Author Topic: Why do girls like to hold hands? (Read 8687 times)

Lorenzo · « **on:** October 02, 2007, 11:12:13 AM »

I've come across this recently--and i notice that the ladies love to hold hands whenever they go on dates or on walks. Personally--im not the type to hold hands, its too mushy-mushy for me. hahaha. But ive noticed my friends who bring their gfs along whenever we go out; and i always notice that girls love to make hand movements..hahaha

You guys notice that? So why do girls love to hold hands?

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C2H4 · « **Reply #1 on:** October 02, 2007, 11:30:36 AM »

It makes us feel connected, dong. Very intimate kung mag hold hands, for us.

The power of touch is amazing. It heals our bodies and souls. Di ba naa man gani study ani? That when patients sa hospitals are touched, gunitan ilang kamot or arms sa mga nurses, they heal faster.

Therapeutic kaayo, dong. To feel the warmth of another human's hands. I'm very touchy-feely.

I always hold my banana's hands kung manglakaw mi.

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Barbaro · « **Reply #2 on:** October 02, 2007, 11:54:53 AM »

Because girls are very friendly, sensual, and feely in that way. Men are not like that.

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C2H4 · « **Reply #3 on:** October 02, 2007, 11:56:23 AM »

If men are not like that, Mr Barbaro...

what are they like?

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #4 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:02:14 PM »

hahaha, good point jud 'te. That is the one of the many reasons why women are 'Angels' jud.

Pero i do try to be intimate with women that i take on dates, and one thing that i notice immediately whenever i take a girl out is that after the 2nd date, i notice that she will twirl her hand in a side-to-side motion, or make slight movements of her fingers--in subtle fashion of course. Is this like a sign or something to hold their hand?
I remember when I was still with my xgf, what she would do was hold my pinky finger with her pinky finger. She thought it was very cute---but i on the other hand was sweating droplets of water whenever we went to the mall or to outing events with friends. I really felt..exposed or naked..when she did that.
I wont deny that i have a very strong Machismo personality---and i get very..unfortable when i have to hold hands or pink-to-pinky holding when theres alot of people. LOL.

I dont mind if we do that in closed doors or when its in private--pero..outside..its a different story.
I dont know, is it that im too conservative? Do you guys feel the same way too? or am i the lone black sheep in this.?

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Barbaro · « **Reply #5 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:26:52 PM »

If men are not like that, Mr Barbaro...

what are they like?

two female friends can hold hands and nobody thinks twice, but if two men hold hands everyone thinks they are gay. Women can dance with each other and it's OK, but if two men dance together, they are percieved as homosexual.

I think it's because society sees men as being intensely sexual but it doesn't see women the same way. If women show affection it can be non sexual,but any male display of affection is seen as sexually based, no matter what.

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C2H4 · « **Reply #6 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:30:22 PM »

two female friends can hold hands and nobody thinks twice, but if two men hold hands everyone thinks they are gay. Women can dance with each other and it's OK, but if two men dance together, they are percieved as homosexual.

I think it's because society sees men as being intensely sexual but it doesn't see women the same way. If women show affection it can be non sexual,but any male display of affection is seen as sexually based, no matter what.

Hahaha! Sexual diay ka, Mr Barbaro? Akong pangutan-on imong mga tsiks.

A funny thing happened when my bestfriend and I went on vacation sa Panglao. Kami rang duha, and then I guess we looked pretty intimate--holding hands, hugging, kissing each other's cheeks etc etc

A guy came up to us and asked if we were gay.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #7 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:49:14 PM »

hahhahha ug naa pa mo sa SF ma alaan gyud mo...

hahahhahha

i like to hold hands, kay mag pa guyod man ko...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #8 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:51:20 PM »

Yea thats true Mr. Barbaro. But does spanking each other's ass count as being 'gay' as well? hahaha.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #9 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:54:47 PM »

ay?

mao ba??

hmm bitaw no???

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C2H4 · « **Reply #10 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:55:32 PM »

Yea thats true Mr. Barbaro. But does spanking each other's ass count as being 'gay' as well? hahaha.

I enjoy it when football players do that, dong.

so sweet

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #11 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:58:08 PM »

ay wa ko kabantay sa title sa thread, nasimang man ko

anyway i like to hold hands sa akong bff oi!!!

naalaan man gani mi sa SF nga lesbie...

ako kay passionate man gud ko sa akong friend...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #12 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:59:14 PM »

LOL. I do that all the time with my buds, well we do that to each other. Pero you know macho-macho man na! Dili lang mii mo squeze. Hahahahahhaa

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #13 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:09:31 PM »

Why do girls love to hold hands with their boyfriends?

To keep the boyriends' hands from straying to places where they should not go

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #14 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:10:27 PM »

right...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #15 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:12:18 PM »

Uy! the great GEC speaks again!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #16 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:14:29 PM »

tulog na ko dong, night night!!!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #17 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:20:41 PM »

good night ate!

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #18 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:38:47 PM »

Uy! the great GEC speaks again!

Wow... that blew me away!

Don Senior Lorenzo... It's too early for you to sleep...
Have a cup of coffee to drive those sleepy devils away

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #19 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:41:44 PM »

Is the great GEC speaking to me? hahha
Kummusta man ka! hahaha hapit na pood ko mo tug, Sir GEC.
My warm regards, sir GEC.

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Mari · « **Reply #20 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:47:25 PM »

two female friends can hold hands and nobody thinks twice, but if two men hold hands everyone thinks they are gay. Women can dance with each other and it's OK, but if two men dance together, they are percieved as homosexual.

I think it's because society sees men as being intensely sexual but it doesn't see women the same way. If women show affection it can be non sexual,but any male display of affection is seen as sexually based, no matter what.

depende asa mr Barbaro. In Thailand holding hands with another girl is a no no. people will give you a strange look. they think you are lesbians. girls there has very strong tendencies to go for girls, i dont know why

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pioneer · « **Reply #21 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:55:57 PM »

depende asa mr Barbaro. In Thailand holding hands with another girl is a no no. people will give you a strange look. they think you are lesbians. girls there has very strong tendencies to go for girls, i dont know why

mga gwapa kaayo nang uyab sa lesbians diri sa thailand. mapungot ka barbaro magtan-aw.

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pioneer · « **Reply #22 on:** October 02, 2007, 02:01:06 PM »

Why do girls love to hold hands with their boyfriends?

To keep the boyriends' hands from straying to places where they should not go

GEC, are you trying to make us guilty?

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Barbaro · « **Reply #23 on:** October 02, 2007, 02:18:02 PM »

mao manay naandan sa ato mike..pero kanunay mi moadto sa dubai nasira among huna huna kay perting daghana pong lalaki mag holding hands didto, maghawak pa sa biyang..

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pioneer · « **Reply #24 on:** October 02, 2007, 02:22:15 PM »

mao manay naandan sa ato mike..pero kanunay mi moadto sa dubai nasira among huna huna kay perting daghana pong lalaki mag holding hands didto, maghawak pa sa biyang..

ang mga gay sa thailand barbaro makailad ang hitsura. kung di hulingon, di gyud mahibaw-an nga laki diay.

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Barbaro · « **Reply #25 on:** October 02, 2007, 02:34:49 PM »

dilikado mike ug maka anha ko anang lugara sigi lang guro ko ilad hehe..

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #26 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:02:07 PM »

GEC, are you trying to make us guilty?

Oh, no, Mike. Not at all....

That was just the conclusion I reached after meditating on your question for a week

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John · « **Reply #27 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:02:08 PM »

depende if your hands more of kble dili na sila mo hold.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #28 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:04:38 PM »

GEC, are you trying to make us guilty?

On the other hand (no pun intended), since the girl usually holds only one hand of the boyfriend... it might be a tacit permission for the boyfriend's free hand to wander...

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hazel · « **Reply #29 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:30:53 PM »

On the other hand (no pun intended), since the girl usually holds only one hand of the boyfriend... it might be a tacit permission for the boyfriend's free hand to wander...

If that's the case, you might need your metal gloves, GEC.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #30 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:39:37 PM »

If that's the case, you might need your metal gloves, GEC.

Oh, yes... How could I forget? I carry them with me all the time, Ginger

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #31 on:** October 02, 2007, 09:37:56 PM »

ang mga gay sa thailand barbaro makailad ang hitsura. kung di hulingon, di gyud mahibaw-an nga laki diay.

tinuod gyud ka Bohol.

nakita nako sa National Geographic, thailand is famous for transgender gays...and Geeeee!

mora gyud ug tinuod...

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mikeygatal · « **Reply #32 on:** October 13, 2007, 03:23:52 AM »

di ko feel

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John · « **Reply #33 on:** October 14, 2007, 06:16:32 AM »

Some places they already allowed married thesame sex , because one is reason ang mga gay's perti namang guapaha ug mga sexy pa.

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C2H4 · « **Reply #34 on:** October 14, 2007, 06:21:11 AM »

mr ashton,

kanus-a imong party?

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hazel · « **Reply #35 on:** October 14, 2007, 06:36:07 AM »

Some places they already allowed married thesame sex , because one is reason ang mga gay's perti namang guapaha ug mga sexy pa.

uso naman na dire sa europe dugay ra...

one time, naka kita gyud ko ug mao pa pagawas sa city hall.

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Bambi · « **Reply #36 on:** October 14, 2007, 07:00:48 AM »

Some places they already allowed married thesame sex , because one is reason ang mga gay's perti namang guapaha ug mga sexy pa.

Gays or lesbian are allowed to enter into matrimonial life here in Europe for taxes charge and pension purposes and nevertheless, there is really love between the two parties. I appreciated much this tolerated passed law here, it is easy for them to adopt child and/or chidren if they are in a legal way of relationship.

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John · « **Reply #37 on:** October 14, 2007, 11:34:56 AM »

Well it depend but if you ask me I'm not favor that rules it look's like nasty.

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Mari · « **Reply #38 on:** October 14, 2007, 03:20:30 PM »

Some places they already allowed married thesame sex , because one is reason ang mga gay's perti namang guapaha ug mga sexy pa.

in Europe ive heard about gay marriages

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Bambi · « **Reply #39 on:** October 14, 2007, 07:44:45 PM »

Well it depend but if you ask me I'm not favor that rules it look's like nasty.

Well, freedom exist and we are all free to say what we think, nonone can convince you to accept ones life...straight or not. We are living now in a modern/cyber century and we must have to go with it,isn't?

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Author Topic: Why do girls like to hold hands? (Read 8687 times)

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