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What Makes A Happy Home?
« on: May 08, 2009, 02:17:20 AM »
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Re: What makes a happy home?
« Reply #1 on: May 08, 2009, 04:31:16 AM »
A home can be a happy one if love,understanding and patient is present within the family.Everyone must cease to complain, criticize and contradict each other. When everyone must be  more patient with each other's faults and  not keep back the warm loving words that lie in the hearts until it is too late for them to give comfort.

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Re: What makes a happy home?
« Reply #2 on: May 08, 2009, 05:09:47 AM »
Thanks for this wisdom Inday Bualk, bilib ko nimo ´Day. ;)

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2009, 10:51:22 AM »
My parents, and my siblings. When I open the front door to our house, to see the Blessed Santo Nino, and then go to the kitchen and see and hear my parents. To hug mommy, and daddy pa. Then to walk to the stairways, to see and hear my younger brothers run downstairs screaming, "Kuya, Kuya, Kuya!"

My arms wide open to snatch them both. And give them a Kuya's Bear-style hug. A bear hugging his cubs. :P

That is what completes a family. Just my humble opinion.

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #4 on: May 08, 2009, 11:01:05 AM »
what makes a happy home? - everybody is happy and of course.... hehehe!

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #5 on: May 08, 2009, 11:05:27 AM »
Lipay ko buwad, when i am at home para pasko time. Bisan tiguwang na ko ug dako nakong lawas, ug mo balik ko sa balay namo.

Ug mo put ko sa Christmas tree, ug mo help ko sa ahong mga igsoon put on decorations, ma ka feel ko sa 'Christmas Spirit'.

Lipay-lipay jud ahong dughan. Mo tocar mi sa christmas songs, sing sing pood, mo dungag sa kanonon para pasko, sus.

The feeling is incomparable. Just to be with family during christmas time, to hear everyone, feel the warmth of family, and to pray in a vigil with the family. Kana jud--maka feel jud ang tawo that naa jud ang Ginoo sa balay. Maka feel ta sa IYANG spirit of Love ug Mercy.

Christmas-time.

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #6 on: May 14, 2009, 04:18:27 AM »
What makes a home a happy home?


A happy home is secured when in the winter season, as snow falls on the ground, I turn to walk towards the family room and put in another plank or two of cherry wood into the fireplace. As I close the fireplace mantle, I hear my name being called by mommy, "Bran, ondoy puydi i-ad-adan ang veggies? ku an pood, doy, baka pood kai mo luto ko sabaw karoong gabii."

I answer, "'kay, Mommy".

As I begin to cut veggies, the sound of a school bus comes to my hear. And within a couple of minutes, my younger brothers open the door--bringing with them--their spirit to the house. I can hear my young brother Don Rico and Andre joking around. Andre comes to me to give Kuya a big hug. And Don starts a conversation. Angel comes down as well to help me cut food.

We prepare the food--cook with mommy. And Andre, begins to get excited, to see mommy and Angel begin to prepare the ingredients for Andre's special and favorite dessert. 'Fudge cake brownies'. hehe

He loves his Ate Angel's fudge cake brownies.

By the time the brownies and food are ready, Daddy comes back home--from a long long day's work in the hospital.

We all sit down, together. In the table. To pray, and then to eat.

As they eat--i glance--with my eyes. And take everything in. The sound of my father's voice, his laughter, the sound of my mommy's voice, my younger brothers, and my sister. The beautiful spirit of a family. The Holy Spirit--amongst us.

And I smile. And in my own way--give thanks to God in The Highest. For all the blessings he has given to our family.

Thanks, Lord. Thanks, for everything. For my wonderful family. :)

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #7 on: May 14, 2009, 02:19:27 PM »
A Home will be happy if all the members will try to find ways to make other members happy instead of thinking of yourself only what could make you happy.

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« Reply #8 on: May 14, 2009, 02:40:38 PM »
for me, impersonal love makes a happy home because when you use this kind of love you will not look at the faults and shortcomings of other members of your family. You will be considerate and flexible in your interaction with your loved ones.

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Re: What Makes A Happy Home?
« Reply #9 on: May 14, 2009, 03:02:12 PM »
sa pinas kadaghanan sa atong mga igsoon, ug duna lay pagkaon sa lamesa hapi hum na. ingon ana ka babaw ang kaligayahan gumikan sa ka pobrehon...

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« Reply #10 on: May 14, 2009, 03:06:28 PM »
Para nako, importante kaayo ang Mama ug Papa.

I am nothing, i would not be alive had it not been for the Love of my mother and father to one another. I am a product of their love.

A love that was witnessed under God. In a marriage in Church.

A sepository of truth and teachings. That we, their children, are taught to uphold in our own lives.

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A happy family expounds Love. And Love, for an individual, is a reason to pursue a similar type of family. So on , so forth.

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« Reply #11 on: May 14, 2009, 03:46:41 PM »
A home will be happy when parents allow their children to commit mistakes, and when they learned that one daughter failed they are ready to say:

It's okey Misty,Stand up,it's okey....You can make it the second time..

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« Reply #12 on: May 14, 2009, 03:49:47 PM »
Even if we disappoint our parents in some of our mistakes, deep down they love us. A parent's love to his child is similar to God's Love to Man.

Am I right, friend?

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« Reply #13 on: May 14, 2009, 03:53:05 PM »
Another,

Discipline. I thank my father for disciplining me as I grew up, to know right from wrong. Disciplined me and taught me to Fear God. What I thought was 'cool' as an early adolescent is really not 'cool' now that I look at it in hindsight, from a perspective of a 23 year old man. :)

Bless my dad for disciplining me and my younger siblings. When a father disciplines his child, he does so because He loves the child. 

Thanks, Dad.

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« Reply #14 on: May 14, 2009, 04:03:19 PM »
Even if we disappoint our parents in some of our mistakes, deep down they love us. A parent's love to his child is similar to God's Love to Man.

Am I right, friend?

Yah, you're right Dok.

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« Reply #15 on: May 14, 2009, 04:08:06 PM »
Misty,

Always thank your parents. Show them love, tell your mom and dad--frequently that you love them.

Sure ko, ma lipay sila. :)



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« Reply #16 on: May 14, 2009, 04:26:12 PM »
Misty,

Always thank your parents. Show them love, tell your mom and dad--frequently that you love them.

Sure ko, ma lipay sila. :)

Ok,Dok,mag praktis pa ko ha.wa man gud ko maanad ug ingon ana nila.



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« Reply #17 on: May 14, 2009, 06:13:31 PM »
When I became a father, I became a child again and grow up with my kids.

Together, we watch cartoons, play kids games, tell stories before bed (sometimes bible stories), we scratch each other's back. I thank God that we are in a place where food is not an issue.

We rotate house chores (they thought washing plates is a fun game and they enjoy the bubbles).

I'm not very strict about their school grades. It is more important that they gain wisdom than gaining knowledge. Anyway, they acquired more knowledge from the internet than from school (which is free-of-charge).

My kids are free to voice out their opinion without feeling guilty. I allow them to justify what they believe and I listen before I start to speak.

I teach them to enjoy simple things and be proud of what they have. Reward system will train them to set goals and work to achieve.

My only intentions is my kids would grow a wise ethical self made leader with a word of honor. Not a person who takes advantage of the less fortunate.

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« Reply #18 on: May 15, 2009, 04:57:31 AM »
Mr. Ferniz,

You're a great dad, Sir.

Fathers out there, deserve all the love and respect of their children.

A father's love is unique and really needed for any child. A father's hand corrects, and directs toward the right path. A father's words, sterns a child, and bears witness to right and wrong. A father's reprimand is not only to correct, but is an act of Love. He reprimands because he loves his child. He reprimands because he cares for their welfare and future.

My father is not a talkative type of man. Very quiet siya in person. Very retiscent and reflective man, is my dad.

As a youth and adolescent, I used to argue with my dad and he knows how much I tested his patience. But now, I look back at those years and cannot help but smile in the love that Dad put in correcting me and my baby siblings.

In my adult life, I realize that I am very similar to my father. My mannerisms, and even my outlook on things--I have come to notice that it is very similar to my father's. My younger brothers would joke with me, "Kuya, you sound like Dad, when you're angry." hahaha. I joke around with them. Before, when the said that, I would say, "No, I don't."

But now, I am honored to even be compared to my father. He is my role model. Sometimes I don't feel worthy because my father's shoes are very large. Throughout my life, my father has sacrificed alot for us--his children. Iyang priority was always us kids and the family. He may not verbally be so open to say I love you--but he does so in his own way.

And when our dad does tell us that he loves us---it is a big thing for us kids.

I can remember--when it was in my 1st year of college---as my parents unpacked my things--and they got ready to drive back home to New Jersey and leave me in Allegheny College--I can remember my stomach churn. Because i have never been so far away from my family before. 500 miles away.

My father, came up to me with tears in his eyes and said to me, "I Love you Doy'" And that was it. I could not even look straight. I kept my tears. And as soon as they drove away--after hugging my mom and my dad and sibling, i could not stop crying. As I watched them drive away, all I could htink of was my Dad.

Seeing Daddy drive away brought me memories when I was a child---only 4 years old. When dad was still an Engineer in Saudi. I remember he came back for vacation and when it was time for him to go back to Saudi--i didn't want him to leave me. I got so angry--that i even took my bag and packed clothes--my shirt, chinilas, shirts, pants , kai gusto ko mo kuyug ni Daddy. Ingoon sija nako, 'Dili puydi, Doy."
And he left for Saudi--and I remembered crying so hard. Kai mingaw ko ni Daddy. Always wanted to be with my Dad in my early childhood.

And when dad dropped me off in College--and drove away. It awoke my old memories.

My dad is so very important to me. To my heart.

A father completes a home, imho.



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« Reply #19 on: May 23, 2009, 09:42:06 AM »
Kids.

Kids make a home a 'home'.

God Willing, I will have my own quilt of children. Pohon.

I am open to having alot of kids--7 or more. Of course, if the Mrs is willing.  ;D

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« Reply #20 on: June 13, 2009, 02:32:07 PM »
Kids.

Kids make a home a 'home'.

God Willing, I will have my own quilt of children. Pohon.

I am open to having alot of kids--7 or more. Of course, if the Mrs is willing.  ;D



Noh, Me too, I will plan to have 4 kids in the future para bebo. Dagandagan dayon sa palyground ba kuyog ang bana.LUv,nakadungog ka 4 kids.whahaha.

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« Reply #21 on: June 13, 2009, 03:18:51 PM »
LOVE...............

tell the world, make it a better place, for you and for me and the entire human race...quoted from michael jackson's hit.

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« Reply #22 on: June 13, 2009, 04:04:17 PM »
heheh daghana no..nindot jud bebo  oi.. hehehe..

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« Reply #23 on: June 13, 2009, 04:10:46 PM »
layua namandiay tong akong nabasahan nga 7 kabook anak oi..sori po...

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« Reply #24 on: June 13, 2009, 07:48:03 PM »
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« Reply #25 on: June 13, 2009, 11:04:11 PM »
complete family member with full of love can makes a home happy.

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« Reply #27 on: June 13, 2009, 11:30:57 PM »
"don't let one mistake, keep us apart"




hehe mao na ingon sa kanta....IMO, this song sums up many of ur answers.
pinay sab pero i lyk dis kay naa lyrics.
okies, hala sing-along na sab....and just imagine ur love ones while singing  ;D
enJOY!  8)


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« Reply #28 on: June 14, 2009, 12:25:18 AM »
bibo jud bitaw ang mga kids

bisan wala koy kids but everytime nga mouli kos Pinas magkatapok dayun ang mga pag-umangkon sus bibo jud as in, you can see in their face ang kalipay nga dili nimo ma-describe, lipay kaau sila kay naay aboards ni-uli ahahaa!

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