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hard jud pero abi nimo it takes gutts to do it! pero maabut man ang panahon nga malimot ka.

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I agree Vista pero i never have gone to that situation though.



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Last  year, I had a falling out with my xgf. It was tough because the feelings were deep. She was the one who ended the relationship with me, and I was naturally devastated to hear it. But I am the type that thinks logically. If you break up with me, then it is final. I do not go backwards. Nor do I give second chances.

After a week, she wanted to get back again. I rejected. If she was unsure in the first place to break up with me then i find her love for me lacking. I cannot have that.

One must accept things as they come. And move forward. We are friends, but anything more than that is impossible.

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You're welcome, bro.

For me I'm kinda firm when it comes to falling out situations. I like it when my partner is in equal footing with me. If she cannot keep up with me, or expects me to change and alter my personality and change myself to suit her..then dili ko mo angay ana. Good Bye na lang.

My previous xgf was like this. Always picking and choosing and demanding something. She liked to pick on things. Quite really annoying...especially the bitchiness aspect of her personality.

We got into a stupid argument concerning something about her wanting me to change some aspect of my character. I said no. And she then said in the lines of, "well maybe we should just take some time off, what do you think?"

My response was silence. She should have chosen her words carefully.
Because I am vicious when it comes to these things.

5 days later she calls me and tells me that she's done 'thinking things over' and wanted to get back again. She said something in the likes of how she apologized for picking on me and that it was wrong. Damage was done tho.

For her to ask for a time off was a sign of weakness. Her love for mer was not as strong as mine was for her. We dated for about 7 months..so i had invested alot in her. But her comment and request for a time off was a sign to me that she was never in equal footing with me. And I think that she really never was. Nor would be. I rejected her request.

Ning hilak. But it was for the best for both of us.

And it was. I met a Filipina after her. ha ha. so it worked out.

I never compromise. I do not think that I should ever have to compromise my own interest for superficial wants.
If you cannot handle me, then move on. Simple. I can easily find a woman quickly. No problem.

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The only time that I really was 'heart broken' was after I broke up with my first gf. Only because I did like her..despite it being puppy love. I was 17 at the time. This was some 7 years ago.

I broke up with her for the fact that i was getting too much involved with her. She was affecting my studies.
SO, i tested myself. Tested my resolve. Breaking up with her was hard..because she cried. And i did feel completely sad after doing this because i did love this girl at that particular point of time. However, one has to be logical.

She was consuming too much time and getting in my studies. Do I keep a gf and have her affect my studies ; and her goals in life were not into par as with mine. Naturally I wanted to be with someone with a similar drive as me. In the back of my own mind, i knew i was destined for someone else. So. I broke up with her.

It took several weeks to numb the feeling of loss. But one can be amazed how one can train the mind. Feelings can be defeated.



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My advice to anyone who just went through a terrible/emotional break up:


MIND OVER MATTER.

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