Dear Boholana wife,
A lil jealousy in every relationship sparks the romance upbeat. It is in fact needed once in a while to perk up a very comfortable and dormant 10 or 20-year relationship. It reminds the partners that hey, I do care!
However, you are not in this situation. It seems to me that your husband's jealousy has gone overboard. How unreasonable it is to get jealous even with your female friends. This is what you call, INSECURITY. Yes, your husband is suffering from insecurities and it has taken its toll on you and the relationship.
What do do? Assure him that he's the only one. Tell him sweet nothings out of the blue. If you need to lie for this, then you have to. Even if he has a beer belly, you can say, more is better than less. You can lie further by saying, "One of the best part of your body I love most is your tummy. I love its softness; I love the comfort it brings to my arms and legs resting on it."
And when you're together especially in public, indulge in PDA (Public Display of Affection). This will wake him up from coma that hey, my wife is proud of me. Take him with you to your night outs with your girl friends. This signals him that you're not keeping anything from him and he's someone you love to tag along with.
My final words, do the bedroom calisthenics like your P.E. teacher is watching with flawless eyes. Strip, pole dance, blow job, tease. Then whisper to his ears, I'm all yours, exclusively yours, body, mind, and spirit.
If it wouldn't work, get back to me and kindly explain further the circumstances surrounding your marriage.
Good luck to you wifey.
Faithfully yours,
Rose (on behalf of the trio)
P.S. If you have no intention of remaining married to your unreasonably jealous husband, then don't note my words. Go file an annulment or legal separation instead.
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