Ah for 22 hours diay ka ning labor, Ms. Orchids?
My Goodness..
Seriously, I do not know how you guys do it, kaning mga babae, they really know how to experience pain jud. I cannot even, in my mind, imagine how much pain it takes to give birth to a child.
I would say I am very close to my Mom. As a kid I was always a mommy's boy. Even as recently I would still and still do refer to my mom as 'Mommy' lol. I can't change it jud. Kai she is my one and only Mom.
You know it was so hard for me when my mom left Bohol back in 1990 to go to the US. She got a nursing position back in 1990 and worked there for a while. And it was really hard on us kids, jud.
Because you know, my Dad was in Saudi at the same time my mom was in the US. My little sister (then only 3 years old) and I were left alone in Bohol with our yayas. Thankfully we lived not too far way form our Mama Luz (my paternal grandmother) cuz i remember running to her place to have breakfast or just to be around my Mama Luz, and my uncles and aunt and cousin. Sometimes my Lola Nating and Lolo Ciano (maternal side) would visit us.
Pero you know, I can still remember being a 4-5 year old little kid and go to bed with my sister. And both of us would go to sleep with our mother's dastir/dasteer because we would miss her so much. Can you believe? I was only 4 and my sister only 3 we were already separated from our parents. I could remember my baby sister ask me, "Doy, aha man si mommy ug si daddy? mingaw ko ni daddy". My sister always asked for our dad.
And I would always asked for mom.
Ah, thinking about this really brings me to tears, Ma'am Orchids.
I have God to thank for uniting our family when my mother was able to bring me, my sister and my Dad to the 'states by 1991.
It's painful to talk about it, pero you know, its good to let it out.
I really love my Mom. I guess that won't ever change for us boys. I thank God everyday for giving me such a wonderful mom.
I'll send her your regards, Ms. Orchids, when I go back home this Christmas Break.
wow dong natandog man ko nagbasa ani, i wish i had a loving and caring mum, it would be wonderful and i wolud of love her for the rest of my life but unfortunately nagtubo ko nga way mama nag atiman. Your mother is lucky to have you.
