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How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« on: October 15, 2009, 05:45:21 PM »
As an OFW, sometimes, I encounter people who hates me for being able to provide for my family. I get it. Some are jealous but what can i do? But now, I think it has gone too far... this did not happen to me lately but this started  year 2005, the first month I arrived in China. Somebody would just send hate messages to me and the worst part is that, its not about me but about my husband, whom i know is very faithful, loving etc. One time, somebody sent this hate message telling me that my hubby was in this bar, very much drunk and with another girl but the funny thing was that, at that exact moment, I was chatting with him and our kids. This kept on and on until now and i just ignored it.
Now, it seems that this idiot is really trying his/her best to destroy my marriage so now it's the other way around. This time, he/she sends hate messages to my hubby telling him things about ME that are so awful and cheap. My hubby is also ignoring this for he knows it's just somebody who likes to make other people unhappy.
Now my question: IF YOU ARE IN MY SHOES, WHAT WILL YOU DO?

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #1 on: October 15, 2009, 05:51:33 PM »
As an OFW, sometimes, I encounter people who hates me for being able to provide for my family. I get it. Some are jealous but what can i do? But now, I think it has gone too far... this did not happen to me lately but this started  year 2005, the first month I arrived in China. Somebody would just send hate messages to me and the worst part is that, its not about me but about my husband, whom i know is very faithful, loving etc. One time, somebody sent this hate message telling me that my hubby was in this bar, very much drunk and with another girl but the funny thing was that, at that exact moment, I was chatting with him and our kids. This kept on and on until now and i just ignored it.
Now, it seems that this idiot is really trying his/her best to destroy my marriage so now it's the other way around. This time, he/she sends hate messages to my hubby telling him things about ME that are so awful and cheap. My hubby is also ignoring this for he knows it's just somebody who likes to make other people unhappy.
Now my question: IF YOU ARE IN MY SHOES, WHAT WILL YOU DO?
ignore mo na lang.nahitabo pod na nako.giuna ko og daut,unja wa motoo ako bana,ang reason sa ako bana,kilala niya ako sa nagdaut nako,then mga a year ako bana na sab ang gidaut kesyo may babae.then nong niuli ko ,ako giconpronta,then hugas kamay na.i even save na msg ako gipakita niya pero deny to death siya,kesyo nawala daw ang cel niya.
JUST IGNORE IT

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #2 on: October 15, 2009, 05:54:41 PM »
ignore mo na lang.nahitabo pod na nako.giuna ko og daut,unja wa motoo ako bana,ang reason sa ako bana,kilala niya ako sa nagdaut nako,then mga a year ako bana na sab ang gidaut kesyo may babae.then nong niuli ko ,ako giconpronta,then hugas kamay na.i even save na msg ako gipakita niya pero deny to death siya,kesyo nawala daw ang cel niya.
JUST IGNORE IT

the problem is that we dont know who sends the messages..... basta almost everyday, i receive a hate message from this somebody.. and then akong bana napud... and yes we do ignore it but murag lahi naman gud

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #3 on: October 15, 2009, 10:03:51 PM »
change your numbers so you won't be bothered by it anymore

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2009, 03:53:03 PM »
Meet the texter personally murag magsetup og entrapment
kay if magchange og number then makahibaw ra pod unya
sa bag-o nga number magbalik2 ra

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #5 on: October 17, 2009, 01:13:19 AM »
If the anonymous texter can still text you despite changing your number, then he/she is someone whom you may have given your new number, or got it from your mutual friends. Watch out.


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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #6 on: October 17, 2009, 01:49:33 AM »
i'll ignore it.

keep track of people with whom you shared your number.

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #7 on: October 17, 2009, 10:00:59 AM »
change your numbers so you won't be bothered by it anymore

my husband changed his number like 3 times na gyud but ako kay dli man gud pwede kay mao ni nga number naka-register sa batch92 unya ako ang nag-handle sa affairs sa batch namo... misag unsaon og change sa number kay mahibaw-an man gihapon man wala nalang change akong bana

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2009, 10:05:06 AM »
If the anonymous texter can still text you despite changing your number, then he/she is someone whom you may have given your new number, or got it from your mutual friends. Watch out.


duda nami nga basig silingan or family member or relative ni cya kay everytime change number akong bana, sundon man gihapon cya og txt...

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2009, 10:11:44 AM »
nasuya lang jud tingali na. basin wa nimo pabayloa ba o pautanga. hehehehe

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #10 on: November 02, 2009, 05:36:00 AM »
pasagdi ra na ANN ajaw panumbalingä diba pol-an na kon dli ka mautoz (mapongot)

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Re: How To Deal With Anonymous Text Messages?
« Reply #11 on: November 03, 2009, 12:55:31 AM »
e-ignore nalang jud na. kasuway jud ko ana anga panghitabo. one time, tingala lang ko kay kalit tawag akong asawa nako sa cell while im in the middle of my work asking asa ko. akong giingnan nga naa ra ko sa office. niingon siya nga naa nag text niya nga naa ra ko naglaroy laroy sa laing lugar. mao tong akong gipatawag akong misis sa office ug gipa connect sa akong local as proof nga naa ra ko sa office. nilanat jud ug dugay-dugay. maglagot nalang ko kay murag mitoo na nuon akong asawa atong texter. maayo nalang gani kay niundang na. gipul-an na siguro to kay wala mosaler iyang technique.

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