this reminds me of my first break up. it was painful for me, as i'm sure it was for anyone who was emotionally involved with another person. i was tormented by the fact that i couldn't be with her anymore, pouring my emotions into written words, through letters. the problem was the fact that due to my inexperience, i was taking the break-up too personally. two weeks afterwards, i decided to go out and date again. when i started dating other girls, it was amazing how i was able to meet so many kinds of women, different tastes, different interests, yet able to make a personal relationship with them. it showed me that one can truly find happiness and that life does not end just because a relationship fails or dies. every pain, every failure does not break us, but rather, builds us and strengthens us along the way.
after my time of discernment after my break up-- i realized that i could find happiness without her. it was liberating.
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