
     
     
         

Delikado basin hiloan sa asawa niya unya tigok dayon ..Lipaylipay unya sila sa iyang toyboy..sa nakuha nga insurance..

Manghuwam ra bitaw mi,...




Apil diay ka nanghuwam sa ija wiffy bay Hubs?

Quote from: luckybelle on October 12, 2010, 03:13:08 PM
Manghuwam ra bitaw mi,...




Apil diay ka nanghuwam sa ija wiffy bay Hubs?

He he, pila ra guy estorya...

...wa ta kahibawo, matinuod diay... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 01:33:52 PM
Gawas pa, nganong idawo man gud ni lolo ang iyang pinalit nga asawa? Manghuwam ra bitaw mi, di man ni mangangkon... 

di man tingali sa nagdinawo si lolo.  gigastohan man god pod sa batang asawa kamong mga boytoy nga nanghuwam.  bayronon pa god ni lolo sa iyang credit card ang gigasto sa inyo ni mrs bata.  sobra na man pod.  padung na baya pod mo ma-lolo...

Quote from: islander on October 12, 2010, 05:29:20 PM
di man tingali sa nagdinawo si lolo.  gigastohan man god pod sa batang asawa kamong mga boytoy nga nanghuwam.  bayronon pa god ni lolo sa iyang credit card ang gigasto sa inyo ni mrs bata.  sobra na man pod.  padung na baya pod mo ma-lolo...

Quote from: islander on October 12, 2010, 05:29:20 PM
di man tingali sa nagdinawo si lolo.  gigastohan man god pod sa batang asawa kamong mga boytoy nga nanghuwam.  bayronon pa god ni lolo sa iyang credit card ang gigasto sa inyo ni mrs bata.  sobra na man pod.  padung na baya pod mo ma-lolo...

Mabulahan siya sa iyang kaayo kay daghan ang nag-ampo nga taas pa ang iyang kinabuhi...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 05:44:46 PM
Mabulahan siya sa iyang kaayo kay daghan ang nag-ampo nga taas pa ang iyang kinabuhi...

sd

Quote from: BolBuhol on October 12, 2010, 06:02:54 PM
sd

Paktakon ba ini Bay Bolbs?

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 06:48:13 PM
Paktakon ba ini Bay Bolbs?

unsa mana bai?

Quote from: Vito Andoline link=topic=32944.msg411221#mBolbs kon tigmo mba ning iyahagsg411221 date=1286889717
unsa mana bai?

He he, nangutana ko ni Bay Bolbs kon tigmo ba ning iyang duha ka letra...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 09:25:59 PM
He he, nangutana ko ni Bay Bolbs kon tigmo ba ning iyang duha ka letra...

hahahah,basin sexual drive na bai iya lang gimubo

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 12, 2010, 09:27:41 PM
hahahah,basin sexual drive na bai iya lang gimubo

Bitaw. Pwede pud sick dog...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 12, 2010, 09:56:15 PM
Bitaw. Pwede pud sick dog...

basin pud ug sit down

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 13, 2010, 10:23:55 PM
basin pud ug sit down

Rocking the boat na lang kon maohon.

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 14, 2010, 12:20:50 PM
Rocking the boat na lang kon maohon.

basin murag gi jakan bai

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 14, 2010, 06:20:17 PM
basin murag gi jakan bai

Mao nga nituwad?

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 14, 2010, 07:03:37 PM
Mao nga nituwad?

basin pud naay gikuha

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 14, 2010, 07:39:24 PM
basin pud naay gikuha

Burag opportunity diay ni kay nituwad man...

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 14, 2010, 07:45:25 PM
Burag opportunity diay ni kay nituwad man...

mahilig siguro ug ingon ani  na porma bai...shoot man daun

Kini wa motuwad pero pwede na...

 ing ana jud ko permi matulog uhm ..cruz my heart

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 14, 2010, 08:16:42 PM
Kini wa motuwad pero pwede na...

basin nagpa init ra na bai

Quote from: Scarb on October 14, 2010, 08:19:37 PM
ing ana jud ko permi matulog uhm ..cruz my heart

Aw, kon way ytnap, easy target jud... 

Quote from: Scarb on October 14, 2010, 08:19:37 PM
ing ana jud ko permi matulog uhm ..cruz my heart

mura diay ug sige  imagine na nakapatong....hahahaha

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 15, 2010, 11:15:48 AM
Aw, kon way ytnap, easy target jud... 

sayon ra bukakaon bai...hahahahah

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 15, 2010, 04:09:43 PM
mura diay ug sige  imagine na nakapatong....hahahaha

ngak§  dli ko katulog ug dli magkulob ing ana jud isaka ang uza ka paa..

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 15, 2010, 04:10:20 PM
sayon ra bukakaon bai...hahahahah

dli pwede ky naay dako nga unlan tandayan ngeks..

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 15, 2010, 04:10:20 PM
sayon ra bukakaon bai...hahahahah

Lisod pa diay ang tuway nga ligwatan bay...

Quote from: Scarb on October 15, 2010, 06:20:02 PM
 

ngak§  dli ko katulog ug dli magkulob ing ana jud isaka ang uza ka paa..

Little Scarbaby in dreamland...

Quote from: Scarb on October 15, 2010, 06:20:02 PM
 

ngak§  dli ko katulog ug dli magkulob ing ana jud isaka ang uza ka paa..

daw nagapabangtang gid ya

Quote from: BolBuhol on October 15, 2010, 08:27:23 PM
daw nagapabangtang gid ya

Bisan dili hingigo makatultol gid sang gawang sang kalangitan kun tuadles bla.

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 15, 2010, 08:33:26 PM
Bisan dili hingigo makatultol gid sang gawang sang kalangitan kun tuadles bla.

hang partida gid sir hubag bohol daw managasawang bulag gid nagtingala gid ko mang kong way gid silang nagkaanak gang parehon mang mga indi gid igkita bla, perom sa akong gid bastag mag tuaadles lang gid bangtang gid pro kag bolbolsbohols ays kag gihapong

Quote from: BolBuhol on October 15, 2010, 08:44:58 PM
hang partida gid sir hubag bohol daw managasawang bulag gid nagtingala gid ko mang kong way gid silang nagkaanak gang parehon mang mga indi gid igkita bla, perom sa akong gid bastag mag tuaadles lang gid bangtang gid pro kag bolbolsbohols ays kag gihapong

naghisgot man sang 'to Bol kang tuadles gid nga dugay ramang gid napisok, bla..

nag-inintsik ka? 

Quote from: islander on October 15, 2010, 11:28:46 PM
nag-inintsik ka? 

inilonggo, pero jama-jama...hehehe

ughhh...nangamay na pod ang akong lampakan ug ang unlan nga buslot...

babusimos...

- dia ay nagpiyong na ang pikas mata.

hangtolog na gid ko pod babay nang sang tanang onlayn madam islex mowah mod nayt

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 15, 2010, 07:47:41 PM
Little Scarbaby in dreamland...

Whew ka cute sang baby bla..abir indi gid akon ing ana haw? 

Quote from: BolBuhol on October 15, 2010, 08:27:23 PM
daw nagapabangtang gid ya

parang amgid bla aba mag sul-ot man pyjama ngak§ 

Quote from: BolBuhol on October 15, 2010, 08:44:58 PM
hang partida gid sir hubag bohol daw managasawang bulag gid nagtingala gid ko mang kong way gid silang nagkaanak gang parehon mang mga indi gid igkita bla, perom sa akong gid bastag mag tuaadles lang gid bangtang gid pro kag bolbolsbohols ays kag gihapong

anu man gid sang ginahambal mo haw? mag pangadje ka parang makaturog mahimbing? 

Quote from: Scarb on October 15, 2010, 06:20:02 PM
 

ngak§  dli ko katulog ug dli magkulob ing ana jud isaka ang uza ka paa..

mura diay sa kamasutra na porma...hahahaha

Quote from: Scarb on October 15, 2010, 06:20:02 PM
 

ngak§  dli ko katulog ug dli magkulob ing ana jud isaka ang uza ka paa..

Hmm. Mora man nig nangandam para sa leapfrog position... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on October 16, 2010, 02:15:12 PM
Hmm. Mora man nig nangandam para sa leapfrog position... 

shoot  pirmanente ug maingon ana  bai

Quote from: Vito Andoline on October 16, 2010, 02:18:22 PM
shoot  pirmanente ug maingon ana  bai

Di na diay motak-om kon maohon... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on November 16, 2010, 02:44:20 PM
Di na diay motak-om kon maohon... 

di na kay buhag hag na bai..

Quote from: Vito Andoline on November 16, 2010, 03:13:55 PM
di na kay buhag hag na bai..

Bisan unsaog kipi? Paet... 

Quote from: hubag bohol on November 16, 2010, 03:20:31 PM
Bisan unsaog kipi? Paet... 

mosingaw gihapon.

Quote from: Vito Andoline on November 16, 2010, 03:27:02 PM
mosingaw gihapon.

Puston diayg maayo aron dili mangalimyon...

Quote from: hubag bohol on November 17, 2010, 09:21:11 AM
Puston diayg maayo aron dili mangalimyon...

mobaho gihapon bai kay murag bahong kabahong