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A Polish Catholic priest has published a book which provides married couples with a theological and practical guide to spicing up their sex lives.

In his book, Sex as you don't know it: for married couples who love God, Father Ksawery Knotz aims to sweep away the strait-laced attitudes many hold.

Sex in marriage, the Franciscan friar explains, should not be boring but "saucy, surprising and fantasy packed".

The book, which has the backing of the Polish Catholic Church, has been a hit.

The Sw. Pawel publishing house has ordered a reprint after Poles snapped up the first 5,000 copies within weeks of them going on sale.

'Sought-after caresses'

In the book that has been dubbed the "Catholic Kama Sutra", Father Knotz goes into graphic detail about a subject many in the Church consider taboo.

   
Some people [think married sex] has to be sad like a traditional church hymn
Father Ksawery Knotz

"Some people, when they hear about the holiness of married sex, immediately imagine that such sex has to be deprived of joy, frivolous play, fantasy and attractive positions," he writes.

"[They think] it has to be sad like a traditional church hymn.

"Every act - a type of caress, a sexual position - with the goal of arousal is permitted and pleases God. During sexual intercourse, married couples can show their love in every way, can offer one another the most sought-after caresses."

Father Knotz believes sex is an important way for a husband and wife to express their love and grow closer to God.

"Married couples celebrate their sacrament, their life with Christ also during sex," he writes.

"Calling sex a celebration of the marriage sacrament raises its dignity in an exceptional way. Such a statement shocks people who learned to look at sexuality in a bad way. It is difficult for them to understand that God is also interested in their happy sex life and in this way gives them his gift."

But Father Knotz stresses the book does not differ from the Church's view on sex. He discourages the use of contraceptives, saying they "lead a married couple outside of Catholic culture and into a completely different lifestyle".

He also dismisses those that have questioned the competency of a celibate monk to write about sex, saying his experience comes from counselling married couples and from running a website giving sexual advice for almost a year.  (BBC News)

na hala, kinsa toy mopalit ani, paki-share sa TB ha.

Whoever gave the idea that torjakan sa mga married couples is boring? Boring lang na siya tngali kung  if the wife has to give in just because the husband wants it tungod kay the guy reasons out that it's the wife's obligation. For the guys out there, "copulation" is more enjoyable if our wife if we can turn their arousal meter into over-drive... wa gyuy ayo ning mo turjak sa asawa nga wala ganahi. Maypag mag tuok kas imong bitin... 

Gihagad unta n'ya si Fr. Romulo Ponte nga Bol-anon ingon nga co-author aning religious sex guideline. He said his parents always prayed the rosary before making love--seriously!


Son’s pride in father, sex, rosary

By Romulo Ponte
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 03:04:00 06/15/2008

SAN PABLO CITY -- WHEN MY father, Teodoro, married my mother, Francisca, 53 years ago, the first thing they did during their honeymoon was to pray the rosary. For more, check out:http://tubagbohol.mikeligalig.com/index.php?topic=13407.0

Never waste a hard on Kung happy imong marriage it mains gi centro jud nimo ang Ginoo sa inyong life ug enjoyable sad inyong sex life. Way boring sa sex kung willing pareha ang magtinaayon nga mo please sa Ginoo ug mo please sa usag usa.If you are open to life nga ang Ginoo naay giandam nimo mas saucy pa jud ang sex, no worry.

mao na giingon ni san ignacio, ALL FOR THE GREATER GLORY OF GOD. hahaha

diha koy amigo sa Bohol, ingon siya, sa di pa kono siya magtariki uban sa iyang asawa, mag-ampo pod kono  sila una. ingon siya nga sama ra kini og mokaon ka og pamahaw o paniudto o panihapon, naay grace before meals. ila pong sex, naay grace before sex. i think it is wonderful. sex is God's gift, especially it is done in the context of love. i believe it is only appropriate to include God before, during and after sex. dili lang kay mao ray iingon og hapit na, "OMG! OMG! I'm coming! I'm coming." Then after, "Jezzz's ! you'r' amazing!!" whahahaha.

Kaning Catholic Kama Sutra ni Father Ksawery Knotz, mura man pud ug si Hugh Hefner writing a book on Celibacy, or Dolphy writing about Monogamy.

hahahaha

but ben, sometimes, it's from the mouth of the unexpected, people can learn.

Glace,

What unexpected things can I learn from you?

Quote from: benelynne on May 16, 2009, 10:45:54 AM
Glace,

What unexpected things can I learn from you?

that i'm learning from you...