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When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and  said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know   what I was thinking.  "I want a divorce!" I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,   "Why"? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me   you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I  could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, she had lost my heart to a  lovely girl called Dew.

I didn't love her anymore..I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated  that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.   She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent  ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for  her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I  had said for I loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected  to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of  divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and  clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something  at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell  asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
 
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not  care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want  anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a  life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a  months time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our brokenmarriage. This was agreeable to me.. But she had something more, she asked me to  recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.  She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of  our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going  crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd  request. I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and  thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to  face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intentionwas  explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we  both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy  in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to  the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with herin  my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, don't tell our son about  the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside  the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the  office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my  chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I  hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realised she  was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair  was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I  wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life tome. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday work-out made me  stronger.
 
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few  dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my  dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so  thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.  Suddenly it hit me, .. she had buried so much pain and bitterness inher  heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
 
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.  To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an  essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer  and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I  might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms,  walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her  hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly,  it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me  sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a  step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked  upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not  want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a  fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I  won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I  didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each  other any more. Now I realise that since I carried her into my home on  our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and thenslammed  the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
 
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property , the money in the bank, blah..blah.. blah. These create an environment conducive for  happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be  your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that  build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you just might save a marriage.

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Don't forget to be kind to strangers. For some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it.

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« Reply #1 on: July 20, 2007, 09:16:00 AM »
wowww this is a very inspiring story.I hope there will be no more broken marriages.

I want to live by the moment and worry no more about my future because I know that God has already made the best plan for me. All I have to do is be faithful to HIM all the time. GOD rocks!

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« Reply #2 on: July 20, 2007, 03:43:06 PM »
very touching :'(

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« Reply #3 on: July 20, 2007, 07:01:45 PM »
Yes, its a very touching story, thanks for sharing ghost  :)

Thats why I like Kenny Rogers song Buy Me Rose
"There's no perfect life, but we can let God fill it with perfect moments"

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« Reply #4 on: July 21, 2007, 11:08:25 AM »
cel,wala lagi ko kadungog ana na kantaha :(

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« Reply #5 on: July 22, 2007, 10:28:20 PM »
gen nindot jud kaayo.. lyrics and music

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75LilQTpXec

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Buy Me A Rose lyrics

Artist - Kenny Rogers
Album - Various Songs
Lyrics - Buy Me A Rose

He works hard to give her all he thinks she wants
Three car garage, her own credit cards
He pulls in late to wake her up with a kiss goodnight
If he could only read her mind
She'd say:

Buy me a rose
Call me from work
Open a door for me what would it hurt
Show me you love me by the look in your eyes
These are the litte things
I need the most of my life

Now the days have grown
to years of feeling all alone
She can't help but wonder what she's doing wrong
Lately she try anything to turn his head
Would it make a difference if she'd say:

Buy me a rose
Call me from work
Open the door for me what would it hurt
Show me you love me by the look in your eyes
These are the litte things
I need the most in my life

And the more that he lives
The less that he tries
To show her the love that he holds inside
And the more that she gives
The more that he sees
This is the story of you
and me

So I bought you a rose
On the way home from work
to open the door to a heart that i hurt
And I hoped you noticed this look in my eyes
cause im gonna make things right
For the rest of your life(rest of your life)
And I'm gonna hold you tonight
do all those little things
for the rest of your life.
 

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« Reply #6 on: July 23, 2007, 12:38:37 PM »
thanks,cel :-*

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« Reply #7 on: July 23, 2007, 12:50:46 PM »
a very inspiring story...i like this one...
Love urself ,Flirt with ur understanding,Romance with dreams,Get engaged with simplicity,Marry genuiness,Divorce the ego...Thats Good Life...

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« Reply #8 on: July 23, 2007, 11:07:12 PM »

walay sapayan gen  :-*

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« Reply #9 on: July 25, 2007, 01:15:12 AM »
nice story! I'm glad they had there second chance...

and cel..that's a nice song.

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« Reply #10 on: July 25, 2007, 01:22:38 AM »
nice one i like it much..
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« Reply #11 on: July 25, 2007, 01:59:05 AM »

Yes jud, the song is nice. Thats what I always tell to my hubby, pero ang natuman tawag ra jud sa telefon, walay buwak hahahaha.. Maayo nalang haapy naman sab ko sa call  :)

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« Reply #12 on: July 25, 2007, 02:09:10 AM »

I know you are cel and I'm glad! I witnessed it with my one week stay in your place. Thanks for letting me spend my first week vacation in Lolland. I will send you some pics when I'm back in Norway next week.

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« Reply #13 on: July 25, 2007, 02:21:36 AM »
Thanks Hazel  :-*

Wala pa nako na send ang mga pics pud kay naa sa com sa usang tawo, busy sa football, unsa pa peng  :D

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« Reply #14 on: July 25, 2007, 01:53:41 PM »
Thanks for posting this story...

Now I need to satisfy my urge
to carry a woman from my bed to the front door!
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« Reply #15 on: July 25, 2007, 02:26:22 PM »
GEC348, hehehe

:)

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« Reply #16 on: July 25, 2007, 09:00:25 PM »

aheheh I thought you do more than that..

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« Reply #17 on: July 25, 2007, 09:02:10 PM »

You can carry me, Ginger.  Grrr ;D

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« Reply #18 on: July 25, 2007, 09:04:16 PM »

aw! I think I can but not physically. ;D

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« Reply #19 on: July 25, 2007, 09:07:47 PM »
Yeah.... :) it's all in the mind, Ginger.  Meowww ;D



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