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Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« on: July 12, 2010, 06:38:45 PM »
Sa masuko ta ug madili, mao jud ni ang pagtan-aw sa ubang taw nato.  ;)



1.) In 2003, I was still living in Bohol with my parents and our arrangement with my husband was 3 weeks in Bohol, and then he works in the US 6 weeks. Usahay, kung walay passenger flight, mang hits intawn akong bana ug mga cargo plane paingon  ug Manila para maka-tanda sa Bohol. Syempre, 13-15hr flight gud pud depende ug asa gikan, magstorya jud pud ang mga pilot ug mga kalain-laing butang.

Apparently, kitang mga Pinay is known as LBFM...little brown ..effing machines.

dili lang kay mga cargo pilot nga mobakasyon sa Angeles, pero hasta mga kauban niya sa Cathay, ug mga makasakay niya paingon sa Manila. Diha pa toy usa kuno nga 65 na, nanghambog sa iyang 15yo bride nga ang lalaki ga support sa tibuok pamilya. ( Maau gud pud kay naka skwela tanan igsoon, pero luoya pud ni Inday, sayo kaau napupo).


2.) Among families that have a US Army, US Marine or US Navy, luoy sad ta.  Kun ikaw dili nurse, ma brought up jud ug ahat kung unsa imong background. Kay ngano man ? Kasagarang mga "juicy girls" sa Korea, mga prosti sa Okinawa ug sa legendary Angeles City, sikat diay ang Pinay ug easy jerjer nay hisgutan. Ang mga ignorantehon pud, mag assume nga ang mga Pinay nga naminyo ug military, pinunitan ex prosti (bisan naay daghan nga wala katunob ug Angeles). Kinsa man gud pud makabasol sa buring nga magbagong buhay, ma-ulaw lang ta kay maingin tawn ang mga walay labot.


3.) Kini, gikan jud ni straight sa isa ka lalaki nga ni comment sa usa sa mga filipina wives nga forum. Ang reason kuno nga didto siya nangita ug GF ug asawa sa PInas kay ang mga "losers" kuno diri sa US nga dili lingi-on ug mga local amerkana, ilogan kuno sila didto sa Pinas. Ako jud gi save to nga page kay ga imbyerna dayun akong utok. Mao diay, easy ra diay ta.. mga humok ug ilong, mosugot ra , magmantener....Kinsa man say makabasol, kung ang imong kapili-an mao ang kapobrehon ug ang maayong kaugmaon, dili lang para nimo, kundi , hasta napud sa imong mga manghod nga imong mapa skwela ug imong ginikanan nga imong mabalayan ?


4.) Sa Hong Kong, na-alaan ko nga buring sa akong bana. bisan gud ug decente nga sanina ug wala gapanobra ug make up.  Gi snobban ko adtong GF sa iyang kauban nga Thai ug Indonesian kay lagi, Pinay, ga assume sila nga ang asawa ni Ryan, puti. Ingana ang pagtan-aw sa bisan ubang mga Yaya ug mga babaye diay. Dili sad ka makabasol...daghang Yaya/helper kung adlawan, buring diay to nig day-off. Ang ubang mga puti nga asawa, dili gusto mo hire ug Pinay nga nanny or helper, kalat kaau diay  nga nig talikod sa asawa, mo eksena , mo sub si Inday. Daghan2 jamo ga divorce tungod kay unsaon, kun ikaw lalaki, ug bilangkaran naka, daghan ba gud pud molikay ?

Makapungot kay automatic ang stigma. Wala silay nahibaw-an bahin nimo, pero nahuman naka ug husga, mao pa gani pag naog nimo sa eroplano pagka ngan nga pinay ta.

Pero kung huna-hunaon...ang sweldo raba, dili jud dako. Kung naa tawn daghan gipa skwela sa Pilipinas,dili pud siguro paigo, mao na mo sidebit nalang tawn...ug dili ba kaha, mo kabyon sa Amo, labi na kung sigurado nga ang Amo, pwede sad makabyunan.



5.) Sa atong kapwa Pinoy/pinay... kung dili gani ka nurse, mag assume dayun nga imong bana preha ka tigulangon sa imong Lolo...pagka faetz ! gani sariling atin. Kani, kapin nani sa napulo nahitabo nako... "naa na diay ka greencard day ? nganong wala paman nimo buwagi nang puti ?  "   ...Ay sus ginoo Manong ! Dili diay sad ta kabasol nga kung bisan ug diniyos nang pagkaminyo sa pinay didto sa puti, usahay , ang pamilya sa lalaki maglain ug huna2 nga visa ug kwarta ray gi apas. Nga kita mga walay puangod, molayas na dayun kun naa nay papeles ug pwede na makigtunga sa katigayunan nga hinagu-an sa ilang anak.  Pastilan.....



Hala....good night na. Food for thought rani.  Kibaw tang tanan sa mga butang nga pwede tang maka panghambog, pero panagsa ra gyud ta makita ug mga butang nga paka ulaw gyud diay intawn.



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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #1 on: July 12, 2010, 08:41:58 PM »
All are true.I'm one of those students struggling to finish school.My fathers rule " walay uyab-uyab basta nag school pa".Like a good daughter I follow his advice.One day a friend gave me a name of an American who wants a penpal.So I wrote him[ thinking what do I got to lose?} 4 months later he showed up and wants to marry me!..I was taking a review class and my classmates keep saying,I have to choose U.S.We got married and 3 months later I was in U.S.At that time I guess immigration is not that strict because I was able to come with no problem.I have been to Manila in my entire life only when we have the trips and seminar for civil engineering.Then when I processed my papers for U.S,and the time I have to fly to America.

Now 25 years later still when some people knew my hubby is an ex U.S. Marine they assume I met him in military place in Manila!Whatever...
Anyway,hubby jokes I never love him when we got married,I told him I like him and love came after...


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« Reply #2 on: July 13, 2010, 12:52:54 AM »
bitaw true gud tanan sa ako-a pud kani lagi ma edaran nata mahadlok ma lagas hehehe and then mga pinoy kay pili-an ra ba so  nakaingon ko nga wa na gud koy chance ug pinoy kay lagi kani masipyat ta matunok tag lansang numero 7 unja na infected after 9 months naa nigawas hehehe i was 20 years old when i got pregnant 3rd year college ko so after ko nanganak ni stop ko 1 year then  after 1 year balik na sad ko estudyanti ni graduate baya pud ko med.tech pero wa lang ko ni take ug board exam kay ang budjet para board exam sa lain man na gasto unja di pud ko intresado kay basin di ko kapasar bugoy-bugoy ra ba ko nga estudyanti hahaha unja naka ingon man gud ko nga di ko ganahan mo work sa hospital or sa laboratory ba kay sa pag intern naho 1 year di man gud ko ganahan arti lang siguro ko kay ako kuno makahurot sa alcohol hahaha kay aho kuno ikaligo ingon pa sa aho kauban intern.... mao nitabang naman ko negosyo nila papa pero nahinay na adto nga time unja nadakpan sad me sa levis adto samot kahinay ..mao nga ni uban nalang ko sa ahong barkada nga ga uso mo chat sa internet hala nakatunong baya pud ko buotan after 3 months namo chat nibisita aho canadian kaduwa then katulo niya balik nagpakasal name after 10 months nakalarga ko Canada so karon naa ko diri Vancouver gani kay wala lang ko work kay bantay lang ko sa ahong bugoy nga 4 yrs old na kapin ..tininoufd baya ni aho diniyos gud ingon pa kay pagkita naho sa webcam pa gani sa ahong bana na inlove nako ha labi na pag personal namo kta samot hehehe karon nag wait lang pud ko when makakuha aho ulitawo ug visa aron makaari na pud diri kay aho pabantayon sa iya brother kay mosuway kuno ko trabaho hpefully makalarga aho ulitawo next month malloy Ginoo

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« Reply #3 on: July 13, 2010, 01:12:16 AM »
All are true.I'm one of those students struggling to finish school.My fathers rule " walay uyab-uyab basta nag school pa".Like a good daughter I follow his advice.One day a friend gave me a name of an American who wants a penpal.So I wrote him[ thinking what do I got to lose?} 4 months later he showed up and wants to marry me!..I was taking a review class and my classmates keep saying,I have to choose U.S.We got married and 3 months later I was in U.S.At that time I guess immigration is not that strict because I was able to come with no problem.I have been to Manila in my entire life only when we have the trips and seminar for civil engineering.Then when I processed my papers for U.S,and the time I have to fly to America.

Now 25 years later still when some people knew my hubby is an ex U.S. Marine they assume I met him in military place in Manila!Whatever...
Anyway,hubby jokes I never love him when we got married,I told him I like him and love came after...


Ms. cujo, ayaw tagda nang ubang mga tawo.  Di ba ang mga tawo nga may abilidad, kalidad ug maayo ang panghuna-2 dili ing-ana ang tan-aw sa uban.  Unsaon, morag kabahin sa tawo ang pagka-mahilabtanon. Ibog sila!  ;)

bitaw true gud tanan sa ako-a pud kani lagi ma edaran nata mahadlok ma lagas hehehe and then mga pinoy kay pili-an ra ba so  nakaingon ko nga wa na gud koy chance ug pinoy kay lagi kani masipyat ta matunok tag lansang numero 7 unja na infected after 9 months naa nigawas hehehe i was 20 years old when i got pregnant 3rd year college ko so after ko nanganak ni stop ko 1 year then  after 1 year balik na sad ko estudyanti ni graduate baya pud ko med.tech pero wa lang ko ni take ug board exam kay ang budjet para board exam sa lain man na gasto unja di pud ko intresado kay basin di ko kapasar bugoy-bugoy ra ba ko nga estudyanti hahaha unja naka ingon man gud ko nga di ko ganahan mo work sa hospital or sa laboratory ba kay sa pag intern naho 1 year di man gud ko ganahan arti lang siguro ko kay ako kuno makahurot sa alcohol hahaha kay aho kuno ikaligo ingon pa sa aho kauban intern.... mao nitabang naman ko negosyo nila papa pero nahinay na adto nga time unja nadakpan sad me sa levis adto samot kahinay ..mao nga ni uban nalang ko sa ahong barkada nga ga uso mo chat sa internet hala nakatunong baya pud ko buotan after 3 months namo chat nibisita aho canadian kaduwa then katulo niya balik nagpakasal name after 10 months nakalarga ko Canada so karon naa ko diri Vancouver gani kay wala lang ko work kay bantay lang ko sa ahong bugoy nga 4 yrs old na kapin ..tininoufd baya ni aho diniyos gud ingon pa kay pagkita naho sa webcam pa gani sa ahong bana na inlove nako ha labi na pag personal namo kta samot hehehe karon nag wait lang pud ko when makakuha aho ulitawo ug visa aron makaari na pud diri kay aho pabantayon sa iya brother kay mosuway kuno ko trabaho hpefully makalarga aho ulitawo next month malloy Ginoo

janjan, an interesting love story, sayang lang kay no happy end! well, anyway, you have now a wonderful/happy life! Imong swerte Day!  I wish you and your Fam. more luck!

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« Reply #4 on: July 13, 2010, 01:16:53 AM »
Ms. cujo, ayaw tagda nang ubang mga tawo.  Di ba ang mga tawo nga may abilidad, kalidad ug maayo ang panghuna-2 dili ing-ana ang tan-aw sa uban.  Unsaon, morag kabahin sa tawo ang pagka-mahilabtanon. Ibog sila!  ;)

janjan, an interesting love story, sayang lang kay no happy end! well, anyway, you have now a wonderful/happy life! Imong swerte Day!  I wish you and your Fam. more luck!


salamat mam bambi

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« Reply #5 on: July 13, 2010, 01:26:44 AM »
deperensya gyod siguro og magminyo nga nagka-uyab jud mo kay sa mamenyo nga panaagi lang sa penpal tungod kay dayuhan hala tira pang passport, sa huli na lang ang gugma...

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« Reply #6 on: July 13, 2010, 01:32:17 AM »
Daghan  baya  pod   mga  unexpected  hook  up  with  foreign  guys  nga  mga   successful. Basta  lang   honest  with  each  other human  sa  kasalan it  will  last  a  long  time...naa  ra  baja  na  sa  tawo...swerti-swerti  lang  pod. Ayaw  lang  pod  idown  and  atong kapwa Filipina  just  because  you  heard  it from  a  few  losers...lead  a  good  life  na  lang kay  maputi  ug ma-brown  pareho  ra  tanan  nga  tawo.

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« Reply #7 on: July 13, 2010, 02:25:11 AM »
tama puti brown itom parihas ra tawo pero og ikaw makakita ni inday nga gakoyog og ga ogod2x nga u.s. navy maka ingon ko og olala, daghan sa amo.


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« Reply #8 on: July 13, 2010, 02:42:23 AM »
Tinuod jud kaayo ni nga mao ni ang kasagaran stigma natong mga Pinay. Nakaexperience ko ani once sa nag garage sale ko. Nagpili pili ko unsay mapalit sa garage sale unya dihay lalaki in his 60's nangutana nako ug Where you from? Ingon ko from Philippines.Next question niya 'Your husband in military? Na get jud nako dayon to. Proud kaayo ko ing ingon No. Medyo hostile pa to iyang pangutana pag una pero pagkabalo niya nga dili serviceman akong bana sa military nausob iyang aura. Dayon ingon siya nako nga na assign kono siya sa Philippines.Di jud ta ka blame ani nila nga ingon ani ilang hunahuna towards pinays. The same baya pud ko ug hunahuna nga naa koy kaila taga Los Angeles dayon akong hunahuna sure na jud ko nga mga buring ni sila sa atua. Naa koy kaila nga obvious gyud pag ayo kay iyang bana kano perting mobua(very short) unya di kagwapuhan heheheh pero siya gwapa then iyang lifestyle pud mailhan nimo nga buring plus maghisgot baya pud siya sa life niya although maulaw ko mo direct ug pangutana pero kita nalay mosabot nga mao jud diay iya fast.
Kasagaran gyud sa mga tawo diri sa among palibot ilang tan aw nako kay same ra pud sa uban white people diri.Usahay moingon pa sila nga we think you are just the girl next door who grow up here and forgot you are actually from philippines.

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« Reply #9 on: July 13, 2010, 04:52:11 AM »
Never be embarassed as a Pinay!  This is our fate and God wanted us to take this role as a Pinay. Kon adunay biay-biay ayaw jud patulih. Naay daghan dire mga aleman, sa una humble ko kay lagi virtue. It took me time ,  I mean years to muster my courage and open my mouth. So if I hear some cliche about mail-order bride, or the like, mosorok akong dugo. Tubagon jud naho nga ang mga aleman mangita ug asian because they are caring and they are very good housewife. We have an extended family, buhi-on jud ang tibook pamilya, apan kasagaran sa mga aleman wala kana panombalinga kay maayo moatiman sa pamilya ang pinay. Kon usahay grabe ang insulto, tubagon jud naho nga ang atong kapobrehon dili angay ika-ulaw, we don´t have a black past like gassing jews, gypsies and other misfits in the society.

Sad to say insults comes also from kapwa pinay; sometimes it runs like this, Ano ang asawa mo puti?Wala kanang nakitang Pinoy na maging asawa? Anong natapos mo? Hindi ka nurse/midwife? 

Life is a struggle and I think this is one of our challenges. Be proud to be a Pinay!



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« Reply #10 on: July 13, 2010, 07:36:51 AM »
deperensya gyod siguro og magminyo nga nagka-uyab jud mo kay sa mamenyo nga panaagi lang sa penpal tungod kay dayuhan hala tira pang passport, sa huli na lang ang gugma...

Dili baya sad David. Sa akong mga tuig diri sa US, daghan2 sad ko nasinati nga mga pinay nga nagkalain2. Kaning 21 pata nilarga, barkadista pa gyud, dali ra ta mingawon , mangita gyud ug barkada. Naay daghan nga mga pinay naminyo ug Puti nga tarong ug pamilya sa ato, naay nahumanan ug nag-uyab pud sila ug tarong sa ilang mga bana.

Pareha ra gud pud sa sea man, mawala ug 6-8 months, usahay 18months. Ang ilaha pud, sa uyab pa, mobisita ang lalaki ug every six months or every year ba kaha. Basin lahi siguro nga level ang pagkasinabot. Sa akong uyab nga pinoy, sige ra mi ga uban2, suod mi kaayo pero karon nga mo lantaw kos kani-adto, gamay ra man diay mi ug things in common sa akong ex. Lahi mi ug trip nga music, lahi mi ug mga tripping nga laag...pero ni last pud ug hapit 3 years.

Ang akong bana ug ako, nagkita mi in person, nag exchange emails, nya kada gabii chat. ni bisita siya ug kaduha sa among panag-uyab for 2 weeks each, nya 7 months after we met, nagpakasal mi ug huwes. Every 6 weeks, mo uli siya ug Bohol ug 3 weeks hantud jud ko naka ari. Hinuon, dili dugay among pag uyab2 pero magkasinabot jud mi.Basin siguro kay ang among "time together" ga storya jud mi ug seryosohay nga nagkaila mi  sa among mga kaagi ug batasan nga walay distraction.


Diri, daghan ko nailhan nga visa ray gi apas, open sad sila kaayo ani. Naa sad daghan nga ga apas ug security, naay uban sagwa, pero naa sad uban nga diniyos jud kaau ni care sa lalaki. Hilas lagi kun tan-awon kay si Inday 22 pa, ang bana niya 53, nya naa silay baby nga 1 year old. Pero kung tan-awon nimo, gapinangga-ay silang duha. Pinangga sad kaau sa lalaki ang pamilya sa babaye didto sa pinas. Maau pa sila sa uban kay at least, naay gugma. Gil-as na kung gil-as pero kung ma-close ka nila, makibaw ka nga diniyos jud. Si Bana, nakita ug caring ug mapinangga-on nga asawa, si Asawa, nakakita ug maau nga bana nga pinangga siya kaau, willing pa jud mopaskwela sa iyang mga igsoon.

Naa sad ko nailhan nga ka-edad ra sila. Pero sus, maulaw ka makigkuyog sa babaye kay mag F you F You silang duha sa iyang bana, mag lalis in public. Open siya nga wala jud sila nagkasinabot pero iya lang gi minyoan para maka gawas. Kay wala may respeto-ay, ma klaro jud nimo nga magtan-aw nga miserable kaau.

Naa pud ko ka close nga shotgun sila. hinuon, 36 na si lalaki unya 34 na si babaye. NAgkasinabot man pud sila online, nya mature na pud nga nakibaw ug unsa ilang gi pangita, pag bisita ni lalaki, kasalan dayun. Kung ikaw makita nila, grabe sila ka loving. Ma inspired ka sa ilang love story. Together pa japn sila ron, 7 years later.

Naa sad mga pinay nga 3 years na nga uyab sa ilang chatmate/penpal. Pero pag abot diri, wala man sad ni work out.Naa koy nailhan mga 4 kabuok nga ingani ilang sugilanon. Gani, wala ra kaabot ug 5 years ilang Age gap sa bana, respetado sad sila sa ato, unya tarong pud ilang mga bana diri. Wala lang gyud nagkasinabot.Saon ta man.

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« Reply #11 on: July 13, 2010, 08:08:08 PM »
deperensya gyod siguro og magminyo nga nagka-uyab jud mo kay sa mamenyo nga panaagi lang sa penpal tungod kay dayuhan hala tira pang passport, sa huli na lang ang gugma...

With my husband he wrote me almost everyday.The first week I arrived here in U.S.I went to the post office and the postmaster goes"Finally  we met you".Your husband always stop here from work to mail you a letter.The whole time we are writing his sisters would write me too with pictures.So those short period of time I got to know him and the family and in my heart he is a good person.I have no regrets.If I have to do it again I will do it in a heatbeat!

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« Reply #12 on: July 13, 2010, 08:12:49 PM »
Ms. cujo, ayaw tagda nang ubang mga tawo.  Di ba ang mga tawo nga may abilidad, kalidad ug maayo ang panghuna-2 dili ing-ana ang tan-aw sa uban.  Unsaon, morag kabahin sa tawo ang pagka-mahilabtanon. Ibog sila!  ;)

janjan, an interesting love story, sayang lang kay no happy end! well, anyway, you have now a wonderful/happy life! Imong swerte Day!  I wish you and your Fam. more luck!

Thank you Ms Bambi.

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« Reply #13 on: July 13, 2010, 08:55:39 PM »
Mao ni nakanindot sa Pinay: dunay loving and caring  ug ang uban embarrassing ug naa  pay quarreling.

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« Reply #14 on: July 13, 2010, 09:07:25 PM »
Daghan  baya  pod   mga  unexpected  hook  up  with  foreign  guys  nga  mga   successful. Basta  lang   honest  with  each  other human  sa  kasalan it  will  last  a  long  time...naa  ra  baja  na  sa  tawo...swerti-swerti  lang  pod. Ayaw  lang  pod  idown  and  atong kapwa Filipina  just  because  you  heard  it from  a  few  losers...lead  a  good  life  na  lang kay  maputi  ug ma-brown  pareho  ra  tanan  nga  tawo.
That is true. Kanya-kayang papel og deskarte sa kinabuhi. Naa gani nga ang bana giilog og laing Pinay, so what the heck, life should go on. Tinuod na nga daghang Pinay nga burikat. Even mga Nurse, sa Saudi uso kaayo na. Mag-pahospital ang lalaki then mokuha og private room aron makajerjer sa nurse for a fee of course. 

It is not the kind of profession, naa na sa pagkababaye, ang uban gusto og easy money, ang uban napugos. Pero like I used to say: p**t nga sila but what we called the soceity that reduced them to that state.





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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #15 on: July 13, 2010, 10:07:49 PM »
I am always proud to be a Pinay here. I think giusob nako ang pagtan aw sa mga tawo diri sa amoa. I also let them know unsa jud ang pinay. Unlike some filipina around who tend not to socialize in white community ako permi ko visible murag celebrity ba ug asa ang social function ug mga public event naa jud ko either volunteer or just simply supporting. Kasagaran baya pud sa mga pinay mahadlok mopakita sa public or dili supportive sa mga kalihukan sa community. Daghan ko ug kaila diri nga Pinay over 20 to 30 years na sila diri.Akong bana ing ingon ug wala kono siya mamenyo ug filipina dili gyud daw siya aware nga daghan ug filipina diri kay none jud daw ang visible ug naay mga kalingawan,gatherings like fish fry ug ubang social event.
Nakaplagan ni nako akong bana thru penpal magazine.Nalooy ko kay iyang gibutang didto He was looking for traditional catholic woman who is willing to live in isolated place and love gardening. Usa ka buwan nakong gihunahuna ug suwatan ba nako or dili. Gisulatan nalang nako kay akong feeling ako jud ang perfect girl niya hehehhe. Nakadawat daw akong bana ug 72 letters response ug sa tanan ako ra daw ang nakamention ug importance as Catholic ug naghisgot more about catholic. Junk niya tanan tong nagsuwat  niya labi na tong naghisgot ug zodiac sign hahahha. Gibutangan jud to nako ang sulat nako ug email address mao human adto email email na mi everyday ug nagtawag napud siya everyday for 3 months hangtud ing visit siya nako.
We got engage sa atua then pagbalik niya diri gipapublish niya sa newspapers among engagement. Muot kaayo ang response sa mga silingan perting pagka shock. Ingon intawon kasagaran silingan I almost fell of my chair when I read the news.How you meet her? Medyo ilado pud ning family sa akong bana diri tungod sa ilang machine shop business ug ilado pud akong bana nga bachelor medyo pilian so wala gyuy nagtuo nga motravel siya sa Philippines aron makigmeet sa iyang penpal. After I got my visa gikuha ko niya sa atua nag uban mi paingon diri ug diri na mi sa U.S nagpakasal kay iyang reason maayo jud daw nga makita nako,ma obserbahan ang iyang family ug ang palibot kay at least ug dili ko moangay anytime mouli ko ug dili nalang magmenyo. Naguol akong bana nga basin inig abot nako diri magpunay ra ko ug hilak sa kamingaw ug modecide nga mouli nalang. Perti man nuon nakong lipaya pag abot diri pagtan aw sa akong palibot murag na at home dayon ko. After the required church pre cana nga nag seminar baya pud ko sa atua ug pre cana nagmenyo mi sa St. Mary Assumption Catholic church.  Nine years na ko diri karong adlawa  July 13 naabot ko sa america.

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #16 on: July 14, 2010, 03:13:38 AM »
you´re wonderful Inday Raqs!

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #17 on: July 14, 2010, 04:17:59 AM »
mahalin ba kaha pod nang mga tiguwang nga matronang  foreigner nya mangita og batan-on nga laki sa pinas?

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #18 on: July 14, 2010, 09:39:57 AM »
mahalin ba kaha pod nang mga tiguwang nga matronang  foreigner nya mangita og batan-on nga laki sa pinas?

DAVID !!!!...angay ka mo tan-aw sa BBC, naa didtoy special/documentary about old British sugar mama's (65-75) mo adto sa Africa unya naa sila's mga 18-21yo lovers. As in....nakita ko kas-a, salagma. Mura man jud ug gil-as, pero preha ra japn storya-a, pa skwela mga manghod etc tungod pud tawn lagi sa kapobrehon.


Sa Pilipinas...murag ang mga uyot nga kwartahan ang maka-angkon sa mga lalaki. Naa koy amigo nga kwartaan nga designer, diha siya'y 4-6 ka lalaki pa skwela, PMI pa gani kasagaran. Ang uban, model, ang uban, Harem ra gud niya.Naa'y schedule. Kuyaw gud. Pero kung ako sad lalaki nga hitsura-an nya kuwang ug budget pagskwela, maau nalang siguro nang mahimong bana sa b***t. PInangga pa, pina skwela, naa pa jud pakapin nga motor. Basta mag tarong lang skwela, ok ra pud si bayuti nga naa uyab nga girl, basta si uyot jud ang number 1. Bilib ka ! 8)

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #19 on: July 14, 2010, 09:40:19 AM »
Mao ni nakanindot sa Pinay: dunay loving and caring  ug ang uban embarrassing ug naa  pay quarreling.

Kumpleto rekado jud ! ;)

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #20 on: July 14, 2010, 01:27:35 PM »
Ondoy David, mangadto sila sa Jamaica, Dominican republic ug Bangladesh.

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« Reply #21 on: July 14, 2010, 02:20:12 PM »
Ondoy David, mangadto sila sa Jamaica, Dominican republic ug Bangladesh.

aray ko, kagil-as palandungon.

anyway, i take care to avoid being embarrassed with my nationality because, whether we like it or not, some of our sisters have really gone ahead to cause the rest of us some embarrassment. 

for starters, the externals... grooming is at the forefront here.  dress our age (a fortyish must not dress like she's 17.  we may wish to appear like we're thirtyish, but just don't go down further to those late teenage years complete with tattoo and exposed t-back.)  the same holds true with the hairstyle and make-up.   

when traveling, we ought to dress respectably to show that we respect others.  (if we wear shorts, like some of those i've seen, then we deserve what's coming and we have no reason to complain if we get treated like a volleybelle at the beach.)  it follows that if we show some cleavage, salivating males who actually hold no respect for us aren't far behind, whether we're 17 or 50.

we are not walking pawnshops, so we must do away with those huge jewelry.  worn in daytime, they're more garish than impressive and, needless to say, tasteless.  only queen elizabeth II can get away with that.  we can ape her only if we're attending an evening formal ball, nowhere else.

we must behave formally and talk in low tones.  doing otherwise would only call attention to ourselves.  that attention is far from admiring.

lastly, we should walk as if there's no one else, except of course that someone who is with us.  put another way, we must never be conscious about our looks.  we've gone this far and have survived with what we are.
 

   

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Re: Why sometimes its embarrassing to be Pinay
« Reply #22 on: July 14, 2010, 05:50:16 PM »
this is really true, dressing in propriety of the situation. There are Fil-German galas where ladies are overdressed. Looy intawon kay ningkamot ma superstar, sawop na ang adlaw kumander.

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« Reply #23 on: July 17, 2010, 11:48:47 PM »
this is really true, dressing in propriety of the situation. There are Fil-German galas where ladies are overdressed. Looy intawon kay ningkamot ma superstar, sawop na ang adlaw kumander.

I agree with Ms. Isles on behaving appropriately. I work in a men’s world and most of these men were once members of the US Armed Forces and were stationed in Subic or Clark Airbase. They talked a lot about the Fil women, some bragged about the “Filipina hospitality,” some are blunt about some bad experiences with Pinays stealing from them, sex for money,  etc. But, I never feel slighted or embarrassed because not only the Pinays are doing that, but all kinds of nationalities especially those that are exposed to extreme poverty.

Besides, I exhibited professionalism at par with my co-workers. On top of their heads: “banging, screwing or whatever”, they have been doing with Pinays, here as big as life in front of them, a Pinay that can match their wits for wits, common sense with common sense. Respect begets respect; it is not serve  in a platter, but must be earned. I am proud to say, I earned that from my agency.

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