Kamong mga ginikanan diha, ug kadtong taas nag mga kasinatian, ipabuhagay palihug ang inyong mga hunahuna mahitungod niining puntoha iyawat sab malamdagan ang atong nag ngit-ngit nga hunahuna.
1. Maayo ba nga bunalan ang mga bata kon masayop?
2. Unsa kaha ang negative implication niini sa hunahuna sa usa ka bata nga kuwang pas kabuot?
3. Ang pagbunal ba usa ka ka matang sa disiplina or matawag ba nga kastigo?
Amahan sab,
Bugsay
Ako nidaku ko sa akong apohan nga kusog kaayo modisiplina... puede ka bunalan ug takong, tumoy sa kagingking, tulo ka lugas nga tukog.. pero wala ko makatilaw ug ikog sa pagi. hahahahahaha….. Pero akong apohan na babae maoy akong saviour together with my great grandmother.
Akong inahan mamunal sad. Pero akong amahan usa ray tanaw sa amoa kurog dayon mi pero wala jud ko makatilaw ug bunal gikan sa iya.
Kung buot hunahunaon, nakatabang to nako kung unsa nako karon.
I have the same respect to my father, mother, grandparents and great grandparents.
I opted not to physically hurt my son in any ways;… bisan gamay. he is 8 years old now; but he is very respectful to others especially the elders. He behaves so well. GOD is good!
Pareho sa sugyot ni Raquel, you can temporarily suspend his/her privileges. No access to his/her favorite toys, tv programs, etc.
I cannot recall how it started but when I say to my son to pray and say sorry para sa ijang mga sajup, he will immediately kneel down atubangan sa gamay namo nga altar and will not stop praying until I say so. It may last for a while depending on the gravity of what he did (10 to 30mins). The worst was 1 hour. Then I will start telling him kung unsay ijang nahimo nga dapat ijang likayan ug pagbuhat ug usab and the bad consequences of his act. I will explicitly tell him that I am not mad at him but was angry because of “what he didâ€. Not the person but the bad action. Basta ang ending; I will hug him human akong pahiran iyan luha.... Then we will start doing normal things….. I guess it worked…
It will also help to have a prayer habit. A simple one will do.
To share here’s our simple prayer outline:
• Lord’s Prayer to start
For each family member:
• At least usa ka “Thank you†(elaborate kung nganong nagpasalamat)
• At least usa ka “Sorry†(elaborate)
• At least usa ka “Sana†(sample: Sana masarap ang almusal bukas)
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