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Bol-anon Mayor A Battered Wife?
« on: October 26, 2008, 11:54:48 AM »
Published by Sunday Post

 The reclusive mayor of Cortes town, Bohol  broke her silence as a battered wife in a true-to-life story involving  domestic violence, verbal abuse and kidnapping.

 The object of Cortes Mayor Apolinaria “Jasmin” Balistoy’s complaint  was her husband of  15 years. The marriage was blessed with  four children.

 Only last week, she was heard in radio news that her driver, driving an ambulance, plowed into a corn field in barangay San Isidro, this city. Radio reports said the lady mayor directed the ambulance driver to proceed to her temporary residence in Lindaville Subdivision. Until now, it was still unclear what prompted the ambulance driver to proceed to barangay San Isidro. Subsequent investigation showed that the driver was drunk.

LAST RESORT

 Citing as her last resort to escape from the violent tantrums of her husband, Mayor Balistoy filed a case for violence against women in accordance with Section 42 of Republic Act No. 4660.

 With a given address at Canmanico, Valencia town, the mayor’s husband, Jose Balistoy, was supposed to be  served a subpoena regarding the case. The preliminary investigation is set on October 28 or this coming Tuesday.

 City Prosecutor Bibiana Baustista is handling the inquest investigation.

3-PAGE AFFIDAVIT

 In her three-page affidavit, Mayor Balistoy narrated her ordeal in the hands of her husband.

 To support her complaint, she  filed a petition of a Permanent Protection Order with Temporary Restraining Order against her husband on September 7, 2007.Acting on her complaint for PPO, the Regional Trial Court under Presiding Judge Venancio Amila found reasonable ground to believe the existence of the facts complained of.

 One of the provisions of the protection order was for the husband to stop threatening to commit or committing personally or through another any acts mentioned in Sec. 5 of RA 9262.

 The order also directed the respondent to leave the conjugal residence at Rizal St. in this city, and if he removes his personal effects therefrom, he shall secure permission from the Court in order to be accompanied by law enforcement agents until he shall have gathered all his things.

HUSBAND’S SIDE

 In bid to come up with a fair and balanced report, The Post got the side of the husband and sought his reaction given his wife’s complaint.

 In a phone interview, the husband  admitted that he did hit his wife but this was out of jealousy.

 The jealousy angle was triggered by the husband’s suspicion that his wife was seeing another man other than him.

 The husband who admitted he is in possession of their youngest son as a result of that school incident told the Post that he has chosen to stay away from his family. He feared that he could not control his temper  endangering the life of his wife in the process.

 He said he’d prefer to get lost in Bohol rather than endear the suspicion of his wife being romantically linked to another person. He chose to keep his whereabouts under wraps.   

PROTECTION ORDER CANCELED

 However, against the backdrop of preserving the marriage and made it work,   Mayor Balistoy, decided to condone her husband’s wrongdoing and asked the Court to cancel the protection order. She filed the motion canceling the order on October 17, 2007.

 An incident on September 23, 2008 in their residence along Rizal St. provoked the lady mayor to file the instant case of violence against women.

 Describing what happened on this day, Mayor Balistoy said while she was cultivating her plants,  out of nowhere her husband hit her, prompting her to run inside their house particularly in their bedroom.

 From there, her husband followed, broke the locked door open and again hit her.

 In the same affidavit, Mayor Balistoy said the violent attack was witnessed by one of their sons.

 When the son  confronted the father, the mayor’s husband  got angrier. He then took two hammers and attacked his son.  The husband also broke the window glass with the use of the hammer and uttered a threatening language demanding for their son to come out from the house.

KIDNAPPING

 The following day, the mayor further narrated, her husband went to the Holy Spirit School and took with him their youngest child, then seven years old.

 She then immediately went to the school and upon arrival at the gate, she saw her husband’s lawyer, Salva Diputado, on board his car. She reported the incident to the police. It was at this instance that the kidnapping incident took place according to the lady mayor.

 She further said in her affidavit that after being abused and battered by her husband for a long number of years, she decided to come to court not only to invoke  her rights as a wife, but also to prosecute him for his wrong doings.

 As mayor of Cortes, Balistoy said she has to see to it that she not only execute the laws and put order in the place, but first and foremost, would maintain peace and order in her own household.

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« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2008, 12:57:42 PM »
hala uy mangulata diay to si joe, luoya pod ni mam jasmin
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« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2008, 05:19:50 PM »
I pray to this brave wife, mother and a politician . She endured so long, exposing the kids to the volatile temper of her husband. Best wishes to her.

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« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2008, 01:02:26 AM »
maestra raba jud ni namo sa UB sa una. maglisud ko pagtoo kay tomboyon man ni siya sa una. abi man nakog siya ang mangulata sa iyang bana! hehehehehe
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« Reply #4 on: October 27, 2008, 09:27:17 PM »
Mayor Balistoy is no innocent aples in this matter, neither does it give her husband the right to do what he did regarding the incident.
Mayor was away for a long  long long vacation out of the Philippies recently and when people try to get along with her she is actting like that of a ______! Just ask half of her city council members what they think about their mayor.

She refussed to even have an interveiw just after winning the position by local media.

I would say from knowing her and hearing things said about her she needs to buy a kinder personality.

I am sure in this matter if you know this woman and how she is really, I am sure her husband was forced to be the way he has become do to the environment that she makes for him.

In my country if you take a kid out of state and you are the parent nd the kid is out of state with out the other parent knowing about it then in that matter it is considered child kidnapping.

I am interested to see how atty. Salva Diputado handles being this mans atty.

I have my personal reasons to watch his performance on this one and see how he can handle going up against a politican.


I am sure the husband was sick and tired of her ways and this is a result of what really is causeof the environment they have around them.

He should of moved onand let her have her suspected relationships.

It would have been a better choice then what they are going through now.


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« Reply #5 on: October 27, 2008, 09:51:37 PM »
God forbid, I will be forced perhaps to beat my wife for reason of stupidity, but out of Jealousy? You can not force a woman to love you if she don't.

Moreover, it is not ethical to beat someone weaker than you, this is bullying. Why won't this husband go find someone his size for a fight.

Fighting your wife in public is too scandalous and would hurt your children's self esteem. This is not right. We have the court to settle matters legally and peacefully.
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« Reply #6 on: October 27, 2008, 10:39:51 PM »
You also have a womans and children desk here for babysitting those couples who do naughty things.


If I was himI would offlew the coop a long time ago. ha ha ha!

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« Reply #7 on: October 27, 2008, 11:20:57 PM »
Hi Prescy. It is a spice of a relationship, but it should not resort to violence because we have the court created for peaceful settlement.

This is just a normal situation for Hollywood celebrities, but they will not resort to violence. Let their money do the talking.


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« Reply #8 on: October 28, 2008, 05:30:49 AM »
This is not a laughing matter, inspite of how the mayor behaves which is not in consonance with the norms of a normal housewife she doesn´t deserve to be physically mishandled.
This is a hot topic because she is a politician, how about those women who are subjected to regular beatings by their husbands when they came home drunk?

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« Reply #9 on: October 28, 2008, 08:39:35 AM »
kong tomboyon ni sya. galig baji ang uyab nija? di kaha?
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« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2008, 10:49:35 AM »
In most cases this problem arises to a certain relationship if the everlasting love that we promise to our dear wife begins to fade away, however in some instance love is not the issue it came from other matters, whatever it is we have the court to go for, as what sir Macky says earlier. Let the court decides and let's enjoy life.
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« Reply #11 on: January 22, 2009, 11:11:27 AM »
the local grapevine here tells about the hubby and their kid catching the wife and somebody high at the Capitol with their pants down inside a city hotel.

Of course beating the s*** out of her is senseless of a husband.

But if other mayors would know that the relationship has literally outwitted them off the tracks in getting Capitol engineering equipment and priority in local roads, they not like it. I am praying they dont.
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« Reply #12 on: January 22, 2009, 11:45:03 AM »

a, grabe pud. dili siguro na tinood sir. bright man na si mayor siguro. para sa usa ka bright ug ilado nga politico, di ka musod ug hotel sa tagbilaran oi. adto kas cebu magcheckin sa kings court, prince court or sa quennsland ba kaha.

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« Reply #13 on: January 22, 2009, 12:43:29 PM »
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« Reply #14 on: January 23, 2009, 01:05:58 AM »
dili siguro ni tinuod kay nakadaug gud pag 2007 si mayor balistoy. known baya nga mga conservative ang mga bol-anon labi pa nang mga taga cortes. ultimo pari petisyonan man gani kay naay huhungihong kabahin sa tsiks ug naa sad mosulti nga naay nakakita. how much more kung ang involve sa storya ila pa jud nga mayor.
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« Reply #15 on: January 23, 2009, 04:09:57 AM »
kining estoryaha mahog og mura'g mga storya sa tabloids. daghan intriga, way unod.

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« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2009, 07:56:24 AM »
basin mga kontra sa politika ni mayor ang nagpasiugda anang tsismisa. mag-anad na lang jud na si mayor ug ijang bana sa intriga kay kaluha na na sa politica.

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« Reply #17 on: January 23, 2009, 09:29:57 AM »
bag-o pa ba nis mayor sa pamolitika, calle?


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« Reply #18 on: January 23, 2009, 09:37:44 AM »
kagawad man sya sauna kung wa ko masayop then nilansad ug mayor kay nagkasumpaki sila sa iyang ig-agaw nga maoy naghupot sa cortes sauna, and Labor family. so, murag di na jud sya neophyte sa politics. i think this is already her second term.

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« Reply #19 on: January 23, 2009, 09:39:31 AM »
apil pod ka diay nga wa motoo aning mga storya nga nagpaluyo aning maong away o hitaboa. politically motivated ra kaha ni?



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