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How to Fall in Love
« on: February 08, 2008, 05:06:10 PM »
Love is a decision.

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« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2008, 05:08:23 PM »

I have nothing to share.

I'm still hanging in the limbo...

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« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2008, 05:13:52 PM »
How to fall in love?

Hm, I really cant help you out in that. There really is no medical or scientific explanation for something so arbitrary as 'Love'. Love is a mystery that affects the spirit, and the spirit transcends any physical ailment, or any physical laws.

Love is like faith. No proof is necessary, it is a gut instinct that you know is correct.



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« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2008, 06:35:42 PM »
How To Fall in Love?????


To fall in love, you must put away everything you have learned up to now. You must put away pride, wisdom, street smarts, and sophistication. You may keep dignity, patience, instinct and an open spirit. Relax your body, unclench your hands and open your palms. Look up to the stars and let snowflakes fall on your face without intercepting them.

Wait.

First, you must find someone or let them find you. In fact, it is better if they find you and you find them but this is only possible if you both walk backwards and into each other. But you must start unaware and without expectations. If you are waiting and ready, you will not fall in love. You might find romance but you will not fall in love.

The next thing you must do is to think of yourself as a house with all the doors and windows open. The other person will appear as sunshine that sneaks its way in and sends unexpected warmth upon you. You will bask in this delight. But then, it will change. That sunshine will become alternately rain and wind and cool breezes, and topsy-turvy gusts that upset your furniture and send your pictures on the walls all askew. You will want so very much to close the windows and slam the doors and slap your hands together in that brisk motion that says, 'enough of this nonsense'. You might feel fearful and cover up the fear with the most wicked of all tonics: rationalization.

You might be so good at this that the rationalizations of things that are really a blessing and a gift, will seem as the truth. In fact, the opposite is so. The rationalizations are the lies - the truth will seem, well, unseemly. But no matter - if you go this route and forget this counsel, there is little to be done.

You will protest the weather and shut it out and forget that in minutes, days, hours - that same annoying wind of fearsome gusts can turn back into that sunshine that first warmed and beguiled you. But I urge you to become a student of the weather and simply watch it unfold. Welcome the rain and wind, knowing it will not harm you and besides, will soon pass. If you can manage to keep the door open, the rain will dry up and the winds will settle. You can look out again and see those rays which first caught you. You might marvel how it all changes while you have sat still.

If you can sit still.

Then there comes a hard part. You will relax and get used to the changing weather. You will learn to take to the wind and rain and not notice as much. Instead, happily, you will focus on that sun. That sun will become glorious. It will become larger than your own open house. And just when you get to that point and are reveling in this light, a big cloud will come. This cloud might stay and obliterate that sun which you have grown to love so well. It will stay so long until you know this is not a change in the weather. It is indeed, the new landscape and a painful reality of the heart.

At first, you will hope the sun will return but as the days turn into borderless chunks of time, you will know that is unlikely.

Now this is odd - because clearly, this is not simply weather changes but a
permanent state of affairs but still, you will have that same urge to shut the windows and close the door. Now, there is no rain, snow, or wind to make you do that but still - you will want to take a hammer and nails and hammer down shut every crevice that sun or any light might creep through.

You might even close the shutters around your heart. I urge you not to.

If you are telling the truth about wanting to fall in love, this is how it
is done:

Take the glow from your own heart and your own truth. Set it in each window
sill. Make candles of your faith. Take the glitter from that plant called hope and the twinkle from the dreams you cannot give up. Adorn your home with these things. In time, you will not miss that sunshine you grew to love. The light will go from inside, from your own hearth, to the outside. You will not need those flippant rays you first experienced and learned to rely on. That warmth that starts from within and stays.

One day, you might even look out again - because after all, you are still, in your heart of hearts, a student of weather. You might see another home - similarly lit. That might be an indication of another full, strong, open house - the only
possible match for your own abode. It might be a place worth visiting. It might be a place to go to.

They say falling in love is wonderful. It is. But at first it will be scary and it might not always work out. You might only taste romance which, as lovely as it is, is simply love's residue. To fall in love you have to be smart but naive. Hope against hope. Hold your heart high, proud, but unfettered. Celebrate its scars. Cry until you do not know what to do anymore. Sleep. Dream. Wait and be ready. There is always more weather. There is more sun. Put the hammer and nails away. Turn your palms open and upwards.

And that is how you fall in love.

 



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« Reply #4 on: February 09, 2008, 07:27:28 AM »
Love is a decision.

Share your tips and tutorials. :)

Well according to my experiences, it came in a different time my of life. During my early years of puberty, I thought I was in love, yes it was but kind of puppy love.
In my later year of HS, that's when it hit me and thought, hmm, it's not puppy love, it's firtst love. But I realized it wasn't meant to be, so I moved on.
But when I reach adulthood and met my husband, that's when I said to myself, hmmm, this is TRUE LOVE. Which means, no matter what, don't care what other people say and come what may - I love him.

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« Reply #5 on: February 09, 2008, 10:15:09 PM »
Asking 'how to fall in love' is somewhat like asking how to breathe or how to eat.

There's no how to it. It just happens.

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« Reply #6 on: February 10, 2008, 12:06:53 AM »
Asking 'how to fall in love' is somewhat like asking how to breathe or how to eat.

There's no how to it. It just happens.






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« Reply #7 on: February 10, 2008, 12:59:15 AM »
Love comes all of a sudden jud
basta magka tukma inyo chemie daw
dli na kinahanglan pangandaman ug planohon uhum ;)


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« Reply #8 on: February 10, 2008, 03:27:21 AM »
Asking 'how to fall in love' is somewhat like asking how to breathe or how to eat.

There's no how to it. It just happens.

 very correct!





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« Reply #9 on: February 11, 2008, 01:01:29 AM »
I think there is no procedure oon how to fall in love..

It will come when cupido will hit you with his arrow ;D

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« Reply #10 on: February 11, 2008, 01:09:37 AM »
How To Fall in Love?????


To fall in love, you must put away everything you have learned up to now. You must put away pride, wisdom, street smarts, and sophistication. You may keep dignity, patience, instinct and an open spirit. Relax your body, unclench your hands and open your palms. Look up to the stars and let snowflakes fall on your face without intercepting them.

Wait.

First, you must find someone or let them find you. In fact, it is better if they find you and you find them but this is only possible if you both walk backwards and into each other. But you must start unaware and without expectations. If you are waiting and ready, you will not fall in love. You might find romance but you will not fall in love.

The next thing you must do is to think of yourself as a house with all the doors and windows open. The other person will appear as sunshine that sneaks its way in and sends unexpected warmth upon you. You will bask in this delight. But then, it will change. That sunshine will become alternately rain and wind and cool breezes, and topsy-turvy gusts that upset your furniture and send your pictures on the walls all askew. You will want so very much to close the windows and slam the doors and slap your hands together in that brisk motion that says, 'enough of this nonsense'. You might feel fearful and cover up the fear with the most wicked of all tonics: rationalization.

You might be so good at this that the rationalizations of things that are really a blessing and a gift, will seem as the truth. In fact, the opposite is so. The rationalizations are the lies - the truth will seem, well, unseemly. But no matter - if you go this route and forget this counsel, there is little to be done.

You will protest the weather and shut it out and forget that in minutes, days, hours - that same annoying wind of fearsome gusts can turn back into that sunshine that first warmed and beguiled you. But I urge you to become a student of the weather and simply watch it unfold. Welcome the rain and wind, knowing it will not harm you and besides, will soon pass. If you can manage to keep the door open, the rain will dry up and the winds will settle. You can look out again and see those rays which first caught you. You might marvel how it all changes while you have sat still.

If you can sit still.

Then there comes a hard part. You will relax and get used to the changing weather. You will learn to take to the wind and rain and not notice as much. Instead, happily, you will focus on that sun. That sun will become glorious. It will become larger than your own open house. And just when you get to that point and are reveling in this light, a big cloud will come. This cloud might stay and obliterate that sun which you have grown to love so well. It will stay so long until you know this is not a change in the weather. It is indeed, the new landscape and a painful reality of the heart.

At first, you will hope the sun will return but as the days turn into borderless chunks of time, you will know that is unlikely.

Now this is odd - because clearly, this is not simply weather changes but a
permanent state of affairs but still, you will have that same urge to shut the windows and close the door. Now, there is no rain, snow, or wind to make you do that but still - you will want to take a hammer and nails and hammer down shut every crevice that sun or any light might creep through.

You might even close the shutters around your heart. I urge you not to.

If you are telling the truth about wanting to fall in love, this is how it
is done:

Take the glow from your own heart and your own truth. Set it in each window
sill. Make candles of your faith. Take the glitter from that plant called hope and the twinkle from the dreams you cannot give up. Adorn your home with these things. In time, you will not miss that sunshine you grew to love. The light will go from inside, from your own hearth, to the outside. You will not need those flippant rays you first experienced and learned to rely on. That warmth that starts from within and stays.

One day, you might even look out again - because after all, you are still, in your heart of hearts, a student of weather. You might see another home - similarly lit. That might be an indication of another full, strong, open house - the only
possible match for your own abode. It might be a place worth visiting. It might be a place to go to.

They say falling in love is wonderful. It is. But at first it will be scary and it might not always work out. You might only taste romance which, as lovely as it is, is simply love's residue. To fall in love you have to be smart but naive. Hope against hope. Hold your heart high, proud, but unfettered. Celebrate its scars. Cry until you do not know what to do anymore. Sleep. Dream. Wait and be ready. There is always more weather. There is more sun. Put the hammer and nails away. Turn your palms open and upwards.

And that is how you fall in love.

 



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« Reply #11 on: February 11, 2008, 05:15:17 AM »
ah kuyawa ning ka Bulak litanya man...

ipagawas pod na imo mga kaagi- diha kuya?.....

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« Reply #12 on: February 11, 2008, 05:49:43 AM »
ipagawas pod na imo mga kaagi- diha kuya?.....

unsa nga kaagi kadtong one among the others? hahaha...

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« Reply #13 on: February 13, 2008, 05:08:38 AM »
Lindy kadto bang kaagi nga gi-ingon sa kanta

to all the girls i loved before
im glad they came along
i dedicate this song
to all the girls i loved before,- ::)

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« Reply #14 on: February 13, 2008, 05:13:30 AM »
Lindy kadto bang kaagi nga gi-ingon sa kanta

to all the girls i loved before
im glad they came along
i dedicate this song
to all the girls i loved before,- ::)

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« Reply #15 on: February 13, 2008, 04:10:48 PM »
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« Reply #17 on: February 14, 2008, 04:14:40 AM »
well,well,well,,,,,its a nice feelings.....yahoooooo.....

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« Reply #18 on: February 14, 2008, 06:30:04 AM »
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Sexy man gyud nang kantahan noh????

Blue salamat sa imong pag pukaw sa akong nahikatulog nga biga aw ehe! gugma diay para sa akong mga kanhiay!!!

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« Reply #19 on: February 14, 2008, 07:43:11 PM »


ashuwz mis da mins...nindut gyod ang pamati sa kung mapukaw ang mga kanhing gugma nga dugay nang nahinanok...





Sexy man gyud nang kantahan noh????

Blue salamat sa imong pag pukaw sa akong nahikatulog nga biga aw ehe! gugma diay para sa akong mga kanhiay!!!

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